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Title: Get rid of shyness
Post by: markstivn98 on May 03, 2019, 07:14:49 PM
When I am in public or when a stranger, especially a girl, makes me feel very ashamed.
I feel my face turn red and I do not know what to speak.
Are there any tips to get rid of this shyness؟
help me


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: peter0425 on May 03, 2019, 10:37:40 PM
You need to understand why are you shy in the first place? Is there something wrong your physical appearance that made you shy? I was very shy when I was a kid, but as I mature I learn to control myself in public and gradually it just went away. What made me shy is that I stutter, but thru practice and self motivation, I was able to overcome it.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: bitcoin31 on May 03, 2019, 10:59:22 PM
If you have crush for sure you will be shy once you see her but I don't think it's normal when you see a stranger a girl who did not know her.  Unless she talking to you and you feel shy that's normal but the others I don't think so. You need to do your best to not being shy when you see a girl.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: MakeMoneyBtc on May 04, 2019, 02:28:33 PM
If you know you are a good looking guy and you wear the perfect clothes for your body while you have the perfect haircut for your head shape and you take care of yourself then you have no problem and you are so shy because you've had very little experience of this type and the more you try it the better it will get. If this is not the problem then check yourself and see if you look the best you can since this is affecting your self-confidence.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: Retina on May 05, 2019, 09:45:54 AM
Whatever you try to say, it will be eliminated. It is not a matter of one day or it is due to many pursuits You can stand in front of a mirror and try to look at yourself and you will lose your embarrassment a lot.

It's a matter of many practices.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: crwth on May 05, 2019, 10:29:15 AM
Just go out of your house and start engaging with people. They are not there to hurt you. Lol. If you want to practice talking to people and knowing what to say, try out a couple of the sites/apps below that I know

  • Tinder: Try to match with someone and try to spontaneously talk
  • Omegle: The same as above, with the same interests, I think?

Any more sites like that? I'm not fully aware of those things because I haven't tried it but I have some friends who met their current GF/BF there.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: Malsetid on May 05, 2019, 10:55:47 AM
You probably haven't been exposed to the opposite gender that much that's why you feel that way. Take time to talk to girl dude. Make friends. That shyness will naturally go away the more you talk to girls. It doesn't have to be romantically motivated, just go out there, say hi and feel your shyness evaporate.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: WinonaSilverstein on May 13, 2019, 10:54:08 AM
Try to understand that no one cares. Really. When I was young, I was stressful when I dated boys, but the right person will accept you, despite your disadvantages.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: Johnzky on May 13, 2019, 11:01:46 AM
You need to understand why are you shy in the first place? Is there something wrong your physical appearance that made you shy? I was very shy when I was a kid, but as I mature I learn to control myself in public and gradually it just went away. What made me shy is that I stutter, but thru practice and self motivation, I was able to overcome it.
That’s right because mostly the cause of this attitude is lack of self confidence and some are having inferiority complex so you must get rid of this first before you can take out that reactions

Always look at the mirror and face yourself,tell the mirror that you are confident and handsome in your own way,so from that you can have enough power whenever you are embarrassed or humiliated


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: Bitcoin Smith on May 13, 2019, 12:12:52 PM
When I am in public or when a stranger, especially a girl, makes me feel very ashamed.
I feel my face turn red and I do not know what to speak.
Are there any tips to get rid of this shyness؟
help me


You know what when iam in the public iam very shy to speak anything so i prepare myself to ask questions i think not everyone can do that but try it once i know it's not a solution but i do that.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: Fredomago on May 13, 2019, 04:28:52 PM
When I am in public or when a stranger, especially a girl, makes me feel very ashamed.
I feel my face turn red and I do not know what to speak.
Are there any tips to get rid of this shyness؟
help me

Overcoming such emotions can be developed inside you, practice to in front of the mirror and speak up whatever you like to say, you alone can resolved this issue, it's an internal setup between you and yourself, come out from that emotion issue of yours and bring out those manhood inside you.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: bonker on May 13, 2019, 10:58:37 PM
You need to get out from your home and make their experience in out of the world then only the shy feeling will get out from you otherwise it will keep confusing you in all the time.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: LUCKMCFLY on May 15, 2019, 01:58:52 AM
With girls you do not have to be shy, you should not be so shy, sometimes shyness is a weapon you can use to your advantage, because many girls are attracted but not so much, the topic of conversation is very important, but for you to be So you must have some problem like lack of confidence in yourself, maybe you should increase your self-esteem, if you are not a self-confident person to make decisions women smell it and get away, because in part women are looking for a man who always make them feel protected.

There are many things that you must correct from your way of dressing to your way of walking, because if you walk around that shows that you are insecure and that women see it, first of all I recommend that you learn to have confidence in yourself, and then girls will see that you are safe, and you will have so many topics of conversation that you will even make them laugh and that you not only have 1 but the ones you want.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: davis196 on May 29, 2019, 06:46:23 AM
When I am in public or when a stranger, especially a girl, makes me feel very ashamed.
I feel my face turn red and I do not know what to speak.
Are there any tips to get rid of this shyness؟
help me


I can't get rid of my social anxiety.
Maybe the best tip is to just practice talking to people.Eventually you will get used to it.
I can't do this,so maybe I need some professional help.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: xvids on May 29, 2019, 12:12:33 PM
Most people are shy around the people they don't know the only tip that I could give you is to think of them as a person you already knew for a long time,
Try to be friendly and act normal on how you would act to the person you already knew how you interact with your friends.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: uneng on May 29, 2019, 02:41:19 PM
Just think there is no reason for all this shyness. You might feel intimidated by the girls somehow and that makes you feel shy. Act naturally as you would do if you were among your family and closer friends.
You won't get rid of all this shyness so fast, but you need to work this emotion slowly until it is not a problem anymore.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: Daniel91 on May 29, 2019, 03:22:27 PM
When I am in public or when a stranger, especially a girl, makes me feel very ashamed.
I feel my face turn red and I do not know what to speak.
Are there any tips to get rid of this shyness؟
help me



There is no universal formula because we all have different characters.
I think it's easiest to enroll in some dance school, some course or other activity where young men and girls gather together and associate.
Good luck man!


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: drishyadubey on May 30, 2019, 08:43:48 AM
Just accept it. You'll never be at ease. You'll always distrust everyone. That's how I did it, now they can't hurt me.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: tenstois on May 30, 2019, 10:28:47 AM
you want first where those shyness came from is it how people will say to you or what people will treat you I've been there to buddy but as i mature i try to talk to people i clear my mind what they will say i just show whats me and later on you will understand the society


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: Viron on May 30, 2019, 11:21:16 AM
When I am in public or when a stranger, especially a girl, makes me feel very ashamed.
I feel my face turn red and I do not know what to speak.
Are there any tips to get rid of this shyness؟
help me

Frankly, there's no single solution that applies to all people.
That being said, when I was shy, I kinda just "ripped the band-aid off", kept getting into embarrassing situations until they stopped affecting me as much.
Initially, as you can imagine, I had a lot of sleepless nights thinking of all the painfully embarrassing moments, but over time it just started turning into confidence.
It boils down to exposure therapy, it did work in my case. There's always room for improvement however.
If you're hoping to find an easier method, I don't think there is one, but good luck either way.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: kotajikikox on May 30, 2019, 02:18:14 PM
Get rid of shyness.just put in your mind that shyness is a sign of being a coward.so if you think you are not a coward so dont be shy.be shy if your a bad person but if you think your not so dont be shy.be confident in your self think that all people are the same level.in this world no need to be shy as long as your doing good


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: omonuyak on May 30, 2019, 08:35:46 PM
When I am in public or when a stranger, especially a girl, makes me feel very ashamed.
I feel my face turn red and I do not know what to speak.
Are there any tips to get rid of this shyness؟
help me

Every habit we have, be it bad or good we do learn after we were born and that means shyness or feeling ashamed are what we developed after birth and we can unlearn it by practicing and meditation. I do seat down to thing about any habit that I don't want but mistakely developed them when I was young and through meditation clear them from my subconscious mind.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: tiptravel on May 30, 2019, 09:37:13 PM
Well, think about it, behave calmly and do not pay attention to everything


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: semobo on May 31, 2019, 05:25:00 AM
You need to speak a lot with the people around you this will very helpful for you to reduce the shyness in your mind because in all the time we cannot be like this so some kind of complexity will make you to the stage like this otherwise everyone is same in this world if you feel and understand this you can be definitely bold.


Title: Re: Get rid of shyness
Post by: whirlcoin on May 31, 2019, 07:20:40 AM
When I am in public or when a stranger, especially a girl, makes me feel very ashamed.
I feel my face turn red and I do not know what to speak.
Are there any tips to get rid of this shyness؟
help me

mostly the shy feeling only came for the people who are not facing the people in their life mostly around them if you solve this problem then everything is smooth and normal in your life.