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I am falling in love with someone! But i don't know is it INFATUATION or LOVE ! how can i identify it ? can anyone help me ?

Based in my own understanding, for me infatuation is like having a crush or admiring someone you like. Little did you know that day by day your feelings slowy fading away. In short it is just temporary. When you say love that feeling is like forever, example is: you cannot live without him/her...another thing is you love him to the point that your gonna give your everything. Follow what your heart desire and choose what you think is the best for you. :)

Infatuation can be the start of love. Love will develop once you get to know them, the infatuation just helps to keep you extremely interested in spending time and all.

If you're infatuated with the wrong person you should try to look at the person objectively and realize you're wearing pink glasses.

i think infatuation is like a puppy love or only just a crush but if you love someone you can do anything that make her/she happy and to be better and you can sacrifice all you have or anything to make her or him happy..

If it is infatuation then it'll go day by day. But if it's love then it'll be increasing day by day. I must say, infatuation is a starting of love. Love happens when you have infatuation on someone.

It seems to me that Infatuation for someone is more often an unrequited feeling. Love is a feeling that two people express to each other .. But these two feelings are not eternal. Love is different from infatuation - most likely you will be ready to go to much for the sake of the person in whom love is so different.

Do you feel butterflies in your stomach when you are close to that person?

He/she has not left yet and you're already thinking about that person?

everythings is better when he / she is around? the day looks more beautiful than normally, the wine tastes better...


if yes to all the questions, congrats you are in love, enjoy it ;)

For my own opinion, infantuation is like you are only attracted by his or her looks.  You want to be with him/her if you want to have some fun when you get bored. Its like you dont need him/her if you have your friends around having good time and have some adventure.  You only think of her/him if you want to have some advantage or something that you want to go to a new place whith her/him yet only the place is your care.  On the other side,  Love is like undefined love is infinite. But for some they express by words to have or to build meaning on it.  Love is when you realize that you are unconditional happy, even if you are not in your comfort zone but being with your partner it seems like the world is perfect. In love its involve angry jealousy misunderstood yet you and your partner can easily fix that problem. Not like in Infatuation once they feel that or experience that situation they have to break up. 

Love means you would do anything for her to make her smile.  Infatuation is when you do stuff for her to make you smile  :)

Exactly that's what i think. you made a good point. i try to understand her what she want so that i can ahead my self into her self.

Thanks for valuable reply. actually sometimes i did not any difference that's why. and yes exactly love means i would like to do anything for her to make her smile.

Oh man thanks your ans is given below..

Do you feel butterflies in your stomach when you are close to that person?
Ans: YES

He/she has not left yet and you're already thinking about that person?
Ans: Not yet.

everythings is better when he / she is around? the day looks more beautiful than normally, the wine tastes better...
Ans: Yes ;-)

You can identify it by observing what is your desire toward to your fellows. How to identify this in the easy steps.? Know your thoughts everytime you see him/her. Know your future plan if you really in love with her. Know your limitations on how you handle the situation. Then last love yourself before love others. Love is not all about sex or physical desire but mostly all about the intimacy to one another. The intimacy will protect both of you to hold each other no matter what happen. This will measure your feelings.

Frankly, This is very natural to feel infatuation at very begining of a new relationship. That's why , you are confused. When a person love  another person , he or she first feel infatuation. But, This feeling give its place to love by the time goes on. For that reason, you must be patient  and you will find out whether your feelings are infatuation or not.

Infatuation or love you can identify it,what you have feel inside if you love someone you will do anything for her/him,but infatuation it is temporary feeling for her/him

Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of relationship when sexual attraction is central. Love can be described as feeling of intense affection for another person.

As human being the distriction of infatuation and love, is not only the for the children and the youth it also in adut who feels  love and getting  wrong or mistake between the definition of being infautation and love,as my research infautation love can be reffered this feeling, idealised imaging for your partner,focus in Physically,show your  partner of good side only,drainning, bringing out of jealousy,glossed over argument,selfish bieng inloved with love only,while love is reffered to develop gradually overtime,become deeper and last a long time, accepted hole person imperfection, overall disposation,survive arguments,consider the other person,and last being in love with person,,

For me Love is when you two are comfortable with each other even if you are both not taking bath for two days, and still you are fine with each other. Infatuation for is the excitement feeling and admiration for someone but quickly dissapear, infatuation can be develop to be love.

Thanks man, exactly what thought it. you made some good point. yes i need to be patient and try to find out my feelings so that i can identify my feelings are infatuation or not.

Love sometimes required time on how long you know that person. If you know him/her long time ago then it is love while if know that only yesterday or today then it is infatuation. Also when you are attracted only with his/her physical appearance then you are only infatuated.

Love is a great feeling that not everyone can feel. There are different feelings and if you really love a person you will do everything for him . Even if it's not in your favor. When we love , we look after the flower, give the best. And when it is passion or just sympathy , we put our priorities above this person, we tear this flower.

If it's only infatuation, it will die slowly and you won't be thinking about that person anymore. But it may be infatuation and grow, which will then lead to love, but to understand that you need time.

The trick is to ask ourselves whether we are afraid of looking bad and lacking in front of the couple, or we dare to be open and honest as it is because infatuation requires us to always look perfect in front of the couple. While love makes us become what we are and honest with ourselves and even partner.
Besides, are we able to feel comfortable with ourselves without having to ask for partner's approval and be able to do otherwise? Because the real love is able to make us appreciate ourselves also apply to couples. While infatuation requires us to always "hear" and "submit" what the couple and vice versa.
Then, if the feelings that we feel are intense and passionate and can not be arrested again it can be ascertained it is not love but just infatuation. Because love is more "quiet", stable, and grows over time.

If you are new in the relationship you will not know if it is love or infatuation,take time to feel and observe what you truely feel,time will comes that if you are falling out of love little by little it is only a infatuation,if it is true love when you dont feel anything aside from love.

{L}earn? you can only notice it yourself.
{O}nly know this feeling, Only see for yourself,
{V}oice will rise a little Come a little courage!
{E}njoy! the world is nice to you.

I wrote acrostic poem for you :D

It's simple. Would you be infatuated with them if they were a pig? If no, then it's not love. But don't worry, most partnerships are not really love.

Falling in love and feeling infatuated to a person is different but still connected. Infatuation is having a crush on this person, may it be temporary crush. But the longer the infatuation you feel for this person and overtime, it can lead into falling in love. Falling in love is a much more deeper emotion compared to infatuation.

Maybe you are only attracted to the person or you just admire him/her. Infatuation is only short lived but if the feeling is growing deeper by the day, then maybe it is love that you feel.

Infatuation is the state of being completely lost in the emotion of unreasoning desire. And in love an intense feeling of deep affection.

Infatuation short lived passion for someone but Love is a deep affection  and takes time to develop.

as human bieng are naturally  and expirence of infatuation love or true love,,the two kinds of feeling can express naturally when we grew up,mostly in the teen ager infantauion love is expremly fondess of someone bieng  admiration and foolish extravagant while true love is formed to developed and the right time

Give it a few more months. Get to know the person you are "in love with". It takes around a year or so to actually get to know a person if you're living with them. What i suggest? Get into a relationship with this person, date them, live with them for a few months. If you couldn't live the person's behavior or idiosyncrasies then break up with them. Dating is designed to emulate a marriage, if you think that person is not for you then break up with them

as  teen ager mother told me ,,focus on the study are mostly priority,but somehow it doesnt wrong my feeling is feel infatuation love ,because is part of bieng teen, i believed  also the matter found in the youth,based on may resaerch many adults can experiece also between the infatuion love and true love,,,

In my own knowledge there is a huge difference between Infatuation and love! Infatuation is simply an admiration to someone while love is something to do with an intense feelings and emotion to somebody that you can't easily forget! In addition,infatuation in synonymous to crush while love is an endless feeling that you want share with someone!  Mostly infatuation is simply an attraction to the physical attribute of another person while love is loving someone no matter who she/he is -all the physical and the sum total of the human brings you accept it and love that person.

all of that time let me answer whether you are merely admire it or really really love it. the feeling will grow by itself and at that time your onlyb knows whether it is merely the megaguminya, or betu really love to die against it.

Infatuation vs. Love
Infatuation brings you provisional feeling only.
Love brings you intense feeling.

Infatuation is just a temporary feelings for someone. Infatuation is the effect of being attracted to that someone because of physical appearance.While Love is a feelings that lasts. Love is a feeling when you don't even know why you like that person.

hehe, thanks man. you made some good point through this poem.let's compare with my feelings with your poem. thanks.

There is a big difference between falling in love and when we love a person.Infatuation is transient, while when we love a person it can take a lifetime.Always from falling in love comes a serious relationship.Therefore, infatuation is just the beginning.People think that everything is transient in life, but I don't think that's the way it is, at least in love.We will always remember the person with whom we were happy.

If it is merely Infatuation then He will take you to do what will make you regret.  >:(

But if it is true Love, He will guide you to action that makes everyone happy. Love lifts you, Raises you, Love makes you always think to be the best. Love will turn you into a better person than yesterday. :-* :-*

Hopefully this explanation can help you in solving the problems you are facing.

It's not love, it's just natural selection's way of making species reproduce.

No one can help you here. You and yourself alone cana  answer your feelings to other person. We may say it is an infatuation because you just love her from the mean time. But I am saying that if you love someone, don't think that it is infatuation or love, just try to love him/her because we need to enjoy our life.

so how can i identify is it love or infatuation ? can you explain me what is love and infatuation ?? what if is it infatuation what should i do ?

Thanks man. but sometimes we need to know that what is love just because we all are want perfect person. yes we need to enjoy our life through our real feelings.

There can be many advices . Every person has manifestations of feelings. You must be brave and invite a person to go on a date!

Its going to be hard to differentiate infatuation from love if you haven't spent much time with that person yet. If you've been together for a long time, then probably its easier to know that you've fallen in love already. Infatuation is more on attraction while love is to be willing to make sacrifices for that person

Your partner must at least have time with you. You should offer a walk and talk together. Perhaps this person also feels something to you and be afraid to admit!

Let the time come. you will get that the one hurts you more when you leave is love :(

I ant say because i havent fall in love yet :)

Falling inlove with someone is the best feeling that a person can feel in this world. Because falling inlove is like floating in the air whenever you see the person that you have been inlove. When you are inlove with a person , you want to see that person everytime , and you are thinking that person everytime. And you want to be with that person .

According to Dictionary meaning of infatuation; revolve round an unreasoning love. To Infatuate therefore means to daydream about someone especially opposite sex. Love on the contrary seems a very strong emotion sometimes quite inexplicable but real. Love is all about give and take that is the mutual consent of individual s involved. Therefore love is superior to infatuation.
 More clearly, love made the world goes round and its always strong and emotional. Its last longer than infatuation.

Infatuation lay within the curves of body but true love gets mad at the folds of saree, as per indian guys.

The time when you will start feeling that your heart beats when you come infront of her, that day you will understand what is lov.

A true love requires a time to grow its root just like its required by a tree to grow healthy. But if it grows within short then its infatuation.

Infatuation is the feeling of admiring or having a crush on someone. Usually we have infatuation in highschool years, but someday, it will fade away. But when we say love, it is already a deep feeling towards a person. We do everything to be with that person, and we do the things that make them happy. Although there are times that we cant be with the one we love, but we are still contented to see them happy with someone else, even if it hurts us deep inside. When you love a person, we accept them for who they are, what their past is and we dont care about their flaws, we just love them for no reason at all.And we dont expect them to love us back.