Is very easy for police to always track down fake kidnapping set ups, majority of those cases always get casted along the way, but warning men to be carful and joining the two cases you mentioned is like putting two different scenarios together and generalising thing's, bit the truth is that is not only women that men need to be carful of this period, we need to be very carful with whatever matter of security most especially incidents that happens and is above our personal control such as black mailing amd security uncertainty like kidnapping.
I agree that we should be careful about security issues in general, and it is important not to mix different situations together and make broad conclusions. While fake kidnapping setups do get exposed in many cases, that does not mean every security threat follows the same pattern.
The reality is that both men and women can become victims of crime, and everyone should remain vigilant. Rather than focusing on one group, it is better to encourage people to be cautious about all forms of security risks, especially those that are beyond our personal control, such as kidnapping, blackmail, fraud, and other security-related threats. Staying alert and taking reasonable precautions is something that benefits everyone.