Living as an outsider inside society

[giammangiato]

However, what about those citizens who don't feel linked to this society? Does anyone feel to not share the same principles, values and common sense of your countrymen? How to live in a society you don't develop any bonds with your leaders and with the people who put them there?

Do you know how it feels to be a cuckoo in the nest?

Brother, when it comes to politics, politics is no longer like it was in the past, now the only consciousness in politics is to earn money. The rights of the people have been deprived, when the leaders come for votes, they hold the people's hands and legs and form a bond for some time. But after the elections, the leaders disappear and start living a luxurious life, the people around the leader enjoy life but the people are only loved for a short time.
Therefore, the leaders no longer have much in common with the people, due to which the people have been deprived of realizing their rights.

Politics? What should politics be about?
Of the well-being of citizens and not of their own interests.
If we look at the World level, what are leaders doing for their people?
Those who have delusions of grandeur, those who profess to be resolvers and instead undermine a country, those who seek allies to advance their ideology.
They spend their time accusing each other (making it clear that they are better), who is better?
Nobody!
Let me give you an example of the current situation in Italy (this Meloni government). During the elections, they said they would remove or lower fuel excise duties. It was done exactly the opposite. After the war launched against Iran, they devastated the global economy and brought the agriculture and transport sector to its knees in Italy (without having a recovery plan or aid).
Instead, they have well thought of spending 14 billion on rearmament (certainly it is important to know how to defend yourself) but if you do not have a productive population you risk sending a nation to collapse.
We all know that agriculture is the basis for the population (without food you can't eat) if you increase fuel you increase costs at the supermarket, but the problem that salaries are stuck at those of 1990 (converted into euros).
Was all this meant for the people? Absolutely not, this applies to all states.
Paradoxically, because of how many mistakes Bukele made, he had a brilliant idea, which is then working poorly or at least not as hoped, but he tried and continues to do so, giving the population a chance to grow.
The point is simple if my population is in good physical and economic health, the country will grow. Otherwise, if health is lacking and economic resources are barely sufficient, they will surely try to survive, not grow.

[uneng]

Yes, I know how it feels uneng  . Every day I wake up in this country, sometimes I wish I were dreaming, but it's obviously reality.
Aside from going to my office, I'm always at home. I don't interact with neighbours, and I barely have people I call close friends. The friend I have visits me once in a while since I don't go out to visit.

The fact that the culture here and the mentality of the people here is not how I picture my life to be. Japan and Switzerland are two countries that best fit my character and societal culture.

I hope you succeed at some point in reaching closer to the ideal of societal culture you have in mind. I guess that is what all of us are trying. I don't mean turning your country into a Japan or Switzerland, because it's out of your control, rather being able to access new environments where you can connect yourself to those places and to the people there satisfactorily. Maybe you can travel to those countries someday and experience for real if they meet your expectations.

[Beke_26]

Living as an outsider inside society is most times being described as social estrangement (the feeling of being disconnected from society or other people). This is apply to a situation where, you work same job, walk on same street and buys from same market yet operating on a different psychological or emotional frequency.
Now, humans are tribal creatures coded to seek the feeling of belongings or group safety and so when someone sensed that they do not belong to a particular match, so many thoughts comes in, the brain records social exclusion to survive on. This happens because of rigid exceptions, tribal instincts of the surrounding groups or even mix of biological traits and values.it is very common in our society today.