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Title: Online Relationships
Post by: SnowAugustine on October 15, 2018, 12:29:32 PM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: graceinc on October 15, 2018, 12:35:17 PM
I believe online relationships are like a black swan event, you do not expect it to happen but it may happen. Also, there is no sense of emotion or sense of oneness in an online relationship.

I had a relationship via a dating app, which lasted only for a few months. You do not develop the attachment with the person as what my experience says.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: SnowAugustine on October 15, 2018, 12:37:32 PM
I believe online relationships are like a black swan event, you do not expect it to happen but it may happen. Also, there is no sense of emotion or sense of oneness in an online relationship.

I had a relationship via a dating app, which lasted only for a few months. You do not develop the attachment with the person as what my experience says.
Why do you think it does not develop an attachment? Do you live far away from each other and only speak online?


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: sweetstar78 on October 15, 2018, 01:22:44 PM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?

After I got divorced I tried online dating, it was a teaching experience. Most men I talk to online were just looking to talk about sex. It was really weird, they would star like a normal conversation but no matter what they always ended up talking about sex. I began several "friendships" and even went on a couple of dates with some of them, they would get handsy most of the time!!
One of them after being dating for a few months asked me to lend him money and as stupid as I was I did, I never saw him or my money again.
As my real purpose what to have a serious long lasting relation mos would just stooped talking to me, on the other hand I still have a couple of friends from those times.
One of those endless night of loneliness I was roaming around in a chatroom and started talking to a guy at 2 am, at this point my conversations started with, "Are you here just looking to talk about sex?" LOL Most men said yes so I would not talk to them, but he said "Not necessarily, what would you like to talk about" and so we talked about nothing and everything all night until 5 am.

He lived not too far from me, so eventually we met, when I met him he wasn't what o expected. He was kinda shy and evasive, we were in a public place and he would be nonchalant and weird. I thought, here goes another one not worth my time. So I ended the meeting as soon as possible, as were saying goodbye I offered him a ride to the closest subways satiation and he agreed and thank me. As we got into  my car and were all alone in the dark parking lot, he turned into a different person. Confident, straight forward, demanding, so sexy LOL. He said he wanted to kiss me, and he did, we spent the rest of the afternoon together in my car talking and laughing and having a great time.

That happened 8 years ago, now we are happily married, we have a 2-year-old girl an have our business together.

I tell you all this because, I know that dating online is difficult, there are so many out there just trying to take advantage of you, or your situation, they would pry o your weaknesses and might hurt you. You must have clear in mind what you really want and what kind of person you are looking for and stick to it, don't accept anything less.  If you are patient and lucky as was I , you might find that person that fit into your madness to the tee. Don't give up just stay true to yourself!



Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Amadeo33 on October 16, 2018, 11:58:44 AM
I think you can get acquainted on the Internet, but then you need to meet in life.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: SinarG on October 16, 2018, 01:12:12 PM
I had an online relationship experience. To be honest, for me it was boring. I lacked real intimacy.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Becksinsky on October 16, 2018, 01:28:31 PM
This can be interesting. Try to meet someone on the forum. Find a person with whom you have common interests and begin to communicate regularly.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: sweetstar78 on October 16, 2018, 01:33:37 PM
I had an online relationship experience. To be honest, for me it was boring. I lacked real intimacy.

Well it requires patience and constancy!  ;D


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: SnowAugustine on October 16, 2018, 03:25:24 PM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?

After I got divorced I tried online dating, it was a teaching experience. Most men I talk to online were just looking to talk about sex. It was really weird, they would star like a normal conversation but no matter what they always ended up talking about sex. I began several "friendships" and even went on a couple of dates with some of them, they would get handsy most of the time!!
One of them after being dating for a few months asked me to lend him money and as stupid as I was I did, I never saw him or my money again.
As my real purpose what to have a serious long lasting relation mos would just stooped talking to me, on the other hand I still have a couple of friends from those times.
One of those endless night of loneliness I was roaming around in a chatroom and started talking to a guy at 2 am, at this point my conversations started with, "Are you here just looking to talk about sex?" LOL Most men said yes so I would not talk to them, but he said "Not necessarily, what would you like to talk about" and so we talked about nothing and everything all night until 5 am.

He lived not too far from me, so eventually we met, when I met him he wasn't what o expected. He was kinda shy and evasive, we were in a public place and he would be nonchalant and weird. I thought, here goes another one not worth my time. So I ended the meeting as soon as possible, as were saying goodbye I offered him a ride to the closest subways satiation and he agreed and thank me. As we got into  my car and were all alone in the dark parking lot, he turned into a different person. Confident, straight forward, demanding, so sexy LOL. He said he wanted to kiss me, and he did, we spent the rest of the afternoon together in my car talking and laughing and having a great time.

That happened 8 years ago, now we are happily married, we have a 2-year-old girl an have our business together.

I tell you all this because, I know that dating online is difficult, there are so many out there just trying to take advantage of you, or your situation, they would pry o your weaknesses and might hurt you. You must have clear in mind what you really want and what kind of person you are looking for and stick to it, don't accept anything less.  If you are patient and lucky as was I , you might find that person that fit into your madness to the tee. Don't give up just stay true to yourself!


Woah! That is a happily ever after story. Good for you that online dating was a success for you. Perhaps it's something worth trying. We nowadays spend too much time online nowadays anyway. Might as well form relationships with the people we met in there, whether as a friend or something more.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: sweetstar78 on October 16, 2018, 03:33:47 PM
Woah! That is a happily ever after story. Good for you that online dating was a success for you. Perhaps it's something worth trying. We nowadays spend too much time online nowadays anyway. Might as well form relationships with the people we met in there, whether as a friend or something more.

Of course, as in any relationship, there are problems, you can't expect to find someone perfect that never makes mistakes. We ourselves are not perfect either!!
Yes I am happy, just remember that I had to kiss tons of frogs who didn't turn into my prince LOL.  ;D ;D
As for friendships I'd love to have more friends from the forum!


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: 3lyntmy on October 17, 2018, 09:33:25 AM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?

i had experience in meet a online friend and his become my boyfriend but at the end he pass away in accident  :'( if not i think we still together now... i think maybe your fade not reach yet


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: arion6868 on October 17, 2018, 01:09:21 PM
had few before, none of them last over 2 months, and the last relationship last near to 4 years, end up still screwed up, aging is killer, now im lazy to start over again


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: UconBit on October 17, 2018, 01:37:40 PM
Friendship is a relationship, right? If it is then I've had several successful relationships by meeting people who I knew online. One is for a book group - this was from Myspace times, a long time ago. Some I met as a gaming group. Another is for a business startups group.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: logitechwow on October 17, 2018, 03:03:19 PM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?

I recommend to download online services for acquaintance on the phone, when, when crossing with a girl, you receive a notification about who she is, what her name is, pictures, etc.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: ps3o on October 17, 2018, 03:07:40 PM
It's good to find an online gf if you don't got one.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Fissytaiwo on October 17, 2018, 09:29:19 PM
Online relationship is very rampant nowadays but I don't support it in my own opinion. It might have worked for some people, but I bet it with you the percentage is very infinitesimal. A lot of people have had horrible experience through that, some people have even been killed for rituals when they arranged to meet for the first time.
Even if the relationship is through media where you see each others pictures. Always remember, FACEbook is far different from HEARTbook, so prevention is far better than cure.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: yoseph on October 18, 2018, 12:01:01 AM
It's good to find an online gf if you don't got one.
I have been in an online relationship before and I can say that it’s even more hectic and tiresome that the normal one especially when you are living in different timezones, one is going to always lose on some quality sleep because of it.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: mhine07 on October 18, 2018, 12:30:29 AM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?
There were few online relationships that succeed , but mostly do not succeed because of many problems they encountered like lack of trust to each other , because in online relationships or long distance relationships trust is the most important aspects to have a successfull relationships . Its hard to love someone whom you do not know in person and whom you do not see in person.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Lordphyl on October 21, 2018, 01:47:32 AM
Online relationship is unusually wild these days nonetheless i do not support it as i would need to suppose. it'd have worked for a handful of people, be that because it might, I bet it with you the speed is to a good degree very little. various individuals have had ghastly involvement through that, a handful of people have even been dead for traditions once they sorted resolute meet out of obscurity.

Notwithstanding whether or not the link is thru media wherever you see every other's images. bear in mind to overlook, FACEbook is much not precisely the equivalent as HEARTbook, therefore the expectation is greatly improved than fix.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: bitcoingamer8 on October 21, 2018, 02:13:57 AM
For me, online relationships are more in trust, since you two don't see each other often, you won't be able to know what they are doing from time to time and also won't be able to know who they talk to so, it really depends on you guys if you really trust each other.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: ripthesystem on October 21, 2018, 02:42:10 PM
I actually had to try it several times for quite long period, and I can say that in most cases online distant relationships are almost unbearable. It is much better to overcome yourself and start dating in real life than to have this online barrier between you. Also, don`t start this kind of relationships if you`re not ready to move - it is valid only for short period of time, then you have to decide if you`re going to take the next step.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Nicholson55 on October 22, 2018, 08:18:44 AM
Online dating is like anything - the more expectation you place on it, the higher chance there is that you are going to be disappointed if things don't quite work out like you'd hoped. Also, people are a lot more free in what they say online as opposed to what they will say in person/on the phone, which can be both a good and bad thing


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: PowerTrainCurio on October 22, 2018, 09:18:05 AM
Nowadays, the Internet isn't a sure thing, and we can not easily believe everything that happens on it or know that the person we are meeting is really what we imagine. Has a little vibration when chatting with someone online, you do not will surely reap the same feelings when you meet them face to face. Usually, it's because you have the opportunity to guess about the other when communicating online, so your thoughts and impressions will also be much "brighter".


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: SnowAugustine on October 23, 2018, 08:16:31 AM
I think people are misunderstanding the concept of online relationships in here. When I said online, I mean like what the other commenter said, meeting someone online then meeting them in real life. If you choose to have a relationship with someone who live a thousand miles away then I think it will be your fault because you chose to have a long distance relationship and an online one at that. Unless you're a rich person that could easily afford traveling. I think the key is still look for factors that you would want with anyone like meeting in a bar, in a library, in a park or wherever you meet people. The platform just becomes different.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: DaydreamRancor on October 23, 2018, 08:53:12 AM
I don't believe in online relationships. Since you only know about that person through the screen, you can't judge him or her via text messages.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Elqui on October 24, 2018, 05:58:16 AM
I’ve been on online sites chatting for years now, I’ve already met some people whom i get to know through chat, and inadmit i am like someone whom i just met in chat. Its ok if you have long distance relationship, as long as the both of you are serious in your relationship.

Distance is just a number, what matters is your love for each other.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: FosterSofia on October 24, 2018, 06:35:19 AM
As for me i think online relationships is nor quite a good idea for people nowadays.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: FunGate on October 24, 2018, 01:51:25 PM
I get the impression most of the previously divorced and in a relationship over-50-year-old I meet with baggage and kids meet their new significant others thanks to the internet. Only a matter of time before technology allows us to actually have experiences with people online instead of just conversations, so I think relationships cultivated exclusively online will become more apparent.

VR dating may become a thing once the technology improves.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Hikol on January 14, 2019, 01:08:09 PM
I don't think it is a good idea. i don't like such relationships at all


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: FlineBot on January 18, 2019, 04:05:50 PM
no way mate


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: WebdeveIoper on January 19, 2019, 05:18:21 PM
I actually met a lot of friends online, also my girlfriend who I've been dating for 7 years. Internet can be a great place.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Celbi on January 20, 2019, 07:34:01 AM
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Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: LiFiCOIN on January 20, 2019, 09:51:35 AM
I think you can get acquainted on the Internet, but then you need to meet in life.

This can be dangerous dont trust easy . Go out and meet somebody
the old way.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Siren on January 20, 2019, 11:09:18 AM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?
My girld friend and i met on facebook more than five years  ago and all i can say is the feeling continue to grow year after year,i am from asia and she’s from US but theres no barricade even if were from different cultures instead this bind us more from having more interest to learn those differences of each others.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Johnzky on January 20, 2019, 03:17:19 PM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?
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For me this is only for flirting and nothing serious because how will you love a person if  don’t even know whats his/her real name and dont know the attitude and characters,if we saw them handsome or beautiful all that we felt is lust and attraction physically nothing  emotional


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Kylebrownz on January 20, 2019, 03:38:05 PM
I didn't believe in online relationship because it can be a scam. But in circumstances where you and the girl or the guy are able to meet within a very short period it can be a bomb.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: oneblagobl on January 20, 2019, 07:01:39 PM
I had an online relationship, and I loved it. We met a girl after two months of communication, at first it was scary, and then insanely nice and warm


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: simple999 on February 07, 2019, 10:21:46 AM
You do not need to start relationships through the Internet, you can be deceived, and they are not always serious, it’s just entertainment and everything) It’s better when a person is there, so you feel more and understand whether you need to trust him.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: TIGER_ on February 07, 2019, 11:20:10 AM
I still prefer the old fashioned way of dating, where you actually see the person and actually engage in conversation. For me, online dating is just infatuation.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
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Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: crwth on February 08, 2019, 07:07:13 AM
I have known many couples who have met in online dating apps like Tinder. At first, they were ashamed to admit that they have met there and maybe it is because of the things that happen when you are using that app, you hook up. It has been the outlook of social dating apps, but it’s not always like that, not every case. In my opinion, it’s a great way to talk to a girl/guy that you have both liked, but in the end, it comes to the part where you know you want a real relationship or not.

It depends on you if you want to try it, it could work or it couldn’t, but the thing is, at least you have tried. Don’t give up, that’s the right thing to do.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: DayTrader27 on February 08, 2019, 08:02:02 AM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?

I would not recommend meeting someone online. Most people there are insane. Just FYI.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: priselive on February 08, 2019, 01:19:16 PM
I am against such a relationship, because they are built on deception, you need to know the person well, and not imagine what he is! Love living people and not virtual.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: daarul50 on February 08, 2019, 01:57:55 PM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?

It is indeed difficult to build a relationship let alone just rely on it online. Human nature remains alive in the real world, while cyberspace is only an intermediary to be able to communicate with others.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Cryptotina on February 08, 2019, 10:53:05 PM
Ahh I can't really say am a fan of online dating or something of such. But, is it not painful and dangerous some how? Sure sure at first, people know not, before they know each other. I get it... Just saying online dating is problematically exciting.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Jating on February 09, 2019, 04:00:08 AM
It's hard to keep an IRL relationship let alone online. I know a lot of people who made it, they met someone online then met irl but that's not something I could do it.

I agree. I don't know but I haven't had a relationship based on online or something. I would rather see the person face to face, see him everyday and to be with her physically.

But I guess we can't say it's a bad thing though. I have friends who met their future wives/husbands in the net, but it's not my thing though. And they are still very happy up to this day so no negative things to it, and it's a case-to-case basis.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: daniel08 on February 09, 2019, 05:06:22 AM
In this digital world where we speak to one another in different forums / social media. Play countless hours online. Some have also met / dated / had a relation ship / even married people they have met online. For those who did any of that? How is it like? I've already tried online dating but I never had a relationship with anyone from it but maybe because I did not try hard enough. Is it something that you would recommend?
online relationship is less successfull than in actual or relationship with the person you can hold and see everyday. Relationship online is just like playing with feelings , there is no mutual intact in a person it is just only for fun and tine consuming. There are many people that i saw specially in the social media sites that have relationships online but in the end it was all failure.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: Medichi777 on February 10, 2019, 08:22:45 PM

I believe that online relationships can be successful only if they meet in real life right away, otherwise there will be a failure.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: kaventt5 on February 15, 2019, 02:49:20 PM
In opposite to most commentators here, I had quite a pleasant experience in online relationships. I've been dating wth a girl, which I’ve met on Craigslist’s personals section. I agree about a lack of intimacy in such kind of dating, but this problem can be solved with face-to-face meetings. For me, Craigslist wasn’t a site for chatting, but a platform for meeting someone with similar interests. Sadly but recently it has been closed. I found a list of alternative resources here - https://websiteslikecraigslist.net/, but I don’t have an account on any of them yet, so if you will share your experience I will be grateful.


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: cristinazanes on February 15, 2019, 04:38:40 PM
I don't really recommend anything on line, as probably the real emotions are conveyed real life... also there supposed to be a vibe, but in on line world, anyone seems to show off their perfect side and less of their flaws


Title: Re: Online Relationships
Post by: micher143 on February 19, 2019, 12:34:57 AM
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Title: Re: Online Relationships
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Title: Re: Online Relationships
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