Is there any happiness in marriage?

[Kaisar0]

Hello everyone. The subject concerns all of us. Everyone can answer the question. It doesn’t matter you are married or not. I'm interested in the opinion of each person. I tell you my point of view.

Soon I will be 24 years old, I'm not married and I think that I will not marry. There are three reasons, two of them are interrelated.

The first and second reasons are money and children. In the early nineties, the situation was different, there was confidence in the future, so there was a high birth rate. Life was easier. But now in our realities, it is very difficult for newlyweds to grow up a child, there is practically no help from the state. I was born in an ordinary family, not poor, but also not rich. All my life I wasted time to earn money. I have spent all my free money on a realization of various projects, but they were unsuccessful. Now I spend about 9-12 hours per day without weekends doing bounty. I hope this time I will be able to earn enough money to start my own business. I do not want my child to go through all these difficulties. I want him to live a happy life. So I don’t understand why poor people have children. Lack of money will lead to regular quarrels, further may lead to divorce. It will negatively affect children.

The third reason is mistrust. Many married people doubt the loyalty of a partner. So they don’t let them meet their friends, hang out and things like that, you know. If they let, they will constantly call with checks. I have a feeling that after marriage, personal life ends. In my opinion worse than adultery can only be mistrust.

[JostikSSS]

Hello everyone. The subject concerns all of us. Everyone can answer the question. It doesn’t matter you are married or not. I'm interested in the opinion of each person. I tell you my point of view.

Soon I will be 24 years old, I'm not married and I think that I will not marry. There are three reasons, two of them are interrelated.

The first and second reasons are money and children. In the early nineties, the situation was different, there was confidence in the future, so there was a high birth rate. Life was easier. But now in our realities, it is very difficult for newlyweds to grow up a child, there is practically no help from the state. I was born in an ordinary family, not poor, but also not rich. All my life I wasted time to earn money. I have spent all my free money on a realization of various projects, but they were unsuccessful. Now I spend about 9-12 hours per day without weekends doing bounty. I hope this time I will be able to earn enough money to start my own business. I do not want my child to go through all these difficulties. I want him to live a happy life. So I don’t understand why poor people have children. Lack of money will lead to regular quarrels, further may lead to divorce. It will negatively affect children.

The third reason is mistrust. Many married people doubt the loyalty of a partner. So they don’t let them meet their friends, hang out and things like that, you know. If they let, they will constantly call with checks. I have a feeling that after marriage, personal life ends. In my opinion worse than adultery can only be mistrust.

Each person has their own destiny and their own opinion and everyone has it on his faithful. Someone for marriage does not need millions, some people are just happy being together. Remember the past, that all lived richly?This was not, however, in families has always been 4,5,6 children. People weren't afraid to bring them up just because they were poor. In the family, the main understanding and love, and in love and without money people live together for 50 years. I think almost everyone had a grandparent who lived together for a long life despite quarrels and disagreements.
Now just people spoiled divorce in every second marriage and I think just because of the money.

[Aidan_Davis]

There can definitely be happiness in marriage! I love my marriage. That doesn't mean that marriage is right for you. If you don't want to have children because you don't have a lot of money, one option could be to make more money. You should keep in mind though that, even if you have a lot of money, it very well may not be the best thing to just hand your children everything on a platter. They need to learn to work, set goals and get by in life on their own. Another option could certainly be to find a wife who also doesn't want children, if you don't want them. There are women out there that don't want children. The most important thing is to do what you want. If you want to get married, get married. You'll figure out the rest as you go. You're still young. Maybe you'll change your mind and get married when you're 30 or 40. There's nothing wrong with that.

[jonemil24]

Every living thing have the instinct to reproduce, but some would fight the urge, and refuse even if it's capable. We, on top of the food chain, have the choice.

Every people around my country almost have the same ideology when it comes to marriage, and why it is important to them. Every time I meet with a relative, an old friend, and few acquaintances, they all have the same reason why I need to marry and have a child. Their reason; I will be needing my child to take care of me when I grow old. It was an absurd reason for me. It's easy to have a child, but the way of his/her life will be uncertain.

I want my child to have an impact to our society, but I am not certain if it will be positive or negative. I want my child to grow, and contribute for the betterment of society, but I have no control over my child's future.

I may consider marriage, but I will not choose to have my own child for now or never.

[fairyvibes]

Marriage doesn't really mean much, it's just a government contract.  You can love someone ans be super close without having a paper that tells you so.

[LeeMiinHoo]

We all have a different love story. What happens to others may not happen to you. You create your own story. Life will never be complete without having a partner beside you. So if one day you'll get married, don't mind what happened to other love stories. Create your own.

[Huntsman82]

You're just too young to think about that. When you're mature enough it'll come to you. I'm not saying anything bad here, for every person it's different. Some people change their opinion and get married at 30-40 or 50yrs. The main thing here is to find your own path and somebody will come along to share it. On the other hand if you still haven't changed your opinion in a couple of years then it's OK. Ultimately everything is achievable and it's all your choice. Don't think negatively on something you haven't experienced yet.

[xaxaxa]

I respect your opinion, but we need to know that in this world we are created in pairs.

by marrying we can continue the offspring and also to feel the struggle of this life with our partner our life.

[Slow death]

The first and second reasons are money and children.

this is a big problem, in my country we have something called "family planning" to educate people so that people do things thinking about consequences first. But there is another point " live alone ". have your own family is something that has no price, but at the same time this can also create great headaches. This is a complicated topic.

by marrying we can continue the offspring and also to feel the struggle of this life with our partner our life.

well, people today do not marry and they already have many children with different partners

[sempak bulong]

marriage will be happy if you marry someone you love, marriage is not about treasure but how you keep the relationship stay in harmony with your family.

[Samuel4]

Marriage is not compulsory. If you should marry, you should know why you are choosing who for marriage. Truly there is happiness in marriage only when you are espoused to the right partner and you seek Godliness with contentment. With these you will have happiness. Outside that marriage could be hell.

[CLAID]

I think yeah you can find happiness if you found the right person and if both have good understanding each other

[MarketPlaceTeam]

I married this spring and I say Yes, it's another part of happiness. Because it gave me a deep feeling of family atmosphere inside of me.

[odiakes1]

There is happiness in marriage if you find the right partner who understands you ..understanding is the bed rock for marriage success

[Aidan_Davis]

Every living thing have the instinct to reproduce, but some would fight the urge, and refuse even if it's capable. We, on top of the food chain, have the choice.

Every people around my country almost have the same ideology when it comes to marriage, and why it is important to them. Every time I meet with a relative, an old friend, and few acquaintances, they all have the same reason why I need to marry and have a child. Their reason; I will be needing my child to take care of me when I grow old. It was an absurd reason for me. It's easy to have a child, but the way of his/her life will be uncertain.

I want my child to have an impact to our society, but I am not certain if it will be positive or negative. I want my child to grow, and contribute for the betterment of society, but I have no control over my child's future.

I may consider marriage, but I will not choose to have my own child for now or never.

Individual people do have the choice, but if we all stop having children, then it doesn't matter where we are on the food chain, we will go extinct. I don't think that all humans feel the instinct to reproduce, although I agree that most do. It's always funny to me to heard female acquaintances say that they'll never have children. I have seen so many cases when, just a few years later, they are talking about how they want children. One thing I've learned in my life is that it's not a very good ideas to say such absolutely things about the future. As they say, never say never. I just say, "Right now I feel this way. Maybe in the future I will feel differently, but these are my plans for now." Things change. Love and hormones are powerful things.

[CeyCrypteon]

Many end up with divorce and some success until death so it always depends how a couple love each other

[Bennix]

There is happiness in marriage.Bible says he that find a wife will obtain favour from God.When someone get married,he would be hoping to get children which is also a blessing.when someone get married during his old age his children will take proper care of him.when someone get married,he has found a companion.
There is happiness in marriage to the extent that his wife will be cooking for him.When a someone get married he will be respected in society because he is now a full fledged man.

[Harz58]

Everyone is wired differently because of our different experiences especially while we were growing. Well personally I love children and I'd love to have one. I'm sure there's some happiness in marriage when you go into it with a positive mindset.

[xirtaeboddik]

Yes, there is! If you find the right partner, the one that God has prepared for you, at the right time, you'll be happy. So seek first the will of God and not a partner in life. If you seek Him first, He'll be the One to give the right partner for you, the one who suits you very well, who complements your imperfections and flaws. You need not worry about mistrust and money when God moves for you. For the meantime while he/she is yet to come, prepare yourself for him/her by working for your future and by building yourself to be a better woman/man for him/her.

[KELVINKENNY]

There is happiness in marriage all depends on the way the marriage is built.
The most important happiness in marriage is having children and building a strong family.