Thanks for the link! I’ve decided to download/verify/install the sparrow .deb file and try to install bitcoin core too. The reason I’ve been hesitant to start entering terminal commands to actually do a proper install is just my ignorance of computer science and not wanting to make mistakes if I already have something (crudely but properly) working. I agree about the personal server and all these steps being intimidating for most people, but I’m going to keep trying to learn more and do better.
Unrelated, but I think if we could get people off twitter and over here really learning and helping each other we’d really have something. Thanks again
I would say that you are on the right path (at least for now), don't try to do everything at once to avoid tripping up, although such commands are just copy/paste, they are not harmful to your machine and the most they will do is inform you if there is an error.
Sparrow is the simplest wallet to use, as well as Electrum and Wasabi itself, you will be very well served.
Regarding your concerns about servers, privacy, the 03 wallets can connect with Tor (bitcoin core too), so even if you connect to a 3rd-party electrum server and all your transactions go through there, as you will connect using Tor, the server owner will not know who the latest addresses/Xpub are from.
Some Guides:
Using Electrum Through Tor Sparrow wallet - Quick Start GuideWhen you gain experience with Linux and Bitcoin Wallets (especially the more well-known ones that most people mentioned here and me too), you can start researching privacy, full node and personal electrum servers.
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