Do you ever gamble with your spouse on a cruise?

[Bright0515]

In my opinion this is about compatibility, if your partner doesn't have likeminds with you in that regard then it is best to avoid getting into that situation because there might be disagreements between the both of you. I have never been on a boat cruise but if I'm going to be with my family I would make sure that I do it when I have privacy but if I'm married to someone that doesn't see it as a big deal then there is no problem with that. Like I said, it is all about compatibility and understanding. It is good to pick a partner that you share things in common.

[YOSHIE]

It was fun though! We spend 1.5 hours and at the end of the day we lost 25 but it was worth it.

What I want to say is that life is a choice, so are partners and places where we can do something that makes us happy and happy, including gambling on a cruise ship.

Honestly, if you say gambling on a cruise ship, maybe you can say that you are just doing it in this forum, but my principle is, never mind my partner, my own parents don't know I gamble, let alone my partner, that's what I say, life is a choice, what we do isprivacy in our lives.

In short, congratulations on your marriage and enjoy your new life.

[terrific]

I would gamble with her but not with a cruise, only through the online casinos.
But that's going to be another and next level of relationship to do it on a cruise ship.
That should be on the couple's list to enjoy and renew the vow that both of us have promised together.

[Mate2237]

Gambling with your spouse sounds good and romantic if you look at it critically. It a way of spicing up your relationship especially when you're on a vacation. But gambling with your spouse if you ask me is not a good one , reasons been that gambling is one thing that gradually eats deep into someone so , trying to experiment a Gambling experience with your spouse is not healthy and should not be tried often.



Gambling is not a good habits and so when you, gamble with your spouse it will gradually eat deep into the family and you will not know when you will gamble in front of your children, so the best option is to avoid it completely.

[Rubuchi]

In some religions, gambling is seen as a serious sin. This might be the reason why some people might not gamble in such a memorable event. Besides that, I don't see gambling on a cruise ship with your partner as something wrong. It's just part of the fun of being in that location. I have attended a religious activity where gambling was part of the occasion. It was nothing serious other than having fun with members of the religious organisation.

some traditions also see gambling as a sinful activity to participate in, so it does not stop with religions alone. In such traditions, you cannot dare participate in gambling publicly talk more of gambling with your spouse. Why is gambling seen in such light by many people and traditions including the religions is because it involves spending money for uncertainty. People see it as wasteful for you to spend money on a game with the intention of winning and collecting the other person’s money happily while the other person is left in sadness and sorrow, such act alone is seen as an ungodly intention towards another person.

[bangjoe]

Gambling with your spouse sounds good and romantic if you look at it critically. It a way of spicing up your relationship especially when you're on a vacation. But gambling with your spouse if you ask me is not a good one , reasons been that gambling is one thing that gradually eats deep into someone so , trying to experiment a Gambling experience with your spouse is not healthy and should not be tried often.



Gambling is not a good habits and so when you, gamble with your spouse it will gradually eat deep into the family and you will not know when you will gamble in front of your children, so the best option is to avoid it completely.

For some people it is not always like that about gambling, where they really enjoy gambling with their partner, of course, with good personality management and good money management, obviously this is no problem, unless both of them do not have good discipline it will be very dangerous, one of them needs to be the controller of the situation, because if both of them are triggered emotions, it will match the words you gave it.

I don't want to gamble with my wife on a cruise, I want to gamble with her on a plane, I think that's more interesting.

[Silverstonez]

I have not really gamble with my spouse but will do play game that are not gambling together. However, i will like to try it out one day i pray she doesn’t see it the other way round. Gambling with your spouse may look sensible to some people, not to others. if i am to talking sincerely, gambling with your spouse doesn’t seem healthy, what if she start doing it on her secretly and later end up getting herself addicted? IMO, let's also consider the negative side of  it.

[The Cryptovator]

So you have spent a good time with your spouse; you celebrate quite differently by gambling together. No, I haven't gambled with my spouse either at home or on a cruise. I believe very rarely that idea would come to our minds, especially gambling on the cruise. We may just celebrate our anniversary on the cruise, but I won't gamble.

Since you are a gambler and probably gambling is always on your mind. So you decide to celebrate in a different way than others. I have read a few replies here, and it seems most here haven't celebrated like this. You are lucky since you haven't lost much but enjoyed it.

[Queen uloma]

This reminded me of a saying that marry your type so they there will be peace in the home and you guys will go along together but if you marry someone that is not your type, there are many things you guys did differently. If you marry someone that is social and gambled before you guys got married. You can have fun in gambling. Congratulations for the anniversary and for the fun. Enjoy yourselves.

Marrying your type, may help you but it can’t guarantee successful marriage. Even two people who are from the same tribe can still have misunderstanding if there is no communication or respect. For me the most essential thing is not when you guys like the same thing, but if there’s understanding between them,  support each other, and if there’s compromise when necessary. If husband and wife enjoy gambling as fun and they gamble responsibly without it affecting their home or finance, then there is no problem. But if gambling begins to cause problems, financial stress or debt, then being in the same type, won’t solve the problem anymore. Conclusively peace in marriage does not come from marrying your type, it comes from understanding, commitment from both parties, and maturity.

[fredericktaylor]

I have not really gamble with my spouse but will do play game that are not gambling together. However, i will like to try it out one day i pray she doesn’t see it the other way round. Gambling with your spouse may look sensible to some people, not to others. if i am to talking sincerely, gambling with your spouse doesn’t seem healthy, what if she start doing it on her secretly and later end up getting herself addicted? IMO, let's also consider the negative side of  it.

It is natural that not every person will have the same thoughts or views on gambling, if you can initially provide your wife with the right knowledge about gambling, if she has a positive attitude, then you can gamble with your wife but only for entertainment purposes, you can convince your wife that the purpose of making quick money through gambling without knowing or understanding anything about gambling increases the chances of losing money many times over and the mentality of getting back the lost money quickly increases the risk of losing money and can gradually turn into an addiction. Then maybe your wife will not be encouraged to gamble without telling you or secretly.

[Jatiluhung]

I recently gambled with my spouse for the very first time. It was a fun and exciting experience for both of us. We were celebrating our anniversary on a cruise ship and I talked her into gambling a little bit on some slot machines and roulette. She was my good luck charm on the slot machine I was losing up until I tagged her in (early before I lose it all lmao) good thing too because she came back and doubled the money we put into the slot machine. Then we kept going and lost it all 😂 but that was after we went to the roulette table and got some numbers in and broke even there, at one point we were going to bet like 60 on 25 red and it hit but i was too hesitant and missed what would have been the absolutebanger win and make it so much more memorable oooooff SHH lmao. It was fun though! We spend 1.5 hours and at the end of the day we lost 25 but it was worth it.

That must have been a truly wonderful moment. And I think you’re lucky to have a partner who  seems to share your interests as well. Although I’m sure your wife doesn’t usually place bets or anything like that. But sometimes, it’s actually the people who don’t like to gamble who have the best luck.

Personally, I’ve never done that with my partner. I think we have different hobbies and ways of having fun, but we respect each other. still, the idea of a cruise vacation has inspired me a bit.

But I hope you don’t get your wife hooked on it. Because usually that will make her want to do it again. And you know, women can sometimes get more enthusiastic than we do once they start enjoying it. It’s fine once in a while. but if it happens too often, well, that can get a bit of a hassle. 

[Obulis]

People with different preferences. As much as gambling is consign some men wouldn't want any lady that into gambling for a wife, talking your wife into gambling means she wasn't a gambler and definitely she would just casually gamble not as if you who would gamble more frequent than her is addicted but the difference between you two will be clear. Making out a moment with your wife to see the possibility of luck is just a kind of a cruise but many would be absolutely skeptical about that gambler lady for a wife. There can be a negative atmosphere when a husband and wife are gamblers.

[Rockstarguy]

I have not really gamble with my spouse but will do play game that are not gambling together. However, i will like to try it out one day i pray she doesn’t see it the other way round. Gambling with your spouse may look sensible to some people, not to others. if i am to talking sincerely, gambling with your spouse doesn’t seem healthy, what if she start doing it on her secretly and later end up getting herself addicted? IMO, let's also consider the negative side of  it.

Sometimes we gamble without knowing. You can still gamble with your wife in a way that it will be more fun and not seem like a game solely about money. You can set up a game, and if you lose, you have a reward for her; if she loses, she has a reward for you.

This will just be fun, and I don't think games like this will lead to addiction because it won't be often—just once in a while, just to have some fun. Trying to make money in casino games is the kind of game that can lead to addiction to gambling.

[Hyphen(-)]

People with different preferences. As much as gambling is consign some men wouldn't want any lady that into gambling for a wife, talking your wife into gambling means she wasn't a gambler and definitely she would just casually gamble not as if you who would gamble more frequent than her is addicted but the difference between you two will be clear. Making out a moment with your wife to see the possibility of luck is just a kind of a cruise but many would be absolutely skeptical about that gambler lady for a wife. There can be a negative atmosphere when a husband and wife are gamblers.

As OP said that it is on cruse during their anniversary celebration day, they do that just to have fun and not anything serious that’s why I think it’s possible for them because I ain’t think it is possible here especially in the type of location or society it will not be possible because most ladies are not even coming close to gambling not to talk of using them to place a bet, it will never be possible because our ladies are not used to gambling which is why they are always not included in the discussions.

[Versatile_choice]

I have never done that before, my spouse doesn't know that I'm into gambling. But she knows that I have passion in  football, and I feel that if I share my gambling lifestyle with her, she may not take it likely with me. You know some women hate gambling so much that they don't want to ever hear nor see that their partner is into such thing. But I planning on the day that I'm going to let her know about my gambling lifestyle to see how she would react, but I'm sure she would react badly.

[Hazink]

If my spouse is not against gambling, I won't see anything bad in doing that and as long as it's something I'm not imposing on her, and she's cool with it, then we can both do it. After all, this is not us gambling at home when there are other things which we should have been busy doing its outdoor activities it's worth it if she approves of it.

[Powerjumboo]

I recently gambled with my spouse for the very first time. It was a fun and exciting experience for both of us. We were celebrating our anniversary on a cruise ship and I talked her into gambling a little bit on some slot machines and roulette. She was my good luck charm on the slot machine I was losing up until I tagged her in (early before I lose it all lmao) good thing too because she came back and doubled the money we put into the slot machine. Then we kept going and lost it all 😂 but that was after we went to the roulette table and got some numbers in and broke even there, at one point we were going to bet like 60 on 25 red and it hit but i was too hesitant and missed what would have been the absolutebanger win and make it so much more memorable oooooff SHH lmao. It was fun though! We spend 1.5 hours and at the end of the day we lost 25 but it was worth it.

I didn't go anywhere far to celebrate my wedding anniversary. I celebrated my wedding anniversary at my home and had a nice meal there. But you did something different, which may seem interesting to you, but may not be to others. But it is better to do what makes you and your wife happy. But I have not gambled with my wife yet and I may not want to gamble in the future either, because when such a combination of gambling occurs between a husband and wife, then slowly the deep relationship between the two starts breaking down. You may not understand it at first, but later you will understand. So I think it is good for a husband and wife to walk the path with a deep relationship but it is not good for a husband and wife to share the joy of gambling.

[LGD2Business]

I'm glad you had fun. I've never been on a cruise before. I don't have any experience with or knowledge of the casinos there. I don't think it's any different from regular casinos though. The odds of winning are still low. What matters isn't making money, but leaving with good memories. I think it was a great vacation for you too. As long as you didn't go overboard, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. You lost the amount you were going to lose but you walked away happy.

[GeorgeJohn]

I would gamble with her but not with a cruise, only through the online casinos.
But that's going to be another and next level of relationship to do it on a cruise ship.
That should be on the couple's list to enjoy and renew the vow that both of us have promised together.

for me I will rather not to gamble with her but cruise with her in any length That She Wants because cruising is like catching fun with her, one thing we need to understand is that anything we engage woman into she may likely continue to do so, so I'm that kind of person that does not like to involve my woman into anything that has to do with gambling it is better that I involved why in in your order entertainment except involving her into gambling

[knuckey]

Some people never believe that people gamble solely for happiness or pleasure. But your story proves it does exist. From what I read in your story, you didn't strategize or organize your finances excessively. It's simply about how you and your wife enjoyed a happy vacation while gambling. This refutes the claim that gambling is entertainment, which is a lie. In fact, your story is not like that.