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Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

If people did not know the difference between good and bad nothing would survive. It's good to know what is good and bad, and good for a person to judge without causing harm. Judging other people just by basing on looks is not really 'judging', it is following or imitating judgment but without the substance.

Well, people tend to just spread does romurs because they are just jealous on what the person have and intend to judge then, sometimes people abuse their power that then other people just judge them. People are not going they were built that way..

That's true and what I think I want to share also is, why is still people doing bad stuff, knowing that it's bad? It's so sad sometimes that ordinary citizens get mugged, or something and what they worked so hard on was just gone because of the criminal. So you mean, judging people only in mind?

I would have to agree with this. Some people seem to have problems with other passing judgement forgetting that that's how we know whether what we are doing is acceptable or not. If you'd ever travel to a place with a different culture this would become more noticeable to  you since we have already been socialized into our own society's norms. But then again, always going by society's standards don't always have good results. We would probably still have slavery, etc. There should be a balance between groupthink and individual conviction.

As for judging by looks, we do have a beauty bias, whatever a specific society consider beautiful.


Much as I dislike malicious rumors and small talk, it seem to be part and parcel of our social order. For the longest time we live in small groups and all the small talk is to spread information, to keep people in check, and as a way to find our position in the pecking order. Some even compare gossiping to the grooming behavior in other great apes.

Because judging others is easier than fixing your own problems. 

It's something many of us do, even when we don't think we are.   Most societal norms include specifics of what to do or not to do, and by sneering at the people who do not do what is specified we give ourselves a false sense of superiority. 

What we should be doing is trying to make ourselves into better people, so instead of looking at people who are different from us and judging them we can acknowledge their differences and appreciate the many ways diversity makes our world a better place.

Unless they're just plain weird.  (jk)  ;D

To change this you need to do social engineering for a few generations. Eventually the hate mongers will die off and all that will be left is good citizens.

The problem is that many of the rulers specifically incite hatred. Enough provocation to then several generations have felt its effects.

Maybe that's what they feel about the person, they also want to become like them but not admitting it to themselves. They do that to feel superior to the people they are destroying. The reputation is at stake.

Sometimes when I pray to God I ask why He doesn't make everyone normal. I don't know if it's the story about angel and demons why we assume that beautiful people are good while those had a bad apearrance are not and we don't like them. But as I grow up I understand that it's only immaturity that makes us feel that way.

we need to keep on mind that people are different and they have purposes of doing such things. we need to see from another angle in order to be able to understand others. I think that's the key.

It's good when a person judges himself. It's foolish and inappropriate to judge other people. First you need to feel yourself in their shoes, but that does not always help. Each person is unique, he has different goals, views, dreams, abilities.

People tend to judge others because they like to see the same faults thats in them in others as well. Its as Jesus said there are those who say talk about a speck of wood in their friends eyes whereas they have a log in theirs.

But there are situations when a person judges another because he does not like this or that act or lack. I do not think that we need to take everything under one yard of all possible facts.

Not necessarily. I get angry at people who I see publicly talk down their children. Does that mean I'm also guilty of the same thing? We need others to point out our mistakes we might not notice on our own. Passing judgement is only a problem if it is being used to oppress people and/or limit what they can or allowed to do.

Look for example the previous stigma against single mothers. True, their society might look down on what was perceived to be their "mistake" but that should have just been it. Unfortunately, until recently this judgement has relegated them to second-class status.

knowing which good thing and a bad thing it should. Which do not have to do is make things worse. When we know which one is good and which is bad, we can choose to approach and do good things and avoid bad things. Sometimes without realizing we did a bad thing because we do not know that it was bad. So it is very important to be able to distinguish between what is good and bad.

The only way people want to pass blame from themselves to others is to accuse them of exactly what they themselves are doing in secret. By doing this they feel good about themselves and throw suspicion from themselves, Thats hypocrisy of the highest level.

Judging is easier but has a problem that they can't see in themselves. We should always become better people everyday and improve in the future. Always be better and don't mind the people that pull you down. It's very hard to do that but it is worth it.

Western society adopted feminism and the concept of Victim-hood where there is always someone to blame and point the finger at regardless of character or circumstance in some cases with a focus on the individual. Example: Salem witch trials --> Towards Trigger Warnings
Eastern society always focused more on the collective over the individual and so instead it's a public shaming when one does something wrong.
E.G. Chinese tourists leaving behind garbage --> embarrassing China's reputation --> and shaming the people who do it.

So depends do you want
 Collective shame - China/Japan example
 Individual shame based culture - USA/Canada

Similar logic
Reform based prison --> Presume Good can be found in people even if they do evil try to reintegrate in time assumes a hard forgiveness.
Punishment based prison/Poverty Prison --> Presume Evil dominates a person who did a bad deed or are to poor and will become evil if released instead of reforming or trying to integrate into society.  

Again the question becomes
German Prison System - Humane
American Prison System -Inhumane

https://www.vice.com/en_au/article/german-prisons-are-kinder-gentler-and-safer-than-the-ones-in-america-617

I think that it is a bit of human nature, and also the people judge other people without thinking the circumstances that make do his actions, people don't have empathy.
Before I judge someone I think a lot, also I think I wouldn't like it someone continued to judge me for something stupid that I have made in the past because the people change.

I think that it is a good question for everyone to answer, a really hard one and im sure that the result will vary, every person will answer differently.

In my opinion, society works basically thanks to one thing-cash.
Money runs the world, there is no doubt that this is the main target for most of the population. They dont seek for happy life, they dont look for things that may be worth more for them (sentimental value) than cash.
They look for power, and domination, being driven by greed and desire, to have more than other human beings.

For me, society is just a big race of desires, some people want to become famous, and some want to become rich.

Crab mentality is the number one disease of every society wherein they can pull down those people who is rising so the society will never be progressive if this disease is continuous. We can avoid everything that is bad if we know the right and wrong or the good and Bad. So if we want to rise then we should work hard and if we are on the top dont forget to help other people to rise also.

Most of the people nowadays are so judgemental making such reactions how people move or talk in a society. I think there are blames about the expression "First Impression". Mostly people base their treatment in a person by these way. It is natural or easy to judge a person without knowing them, especially when we don't really know them. We can't say harsh thing to them because we don't really know them. I think it is better to judge someone if you really know them, if you don't know them, it is just an assumption or a gossip.

That's just how the human brains work and doesn't going to change but not everyone are like that. I beleive that people are good inside and it depends on who they are surrounded with. We shouldn't be judging by just appearance but it's hard if you experienced a bad thing.

To be honest jealousy is one of the human nature, we dont like to see somebody is more superior than us, and we are happy to see them not better than us, this is the thing that we need to get rid of, but the proboem is, its very difficult and the environment really help us to tackle this situation

We are not supposed to judge by the look but it is just our instinct to survive, if someone bringing a jnife in the street, we tend to activate our survival instinct by avoid that people and judge the person is a bad person

In all honesty people tend to be judgemental when they are feeling insecure about things in their lives and take it out on others.

I used to judge people a lot before. Both the reasons are responsible. It is because of society as well as because of human nature. But then i came across these lines.

" when you look at the person, remember they have a story. A story you know very little about that has completely changed them. Be gentle, be kind and release judgement. "

I thought deeply about it and realised that i have been doing wrong. I started working on it. Off course it wasn't easy. You have to force it. But gradually it will become a habit and you might see a change in yourself. Stay happy and spread happiness.  :D

That is the problem of human nature. We believe have the right to judge someone, but let's take an example with A. Lincoln. He was very smart man - always tried not to judge another people. Because he did not know their situation and the events that led them to take this decision.

It seems to me that people love to judge other people. This creates in their minds the illusion of their superiority over those whom they judge. On the other hand there are no people which is not something to judge. All men are sinners.

We'll society works with an people have an automatic tedency to assume that if someone is disagreeing with someone,they are their enemy and they are inherently bad and they should be fought but,you can disagree with someone and still respect them.

An individual and society have mutual influence on each other. Each of us forms society and at the same time we feel like society forces it's standards, moralities and norms of behavior on us. We are often prone to the so called gregarious instinct but strive to be original, unique and independent. This may lead to a conflict and make people unsatisfied with themselves and others, judgmental and unhappy. We have to remember that we are society and behave with each other the way we want others to behave with us.

Society can work also by way of development of information and communication technology especially computer, can already be enjoyed by majority of society. However, the development of information and communication technology is still there are many gaps
Occurs between urban communities and rural communities in particular ;D

  Communities in remote areas. This happens because of uneven developments, and different levels of community needs. This gap affects the way people work. :).....

Imagine just how, in this case, the region of high technologies in the field of crypto-currency will develop. If there are still regions where even the Internet is missing, then what can we expect in the future?

Not only you judge others but you judge yourself also that too with the perception of generalize other (what you think other thinks about you).
This is interaction theory of society and without judging other people and situations life will be impossible. ;D

Progress can not be stopped. The Internet will be everywhere. It is very convenient. I think that every year will develop the number of services available via the Internet. The richer and more progressive country that the process will be faster.

They are really tough times right now. To be someone you either have to be - really rich or you have to be brutal, crazy so people know who you are. Sadly I hate seeing how rich idiots are getting all the fame and girls because of their money, while we struggle, but that is life. It motivates me so I do money and can do whatever I want :)

Society works in a joint way.The main objective of society's is to make society beautiful.So they do development work in society, through culture, religion, politics etc.

Yes you're right it is normal and we have different attitudes every people different talent .
Judging someone depends on people and i think it has also a good advantage because if you dont be judge you will dont improve in some ways on your life. The mistakes will be more unforggetable thna right things that is ow our society is .We need to accept it and to be a lesson do good whatever it is it will pay back with good things .

its what any specie would do to any kind. we are not different from each other so when a snake kills other kind of snake, its because they feel threatened to the other one. insecurity always makes some people feel threatened and people just react how the way they knew.

no one should work, everyone should just mine crypto

i am agree with you and if somehow we are judge as bad person, then we need to learn how to be a good person and don't think that we are a bad person forever. every people have the right to change into better person, every of us made mistakes in our life and this is why we need other people to tells us that we need to fix something bad in our life and give the best advice to us so we can change our bad things into good things.

I think this is all due to a lack of quality education and a bad example of parents. Also very influenced by the media that develop herd thinking.

That's true, the upgrowing of people who have bad experiences would definitely become the wrong person if they get bad influences. I'm not sure if significant outcomes are coming from the bottom, but movies definitely depict that in a great way. I don't know if it happens in real life.

It depends on the heart of a person how one sees the society itself. The heart of a person is like a glass of water, if you don't fill it with good vibes then it will be filled with bad vibes and bad thoughts. Society will work better when more people's heart will be filled with good vibes and positive thought. People are jealous by nature against each other so this jealousy can only be fought by nutrition of only good thoughts, vibes and deeds to the heart.

Right. And still like attracts like. If you think positively, good positive people will surround you.

Judging ACTIONS of others is perfectly normal as are stereotypes. Not putting your hand into open fire is also stereotype - you expect pain even though you havent experienced having your flesh burnt. The line lies in judging or rather evaluating others without resorting to violence. Thats why society over time have build churches, laws and social system, so that voice of majority is heard while the rights of minority are still protected.

You are never going to change that, unless you want to inhabit world of robots. Free speech is not just a right, it is basic mechanism through which we describe reality surrounding us. Depriving people of free speech (that can be interpreted as being judgemental) is tantamout into making them drones.


And thats why your neighbourhood is better by the day.

You wish "hate mongers" will die off, so only "good" people are left around, huh? Thats not hate preaching full of vicious judgement at all on your part there, mister. Not at all  :)

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It is not a good idea to quickly evaluate people through the outside but also to look at the nature within and many other factors, but the bed as the rapid evaluation of people through appearance is almost characteristic of everyone. Surely everyone has had such a time, only if they have adjusted and limited it or not.

You are describing how it should be ideally. In fact, life is very hard and one shot can ruin the whole Cup of joy. Emotions of a strong man. It should be accepted. Governments are not interested in the life of the population and therefore people live in a state of permanent stress. This leads to tension in society.

It is not a good idea, God is the Judge of all, and we're not and shouldn't do that to everyone. Everyone has their own experiences on why he or she is like that, just be sure that you believe them and see them for who they are. If you pray, don't be afraid.

How society works hmm let me think :P.

If i pay you someone to do something    and the pay they received is all law abiding   what happens if you pay and they don't do it     what is it by law?..

I pay politicians...And that's how society works..

But not everyone has the eyes to see people. I think there will be other factors as well.

I believe without society, the human life will be a nasty as you can see the effect of internet on society there's no referee people feel like they can say
anything that may even be hurtful or dangerous, you can order food, gadget, and appliances using online the internet will erode our real societies. The internet
has made our societies larger internet is our future technology.

Because it's easier for them than admitting their own mistakes.

This is really happens.Do 10 good things and no one will congratulates you.Do 1 bad thing and everyone will judge you.I am not sure why people act in this way.Maybe they feel inferior and have complex with other people.Some people are not satisfy with their selves, so they are selfish and individualist.So they react in this kind of way...

Humans have a heart that determines both the badness of human nature. Judging people's mistakes also comes from unfavorable hearts. Judging people's mistakes may also be influenced by the environment in which a person lives.

I agree in a way because since we are kids, I think we always have done bad things.

That's the really sad part of being good but one wrong mistake, then you're down.

But it's not the right thing and you're just not owning up to your responsibilities if you're like that.

The reason is because a society is being programmed to believe that a society ought to be perfect / flawless. Any act or look that does not conform to perfection, needs to be dealt with, and swiftly at that. I wonder when will that time be when the society reach the ultimate state of perfection. It will be a glorious time for sure.

I’m sorry to say this to you, but that is never going to disappear because it is part of human nature, a baby begins to learn this, the baby begins to associate things with good and evil and begins to trust and not trust people based on his interactions with the people close to him, so before the baby knows how to talk he beings to classify humans as dangerous and friendly based on their looks and attitudes.

Some people keep on seeing a bad side of a person if they are insecure to that person. There are a lot of people right now that even if their own relatives they want them to be on a ground. There are a lot of people right that has a crab mentality. Which is not good in our society.

That's true especially if they are jealous of what the person has achieved or has at the current moment. We as humans sometimes can't control our emotions on it, and no matter what you're going to do, it's going to be part of you. It's better to better than other people like adjusting and just being helpful towards someone that doesn't ever need it because that's what kind hearted people do. Nothing could be done but to be better yourself.

I think the most basic human nature is survival. Wherein we see the evil or the bad in some as we want to view ourselves as better of or that they deserve what they are getting. We judge people by their looks as we also have taught purselves long ago that beauty matters that aesthetics matter. We are always looking to save pur skin and I think that is the fatal flaw of humanity. Selfishness.

short answer is, it doesnt...

society is the dea of putting a plaster over a leaking pipe.
society is a band of peple trying to overcome human nature.
people are horrible. people are cruel and unforigiving.
the term society is agiven to express a part of humanism that isnt sadistic.

society is everyone al holding onto a single rope, a few ledges sit at the top to rest on and everyone is clawing their way to the top just from different starting points.

in my opinion it seems to be the idiots with high testosterone that rule the world, while the intelligent people shrug and admit defeat (in general) . why do you think this happens, and why has it happened from the beginning of humankind?

In any society, individuals and social groups are bound to conflict over goals, priorities and their share of available resources. But they can still live tolerably well together if they accept certain minimal rules and principles which inescapably govern how their society functions.

There is too much people on earth, and our population is growing. And we are all different. And we will always judge others by look, and will always justify our behaviour by behaviour of others.

Nowadays people usually compare himself/herself with others, act based on the actions of others, mimic their idols and etc, but that does not mean that it's all a bad thing. Comparing yourself with the look of others, how they dress greatly affects your social life. All of us wants to be unique at some point so we make sure that in every aspects in life we compare things to adjust and be unique. Acting base on the action of another also does not always go bad, their are good things when you base your action from the action of others, one can find the mistake committed by the first one and can adjust to situation therefore avoiding the consequences.

It's easier to see bad things on others than the ones with us.

That is what happens when there is such a big difference between people regarding to social status, money, profession and race. Nowadays people became way too jealous and angry that we like criticizing and judging. I think it is a human nature and the only solution is to teach children be kind & tolerant with others.

But what other options do we have? People are different. They have different iq, education, social status, so it's obvious their wealth will also be different and we can't change it.
People were always jealous! I am jealous too of all those rich kids that have no worries. They grow up in houses with swimming pools and get their own cars at high school, while others have to work for every single thing.
You can always educate your children, but for every educated one there will be 5 that come from poor neighborhoods and have alcoholics or drug addicts for parents.

How Does Society Works?
We are Easily  be soid an Overly   Simplified Explantion of how Thing,s Work.
People are also Busy.People Are Focused  on day to day Concems and aer Ready to Acceped any seemingly Reasonable Explanation.Reationships Between peopleand Groups Also Shaps Society

Society works depending on the class, environment and people around it. Society help the individuals to make and create some changes. Society help to developed an innovation.

something bad is for humans is something we do not forget, where the moment to remember for something ane or funny. Sometimes evil is a sign of our ugliness. judging a person depends on the answer whether it is beneficial or detrimental. Sometimes we have to experience it, maybe because we are jealous, have no, we can not even do it. Therefore we always judge others according to our instincts

Many people only see what bad things we have done, mostly see from outside like usual we say don't judge people from the cover.



Its natural in society will have some debate or misunderstood between our neighbourhood. Cause small thing have big effect, so we are still human, can any wrong things. But if we learn how to be a good person in society that won't happend.



Different families has different attitude, different angel, different side, even twins also will has different characters. If they can tolerance each others it will not happend.

Society works through the rules which were built by the ancestor, and modified by the present generation and followed by the futures.

Humans are social being.People help each other in the society. Moreover kids of the society learns how to behave and others.

Humans are quick to judge because, we strive for our goals which is mostly to achieve a greater level in life, so if one made a mistake even once, many will recognize that mistake and judge the person because of a hitch in His or Her goals.

In a society people belongs to different backgrounds with different thinking and attitudes. Every person role is important in shaping a society because one infected sheep can destroy the whole flock. Some people are jealous in nature they only criticize others and spread rumors. It is very important to keep a balance in society in order to promote peace.

Human service is a kind of society work.If any man wish to work for society he firstly work for man and his society.A good mind can help to work for society.

In the modern world, such concepts as honor and conscience are not relevant. This is due to a powerful increase in progress, which forces people not to look back on moral development, but simply to survive in a furious rhythm. And with the loss of these concepts a person changes as a whole. A sense of guilt for what he has done will not allow a person to survive in today's world, but losing his guilt, we begin to subconsciously look for the guilty somewhere near. Thus, a prejudiced attitude to others is born. When we remember only the bad about a person, we calm our guilt feelings. With this, unfortunately, nothing can be done about it, the only chance is for everyone to work on themselves.

it seems to me that this is due to lack of self-realization the way one wants deep down, from which a person will be happy and filled...we are forced to do what is necessary and if we are fed up to this, we become unhappy and don't allow other people to do their mistakes and calmly treat them...happy man, won't judge others and won't be vindictive, because he is filled with happiness, he doesn't have these negative emotions

Unfortunately, our society has many flaws and one of them is what we the Filipins refer to as "crab mentality" or " fear of losing" . This is way of thinking of a person who tries to pull you down just because they can't can't suceed.

Because people don't like to put an effort to see the big picture, this way is more simple.

Human service or community service is kind of society works. Without human society cannot work. Be a good individual to make our society works easily.

The only thing humans have as our nature is our incredible ability to adapt and learn. If you are brought up in one country and whatever unfounded prejudices are passed down to you every day by your parents and grandparents and everyone else in the community then you grow up to share those prejudices. If you are taught empathy, compassion and just generally educated then you will be more conscious of this and the world and care about people more.
The way to solve this problem is simple, but it isn't easy.
1st educate everyone to a much higher standard, teach about the history of humanity and where we have come from and the incredible things we do when we cooperate.
2nd make sure everyone can interact with people from all over the world, either through travelling or through digital means, this gives you exposure to other cultures but most importantly shows you that everyone is the same. If you can share a drink with someone from another country, or a smile or good times, you realise that listening to the news or fearing people is so wrong and that it's all fabricated.
3rd remove money as the method for organising our world. We have enough resources and technology so everyone can live very well and flourish. If we focus on using resource to solve problems then grow our ability to produce more with less work or have more fun or whatever it is, then we can emancipate people from abject poverty and doing dull work. But most importantly we remove or reduce inequality. This inequality is what causes jealousy  and the other negative consequences that come along with that.

the community works in accordance with the ability and expertise that is owned.

Unfortunately, human nature is such that mainly judged a person by appearance and first impression. Not many people see the essence of man at first sight.

the people working in the country are to welfare their stomach and relatives in their family.
the important role of the community is to guard the state facilities made by its government.

so that there is no conflict between countries there must be a leader of each country that is the president. The leadership of the state that brings the community becomes more focused.

People easily make a judgement over someone nor something easily notice the flaws, and bad things about them instead of seeing the whole picture, society work more on beauty, fame whose talented but never on the unpopular and not so pleasing physical, that's how they work.

its the nature of the people. If you will do 99 days good but 1 day bad to someone, they will remember that 1 day only not the others

Under the term society we have more meanings.Society as a set of people is a community in which each member is important.Everyone is equal in society.We all have one's chosen society.We share opinions, experiences in society.When we are in good society, we forget about our problems.People don't know how important our society is to us.

A society is based upon the bondings of the people living there. A society works on the basis of warmness and mutual faith only

It is human nature to judge someone by their appearance. That is how it is now. We are too evasive on each other that we forgot that we should live relying on each other rather than being apart. Our previous experience makes us doubt each other and we accepted the fact that everyone can do something bad and its better if you were defensive all the time. Always remember to give others a chance. You will never know what it can do you.