I'd like to point out that I contacted the OP on Skype. He wanted me to send first, I refused, and he called me a scammer after I suggested forum escrow (OgNasty and Devthedev).
I don't know if he's just that uncomfortable on the forums or is a scammer. Just thought I'd let you know.
If the OP doesn't want to use escrow it's most likely a scam yes. Sadly, but not much to do against people like him.