How society works

[crwth]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

[PeterTheGrape]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

If people did not know the difference between good and bad nothing would survive. It's good to know what is good and bad, and good for a person to judge without causing harm. Judging other people just by basing on looks is not really 'judging', it is following or imitating judgment but without the substance.

[canah17]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

Well, people tend to just spread does romurs because they are just jealous on what the person have and intend to judge then, sometimes people abuse their power that then other people just judge them. People are not going they were built that way..

[crwth]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

If people did not know the difference between good and bad nothing would survive. It's good to know what is good and bad, and good for a person to judge without causing harm. Judging other people just by basing on looks is not really 'judging', it is following or imitating judgment but without the substance.

That's true and what I think I want to share also is, why is still people doing bad stuff, knowing that it's bad? It's so sad sometimes that ordinary citizens get mugged, or something and what they worked so hard on was just gone because of the criminal. So you mean, judging people only in mind?

[Mometaskers]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

If people did not know the difference between good and bad nothing would survive. It's good to know what is good and bad, and good for a person to judge without causing harm. Judging other people just by basing on looks is not really 'judging', it is following or imitating judgment but without the substance.

I would have to agree with this. Some people seem to have problems with other passing judgement forgetting that that's how we know whether what we are doing is acceptable or not. If you'd ever travel to a place with a different culture this would become more noticeable to  you since we have already been socialized into our own society's norms. But then again, always going by society's standards don't always have good results. We would probably still have slavery, etc. There should be a balance between groupthink and individual conviction.

As for judging by looks, we do have a beauty bias, whatever a specific society consider beautiful.

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

Well, people tend to just spread does romurs because they are just jealous on what the person have and intend to judge then, sometimes people abuse their power that then other people just judge them. People are not going they were built that way..

Much as I dislike malicious rumors and small talk, it seem to be part and parcel of our social order. For the longest time we live in small groups and all the small talk is to spread information, to keep people in check, and as a way to find our position in the pecking order. Some even compare gossiping to the grooming behavior in other great apes.

[mastermold]

Because judging others is easier than fixing your own problems. 

It's something many of us do, even when we don't think we are.   Most societal norms include specifics of what to do or not to do, and by sneering at the people who do not do what is specified we give ourselves a false sense of superiority. 

What we should be doing is trying to make ourselves into better people, so instead of looking at people who are different from us and judging them we can acknowledge their differences and appreciate the many ways diversity makes our world a better place.

Unless they're just plain weird.  (jk) 

[santaclaws]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

To change this you need to do social engineering for a few generations. Eventually the hate mongers will die off and all that will be left is good citizens.

[Barmen]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

To change this you need to do social engineering for a few generations. Eventually the hate mongers will die off and all that will be left is good citizens.

The problem is that many of the rulers specifically incite hatred. Enough provocation to then several generations have felt its effects.

[crwth]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

Well, people tend to just spread does romurs because they are just jealous on what the person have and intend to judge then, sometimes people abuse their power that then other people just judge them. People are not going they were built that way..

Maybe that's what they feel about the person, they also want to become like them but not admitting it to themselves. They do that to feel superior to the people they are destroying. The reputation is at stake.

[RedX]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

Sometimes when I pray to God I ask why He doesn't make everyone normal. I don't know if it's the story about angel and demons why we assume that beautiful people are good while those had a bad apearrance are not and we don't like them. But as I grow up I understand that it's only immaturity that makes us feel that way.

[nara1892]

we need to keep on mind that people are different and they have purposes of doing such things. we need to see from another angle in order to be able to understand others. I think that's the key.

[Ronxawala]

It's good when a person judges himself. It's foolish and inappropriate to judge other people. First you need to feel yourself in their shoes, but that does not always help. Each person is unique, he has different goals, views, dreams, abilities.

[yoseph]

People tend to judge others because they like to see the same faults thats in them in others as well. Its as Jesus said there are those who say talk about a speck of wood in their friends eyes whereas they have a log in theirs.

[AT-N-T101]

People tend to judge others because they like to see the same faults thats in them in others as well. Its as Jesus said there are those who say talk about a speck of wood in their friends eyes whereas they have a log in theirs.

But there are situations when a person judges another because he does not like this or that act or lack. I do not think that we need to take everything under one yard of all possible facts.

[Mometaskers]

People tend to judge others because they like to see the same faults thats in them in others as well. Its as Jesus said there are those who say talk about a speck of wood in their friends eyes whereas they have a log in theirs.

Not necessarily. I get angry at people who I see publicly talk down their children. Does that mean I'm also guilty of the same thing? We need others to point out our mistakes we might not notice on our own. Passing judgement is only a problem if it is being used to oppress people and/or limit what they can or allowed to do.

Look for example the previous stigma against single mothers. True, their society might look down on what was perceived to be their "mistake" but that should have just been it. Unfortunately, until recently this judgement has relegated them to second-class status.

[kodes88]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

If people did not know the difference between good and bad nothing would survive. It's good to know what is good and bad, and good for a person to judge without causing harm. Judging other people just by basing on looks is not really 'judging', it is following or imitating judgment but without the substance.

knowing which good thing and a bad thing it should. Which do not have to do is make things worse. When we know which one is good and which is bad, we can choose to approach and do good things and avoid bad things. Sometimes without realizing we did a bad thing because we do not know that it was bad. So it is very important to be able to distinguish between what is good and bad.

[darkseid1199]

The only way people want to pass blame from themselves to others is to accuse them of exactly what they themselves are doing in secret. By doing this they feel good about themselves and throw suspicion from themselves, Thats hypocrisy of the highest level.

[crwth]

Because judging others is easier than fixing your own problems. 

It's something many of us do, even when we don't think we are.   Most societal norms include specifics of what to do or not to do, and by sneering at the people who do not do what is specified we give ourselves a false sense of superiority. 

What we should be doing is trying to make ourselves into better people, so instead of looking at people who are different from us and judging them we can acknowledge their differences and appreciate the many ways diversity makes our world a better place.

Unless they're just plain weird.  (jk) 

Judging is easier but has a problem that they can't see in themselves. We should always become better people everyday and improve in the future. Always be better and don't mind the people that pull you down. It's very hard to do that but it is worth it.

[freedomno1]

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

Western society adopted feminism and the concept of Victim-hood where there is always someone to blame and point the finger at regardless of character or circumstance in some cases with a focus on the individual. Example: Salem witch trials --> Towards Trigger Warnings
Eastern society always focused more on the collective over the individual and so instead it's a public shaming when one does something wrong.
E.G. Chinese tourists leaving behind garbage --> embarrassing China's reputation --> and shaming the people who do it.

So depends do you want
 Collective shame - China/Japan example
 Individual shame based culture - USA/Canada

Similar logic
Reform based prison --> Presume Good can be found in people even if they do evil try to reintegrate in time assumes a hard forgiveness.
Punishment based prison/Poverty Prison --> Presume Evil dominates a person who did a bad deed or are to poor and will become evil if released instead of reforming or trying to integrate into society.  

Again the question becomes
German Prison System - Humane
American Prison System -Inhumane

https://www.vice.com/en_au/article/german-prisons-are-kinder-gentler-and-safer-than-the-ones-in-america-617

[MissGrey]

I think that it is a bit of human nature, and also the people judge other people without thinking the circumstances that make do his actions, people don't have empathy.
Before I judge someone I think a lot, also I think I wouldn't like it someone continued to judge me for something stupid that I have made in the past because the people change.