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Hello everyone. The subject concerns all of us. Everyone can answer the question. It doesn’t matter you are married or not. I'm interested in the opinion of each person. I tell you my point of view.

Soon I will be 24 years old, I'm not married and I think that I will not marry. There are three reasons, two of them are interrelated.

The first and second reasons are money and children. In the early nineties, the situation was different, there was confidence in the future, so there was a high birth rate. Life was easier. But now in our realities, it is very difficult for newlyweds to grow up a child, there is practically no help from the state. I was born in an ordinary family, not poor, but also not rich. All my life I wasted time to earn money. I have spent all my free money on a realization of various projects, but they were unsuccessful. Now I spend about 9-12 hours per day without weekends doing bounty. I hope this time I will be able to earn enough money to start my own business. I do not want my child to go through all these difficulties. I want him to live a happy life. So I don’t understand why poor people have children. Lack of money will lead to regular quarrels, further may lead to divorce. It will negatively affect children.

The third reason is mistrust. Many married people doubt the loyalty of a partner. So they don’t let them meet their friends, hang out and things like that, you know. If they let, they will constantly call with checks. I have a feeling that after marriage, personal life ends. In my opinion worse than adultery can only be mistrust.

Each person has their own destiny and their own opinion and everyone has it on his faithful. Someone for marriage does not need millions, some people are just happy being together. Remember the past, that all lived richly?This was not, however, in families has always been 4,5,6 children. People weren't afraid to bring them up just because they were poor. In the family, the main understanding and love, and in love and without money people live together for 50 years. I think almost everyone had a grandparent who lived together for a long life despite quarrels and disagreements.
Now just people spoiled divorce in every second marriage and I think just because of the money.

There can definitely be happiness in marriage! I love my marriage. That doesn't mean that marriage is right for you. If you don't want to have children because you don't have a lot of money, one option could be to make more money. You should keep in mind though that, even if you have a lot of money, it very well may not be the best thing to just hand your children everything on a platter. They need to learn to work, set goals and get by in life on their own. Another option could certainly be to find a wife who also doesn't want children, if you don't want them. There are women out there that don't want children. The most important thing is to do what you want. If you want to get married, get married. You'll figure out the rest as you go. You're still young. Maybe you'll change your mind and get married when you're 30 or 40. There's nothing wrong with that.

Every living thing have the instinct to reproduce, but some would fight the urge, and refuse even if it's capable. We, on top of the food chain, have the choice.

Every people around my country almost have the same ideology when it comes to marriage, and why it is important to them. Every time I meet with a relative, an old friend, and few acquaintances, they all have the same reason why I need to marry and have a child. Their reason; I will be needing my child to take care of me when I grow old. It was an absurd reason for me. It's easy to have a child, but the way of his/her life will be uncertain.

I want my child to have an impact to our society, but I am not certain if it will be positive or negative. I want my child to grow, and contribute for the betterment of society, but I have no control over my child's future.

I may consider marriage, but I will not choose to have my own child for now or never.

Marriage doesn't really mean much, it's just a government contract.  You can love someone ans be super close without having a paper that tells you so.

We all have a different love story. What happens to others may not happen to you. You create your own story. Life will never be complete without having a partner beside you. So if one day you'll get married, don't mind what happened to other love stories. Create your own.

You're just too young to think about that. When you're mature enough it'll come to you. I'm not saying anything bad here, for every person it's different. Some people change their opinion and get married at 30-40 or 50yrs. The main thing here is to find your own path and somebody will come along to share it. On the other hand if you still haven't changed your opinion in a couple of years then it's OK. Ultimately everything is achievable and it's all your choice. Don't think negatively on something you haven't experienced yet.

I respect your opinion, but we need to know that in this world we are created in pairs.

by marrying we can continue the offspring and also to feel the struggle of this life with our partner our life.

this is a big problem, in my country we have something called "family planning" to educate people so that people do things thinking about consequences first. But there is another point " live alone ". have your own family is something that has no price, but at the same time this can also create great headaches. This is a complicated topic.


well, people today do not marry and they already have many children with different partners

marriage will be happy if you marry someone you love, marriage is not about treasure but how you keep the relationship stay in harmony with your family.

Marriage is not compulsory. If you should marry, you should know why you are choosing who for marriage. Truly there is happiness in marriage only when you are espoused to the right partner and you seek Godliness with contentment. With these you will have happiness. Outside that marriage could be hell.

I think yeah you can find happiness if you found the right person and if both have good understanding each other

I married this spring and I say Yes, it's another part of happiness. Because it gave me a deep feeling of family atmosphere inside of me.

There is happiness in marriage if you find the right partner who understands you ..understanding is the bed rock for marriage success

Individual people do have the choice, but if we all stop having children, then it doesn't matter where we are on the food chain, we will go extinct. I don't think that all humans feel the instinct to reproduce, although I agree that most do. It's always funny to me to heard female acquaintances say that they'll never have children. I have seen so many cases when, just a few years later, they are talking about how they want children. One thing I've learned in my life is that it's not a very good ideas to say such absolutely things about the future. As they say, never say never. I just say, "Right now I feel this way. Maybe in the future I will feel differently, but these are my plans for now." Things change. Love and hormones are powerful things.

Many end up with divorce and some success until death so it always depends how a couple love each other

There is happiness in marriage.Bible says he that find a wife will obtain favour from God.When someone get married,he would be hoping to get children which is also a blessing.when someone get married during his old age his children will take proper care of him.when someone get married,he has found a companion.
There is happiness in marriage to the extent that his wife will be cooking for him.When a someone get married he will be respected in society because he is now a full fledged man.

Everyone is wired differently because of our different experiences especially while we were growing. Well personally I love children and I'd love to have one. I'm sure there's some happiness in marriage when you go into it with a positive mindset.

Yes, there is! If you find the right partner, the one that God has prepared for you, at the right time, you'll be happy. So seek first the will of God and not a partner in life. If you seek Him first, He'll be the One to give the right partner for you, the one who suits you very well, who complements your imperfections and flaws. You need not worry about mistrust and money when God moves for you. For the meantime while he/she is yet to come, prepare yourself for him/her by working for your future and by building yourself to be a better woman/man for him/her.

There is happiness in marriage all depends on the way the marriage is built.
The most important happiness in marriage is having children and building a strong family.

Marriage is a sacred thing. Marriage is not what we think like in a fairy tale. It is not always being happy. Sometimes you feel unhappy yet you stay. Because you choose your family. There is happiness in marriage. If you feel none, just pray to God to help you find the answers.

My dear. nothing comes easy. No stress No success.
Marriage is wonderful. it is good. the going can get tough but i tell you. be strong, it will surely one day get better.
and you will look at your wife straight in the face and smile.

Honestly it make no sense you make the money and you have no wife( YOUR WOMAN) to enjoy with it.

women can be trouble but can be helpful.
if you doubt, as a woman above 30s that have everything  but No husband.
same as a man with money but No wife.

it is painful. Don't try it.

GET MARRIED. TWO HEADS ARE ALWAYS BETTER THAN ONE.

CHEERS.

I f you really love your partner marriage is the most beautiful could happen on your life. having marriage with your love is the most happiest thing every couple wants.

I do believe there is. It is not all fun and games but marriage is fruitful. I am not married but I have seen couples who managed to get past through the hardest of times. I also have friends who filed for divorce 9 months after the wedding because it is simply not working out. I supposed it depends on the couple but if you truly love each other then you will find happiness in marriage despite the challenges.

Yes there is, you have one more person to share moments, happiness, painful, ...
Sometimes you will tired of arguing, angry or disagree about an idea but anyway it's marriage !

it depends on you

You have such traditional ideas. This person said that he doesn't want to have children and your answer it that getting married and having children will bring him happiness. I think that is a big mistake. One of the worse things we could have is parents with unwanted children. Parents may resent the children their whole lives. Children will feel this and by hurt by this. If a person doesn't want children, they shouldn't have children. This doesn't mean that they won't change their mind, but if you don't want children, don't have children! Of course, it is nice when somebody cooks for you, but how can you say that about women, like a wife's duty is to cook for a man?

Sure there are a lot of happiness in marriage. The most important thing in marriage is the present of God, and the couple must learn how to endure in all things

Yes! Of course. However, I don't know that I will get married. I am totally a relationship person, and happily in love, but marriage just involves the state. We can have a party for our love, and a dress if I please, without involving the state. And besides, in my country, you are common-law within two years of living together anyways. No difference IMO.

for you if you are fun and a good future for family

Yes because you swore to god that she/he is the half of your life forever

Happiness in marriage is not something that happens by itself. A good marriage should be created. It is necessary to develop patience and understanding, to be able to forgive and forget.

Sure if you both support each other and build something together.

No, I don't think is more happiness than being alone . I know it's against everything that i was taught but i think i will remain so my entire life.

It's nice that you can find such peace in your decision. I don't that many people can say that they are the happiest when they are alone. But, come to think of it, I don't think that many people are really so sure about what will make them happy. People typically just do what they have been taught to do. Much respect to you for going against the grain. It can be hard to do things that the people around you may not agree with. I wish you all the happiness you could hope for!

Happiness exists in marriage. If the partners are honest and committed to each other then they are more likely to be happy. Even though challenges may come, happiness can enhance their ability to solve problems.

The current social divorce rate is very high, and there are many reasons for the high divorce rate, but there are several factors that are the same!
1. Economy
2. Trust
3. Perseverance

There are many happiness in marriage. It is just that there is nothing good that will not have defect

Yes. My uncle has been happily married for as long as I can remember, so at least 22 years. My Mom's mom was happily married for 50+ years or so before my grandfather passed away.

Absolutely true, there are happiness in marriage when you marry in the right person because there will always take caring of you love you in good and bad times always understand you  and there are some one being there for you when you have problem comfort you and say I'm just here for you always remember that you have me  in your life no matter what happened 😍😍😍

There is happiness in marriage definitely yes because,the happiness of all life is made of the future descendants of peace from good relationships.marriage brings perfection of human life I love my life partner.

I think that if it is a free marriage, then it will be very happy. On the contrary, those marriages caused by money are tragedies! What do you think?

To be happy is not necessary to live in a marriage, it's enough just to be with a loved one!

Marriage is good if the wife or husband understands you

Marriage really is a great blessing and every part of it should bring happiness. This is of course possible only when it is done right. Many people dishonor principles these days and expect to have a great marriage. I say this not just as a conservative Christian but also from common sense. Your points are very valid. If you aren't financially stable, you really have no business with marriage. But mistrust must be handled between the two partners. It is how you show maturity, I believe.

If money is your basis for happiness 100% you will fail, There are a people out there that have a lot of money but their married life was not a happy one and I also met below average earner despite the lack of money for everyday living but he lives with his family very happy. Come to think of it that money can't buy real happiness.

You just have not found the right person beside you yet. No worries!

To me i will say that marriage is another boll game totally different from single life, moreover you can only have a happy home when you and your spouse build togetherness then you will end up having a happy home, most marriages are brooking because there lack understanding and trust, If the spouse lack togetherness they will not be happy. 

I think for a normal man marriage is a big event,if he follows traditions he will be happy living together with his lovely wife and children. His family becomes one of the reasons to live

There is if you found the right one

Money has nothing to do with it, it's human nature or fear of losing their freedom!I think if the author gets rich, there are 1000 more reasons why you should not have children!

the fabric of love in the household will be harmonious if there are children in it because money is not everything to get happiness this is the purpose of marriage

200 percent sure. There is happiness in marriage. I understand all these problems you made a mention of . Sure it really exist in marriage but they are all part that makes the union greatand standing . I remembered i usually fight my wive at first . Sometimes we don't talk but as soon as we make it up to each other , the bond becomes extra strong so you see? Sure i totally respect your decision but i just want to tell you that there is true happiness in marriage especially when you know the man or the woman you just got married to

Blockchain should solve the issue of trust in marriage  ;D ;D

marriage should be a consequence to a healthy relationship, not a starting point of it.  you just don't first marry, than hope it to magically work miracles for you. If u are with a person you love and you want to create a family together, then yes, you will eventually get married, otherwise its not worth it.

People think that marriage is all about romance and love making. They need to know that it is much bigger than that. You are sharing your lofe with your loved one. You have to bear it all out during thick and thin. Before thinking of getting married, you need to ask yourself if you are ready for it.

It was very sad to read your post. Maybe you just have not met a person with whom you would like to start a family? If you ever really want to have a child, the lack of money will not stop you. Money is important, but it does not solve everything.

so happy, because in a state of sadness and pleasure,
we will deal with it together