Is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling.

[shawonngp]

If he wants to introduce Gambling to his wife, it will be a big mistake, because he won the bet, it’s okay, but is there any guarantee that his wife can win too? I think that because he is considering gambling as a money making way, maybe he has won big now. But in the long run, there is a high possibility of losing it all, because it is impossible to profit continuously from gambling. If he wins big now and continues gambling with it, I think a big loss will happen in the coming days. Gambling is never a source of income; you will join your family here, and they can earn. This is a completely wrong move and also risky.

[Sammye3]

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

Every gambler should compare the benefits and dangers of gambling and observe which outweighs the other. Now consider when both couples gamble together,  who would advise the other? The worst case scenario, when there are children in the family, what are the lessons to teach those children?

As much as gambling could be profitable for some people, it is not enough reason to introduce your spouse to gamble. Aside gambling, there are other profitable and legit businesses one could engage themselves into without the need for constant pressure and disappointment from lost bets. Think about it.

[tech30338]

If he wants to introduce Gambling to his wife, it will be a big mistake, because he won the bet, it’s okay, but is there any guarantee that his wife can win too? I think that because he is considering gambling as a money making way, maybe he has won big now. But in the long run, there is a high possibility of losing it all, because it is impossible to profit continuously from gambling. If he wins big now and continues gambling with it, I think a big loss will happen in the coming days. Gambling is never a source of income; you will join your family here, and they can earn. This is a completely wrong move and also risky.

One of the worse decission that a person can make is teach or drag your wife into gambling, not only they will have no time for the kids and you, they can be expose to something worse, since there are lots of people and we already know what it is, there is lot of vices out there, not only the expenses will go up, but your family will not be happy you guys will be chasing money, and with that, you will spend more than before, and that is the start of bad things to come in your family, dont let them join you in something you already knew the result.

[Ronsbit]

I do not see anything wrong with one introducing their wife to gambling, although I would not advise it, but if both couples can set rules of engagement for themselves and abide by them,, then it is fine; otherwise, the wife may not be able to control herself when it gets to the point where it becomes a desperate thing to make sure everything is all right in the house when the husband is not financially buoyant and can not assist, the wife might resolved to gambling to making sure she wins to sustain the house and at this point it would definitely become an issue in the family or house that she would be using the little the husband wouldgive to her to secretely gamble without his knowledge and consent while he is thinking she is using it for the house needs when he himslef has likely limited his gambling lifestyle for the time being.

[Yablee0]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

To me I don't think it's an excellent idea, why will I even think of such at the first place. He should be more concerned on his own self instead of thinking of bringing his wife into it when he already knows how women are weaker being and are quicky emotional. Therefore i don't think it's advisable if you ask me, if he is into the business of gamble he should concentrate and leave his wife out of it if he still wants to have a happy family. And another thing I also want to address is that, he made mention of because he's winning recently and that is the reason he intend bringing his wife in. Lol, that's quite laughable because that's the greed we are talking about, I will say he should declaim that idea if he really wants to still be enjoying the peace and unity that's enjoying but if he's still insisting on effecting it then experience will teach him better.

[purple_sparkles]

I do not see anything wrong with one introducing their wife to gambling, although I would not advise it, but if both couples can set rules of engagement for themselves and abide by them,, then it is fine; otherwise, the wife may not be able to control herself when it gets to the point where it becomes a desperate thing to make sure everything is all right in the house when the husband is not financially buoyant and can not assist, the wife might resolved to gambling to making sure she wins to sustain the house and at this point it would definitely become an issue in the family or house that she would be using the little the husband wouldgive to her to secretely gamble without his knowledge and consent while he is thinking she is using it for the house needs when he himslef has likely limited his gambling lifestyle for the time being.

I think that if people have created a family together, they are already adults who know how to handle money, and they can calmly decide for themselves how to distribute it according to their needs.If both the husband and wife are interested in gambling, it can become a shared point of connection for them something they can talk about besides everyday household matters. That is why it is wonderful when people find common interests and activities that bring them together.

[Rabata]

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

I think this kind of thinking is somewhat original. Because a gambler usually tries to hide his betting but instead of doing that he wants to involve his wife in the betting. I am sure that if he involves his wife in the betting then the happiness he is getting at the moment will never get it later. Because if his wife loses the bet then she can be very depressed which can completely change his physical or mental condition. Moreover another thing is that if that person is good at betting then why should his wife be involved. If he bets more then his return will increase so why should his wife be involved in the betting? In my view even if you are good at betting but your chances of winning are high you will never win consistently so I think whatever you do there is no need to involve your wife in it.

[justdimin]

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

Well, that's a horrible reason to introduce anyone to gambling, let alone your spouse. Just because you are winning doesn't change the fact that gambling is going to eventually cost you money because nobody can consistently beat the house edge in the long term.

I don't think introducing your spouse to gambling as a means of fun and recreation is a bad idea because gambling is indeed fun but one must know that the only reason to gamble should be fun. Once you start thinking that, oh look, I'm earning money from gambling and I should introduce others, then you are not just addicted yourself but potentially risking others' lives as well.

[Pandu Geddon]

If he wants to introduce Gambling to his wife, it will be a big mistake, because he won the bet, it’s okay, but is there any guarantee that his wife can win too? I think that because he is considering gambling as a money making way, maybe he has won big now. But in the long run, there is a high possibility of losing it all, because it is impossible to profit continuously from gambling. If he wins big now and continues gambling with it, I think a big loss will happen in the coming days. Gambling is never a source of income; you will join your family here, and they can earn. This is a completely wrong move and also risky.

I think that's the problem. He hoped his wife would make money from gambling, and that's a bad idea for anyone who has ever gambled.
Besides, maybe he should also consider the terms and conditions of some online casinos, which are quite strict regarding the use of multiple accounts. Because it is very likely that his wife's new account will be detected as an account from one household.

[rachael9385]

Introducing his spouse to Gambling might be one of the worst decisions he would ever make because women are not really emotionally mature like men to process the feelings that comes with gambling. Even though he's not addicted to Gambling there is a chance that his wife might get addicted to Gambling. He thinks having a winning streak means he can use it to create a source of income but he's wrong.

[Agbe]

Everyone has their way of doing things. Gambling is not something we shall introducing people to it but if they ask us something from gambling, we can tell them but fully taking the responsibility to teach how to gamble is not good. And I will never and ever tell my spouse to gamble. If I am doing it let it end in my side and it should not be extended to another of my family members.

[sompitonov]

Introducing his spouse to Gambling might be one of the worst decisions he would ever make because women are not really emotionally mature like men to process the feelings that comes with gambling. Even though he's not addicted to Gambling there is a chance that his wife might get addicted to Gambling. He thinks having a winning streak means he can use it to create a source of income but he's wrong.

I also think it's best not to introduce your spouse to gambling, unless we're professionals and dedicate ourselves to it full-time. I even see someone like him on social media, and he sometimes posts them relaxing at a golf club or a concert, but he can afford it because he's a winning poker player. It's clear that most players won't reach such heights; in fact, they might even end up losing and not have the glamorous life many dream of. So, your spouse will only reproach us for always losing, which will prevent us from confidently testing strategies, and without that, we'll likely lose our entire bankroll.

[AmaGold70]

I feel it is irresponsible for a man to introduce his wife into gambling, instead give her money to start a business if really you want her to support the family. This idea of introducing ones spouse into gambling doesn't sound good, and if such a thing eventually take place, the result might not look good at all.
We all understands the nature of gambling, winning does not come everytime even with the best strategy, and in a situation where you, and your spouse are having long term loosing streak you are definitely going to loose a lot of money. More also, if you as a man can control the way you gamble, do you also feel your spouse can be discipline enough to gamble responsibly? If your spouse finally become addicted you will definitely regret introducing her to gambling.

[Ever-young]

I think this kind of thinking is somewhat original. Because a gambler usually tries to hide his betting but instead of doing that he wants to involve his wife in the betting. I am sure that if he involves his wife in the betting then the happiness he is getting at the moment will never get it later. Because if his wife loses the bet then she can be very depressed which can completely change his physical or mental condition. Moreover another thing is that if that person is good at betting then why should his wife be involved. If he bets more then his return will increase so why should his wife be involved in the betting? In my view even if you are good at betting but your chances of winning are high you will never win consistently so I think whatever you do there is no need to involve your wife in it.

You are wrong about this part, not that it's wrong to involve your wife in whatever thing you do and if you are a gambler and don't want to hide it from your wife, you can tell her, if she feels gambling its not good, as a good wife, she can be of help so that you also can quit gambling because if you decide not to tell her and keep buying things for her from wins, what will happen when you are in losing streak and there is no money to buy anything for her? Have you considered the side effects of your actions or you are just thinking about the positive side? So honesty is better than hiding.

[Out of mind]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

Gambling is always a risky system, those who enter here with the aim of making money can never succeed. Basically, your friend's idea is completely wrong because if he gambles with his life partner, there is no guarantee that he will win. Basically, gambling can never be done by his wife, it can have a big impact on her at any moment. I think women are very emotional, due to which if they lose money, it will be very difficult to control it, as a result of which they can gradually become addicted to gambling. Since you did not agree with your friend, of course it was your good advice, but we know that if someone participates in gambling in this way, it is not possible to win. Rather, gambling is not for making money, it is always for entertainment and fun, but nowadays it is seen that people use it as a place to earn money most of the time.

[hedgeh0g]

You are wrong about this part, not that it's wrong to involve your wife in whatever thing you do and if you are a gambler and don't want to hide it from your wife, you can tell her, if she feels gambling its not good, as a good wife, she can be of help so that you also can quit gambling because if you decide not to tell her and keep buying things for her from wins, what will happen when you are in losing streak and there is no money to buy anything for her? Have you considered the side effects of your actions or you are just thinking about the positive side? So honesty is better than hiding.

Personally, I think it's not a good idea to hide it, but what if a player starts losing constantly and his wife leaves him? More often than not, she becomes codependent. And then the player won't be able to build his own life and won't let his wife do the same. I've heard stories like that more than once. And of course, there are times, as you mentioned, when a player wins a lot, his wife gets used to it and likely starts demanding more and more winnings. In this scenario, we have no right to become the losing player.

[Humblevirus]

It is a very bad idea for someone to introduce their spouse to gambling. It will later cause a lot of damage in the family. Gambling is still very time consuming, even if she decides to gamble for fun. The time a spouse is supposed to use for household activities may instead be spent on gambling.The surprising part about your friend is that he wants to introduce his wife to gambling as a way of making money. That is where he is completely wrong. They may both suffer because of it.I don't know how some people think, because how can someone plan to introduce their wife to gambling when they already know the risks involved? But that is life. Some people, even when they know something is bad, will still likely introduce their loved ones to it.

[henmark]

I don’t see a problem with introducing your wife to gambling. I mean I wouldn’t advise it but providing she’s level headed and doesn't have a spending problem or addictive tendencies then there’s no issue imo.

Actually, I've hardly seen many female gamblers in this space. It's possible that they hide their identity to avoid obvious stalkers and simps, but even then, most gamblers you see on Telegram and chats are men. So, perhaps women are not so thrilled by the idea of gambling.

You could even have a bet together on the weekend if you both enjoy watching sport. Obviously therr are ways it could go horribly wrong but most couples can gamble without it becoming a problem.

Oh yeah, I agree. Suppose your wife enjoys watching soccer or the NFL, then you can both watch a game and be more excited because you've got money on one team. I think gambling does make games way more exciting when you have wagered money on it. This is also why fantasy sports are becoming more popular because you get to make a team and then cheer every time your player scores a goal, touchdown, etc.

[Warkop]

This is the gateway to marital ruin. Introducing gambling to your wife/girlfriend is certainly a wrong and unjustified decision. If he/she is a billionaire, there's nothing wrong with that, but if they are middle-class, then congratulations on welcoming the destruction of their marriage.

Imagine both of them becoming gambling addicts. There will be no harmony in the home, and their lives will seem to be disconnected from each other. This is certainly unjustified. If possible, avoid introducing gambling to the people we love.

[Obim34]

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

If the couples understand the consequences associated with their action, then it's fine for them to take the risk, double loss or gain if they are lucky.

I will pass on the idea of introducing my spouse to gambling, if she enjoys sports or gambling and wants to get involved, let her be the one to decide, I wouldn't refer her into what i know has a big risk and could affect both our finance.