Why Do Marriages End in Divorce?

[Bigthraex]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

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The main reason there have been more divorce rate in this present time than it was in the past is because women of today have financial independence than in the past when many of them were not working. Women of those days prefer to please their husbands than women of today.

That is not only the reason, but it is the main reason.

[laijsica]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

One of the main reasons for divorce is lack of trust in each other. Partners betray their partners because of lack of religious discipline. Religious discipline helps a society to remain disciplined and creates mutual respect in relationships. When a man or woman knows what religious discipline is and how to follow it, they will not indulge in any unfaithful activities.
In this time of social media, the number of divorces is increasing due to the ease of communication. Social media is a medium for negative influence, it is better to stay away from this medium as much as possible. To maintain social order, a strong social and state stance should be maintained against extramarital relationships.

[Bd officer]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

The number of divorces in our country has also increased a lot. One of the reasons for divorce in our country is affair. Due to which the husband's love for his wife is decreasing and the wife's love for her husband is decreasing. Divorce does not happen for just one reason, each couple gets divorced for different reasons.

Now there should be a friendly relationship between husband and wife. We have to evaluate each other's likes and dislikes. Many couples get angry quickly over small things, this should be avoided.

Personally, there are constant misunderstandings between me and my wife, but we solve them by talking to each other.

[Futurexxx]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

Their are so many reasons why to married couples may divorce, but in recent times I believe that women are less tolerance like in the past when a woman will do everything just to keep the home together, because it's mostly the women that keeps a home together.

Another aspect to look at it is in the western world where a woman will have a share of the man's asset if their is any case of divorce, so they will mostly pretend to love the man, then after marriage, they will look for a perfect excuse to divorce him, so that they can have a share of his assets, some It may truly be that they fell out of love, but I don't think that it's enough for any married couples to divorce, but as I have said already, so many things can be the cause, but generally speaking, women of nowadays are no longer willing to tolerate the excesses of a man unlike in the past.

[Frankolala]

It all boils down to lack of love because love forgives, tolerate and understand your weakness. Youths of these days jump into marriage without properly understanding what marriage is all about. She gets married to him because he's rich and file for a divorce two years later or, when he gets broke, she divorce him. Sometimes, you will even be surprised for the useless excuse why they're divorcing.

[Alonso_]

The main reason there have been more divorce rate in this present time than it was in the past is because women of today have financial independence than in the past when many of them were not working. Women of those days prefer to please their husbands than women of today.

That is not only the reason, but it is the main reason.

You’re spot on, I think women of this days are not marrying for love, they’re more interested in the financial benefits that comes from marriage and getting divorced, which is why they’re more likely to getting divorced when there is a benefit attached to divorce, and the men are the once who stands to loose more in a marriage.

Women of this generation, are more likely to get divorced because they don’t want to respect a man, or want to be under a man, women now wants to be in control, but that doesn’t mean that you don’t have the good once available.

[Fiatless]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

So many reasons contribute to the high rate of divorce. One of them is the increase in women's rights organizations. These groups are campaigning about the need for women to have equal rights with men. This has caused women to challenge cultural beliefs and to seek more respect in marriage.

Social media has also contributed to the rise in divorce. Most couples tend to copy behavior they see on different social media platforms. This has led to the transfer of culture and behavior, which includes divorce. In some countries, divorce is common, while in others it is forbidden. Social media has made people in some areas, like Africa, copy European divorce culture.

Infidelity is another reason. In the past, people were faithful to their partners, but this has changed over time. Now married women and men cheat of thier spouse without remorse. Their partner divorces them if they find out their unfaithfulness.

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

When you discover that people cherish pleasure than having genuine interest in theirselves, one's love is not involved, any other thing that contributed to the institution of a marriage will definitely break up once it is not longer in place, but perfect love concurrent all challenges that may come through in marriage, some are only getting attracted to their partner because of what they get as benefits and not because they have their mind into the relationship that leads to the marriage even at the worst condition.

[Salahmu]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

Infidelity is one thing marriages are suffering today because most spouses are people who cannot stick to one woman or man and is heartbreaking to see someone you called a wife or a husband cheating on you so actually to most people they would prefer to be divorce than enduring their infidelity spouse. Falling out of love is also something that could lead to divorce because there is nothing like pretending to be in the marriage when you don't have a little love on your husband or wife but however irrespective of hidden behaviors from a man or woman and other things that could affect the lasting of marriage people should actually learn to make a visibility research on the person they want to marry before concluding to marriage because there are things a person could find out and besides as a matter of fact is a common marriage practice in my country to make sure you are getting married to the right person.

[Albarq]

From what I have frequently observed, a major factor contributing to divorce is financial hardship; this often acts as a trigger for separation, given that finances are a fundamental aspect of a marriage.

[9ja Amaka]

Marriage is redefined these days. Before, marriage used to be an institution where both parties grew together, but these days, marriage is a combination of an already made man getting married to a woman who is looking for a financial breakthrough from the man. Women marry for wealth, not for love anymore. If you see a woman who marries for love, it is very rare. Women force themselves to look beautiful enough to bag a rich man. An ugly woman can barely bag a rich man because of her beauty. The beautiful ladies feel they are the goddesses of the earth.

That is how a man who is wealthy wont take any woman serious in his life because he has the money to chase after the women he want in this life. This is how men and women think in this generation, how will marriage be safe in their hands?

[Samlucky O]

There are many reasons why couples noday divorce
1. They married for the money and not love. And when there is no money to finance the marriage, the gold digger/ predator find the next prey.
2. When Couples lost/lack communication and trust in  marriage, it is liable to break apart
3. Listening to side talks from friends and family can corrupt the partner and when they begin to act towards that, it breaks down the family.
4. Infidelity. When couple don't find their partner sexually, physically or mentally attracted anymore, it causes infidelity and this lead to separation.
5. Long term endurance of poverty. When couple married poor and the wife somehow believed the husband dream, but unfortunately the dream never came true instead they get more poorer, it may leed to divorce by the woman.
6. Hidden characters or sickness of partner before marriage can be notice and may leed to early divorce because some men may be impotent or the woman may not have womb due to complication in abortions, and it may leed to infertility in both and may leed to divorce.

There are many but few to mention.

[Karl_3000]

Marriage is redefined these days. Before, marriage used to be an institution where both parties grew together, but these days, marriage is a combination of an already made man getting married to a woman who is looking for a financial breakthrough from the man. Women marry for wealth, not for love anymore. If you see a woman who marries for love, it is very rare. Women force themselves to look beautiful enough to bag a rich man. An ugly woman can barely bag a rich man because of her beauty. The beautiful ladies feel they are the goddesses of the earth.

That is how a man who is wealthy wont take any woman serious in his life because he has the money to chase after the women he want in this life. This is how men and women think in this generation, how will marriage be safe in their hands?

There was a topic on the gambling board this year that someone brought where a woman married many men serially. After she collected money from them, that is the end of the marriage and she moved to the next target. Women today do not marry because they love a man, they marry them because of money. I just like how the old days are because I see some old people and their wife that are not wealthy but they are still living together till today.

[Shadiq]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

To maintain a relationship, some obligations are required, which have been removed in the present times. Even excessive women's freedom is one of the main reasons for this, I am also in favor of women's freedom, but it is a modest one.

Currently, one of the main reasons for divorce is extramarital affairs and achieving financial independence. These two reasons have basically become one of the main reasons for divorce. Due to the use of advanced technology, we now live in a global village, where it is possible to build relationships very easily. As a result, a woman/man establishes relationships with multiple partners, causing incidents like divorce. Even as a result of financial freedom, women no longer like to obey their husbands, do not like to take responsibility for the house. As a result, family problems arise and from there, divorce.

As a result of excessive women's freedom, women now do not like socializing, they forget to please their husbands or respect their husbands. As a result, incidents like divorce are seen due to the creation of family quarrels. It would be wrong to blame only women, men's contribution to divorce is also undeniable.

[POPOLUV]

Any ways i have not experienced divorce in my life before but i can contribute based on the recent divorce that happens to my neighbor, although the divorce was too obvious shall, one man that leaves in the same neighborhood for more than a decade now, was leaving with the wife and two of their kids and it happens that the man doesn't contribute anything in the family but the wife does with the little business she always manages with, so instead of the husband to this woman to look for ways to get a job, the man keep on squandering his wife business money for drinking of alcohol, so this particular man has being drinking with his wife business money till one day, the wife said to him that she is not marrying again and before the husband could know it, the wife serve the husband a divorce paper and the both went on a sperate ways.

[Accardo]

Women today do not marry because they love a man, they marry them because of money. I just like how the old days are because I see some old people and their wife that are not wealthy but they are still living together till today.

Do they go back to remarry a rich man or someone they truly love? I won't say every, but most women have a man behind every of their actions, the man they love. It's just that easy, most marriages wasn't built on the foundation of emotional security. Naturally, women hate to feel insecure, they'll rather stay with a broke guy who gives them the security, than a wealthy person who keeps them insecure. Mind you, women can do anything, even marry a rich person, just for the sake of financing or establishing the guy that hands in this emotional security. The minute that guy is made, they'll file for a divorce, and leave. Simple!

[Bigjoe33]

The main reason there have been more divorce rate in this present time than it was in the past is because women of today have financial independence than in the past when many of them were not working. Women of those days prefer to please their husbands than women of today.

That is not only the reason, but it is the main reason.

Am supporting this full time. You know, back in those days, women had nothing much to do except for been full house wives. All the woman does is to be a YES SIR wife. She does almost everything in the house and provides nothing, and at such, leave in total dependency of the husband. There'd, leaving the marriage leaves you with no option that to suffer and probably face neglect from your family who will accuse you of not been able to handle your home.

But now, women are presidents, governors, teachers, lawyers, officers and whatever profession you can think. There is no more dependency. In some homes, the wife is the breadwinner, feeding both the man and the children because she earns bigger enough than her husband. So when a woman knows she can take her decision and it won't kill her, she won't gave rejection and be mocked by family members, then, leaving the marriage at any slightest provocation becomes not a problem.

[GiftedMAN]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

During the days of our fathers and grand fathers marriages lasted because women were ready to build with their husband, ready to obey and submit to the man who is their husband, this days what we see is the Internet marriage, some women now feels like they have to be in charge of the marriage for it to work they no longer see the men as the head of the family because of the things they watch on the Internet which is misleading them.

Infidelity in the marriage is also a major concern cause both men and women are involved in this and the moment one of them finds out that the partner is cheating things will no longer work.

The only solution I will suggest is for people not to marry just because of love. If you love the person but you are not cool with his or her character don't marry and If you must marry be ready to tolerate your partner cause different issues will come out and if you want to enjoy a good marriage just accept the fact that you are the weak person that's when it cdn work.