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Sup, often gambling is blamed for making people part with their money, or casinos are blamed for existing, or government is blamed for allowing gambling in particular country, and along the lines.

Point being, just because there is gambling available, at the end of the day, it's individual's own choice that (s)he decided do it, and no one is to be blamed except oneself if something bad happens.

Do you take responsibility for your losses, or do you play blame game?

One sign of maturity is taking responsibility for your actions. Individuals who still play the blame games are irresponsible gamblers who should not be gambling in the first place, and that is a sign of immaturity. These kinds of people are the exact kind of persons that you should be cautious when introducing them to an opportunity, not just gambling, even if they feel or have an interest originally, because at the end of the day they may end up blaming you for whatever the outcome of the action that they took with their own hands.

Not the government that I will blame for everything, especially when we are talking about money management. If I have money and I waste all the money on something like drinking, women or other things, I can not blame the government. So I can not also blame the government for allowing gambling. I only see it as having freedom in the country.

I can neither blame the gambling site but to just blame myself. But I have myself not to blame also because I gamble responsibly.

There could be gamblers that blame everyone around, government, casinos and even those people that surround them. But they forget one thing, it is ourselves that really get the blame here as we have been influence to gamble or if we decided to go into this world knowing the consequences.

So there's no one to blame here but ourselves. And most likely gamblers not blaming them will fall into addiction as they don't want that responsibility within them that they should stop already as it really ruining their lives.

Gambling has been here for hundred of years, some of the gambling sites do legalized this and actually most of the budget or profit from the government comes from gambling. Now, before you gamble they always ask even in online gambling site if you are 18 years old, usually because this the common legal age where you understand the risk regarding gambling.

If you lose, it's your responsibility and it's your decision in the first place. Though I understand that people blame gambling site because they are frustrated but in reality they know that it's their choice in the first place.

Not the government  is to be blamed for allowing gambling in a particular country, nor the casino is to be blamed for existing in the first place, because gambling is a choice. You are the one to decide wether to be part of it or not, so if you decide to be part of it with your money then gamble responsibly and with the money you can afford to lose. So if you decide to gamble irresponsibly and lose all your money blame yourself for that act and not the government for allowing gambling to exist in your country nor the casino for existing in the first place.

If the gambler isn’t responsible for his losses than who is? I think the whole idea of trying to place blame in the first place is a bit misguided. You’re paying for entertainment, so if you are looking to blame someone for you not being happy with your purchase than I guess you could blame the casino for not being entertaining enough, but it would be better to just find a form of entertainment you do enjoy.

People who blame casinos or government for allowing them to operate when they lose are those that wants to reap where they did not sow. There aims are to double their money in casinos forgetting that the casinos also wants to make profit from them. They might not know that the casinos have higher chances of taking their money than they have of winning from the casinos. Gamblers should keep an open mind when gambling, they should understand that casinos wants you to lose as much as you want to win their money. There should be no hard feelings when you lose because if you win they are obligated to pay you.

Blames are usually activated when there had become some negative results. There in gambling, the only form the casino or a casino is when they cheat players or behind the scene of outsider (s) succeeding to steal users funds of documents in their platform.

It is the right of the governments to maintain orderliness in the society including the economy. Authority of the governments over individual could be limited so, we don't expect them (government) to always interfere at all course because we either don't like them deciding for us. So they are not to be blamed when gamblers looses so bad to be crying out unless they (government) are self centered overlooking reputations and their obligations to care for the people.

I play the blame game, but only in my mind. I don't say it out loud. Sometimes I find online casinos super unfair with their RTP, and I think that should change.

Still, I don't want anyone to hear me crying about my losses because it's my own fault in the first place. It's ourselves that must be blamed for letting our emotions get the better of us, and sadly, it happens quite often. Blame the game, blame the government, or whatever. If it could somehow put an end to our madness, then do it. Just do not say it out loud to avoid getting into trouble.

Before anyone gambles or join gambling they should at least try to bear the risk involved while gambling and also it's important to gamble with what they can afford lose and anyone who gambles with the amount that is extremely low or amount they didn't attach any meaningful things when they lose it they wouldn't for any day regret or blaming anyone for their loses that is why we must take responsibility while gambling. Gambling is sweet when you allocate smaller amounts and also gambling for fun without at least attaching so much meaning to money used in gambling.

I take full responsibility for my loss. So that, I can know where I went wrong and work on that part not to fall into more losses in future. This also help me checkmate my gambling activities on when not to gamble for a while after a big loss.

If i don't take the responsibility of my losses, it will make me continue doing the same mistake over and over again, because I will always put the blame on people. Our inner mind do tell us the right thing but sometimes, we ignore and do the opposite.

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i blame myself, does that count as blame game?

Some people are not actually playing for entertainment but playing to make money. That is where their problem will begin as they are full of greedy mindset. They will gamble and bet but they will be losing more and more and it will get to to the point that they will lose all their money. They will become depressed and blame all on gambling sites, not even the government but the gambling sites that they are losing from.

It's crazy for someone to even blame their irresponsible gambling behavior on something else meanwhile they are supposed to hold their self accountable for their actions. When someone does that, it means that the person doesn't even want to change from any irresponsible behavior that they are already exhibiting. I don't gamble with any money that I can not afford to lose but if I do and I lost the money, I can not put the blame on anyone but myself.

If there was no gambling, people would be addicted to something else. They would lose their money in something else. Most things in the world are made with a focus on their moral use. But people gradually turn it into a negative side. I know that the consequences of being addicted to gambling can be terrible, yet we often slowly become addicted to gambling.

Honestly, I don't see the gambling side of things as a cause of harm to people. In fact, those who are facing losses are themselves inclined to losses because they also knew that the consequences of being addicted to gambling would be bad.
Yes, we can compare it with sauce, just as sauce makes food attractive. Different types of gambling sites also arouse people's negative attitudes more.

Every one is to be held responsible for their actions whether the outcome is good or bad. Let me ask you; would you blame casino houses if since you started betting, you have won more than you have lost? People usually get antsy and shift blame to others but themself when things don't go their way so it's not a surprise.
Personally, I like to blame outcomes and circumstances when a game I staked doesn't go my way but later tell myself the truth and observe it, when you take responsibility for your actions, it's easy to live yourself when things don't go your way.

Do you not ever find yourself blaming somebody else for something bad that happens to you? Yes, everything that happens to ourselves, we are entirely responsible for it but that doesn't mean people don't play blame game.


Nope. Very meaning of phrase, 'blame game' is to blame somebody/something else rather than ourselves.

Someone who understands responsibility and accepts their losses can be considered an adult who can answer for their actions. However, the world is such that it is easier to blame all your mistakes on others. There are many to blame: a difficult childhood, a bad country, and teachers who did not explain and educate enough. Gambling is also on the list of the guilty; some believe that it is not entertainment but a way to earn money. Blaming everyone around is childish behavior, and until people understand this, they will be unhappy, since the way out of their accusations lies within themselves.

The more we blame other parties (the game, the casino, government, advertisement, influencer, or even your friend), it will make us even worse. We should blame ourselves on the risk of anything we do in life including gambling. However we would not have to blame ourselves if we know how to gamble responsibly. Start to find someone to blame including ourselves is just showing that we are not mature enough and we are not responsible enough because if we are responsible enough in gambling, we should have realize that lossing is part of gambling.

Why blame others when you are the one who took the action? It's ridiculous to blame others...

Every individual must be aware of their responsibility for their losses in gambling because they cannot blame others or the platform itself since they are just a business and we are customers, so of course we must be aware of that.

If I have gambled, it means I am prepared for the loss...

If I happen to lose big money I often don’t blame anyone but me. Other people or casinos might manipulate you into making big bets but they didn’t force you into doing anything. It used to be different for me though. I fell for those traps before and I blamed them for tricking me. It didn’t solve anything. I learned from that mistake and improved my habits and become the way I am today. You see those who say they wouldn’t blame others usually are the types that don’t lose big money to gambling in the first place. Those who lose big money, they mostly blame the casino. It is an interesting loop which most people can’t escape.

The government is collecting huge tax from this gambling site in their countries, the government really do not care about the amount you lose in gambling provided the betting companies are paying their taxes, and the government will not force you to play it, either do the betting site force you to pay. Its a personal choice to play or not, the outcome is your responsibility not the government.

I take full responsibility for my lose and my gain, because no one force me into gambling, i registered the app on my phone and input my details, blame game wont stop the operation, if one is not favor in gambling step aside, it not do and die affairs, its a win to win game, when you win the bookies cry, and when you lose the bookies smiles to the bank.

At the end of the day, when you consider your own profit or loss statistics, you are the one responsible for it. Blaming others for your losses is a sign that you are an incompetent gambler. You can blame others when you lose badly or you play according to the advice of others and lose a lot. There are some casino sites where you may lose even when you are very close to winning, at that time it may seem that someone has deliberately beaten you. You should remember that the casino developers are prepared to make you lose, so you should be prepared to lose and gamble for fun. You should blame yourself for your losses in gambling. Blaming others may not be the right decision for you.

Everything that members have mentioned is that the responsibility lies within the individual; I agree with this. It's a choice, and only the person who does it would be liable and accountable. It's just immature, as others have said, to blame other people.

There should be some ethical practice and education on this that you should accept and take accountability for. Find a support system or surround yourself with people who would say what you need to hear.

If you gamble to only make profit and you don't watch your back then you should also take responsibility for not watching your back. Gambling responsibly is not playing the blame game.



Nah ... Blaming yourself doesn't count as blame game. Blame game is when you try to shift blame to another person, third party being intervening occurrence or object. But if you take the blame, it means you have also taken responsibility for the action that would have caused blame. Taking blame save alot of headache

It's pretty obvious that gambling is a personal decision so there is no one to be blame, since you are not force to gamble, it is left for you to make informed decisions on your own and gamble responsibly. Because gambling is not something to rely on heavily since luck have the besic role in determining the final outcome, there is no need to worry about making a living through gambling because it is only when you don't have a self control in gambling that would going to put the blame on gambling without realizing that you are the cause of your losses and blame.

I agree with OP, it's the sole responsibility of anyone who decides to gamble, No matter what happens, they have to accept their role, whether as a winner or a loser.

It's not easy for some players to accept this, There are players whose egos are affected when they lose, and that's why they make decisions that have nothing to do with responsibility because they lose control, Things just have to be accepted, I didn't accept them before , but now that I know how the casino system works, I have to assume my responsibilities when I lose.

The casino is not supposed to be blamed; instead, gamblers are supposed to take responsibility for how they approach gambling. Gambling is a game that is unpredictable, and the casino understands that winning is not guaranteed.

 This must be the reason why every gambler needs to gamble consciously with an amount they can afford. If you enter gambling with a mindset of greed, you are likely to lose all your money, and in the end, you will want to hold the casino responsible for decisions made by you. Understand how gambling works and accept it as it is, because nothing guarantees winning.

We need to understand the value of our mistakes, because valuable experience is gained from this, which does not allow us to repeat them in the future. And, of course, this is very much true for gambling or betting, because this is not just a hobby, these are games for real money.
It is better to blame yourself once again than someone else, because in any case, in gambling, the gambler takes some responsibility, because no one presses the bet button forcibly for him.

If there are still people who blame casinos for their existence, then there is something wrong with their logic. For me, individuals are responsible for all their actions and decisions. It doesn't matter what factors influence them because their actions are driven by their own decisions, whether they realize it or not. It is absolute that they are in control of themselves. Gambling exists to provide entertainment for those who want it and are ready mentally for it.

Ahh. Who else if not me?
Okay let me boil down, I'm surfing the internet and I came across gambling Ads and quickly downloaded or visits the site and begin to gamble all because of the atmosphere rhe Ads make it look like winning in gambling is as easy as displayed in the Ad without doing research if it was a genuine site or not and I finally loose my money to scam, therein who's to be blamed? Of course myself out of my ignorance.
What if it's a genuine site and I looses out of irresponsible gambling personality of me, who's to be blamed? Same me because I failed to take control of my emotions with my expectations. And in all, I fail to follow responsible gambling plans and self disciplines. So apparently it's all my fault to be blamed.

Totally depend on a certain individual because there are those people who do easily realize with their mistakes and there are those people who cant just that accept into the current errors that they are facing. Whenever they do believe that they can make money then they would be pushing up themselves to play no matter what even if it means that they would be busting up all of their budget and even making deposits more. This is where people do messed up their lives just because they've been that delusional into the things on which arent supposed to be done in the first place. Gambling is just that for fun and if you dont treat it up just some sort of income or making it as a living then you wont be having any problems but if you are that doing the opposite then expect that you would definitely be messing up your life on. Its important that self realizations on things on what you are dealing on with and act according into it.

Blaming? It would be mostly into the casino and not into yourself on which there would be those individuals who would be that pointing out their fingers into the casino and saying that they arent fair or something is fishy going on and not to accept out that they arent that lucky enough on making some good wins. Actually, gamblers would be always on the losing side and thats the fact. It will be that a total mess if you do have this kind of approach towards gambling. It should be that doing for fun and entertainment and not the other way around. There are just that those people who are that being delusional in regarding to this one.

Yes, I take responsibility for my losses. I know that can happen anytime so I will be careful using my money to play gambling. I don't want to see the loss become big so I limit the amount of money.

You don't have to blame other people because you choose to gamble to have fun. You should know the risk and the consequences so you only use the money you can afford to lose. Besides that, no one forces you to play gambling so that will be your responsibility.

Nobody pointed a gun on my head forcing me to gamble. It's my choice to use my hard earned money to gamble. I see people blame massive gambling promotion as the cause of their excessive betting habits. The reason why gambling is restricted to a certain age is because they want only people who are mature enough to take full  responsibility for their actions to gamble. Anyone who blame an individual, organisation or government for his lias shouldn't be gambling. That's why it is better to gamble with only what you can afford to lose.

Gambling is like smoking, non-smokers blame smokers, and smokers blame the industry. The cycle is similar. It's a business chain where no one is to blame. Smokers can't be blamed for smoking. Gamblers can't be blamed for gambling as long as it doesn't harm others. Finally, at the end of the chain, existing regulations aren't to blame too, they are exist to save gambler from fraud. What should we do? we just needs to support them in quitting, if possible. If that's not possible, let them gamble with their own money and take responsibility for their actions.

Gambling is a risky and uncertain game. You cannot blame anyone here, and you must remember that you yourself participated in gambling by complying with all the conditions of taking the risk. Before opening a gambling account, you should first understand the risks of gambling and then open an account. If you lose a huge amount while gambling, you cannot blame anyone but yourself for this loss. I participate in gambling knowing the ultimate risk, and if I lose money on gambling, I console myself and try to refrain from gambling for a while.

I take full responsibility of my losses simply because I’m the one who chose to gamble. It’s a weak excuse to blame someone for your loss while others don’t control or force you to gamble at.

People that keep blaming others are not practicing responsible gambling that’s why they will never take responsibility on their losses.

There’s always a person like this. We can’t convince others to act responsible so I always just ignore them and focus on my life.

I always take responsibility for my losses, and I guess that's how it should be.

I feel sad for those gamblers who are blaming the casino itself because they lost a significant amount of money. Little do they know that it's their wrong decisions that's the reason why they lost their money. As for me, if I lose, I take responsibility and because I take responsibility, I just simply move on from it because at first, I already knew the risks and consequences of gambling, and I already knew that there's a high chance that I might lose my money.

Gamblers who are blaming the casino or other people with their losses are those who can't take they lost. Those are the ones that have a different mindset, and think too much about winning.

There's nothing else to blame here but by ourselves, at the first place its our money so its our responsible, its our choice and its our action to make a deposit to the casino so if we didn't win those money back or at least earned profit through out playing, its all our accountability with this well some people just using a defense mechanism is use to blame so at least they can spread the angry or their emotions and give a reasonable explanation to them so make them feel more comfortable but again its your choice not other to push you out to play a game.

Everyone should be responsible for their actions, but we also need to make sure that young people don't have casino advertisements literally appearing right under their noses every day, 24 hours a day, non-stop. Likewise, any government that cares about the well-being of its citizens must approach the problem of gambling addiction seriously in a way that enables people to self-disconnect from gambling and to provide them with professional help if they ask for it.

Gambling should be fun, it should not turn into an addiction that benefits no one but only creates a big problem.

The more you are able to accept your losses and take responsibility of it the better your gambling life. This is because people who tend to blame the game most of the time have the higher chance of having the urge to deposit more and eventually lose it all in trying to collect back what the game took from them. As a gambler is important for you to accept the loss even before the loss comes that way will you face no emotional draw down if you eventually lose the game.

I believe those who are into gambling today knows that gambling is a very risky game that also work with chance and luck so i see no reason why we should be putting the blame on something when we already know about this. I take full responsibility of every loses that occurs, and that is because I know that in gambling there is nothing like confident or  sure game, if you predict and it works just see yourself as a lucky person in that initial time because you might try the next minutes and fail. Though some person's fail to understand this before going into gambling that is why whenever they experience lose in gamble instead of taking responsibility for their lose they would want to transfer the blame to the team.

While peoples are winning then no one is to be blamed because it's going good and entertainment is also at his best which is fun for everyone who is enjoying with this money, but while loses It's started from government who allow these casinos and then casinos are also responsible for this shit as well.
Culprit is coming at the end because he is also victim lost money have stress which is not good for his health and this lost money is also going to be created problems for his family because now they are also facing consequences this society is also responsible they never tell us negativity of these casinos.
Need change with educations which can bring change and give good awareness to peoples about things like these otherwise always ready for these and blame game as well.

Part of being a responsible gambler is taking responsibility for all your actions in the casino; we should not place the blame on the casino just to defend our actions.
Some gamblers are blaming everything but themselves. I have seen accusations on the scam section blaming the casino, but after investigation, it turns out that he cannot accept his losses.

Why blame others when we're fully aware that we're playing the game with all its risks and consequences? We should blame ourselves for losing control. Self-control and the ability to recognize limits are key to gambling. We also need to understand that the outcome of gambling is often unpredictable and that the possibility of losing money is part of that responsibility. When someone begins to feel like they're losing control, it's important to pause and evaluate.

Being responsible is an important part that must be done so as not to blame other parties when losing in gambling. Gambling is not for individuals who are weak-minded or easily frustrated when losing, everyone needs to have a strong mentality because gambling never guarantees victory for anyone. If you want to find fault, then you should blame yourself, that's what every gambler who often loses should do. If you feel the risk level is greater than the luck, then never approach gambling.

Accepting to endure losses is a large component of self-control in gambling. Continuing to blame the game will only serve to make a bad situation worse as you would simply continue to chase losses. The fact that we can lose at any time would imply the ability not to panic, but to think of more logical actions.

While everything is interconnected, the most important factor is the individual. Gambling is a personal choice, and we must be aware of and understand the potential negative consequences if we don't gamble responsibly.
Casinos also play an important and responsible role. If they advertise transparently and don't operate in inappropriate or unsafe locations, there's the potential for minors to become involved. And if that happens, it's not the children's fault, as they are still very young and don't yet have the mindset to gamble responsibly and play cautiously, which can negatively impact their development. While parents also play an important role, careless and fraudulent casinos can negatively impact many parties, even reputable ones.
And governments have a crucial role in regulating and strictly enforcing laws regarding the legality or illegality of casinos in their countries. Furthermore, governments should continue to educate and advertise more about the dangers of gambling on social media, television, and other platforms where many people use or watch it, helping them be more cautious.

I don't think we should entirely blame ourselves or individuals. We gamble because it exists and is available. If neither of these existed, we wouldn't be here, and this is what makes me say that everything is interconnected.

A gambler may reach a point where their conscious decisions suddenly become emotional decisions. This usually happens when gamblers start to tilt due to a long losing streak. It's obvious that in this state, they will start to blame the casino rather than themselves.

There was nothing to blame, for me when I went to gamble, I went to bet on, of course, in betting someone won and lost, I knew that and if one happened to me, of course I had to accept it.

When I lost, of course I will blame myself, because I am too stupid to win the game and if I win, of course I will blame their casino operators stupidly unable to beat me.

The point: we all understand that gambling is money, where gambling is certainly spending money, so if we know that why we also go there, don't we have the mind to think good and bad.

I am blaming myself, but i definitely see how that's not the case with everyone. Even in this forum, people blame their faulty tactics, thinking that there's a winning tactic. Or casinos because they can't understand statistics and therefore casinos must be rigged.

It's not usually gamblers that blame the society, but people close to them that it's affecting. People who see closely that gambler doesn't have enough capacity for self-direction, and is very susceptible to marketing, especially when that marketing implies that they can be rich because of gambling. And these people exist. They can't protect themselves more then kids can protect themselves.

As someone with intellect and wisdom, he certainly wouldn't blame others for his losses. Indeed, the one to blame is himself, not anyone else or anything else to vent his frustration over defeat or loss of money.

It's usually the foolish who always blames others.

I take 100% responsibility of my losses because i already have in mind that gambling is a game where the chances of losing is high. I can't blame anyone including the person that introduced me to gambling because the final decision is left for me. I can't also blame the casinos that introduced gambling because they already told us to gamble responsibly which means that if you fail to take responsibility of your gambling, it's your own blame to take not anyone else.

Take the blame to yourself, at the first place you are the one who decide to play and gamble. Well gambling is fun and it should stay fun at all.
Dont gamble and take the risk of losing your money, just take a part of it which you can lose, remember! when you press theplay and start gambling the money you put on that casino considered gone.
Just enjoy the game and play well, if you win thats the bonus, and be sure you know when to stop!

I don't shift blame on anyone and don't count it as what should be done for any reason, because the reason why everyone of us is gambling may varies, despite it is not expected that we all have the same reason for gambling, it is also important that we know this about gambling, losses will come and we better prepare ourself down for it, which is why we also encourages for taking gambling as fun and nothing more.

I gamble consciously, with my own devices, time, and money. There is no need to blame anyone because losing is indeed part of the risk that I should be prepared to accept.
From the perspective of a family with a member who has become a gambling addict, they will likely blame the casino or the government for not enforcing strict regulations on gambling. However, they do not understand that the problem lies with the gambler, not the gambling place. They only think that if gambling is prohibited, gamblers will no longer be able to gamble. In fact, that is a big misconception.

Playing in a casino isn’t for you if you tend to blame others. You’ll end up shaming yourself if you lose, and then you’ll blame the casino.
You should understand how a casino works, what the house edge is, what gambling is and the probability that you are going to lose.
Without understanding, you are likely to blame the casino, ignorant of how a casino works, excuses no gambler.

If you decide to gamble, the responsibility lies entirely with you. Whether you win or lose, you must be prepared to accept the consequences and not blame others. Simply put, casinos never force you to gamble, they simply create marketing narratives to make their platforms appealing. Whether you’re tempted by the promise of big wins or enticing bonuses is entirely your choice. The most important thing is that you fully understand how to register and play on their site, and when you lose then don't blame them.

It is our choice and hence the responsibility is ours only to be blamed for the loss. But some gamblers will become childish and put the blame on the game or that the game is rigged. This comes from a false perception that it is possible to beat the casino at its own game.

With proper knowledge of how these games work, it might even lead to that gambler stopping gambling and opening a casino on their own to operate. If you understand the math, you will reconsider playing at all.

If kept under a lid, it can be fun - then you would not be blaming anyone.

The loser always blames someone else.

Have you ever seen a winner blame the casino, gambling, or anyone else? I haven't either.

Any gambler knows the rules and conditions of the casino. It is his personal choice to agree with this and play (take a risk), or refuse and pass by.

If the choice is made in favor of gambling, and this led to a loss, then you should not look for someone to blame.

The responsibility always lies with the gambler.

A gambler has no one or the game to blame for his loses, rather the blame should go to the individual engaging in gambling. The truth is as an adult you should learn to take responsibility of your actions and don't try to put the blame on anyone.
Gambling is a choice just like every other thing in life, you can either choose to engage in it or you don't. Despite the fact that we have a lot of people Gambling,  we also have those that don't engage in it. So it will be foolish to blame the government, casinos,  or betting companies for your loses,  because you have a choice and you are not forced to gamble.

You are right about this not being able to accept responsibility of our actions is childish and such person has a long way to go and when it comes to introducing anyone to an opportunity it is best you throw it at them at a sight for them to make their own personal decisions after the risk and the potential benefits has been made known to them, gambling is never and should never be done by force, it is very simple game where if you can't risk it don't gamble it so you don't blame anyone at the end when things didn't work as expected, it is only natural to think and do anything in the direction taken responsibility for whatever becomes of the outcome.

I take full responsibility for all the losses I have had during the time of gambling and also all my wins too. I hate the blame game and it is actually stupid to blame a casino for one's losses. It tells me one that that the person is not mature enough to gamble. I do not even blame the government for it. Why should I? Even the governments are doing their best to make sure that casinos are regulated. The other time, I think it was the government of Brazil that put in effort to regulated casinos so as to reduce underaged gambling. Gambling is about taking full responsibilities for one's action and if a person is not ready to do it then, they shouldn't be gambling.

Brave to recognize the losses received instead of blaming the casino or country that allows gambling.
Blame the casino for the loss of money because we play gambling, for me just like blaming the parents who have given birth to us.
The purpose of the casino is not forcing people to gamble but the gambler himself forgot himself that the casino is not a place to try his luck.

If a gambler cannot take responsibility for his losses then he should not be gambling, it's proper to always hold yourself accountable for your losses because you were not compelled or forced to gamble by the bookies or casino. Responsible gambling is always encouraged to avoid regretful feelings, this is actually what makes gamblers blame the. Casinos for their own careless mistakes

Blaming is a habit, I'm not a kind of person who like to blame someone when something happen, instead I blame myself.

But I don't see the need to blame for losing in gambling, it's for entertainment, so the result should be no one get blamed.

If a government completely ban gambling, I don't think it's a right thing because it forbid people to get fun or explore their potential, not to mention there are so many illegal casinos now. What's the point to forbid people to gamble in legal casino, but they gamble in illegal casino right?

I follow the philosophy of self-accountability; no one will be blamed for something I decide to do. If I gambled and lost the money, I alone am responsible. But for others, it's easier to find someone else to blame; some people lack the maturity to own up to their choices.

It's natural for many people to always blame others for their failures instead of blaming themselves. Just look at how those at the top of government behave most of the time. They blame their failures on others. So, society itself has developed this sad habit of believing that the blame must always lie with others. Consider the case of the countries that banned Bitcoin; their governments claimed gambling was to blame.

They simply ignored the fact that each person has a brain to think and make decisions for themselves, and that gambling is just computer programs; they don't speak or think. It's the people who misuse the program (gambling) who are to blame. But the governments of these countries don't care about that.

Let me ask you a question- with all the freedom in the world that you have, do you commit any crimes like murder, thievery, and other related crimes?

The answer is obvious: NO.

With all the freedom and discipline that a person has, he/she will not commit any crimes because we understand that there are consequences with our decisions. Same in gambling- if you tend to over commit and lose your self-control, then there is no other person to blame but yourself. Sure, gambling can be access easily but addiction can be avoided if a person exercises all the self-discipline and responsibility of their decisions.

Blaming others for your gambling losses is natural but it's also unacceptable,I see no reason why should blame others for their actions and decisions taken intentionally.The failures from lack of responsibility and accountability so far is a threat to people's self worth and reputation,they're never bold enough to own up or defend their choices.

if you don't blame yourself for your losses, your relationship with gambling will not last very long.

if you blame the player who failed to score a goal for the team you bet on, rather than yourself for placing that bet, you are making a big mistake psychologically and logically. first of all, when you placed the bet, you were already risking a certain amount of money. that risk included the possibility of players not scoring goals or the opposing team's goalkeeper making a great save. that's why there's a chance of losing in gambling.

but if you set up your bet as if it were already going to win and then blame others when your wishes don't come true, you won't be able to fix your own mistakes.

Should we say blaming can be good so that he can quit easy?  It seem a good idea already when you say it that way.

If he is not to blame himself, I think he can blame the casino where he plays and that would be alright so that he can move on and leave gambling once and for all. It should be an easy window to look through what is happening to him and then just something to realize for himself.  And if he isn't going to do this, he may not get out easy from gambling.

People who keep pointing fingers or blaming others, even when they are part of the problem themselves, often have problematic behavior, sometimes even a narcissistic personality disorder or just part of the effect of problematic gambler. This kind of behavior is not limited to gamblers, it can be found in all walks of life.

Too many people are wrapped up in cotton wool bubbles these days and act like nothing bad should ever be done to them. It's a bad way to live because there are evil people out there who will prey on this kind of weakness and people need to learn to defend themselves. There's recent examples where banks in my country are being forced to repay victims of scams, even though they have to pass through ten screens (exaggerating) warning them about various scams and to be very careful when they are sending money. Some people lack personal responsibility and just want someone to blame when things go wrong, instead of looking at themselves in a mirror.

In life, when an individual choose to take risk, there's no reason to blame him self or anyone for it. Risk is all part of our daily life and actually people who take risk are those who makes it big on the long term. But you have to know that not all kinds of risk are worth your taking. Some kind lead to financial mistakes, losses or even death. You have to make good plan along side the kind of risk you wish to make.

In countries where the government puts a lot of laws against gambling, it's not that bad. The government sometimes makes decisions for the betterment of their people. Most gamblers ruins their entire life trying to make a fortune...

But it is even funny in the first place to blame anyone for our gambling loss, although I agree with that gambling is for people that can stand on their without being shaken by anything, those that are responsible for their actions not people that like apportioning blame to others, your points are very accurate but one thing I will want to ask is, so people still don't understand the part of gambling that has to do with losing, if such people do exist, then it is better they take a break from gambling and may school themselves about that, I think for a gambler to understand that losing will continue to occur from time keep his or her mind at rest.

To many responses on here I would say it's easier said than done, people will drop the expected answer, that casinos are not to be blame, but let the real loss hit them, they will find ways to point at the casinos as the reason why they have lost their money. I've read alot of claims that gamblers dropped online including this forum and when I carefully look the situations of things I always see that 90% of the time gamblers are to be blame.

The real problem is all about risking too much than they can handle, they got greedy and the nature of gambling dealt with them good, if I lost a lot of money to gambling it's all my fault, I've never blamed a casino before, there are times where I gambled for weeks and noticed that I don't win anything, I quit for a whole week and came back later then things changed a bit. It doesn't matter, what is very important to me is how much I am risking, if I can afford the loss then i am all in.

It is always written boldly as caveat in most casinos that you should gamble responsibly which means that your decisions as a gambler and the outcome is entirely your responsibilities and not that of anyone, not even your government. There is a reason age is a factor in gambling because at certain age, it is expected that you should be able to make decisions and accept responsibilities for such decisions. Gamblers are advise to strictly gamble with what they can afford to lose, that is the only way to maintain sanity as a gambler.

Perhaps this is normal in gambling? Sometimes I blame others when I'm on a losing streak, especially the casino itself. Lol, maybe it's because this common behavior makes us unaware of mistakes that are not our responsibility.
Sometimes I ask people this question, “Do you blame the casino?” The answer is almost always YES, which means that this is indeed a distraction when losing due to an outburst of emotion. :D

I take responsibility myself for my losses, and act accordingly, setting up my monthly limits and allocating only the money I'm willing to lose, no matter what happens during the games.

But I don't blame on those who play the blame game either: there are people with a worse education, less experience and more susceptible to manipulation, that can feel betrayed by the system at some point, and not without reason.

I take full responsibility for my losses, I have no reason to blame the game or the casino for my losses. I had a need that I think the game and casino can fix for me before I decided to go there. If I didn't go there, I wouldn't have played the game and I wouldn't have lost my money. So it was entirely my decision to go and play the game. The fault is mine and I take the blame. Whoever that's blaming the game or the casino are wrong.

From the realist point of view. It is the casino that should be blamed because if the casino was not available at the first instance the person wouldn't play the games and loss money there.
From realist point of view advertisement by the capitalists is a violation of human right because what you might not like to buy or participants but because of the way it is presented to you, you buy the product or participate in the service which ordinarily you might not like to do it. So I blamed the casino for the loss of the gambler.

90% of the blame goes to the person, the remaining 10% is divided between the government and businesses. Businesses could operate more ethically to discourage addictions and losing a lot of money, but they don't they would destroy any number of lives just to make a single dollar. Governments on the other hand are corrupt as they receive money and gifts to not create rules which would force businesses to act ethically.

Quite a dumb take. If I murder someone it is not my fault, I will blame the gun for existing. Genius.

Most of the time if a gambler doesn't want to admit his mistake he'll find ways to blame someone, as he can't admit that everything happened because he allow it to happen, and to excuse himself he'll not going to take the blame and not to take full responsibility of his actions, though there are also gamblers who can simply admit things out and move forward knowing that there's nothing can be changed even they blame someone it won't take back their losses.

That's the ridiculousness of people. Blaming something that can only harm someone when they make a wrong decision is unreasonable, because after all, the decision rests with each individual gambler.

Furthermore, there is no coercion or even threats from any party, especially the casino, to gamblers to continue gambling or to pursue winnings. This means that every action taken is based on the gamblers' own decisions.

It's incredibly frustrating to see gamblers blaming others for their losses, even though it's clear from the start that such is the risk of gambling; they are the losers.

I am done in the blaming the game or anyone that I just want to point out for my losses. It makes no sense when we're older and have grown already.

We are to blame ourselves with all of the losses that we're making because no one is there to do that to us.

But if it happens that someone is blaming us for their losses as well, we'll counter react on it and we'd tell them to stop gambling. And that will be the same scenario for us if we are to blame anybody for our losses.

If casino's were really at fault every person on the planet would be gambling or addicted. Since this is not the case, the valid conclusion is that it is the responsibility or fault of the individual. Many people have issues admitting that they have made mistakes, so they may even blame Satan for this but not themselves.

I am with you! People who do this are the biggest failures in life, complete and total losers.  :)

As a gambler you would start becoming more mature when you take control of your decisions and hold yourself accountable for your losses...not quite long ago I read about a gambler that requested a refund of his stake that he lost from the casino...it was very funny to me because it was a childish behavior been displayed by an adult.. blaming the casino for your losses is a sign of irresponsibility

If a gambler blames the government or blames the casino system after gambling in the wrong way or blaming the person he has learned about gambling, then I would say that the gambling has very little general knowledge. But no casino has requested a gambler to gamble with personal messages, but that gambler has gambling or gambling or using an online casino to gamble. Before gambling, the gambler must have known that the result would be some amount of profit in favor of the result, but if the result is against, the more money he gambles with the more money he will lose everything. After knowing all these things, if a gambler starts gambling with a low understanding of gambling and if he loses money and if he blames someone else for losing this money, he will make himself a fool by doing this.

I highly agree with you on what you have stated.  All the decisions and control lies with the person himself.  Although there are external factors that attract a person to gamble, advertisement and promotions, it is not something that coerces him to do something against his will nor blackmail him to follow the gambling platform to gamble.  It is the person own voluntary action to gamble.  If the person does not decide to gamble himself, no one can force him to spend any money and gamble it away regardless of the session result.


It is my own decision to gamble so definitely it is my responsibility, whatever the outcome is.  Blaming other people or the casino for my own decision is not a moral thing to do and will have a negative on me in the long run.

Sometimes I can blame the game, the platform or anything else (maybe blame a friend that distracted me) but it's just an involuntary act or an act of pouring my frustration on something else to just easy off the mind but deep in my mind I still take the responsibility by myself because I was not forced to gamble and if I had not gamble I wouldn't lose my money. I don't know how other gambler react but even if a gambler blame someone or something for their losses, they still have that thought in their head that they were not forced to gamble, so they are supposed to accept the responsibility or stop gambling.

I don’t think everyone should be responsible for your own losses because you knows exactly what gambling is and you went straight to bet or put in your money; irrespective of what happened along the line, you have yourself to blame even if there is a system error because you know it’s a very risky game and if you win you will take the money.

Casino platforms are increasing everyday, I don’t think government can take control over it anymore because people will have to bed despite the restrictions, that is why you can’t blame government cause if they completely restrict gambling, you will blame them; therefore, take responsibility of what you are into yourself because you are not an underage that don’t know what he /she is doing.

Yo want to blame someone else for your loss? Were you compelled to gamble? Gambling is a game of risk which everyone know even before placing the first bet and accepting those risk means accepting responsibility as well. So no one is to blame for losses in gambling, not the casinos and not even the government. Blaming another for losses is even looking like a sign of irresponsibility. 

As for me, i don't see the need of placing blame on anyone or anything, because the final decision in gambling lies on us, which is our own personal discretion in deciding on whether to gamble or not, so why should the blame be made on anything around us that does not constitute the decision making process before we place a bet, we are to also have in mind that gambling should be taken base on our affordability on it, which some may be able to take the risk to play a bet, lose the money and take the fun out of it, because that's how they see it.

I do take responsibility for my losses. I am the one to place the bet and no one forces me to do that nor anyone dictates me what to do. I'm playing the blame game only to myself and there is no one that I have to put that blame for. Shame on those gamblers that until now, with all of the years they have been gambling and still tries to find fault to the others with all of the mistakes and decisions that they do for their bets. There is nothing wrong for accounting ourselves with the bets that we've lost. We can try to recover it somehow but better not to expect full recovery and lost bets, should have been considered no recoveries anymore and shouldn't be chased.

For sure you take responsibility for your loss, you are not being forced to gamble, you can’t blame government on this. There are people who are gambling as job, they see it as a means to escape poverty and there are others who just see it as fun, they just enjoy the cruise in gambling.

So any individual who takes his/her money to gamble is being held responsible for whatever the outcome is. You are not being forced out being manipulated to gamble, it your choice and you are fully aware of your actions. When you lose you look for who to blame but when you win you give yourself personal praise and spend the money alone.

Some gamblers struggle to accept losses, as this would undermine their actions and prevent them from continuing to gamble. Denying that he can’t lose is a sign of compulsive gambling; they blame everything but themselves.
This is the kind of gambler who does not live by the saying only play with money that they can afford to lose, he treats gambling as an easy way to make money.

Normal even has the gambling exists; there’s still something else that some of the people are getting addicted to; it’s just that the gambling has become obvious because a lot of people are into gambling. That’s why they see it as the only thing that most of the people are getting addicted to, and even the reason why some of the people are losing money in the gambling is that some lack good orientation or a lack of understanding about how the gambling is operating.

And that’s why they found it very easy to be addicted to gambling. Why? Because they’re playing their bets without limits, and if a person is into gambling and it doesn’t have limits on how he bets, it will definitely lead him to lose, and then from there he will try to recover whatever-he has lost back. That’s where some get affected by the gambling addiction quickly.

Naturally I'm not the blaming type but someone that takes responsibility for all their action. I won't blame the caisnos, government or anyone else but will just consider everything to be part of experience. Let say I allowed my greed to get the best of me and staked more than I usually would had, then I'll just have to learn from that particular situation then make better choices next time. The blaming isn't bringing back my money or giving me the rewards I was supposed to have won so what's the essence of wasting all those time blaming. Running away from taking responsibility isn't going to help me out so there isn't any need.

Blame nobody but me for my stupid actions, for me not making myself disciplined enough to handle the urge when it comes. No country bans what brings about the circulation of money in the nation, what brings about buy and sell as well as negotiation, even drugs trafficking is also allowed, government do not close those kind of business likewise gambling.

Government can't be blamed it's a hard game here, blaming oneself is here.

I do not blame anyone for my losses or for my gambling. I gamble according to my own will and the money I use for gambling is entirely my own earnings and I use it according to my own will, so if I lose this money in gambling, I do not blame anyone. And those who blame others for losing their money in gambling, I think they blame only people. The government is not responsible for allowing or not allowing gambling in a country, but people blame the government for no reason. Now gambling is not legal in my country, but I cannot blame the government for this. Why is the government not legalizing gambling in my country?Because I think whatever the government does, it does something good for the people of a country.

It is more likely that someone is blamed that we get along with than the government. But just like you, I don't blame nobody as well but myself for my losses.

Mistakes, misfortune and stupid calls are done by me and so, there is no one on my side to take the blame with.

Mature up and blame no one when losing.

Why point at others when it is our fault?

The wrong thing that happens when we lose is that we blame those around us. But when we win, we don't even know how to appreciate it. Until we realize what we've done, everything bad that happens to us will be blamed on others.

This is not new anymore because we've been driven by such an attitude. Taking responsibility for our actions is still the hardest thing that a person manages to handle.

I have a saying that I use for practically everything in my life, and it's, how can I blame the wind for the mess it made in my house when I was the one who left the window open?

Most of the problems we have in life are our own fault, and gambling is one of them. You just have to have control and enjoy it without abusing it. If you lose control, own up to your mistake instead of justifying your own actions.

When someone loses, I realize that many people prefer to blame the bookmaker, the government, or something else. But ultimately, the responsibility lies with the gambler himself. He's the one who needs to know how far he can go and be careful about the risks.

When someone loses at gambling, they usually find someone to blame. In fact, there's someone to blame for other losses, not just gambling. Many people do this. Someone who admits they're incompetent at managing their money is doing themselves a favor by realizing it.

I also like that casinos are legal in countries. That's how it should be. People need to take responsibility for themselves. The only thing that needs to be done is for casinos to be properly regulated.

To me it is kind of silly there are gamblers who genuinely can reach a point in their expectations in which they gamble their losses to casinos. It is similar to people who smoke, and then proceed to gamble others for their poor health and the consequences of their actions, from the beginning their are told about the consequences on their actions on the long terms, as gamblers are told from the very beginning casinos are a place of entertainment and all money being exchanges by chips are to be treated as lost.

Anyways, it is the denial part of the five phase of grief, which is applicable to money.

Everyone is responsible for their actions nobody has to be blame, not even the government is to be blame . Has an adult whatever you do with your life is your business not anyone business,nobody was forced to gamble, you made your choice so you should be responsible for your actions, blaming someone on your losses does not make any sense, do you blame anyone for winning.

When you win do you give the money out or you spend it on yourself or on others or government, I only see this as immaturity, because you have being giving the freedom to live and chose what you want to do with you life, failing to accept your losses means you are not matured and does not need to game at all.

I'm the only one responsible for my actions. No one is to blame except myself, not the casino, not the government, or anyone. But of course, I curse the casino a lot out of frustration, which I think is normal because we are just human beings. It's my way of releasing my emotions. But blaming is a different thing. You aren’t forced by anyone to gamble. Gambling is your own decision.

Yes, it is normal for humans to have such emotions, and I sometimes do it too. But once the emotions settle, I end up feeling silly for blaming others when I was the one who acted, lol. However, if this happens all the time, there might be a deeper reason behind it, possibly that it has already become a part of one's behavior.

Why are they putting the blame to others when in the first place, they are the one gambling their funds, so they should be accountable whatever the outcome is.

I am not a gambler for nothing, but I’m responsible of whatever I’m capable to gain or even on part of losses. And since losses are obviously inevitable, though we can always minimize from losing our funds, but taking such blame game is an act of desperation and stupidity. If you think you’re weak, then stay away from gambling.

You can only blame yourself. Even if you suspect that the gambling could have been rigged (hypothetically), you should blame yourself first of all (for the fact that your decisions led you to such a dubious casino). It seems absurd, but only at first glance. In fact, this is the only position that allows you to manage your life.

This position is easier to accept if intruders (and scammers) are perceived as natural phenomena, as challenges that must be overcome. If you personify them, then instead of making constructive decisions, you can get bogged down in the search for those to blame, which subsequently threatens to turn into shifting any responsibility to everything and everyone.

P.S. Of course, this does not mean that scammers should not be held responsible. But this is their fate; it is important that their fate does not control yours, including through shifting the blame. I hope the point is clear; I expressed the idea as best I could.

This is supposedly what we put in our minds. Before we decide to gamble, we already prepare for whatever happens after. If we lose, then accept it rather than making an excuse, which, in fact, they don't do.

Casinos create ads to attract gamblers, but it doesn't mean they are forcing us to gamble. Therefore, making them a tool to blame our losses is not a good practice. Instead, blame ourselves for being fools. Being a gambler is not just knowing how to gamble but also knowing responsibilities.

I won't blame the government, which has the right to issue permits as an administration. I won't blame the casino for what happened that resulted in me being separated from my money.
Who told me to gamble? It wasn't them, but I, who was right in putting things in their proper place. Therefore, I am personally responsible for everything that happened.
Having done it, I must be prepared to accept the consequences.

Blame the government when someone does something bad after losing money gambling, Blame myself when I lose, but can't stop gambling in my free time, Blame the house if they didn’t offer a good enough bonus.  :P. Well we should able to take responsibility for our losses if we can't take responsibility then it's better to stop gamble.

It would be very unreasonable putting blames on who so ever, always take responsibility for every actions you take because that is the only yardstick that can make you have a new and positive change. Many people that got addicted to gambling today were in it because they chose to, that is want they want as an adult perhaps they wasn't forced to gamble.

So the earlier you start taking responsibility of every action been taking in life the faster and better  you become.

Some people blame others when they lose money, i see some people did this a lot, when they came home after a loss they blame their family and children worse they hurt them, I just don't understand when you did all the things like that, some people have the balls to blame their wives, instead of buying the food with the money, they try to test their luck and when things get wrong, its when they start to think, its others fault, taking responsibility on mistake should always be first.

Mature people know the consequences of the actions they did, they accept those losses and never blame to anyone about unfortunate situations happened to them.

But for immature individual who's greedy to think they can hit easy jackpot on gambling usually they are the one blaming anyone including the casino owners or maybe the government because they allow those things to happen. This is the most craziest attitude of people and hopefully no one here act like a shit since for sure they will just get embarrassed their selves if they create a scene.

We should take responsibility on each decision we do since no one force us to do this activity.

I think no anyone involved in an irresponsible acts should be blamed for their actions not gambling cause it's something set aside to enable an individual have fun and ease stress but people have been unable to control their habits in respect to aiming at bigger returns, so if along the line they get hooked they should be blamed for it cause it's said already to play responsibly while having fun.

The losses we incur due to gambling are driven by our own desires. No matter how bad the situation, we should blame ourselves, not others, even if it was initially encouraged by a friend. We are the ones who make the decisions and choose to gamble. If we gamble in the first place we must accept the losses. Blaming others for the losses is unethical.
I'd be quite ashamed  if I suffered losses and blamed or took it out on others. This is an unreasonable act.

Yes ofcourse, I took responsibility on my loses. As anyone enter the gambling scene they should be ready if ever they took a hit or big loss. Blame game are for those crying users who dont have the guts to accept that gambling may actually made them lose. If anyone trying to gamble and he wasnt ready enough to take on potential results then dont try one cause money is important especially if the users got family that might be affected with it.

If there's anyone that's going to be blamed here it's the gambler, it's a sign of irresponsibility to blame the casino for your own entertainment that you clearly got into by yourself. Sometimes I think it's frustration that makes some gamblers think like this, they can't accept their losses so they start regretting and doing the blame game. This is why I always say that gambling isn't meant for everybody

I think It is common for a gambler to feel guilty after losing a gamble. I gamble at a specific time every day, now if I cannot control myself then who should I blame, of course I will blame myself because it is a question of self-control. Just as I have freedom over my own money and property, and as I am free to use my wealth, if I use my money for gambling and if I cannot control my greed then my destruction is inevitable. Blaming the country or government is just an excuse. The government of a country does not know how terrible your greed can be, so the government can only advise its people not to gamble. But you must be know how to start gambling and where to stop.

If the thing were that we couldn't differentiate between good and bad and we gambled only because gambling sites enticed us, then maybe we could blame someone else for our gambling losses.  But where we can distinguish between good and bad, this is absurd.

Because no one is forcing me or you to gamble, if you want, you can sit without gambling; there are many other sources of entertainment that you can enjoy. But here, if you choose gambling as a source of entertainment, then we have to take some facts into consideration, and then gamble like we cannot spend beyond our ability to lose, and at the same time gambling can only be done in our free time. And if this happens, of course, it will be because of our own fault.

No gambler should blame any other person or even the casino because gambling is something that is done voluntarily gambling is controllable so it's expected that every gambler should have a limit to his or her gambling activities that is why every casino will even advise people to gamble responsible

No one is going to be blamed for this because now good awareness about all things rehab working if someone still feeling not good he needs to be had some more activity other than gambling which keep his busy, and he is not able to through for this.

Peoples with strong mindset feel this as entertainment never blame anyone because they always understand about this but peoples those always enter into this with addiction or want to end their poverty never stop playing blame games. In most countries, sources are not enough for having better life which is also causing this and increase addiction here who to blame because stress playing his own game which is always dirty.

All casino games are entertaining, so you can’t blame them for the reason that you aren’t entertained at all. Except if your own concept for being entertaining is that you should also be in profits, then you are looking it the wrong way. Casino is a business, the more losses the players obtained, the more profitable the house will be.

It’s good to say that casinos are bound to make us lose, winning is just a bonus. So any gambler shouldn’t be blaming the casino for their losses. In fact, no one should be blamed, except if the gambler itself does not clearly understand the concept of gambling and how it works.

A gambler is supposed to take responsibility in whatever outcome they get from gambling whether good or bad they have to take full responsibility, I believe no one is forced to go into gambling. is individual's choice to gamble and before anyone will think of gambling is assume that they are already aware about the risk that is involved so I see no reason why we should be blaming anyone for our loses, is only those who are not ready to go into gambling that would want to transfer the blame to someone because they just choose to go into gambling due to the success stories they heard online they may not know the risk that is involve, most of them think that gambling is all about wining wining wining not until they give it a trial  and discover new things.

Gambling does carry risks, but it’s important to look at the bigger picture: the problem is not just the game, the casino, or the advertising, but how a person handles risk and money. I support the focus on personal responsibility, as long as we are talking about adults who can make informed and conscious decisions. The government and the industry should create safe rules and provide information about risks, but they cannot be responsible for someone's emotions and choices.

Yes, it's clear that gambling is high-risk, but all the problems that arise, such as addiction, are not the casino's fault, but rather the player's own. Irresponsible gamblers ignore the risks and focus solely on winning. Instead, they end up in a phase that is very detrimental to themselves.
When this happens, the blame lies solely on themselves for their bad gambling behavior. If they were disciplined in their gambling, these problems would not have occurred.

The most annoying part of this whole blame game is that gamblers normally are happy and do not blame any thing or anyone when they win, they are happy and celebrating their win, they do not thank the casino, neither do they when remember the government that didn't ban gambling, but would rather complain if they are asked to pay task on the win, they keep and enjoin their profit alone with their family.

But when it comes to the part of loses, they start looking for some one to blame, this is not ideal and should be condemned in its totality, gamblers should learn to take responsibility of the out come of their gambling decisions and choices.
Personally, I've always taken responsibility of my gambling actions and it's outcomes, I mean, why should I blame anything or anyone for losing, when I don't pay homage to them when I win.. I can only blame a casino or anything else for my lose if they clearly are the reason why I lost.

Yes, there are many players who, when they win while gambling, talk a lot about gambling. If they lose for some reason and lose money, they become disappointed. Out of that disappointment, they make various comments and speak with complete ignorance, which they do not deserve. On the other hand, when they win in the game, they do not say anything. They think that playing at the casino is only about winning. That is why gambling is not for them, you are right.

Nobody is to be blame but yourself for your actions and outcomes in gambling.

Gambling has being in existence since inception, you made your choice to gamble without being forced to, so why shift the blame on government or casinos .
Gambling has rules and regulations which are to be followed and when not followed and failed they start looking for who to blame .

Most problem we have is that we want to manipulate gambling to suite us instead of follow the rules of the game, we fail to understand that is for entertainment and not for fund making that is the main reason alot of persons incure losses

Just like other things you made mention of drinking alcohol, women and so on these things are there and it's your choice as an individual to indulge in them irresponsibly or be responsible. The government has no right over what we choose to do because no one is under slavery, so they should not be blamed for allowing gambling. No one is to be blamed but that gambler that's irresponsible

There is no one to blame other than the individual. You can't blame the casino for seeing a business opportunity and you cant blame the government for not banning something that is not illegal. The gambler was not forced, he has the right to decide how much he wants to bet with or not bet at all, so he carries all the blame.
I am a gamler, and not for once have I ever blamed anybody for losing money in gambling. Sometimes in sports betting, I may get angry at the players or the referee, but I cant blame them for my loss because I willing placed the bet, even before the match started.

Some will let their mood affect them from the way they are gambling, once they see that the luck is for them then they become more cheerful and once the table turned around and they are in loss, their mood changes and they begin to react more annoying because of loss, putting blame on many things, that is why I know my own limit, because I don't move closer to hot tempered gamblers in this kind of mood, they may transfer aggression.

I have staked several bets just today because I have the fund and I believe I'm going to make some reasonable profits from betting today. There are people that even though they do g have the fund to gamble, they can go extra miles to get a loan just to place bet that has no guarantee of winning. We all have to be very careful when gambling so we don't become too addictive to it urging us to gamble more even when we don't have the fund. No one will be blamed when you gamble with all your money and finally start begging for more when you have nothing.

Those who are blaming everyone else but themselves for blowing away their money on gambling, are going to face issues in the long-run, not only with gambling but in general. Such behaviour sets the ideal conditions to end up addicted and in debt. Who's responsibility is it to have a budget and limit ourselves? It's only ours, and i despise those who do not take accountability for their own mistakes. I understand it's a defense mechanism, but we need to be realistic with what's happening around us.

I always take responsibility. People who don't are cowards.

It's funny how we attack the government for interfering and not allowing us to move our money around, and then when we lose money we blame the government for not protecting us. You should go with one or the other. Personally I'd like the government to stay away completely and allow people to do what they want, so gambling should be allowed, as well as all forms of investing. If you get scammed, you weren't careful enough.

When it comes to gambling, we should educate so that people know the risk, but if they lose money it's all on them.

If we are inherently careless and unable to take responsibility for our actions, then even if we don't gamble, we will still suffer losses due to our carelessness.

There's no point in blaming the gambling sites or venues we visit, because they will never compensate us for our losses, and they likely won't return our deposited funds, except in the form of winnings. There's no point in blaming ourselves for our own mistakes. Stop being childish and try to reflect on our own carelessness. Casino sites never force their visitors to gamble; we come and deposit our own money. Blaming the gambling sites for our losses when we lose is tantamount to defending our own stupidity and defending our own carelessness. And if we continue to behave in this way, there's no hope of ever escaping gambling problems, including gambling addiction.

As an adult you aren't supposed to blame anyone for the choices you make especially when they are bad ones. The casino isn't in control of your gambling activities so whatever you lose is just your responsibility. A lot of gamblers that end up losing come up with the excuse that the casino is a scam but this is not really the case, gambling is a game of chance and luck, you can either win or lose that's why it's always advisable to gamble responsibly

So many people more especially gamblers are used to putting the blame game on their failure to win in which they are at fault and everyone should be clearly responsible for the choices they make so having a blame game on things is seen as unusual cause for gambling you're aware of your chances of winning being limited and baed on luck. Regardless the issue of blame game should be put aside.

Why blame a game when I already knew right before I even started gambling that there is a high probability of me losing my money to the casino? To me it doesn’t make sense and if anyone should do this then I’d think of it as just a mechanism that they use to try to lessen the mental stress of them losing to the casino, because I think all gamblers already know that the outcomes of gambling isn’t certain and no matter how good the setup or preparation may look, there’s still a high chance of you losing to the casino.

I have never put the blame of me losing on the casino before, as long as it’s provable that I actually lost then there’s no need to start witch hunting the casino. I simply just take my L and hope for a better outcome next time.

I have a strong accountability to myself, I just don't throw the blame randomly to whoever I see fits to. However, I also understand the people who puts the blame to either the casino or the authority If they have not done their part to the growing problem of gambling addiction.
Sometimes, when people are out of control, the things they got hooked up to is the one that needs a reform or regulated to somehow put a control over those people who can't for themselves.
Nevertheless, at the end of the day, it is us who are responsible to every actions and decisions we make. Gambling is not for the weak minded, otherwise, you'll get addicted to it.

This way of thinking has no meaning at all. Everyone knows that from the moment you deposit any amount for gambling, this money it's gone. It's not the game's fault, is the nature of gambling. I never blame any game when I lose, as I don't worship them when I win. Well, sometimes I blame teams for not playing as I expect them to play :D

You can never blame anyone in gambling. On the one hand, gambling companies are promoting them in various ways to grow their business. And when I go there to gamble, all the profit and loss are my own responsibility. If someone asks you to jump into the fire, will you jump there? You will never do this because you know that you are certain to die there. But even knowing that you can lose when you gamble, you gamble because you have greed in you. Why do you know that you can win a lot at any time? So where you will be very happy if you win, you will have to take the responsibility if you lose. I never blame anyone for my loss.

Crazy how we blame others for our issues, there is no validity in Turing your cross on another or anything just to justify your silly acts, the core reason we tend to even blame someone else is because we don't want to see our mistakes instead we push it to someone else to give ourselves hope that we are right! for me if I loss, I lost not anyone is to be blame it's crazy to shift blames. Actions has consequences and before we take actions subconsciously we already examined the outcome of the actions and if it backfires we take it as it is but other chooses to use another to cover up in other to convince their conscience that they are right.

When you gambling and you end up losing, then it’s just better you take full responsibility of your loss, you don’t have to blame other people for your loss, it doesn’t make any sense. If you can’t take full responsibility then you won’t be able to correct yourself.

I don’t blame the government for allowing gambling in a country, I don’t blame any casino, they running their business. People trying to shift blame on others when they lose, they don’t always complain when they win, they don’t complain about anything, they going to be celebrating their win, but when they lose, then they won’t blame themselves for the loss, they will want to shift the blame on other for the mistake which they made, and it’s completely bad.

Yes, sometimes i blame the casino because they are just being too unfair to gamblers with their programmed games. Recently, i was placing bets on a casino game that i normally bet on and i choose same options that normally favors me most times even though sometimes it gets difficult and i run into losses but i discovered that the game has been so complex to win, i keep getting near misses after many attempts, i got angry because i have never encountered such a losing streak before so i was just blaming the casino for making the game difficult. But in sports betting i can't blame anyone because there is less chances of the outcome being manipulated.

The moment that YOU decided to gamble, you are accepting the possibility of a loss. Unless someone held you hostage and forced you to gamble then there really should be no one else to blame but yourself. We all know that if you had not lost, you would  not give credit to anyone else. Like if you won, would you thank the government for allowing gambling to be legalized?

Indeed, and without conviction pointing fingers will release some guilt inside a gamblers mind, thinking that it was someone's fault and not their silly mistake that will let them to push forward, instead of taking full responsibility and change up or reassess what's they've done wrong, it's easier to blame someone than to accept the mistake and try to improve.

Is the fact that people blame themselves related to the fact that casinos almost always win? I think the opposite is true: if a person understood that the casino was to blame for their losing their money, then it would be a mistake to blame themselves. But in a situation where a person understands that they are unlikely to be able to outsmart the casino, it is normal to blame themselves for being naive. Obviously, this should be within reason, but nevertheless, it is normal.

Naturally humans are wired in a way that we hardly want to accept faults  and when there's a chance on where to direct it to its just to simple to do. Gambling is an adult activity that's why it's rated 18+ as the age for anyone to gamble because as an adult we are responsible for the decisions/choices we make and when we make a decision to gamble we have to take responsibility of the outcome and not blame it on gambling if we acted irresponsible.

That is why, in gambling, you need to prepare your mind; it is a game that can't be predicted. You can see what you didn't expect. That is why it is important for gamblers to use the money that they can afford to lose in gambling, because sometimes the game might seem so difficult when one is already losing. Whether the game is difficult or not, there is no need to be angry with the game because there is no need to expect much from gambling. When one has already planned to gamble with the amount that can be afforded to lose and is not expecting anything, no matter how the game becomes, there is no need to get angry.

I do take full responsibility of my actions or loses rather than blame the Casino or government. Just as gambling is a game of choice and we know that loses are more often than win and yet we keep on playing, taking the risk and hoping we win huge someday, we also prepare for the worst to come. But the problem of some gamblers is that they fail to prepare for the worst case scenario to happen, and when it happens we began to feel disappointed without knowing that a real gambler is the one that takes full responsibility of himself both in wining and losing.

As an adult, we are not supposed to blame anyone, but not every adult behaves like one; some behave as if they are not yet up to being called an adult because they want to shift blame in every little opportunity that they get to the next person because they don't want to take the fall for their own action, even when they took the decision by themselves. It's part of some people in the gambling industry.

I don't blame anyone or anything but myself for my losses in gambling, I was never forced to gamble and so there's no one to blame, taking responsibility for your actions is a display of maturity and control over your emotions. Gambling is purely my decision alone and people that blame others for their losses are just trying to avoid accountability but it still doesn't change anything. Every gambler should understand that before they decided to gamble it means that they have accepted the possibility of losing and they have to be ready to take responsibility for their losses.

I am the sole responsible person to blame and need to face the consequences and blaming casino or government is pointless when we are the one who thought gambling could be fun or easy money making method.

But I have seen people blame the casino for their loss and we even have many threads like they use the money that is supposed to be paid for their tuition and now they are left with nothing so they demand the casino to return it.

And just a glimpse of it: The dangerous gambling site xxx (https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5515139.0)

I blame myself for gambling and gambling losses, I will never blame anyone else or the government of the country. Because if I had not gambled, I would not have faced losses and addiction, then who should I blame here? It is my own fault. Because I gamble for fun and gamble a lot. Usually, every person hopes to win before betting or gambling.
If he can win, he enjoys a lot of pleasure with that money, and if gambling results in a loss, then he has to take that responsibility himself.

Very correct dude! We don't have to blame people that introduce us to gambling when we are not doing well as gamblers. This is always our fault because there is no one that forced us to gamble, it's all our decisions to gamble and when we start making profit, most times we don't thank people that have helped us I. Knowing about online gambling.
Life is a process and when we are fully in it, we ought to take responsibility of everything we are doing so that we don't end up regretting our mistakes for not doing our best to make sure that we gamble and make money for ourselves.

The government is not forcing me to gamble. The people around me are not forcing me to gamble. I am gambling completely on my own will and I am using my money in gambling as I wish and I am gambling freely. In that case, who should I blame if I lose? Of course I blame myself. Blaming others would be completely foolish and those who blame others need to be taught the right lesson. I always blame myself for gambling. I never blame others because blaming others is not right at all.

Why would you blame others if you lose money gambling? Participating in gambling is a purely personal matter and you cannot blame anyone, not even the government of a country, if you participate in gambling at your own risk. If you think gambling is harmful to you, then you should refrain from gambling. Blaming someone else for this is of course completely foolish and baseless. Before blaming someone, be sure to read the terms of the game and then blame someone. Remember that gambling is a personal decision. It is not reasonable to blame others for a personal decision.

The only time that we should be blaming people that introduced us to gambling is when they didn't introduce us correctly and made us go through paths of wrong thinking. When someone tells you that gambling can make you rich and then you begin to have this mentality then they have lead you through the wrong path and without finding out on time that your doing the wrong thing, you'll be lost that it becomes difficult to help you again. Gambling can make you money but that shouldn't be your main reason for doing it. Do it as a way of having fun and you won't be carried away with the temptations that come from seeing others winning big rewards then wishing you can experience the same outcomes.

Indeed. It is the individual choice whether to join gambling or not. We can't blame the casinos or government because it is our own choice. The casinos never force us or invite us to join the gambling games. It is our own interest to go to casinos and chooses the gambling games. If there is something bad happening, it is surely our own responsibility.

If we don't want to lose money in gambling, we shouldn't go to casinos. Not everyone deserves to gamble because gambling isn't for the people who can't control emotion and dream too high. In many occasion, we already discussed many times that a gambler should have good self-control and think realistically. That's why underage can't join gambling because they still can't control emotion and have no realistic mind.

That's good, because taking responsibility for every action of yours is always the first approach to was the solution of every problem. Many people are used to apportion blames on others and is very bad, it doesn't speak good of you as a person but rather it blindfold you from the actual truth.


But taking responsibility in every actions in life only gives you a chance of repentance and making corrections to was a positive change.

The online casino of course. There are times they are not even giving something back and it's frustrating when it happens. Although, there are times that it will give back double what you spent which is really surprising. The thing is, we don't really know what could happen so if we want to feel good after losing then we can blame the casino for it. That way, it could maybe lift some of the stress that we felt while we are gambling and losing.

Yes, whatever we do, of course we do it consciously, right? And I agree with you, we shouldn't blame anyone except ourselves. When we make a deposit and before playing, it is important to consider it carefully and be prepared to face the consequences of that decision, whether we lose or win. Yes, by gambling responsibly, we can control everything, be it emotions, finances or anything else, and also realize that gambling is a game of chance and there is no guarantee of winning or getting rich.

If we consider being an adult with age then we can say that age is nothing but just a number because we actually have this set of people around they of age enough to be regarded as adults but all their behaviors will proves otherwise, being able to accept ones responsibilities of actions is called maturity and it has a lot to do with being in charge of your own world whether in good or bad conditions without sentiment or blaming anyone, you can't take credit to yourself when things are good and blame anyone when it is the opposite, of course there are forks like that which is wrong.

Surely it is so. It was my solution and only i responsible for the results. It is a child view - to make guilty anyone else for your own decision. Cmon, if you`re adult enough to start the game, you have to response your actions and decisions.
PS. Today it seems that we live in the world of big children. They want to have fun, that`s all. They remember only about their rights but forget about duties.

Sometimes I wonder if those people that finds comfort in blaming the game, the casino, and the government do feel good after the blames. Does the blames eventually bring back their money  to their personal account? This same people that ends up blaming the government, the casino and the game, still ends up going back to the casino to gamble more the next day. How I wish they will stop gambling, but they don't do that. What's the point of someone going back to something they once blamed for their previous losses?

so gamblers are 100% personally liable for, that's an oversimplification. imo it is foolish to pass over how corporate design & industry profit motive stoke up addiction. If you think differently, you'll see that problem gamblers often blame the bookie & regulators for not doing sufficient to ward off harm, not just a matter of personal choice. We could also see the responsible gambling message as a strategy that defend the industry while placing blame on bettor. We shouldnt ignore the systemic vigor, yep personal choice get by however so does the larger responsibility.

Gambling is not a way to make money for entertainment or a get-rich-quick scheme. Gambling can never be a part of our lives, so I don't blame anyone for losing while gambling. When our greed works, we are forced to make wrong decisions and then the risk of losing our money increases. We cannot say anything specific about the future, it is not possible to say for sure whether I will win or lose by betting. Therefore, a person who gambles normally and maintains discipline cannot blame anyone for gambling. If I lose money through gambling, I don't blame anyone else for it.

Whatever the result of our gambling is, whether online or offline, we are responsible for it. There is no one to blame but ourselves if we don't like what happens when we gamble.

That's why our colleagues always say to always gamble at your own risk. Because if we can't accept that, it's better not to gamble at all rather than regret it in the end.
That's why sometimes gamblers just play for fun, and they don't take it seriously, because it will definitely affect their emotions in the end.

Sometimes you will win, sometimes you will lose, that is normal, you can never win without losing, if someone wants to win without losing, then he is thinking abnormally, which is never possible.

Losing in gambling often comes very naturally, even in most games you will lose, so if you do not have the ability or mentality to accept this loss, then the right thing is that, you have to refrain from gambling. Because if you do not accept this loss, then in the end it will make you addicted.

Because you will keep gambling more to recover the loss, but you will never be able to recover the loss, rather more loss will occur. So you have to keep the mentality right, and gamble responsibly, then you can enjoy gambling.

It's very convenient for some people to blame everybody else for their failures and it's no different in gambling, some gamblers feels justified if they blame the casino's house edge or the government allowing casinos to operate for their loses. Whatever these gamblers wants to justify themselves with doesn't change any fact that their money is gone, they can accept it and move on or keep complaining that it is somebody else's fault. In everything in life people must take responsibility for their actions, whatever you are not forced to do and it fails you don't have any moral rights to blame anybody but yourself.

I don’t gamble, but I believe responsibility is always personal. Anyone who chooses to gamble or bet must be aware of the risks and consequences of their decisions. Blame shouldn’t be placed on casinos, the government, or other people , at the end of the day, the outcome depends entirely on the individual’s own choices.

But you would be always on the losing side and this is something that you should be that looking out or always consider that you would be needing up that good moderation when it comes to money spending. If you do find yourself having some issues when it comes to losing money or you do become that impulsive then it do signifies that gambling isnt that for you and its better to avoid it while you can or while still early. There are just that those individuals who arent that compatible or they cant be able to handle out at the time that they are losing money on which they do end up on being impulsive and the worst is that they do make out some all in kind of betting or gambling on which it do lead out into those disastrous conditions just because of the things that they have done. Who do you blame? Most of the time then you would be saying that the site isnt that fair or something being rigged on which these are the normal thoughts and insights that you would be having at the time that you had exhausted up your bankroll and thats a common thing, without even trying out to realize that gambling was designed for us to have some fun and entertainment and this isnt something being created for someone to make money or making some source of income. On this kind of mentality then this what makes you that being desperate and if you arent that good when it comes on handling your emotions and doesnt changed up that kind of mentality then you would be facing up some issues on which later on you will be able to regret for the rest of your life, specially if you had already compromised up that much when it comes to financial aspect. There are those conditions or times that you are that becoming that too naive about on whats happening just because you've been that getting blinded with your greed and desperation on which this is something that you must consider on trying to control it out as much as possible. There are just that those conditions that you are that being too positive when it comes to results and at the time that you do become that failing up on achieving that one then you would be loving on pointing out your fingers and finding out on whom you would be gonna be blaming instead n blaming into yourself.

Those who gamble responsibly, they will definitely be able to protect themselves from the harmful effects of gambling. Responsibility is the most important thing in gambling, if someone gambles, then he will have to deal with the consequences alone, nothing can be changed by blaming anyone here, and for this reason, gambling is necessary for entertainment with very low expectations, those who can gamble here with a selfless mentality and by limiting themselves, they will be able to avoid major losses or addiction here.

Of course, the responsibility for losing funds is primarily that of the gambler, not the gambling platform or any other third party.
As for governments, they can influence various aspects of a gambler's life and can be blamed for other things, but clearly not for the loss of funds due to gambling.

Playing gambling will be our responsibility so no need to blame others when we lose. We can not blame casinos because we decide to play gambling and spend some money. If we realize that it is our mistake, we will leave the casinos without any intention to continue. We know the risk of playing more so we avoid the big loss that can happen. If you can play for fun in gambling, you will not think hard if you lose. That is because you are ready with the loss and have prepared some money to playing gambling. You will not use more money if you lose because you realize the losses can become big.

Yet some people are foolish enough to put the blame on someone else or even on their device which was used in gambling. I was reading a thread this morning where a user lost some money while gambling because during the process of gambling, his laptop malfunctioned and now he is asking if he should blame himself or the casino. Some people can just totally get it wrong most times when they already know that they should be accountable for every outcome.

Is your comment exactly correct, those who gambling often blame Casino. But they ever say they lose all the money for their mistakes. However, there are many reasons behind the government will legalize the casino, such as getting a large amount of revenue. Moreover, the government always wants to collect taxes in different ways. That's why we can take several steps. Such a healthy brain gambling has to be gambling, so that I can protect myself. By doing this we can enjoy the game with less money and sometimes we can benefit more money. In this case we should never blame the government or Casino. Because they do not force anyone to gambling.

That is normal gambler behavior in my opinion. I always use the latest tech when gambling and I simply cannot accept losing money that easily so I always come up with some stupid theory. When I lose in a single slot I blame that slot and I say to myself why I am such an idiot that keep playing this slot, when I keep losing in a lot of slots from the same provider I like blaming the provider especially Pragmatic since I almost always play their slots because the lowest possible bet. So most gamblers will not accept that easily that the only one to blame is yourself, that is normal human behavior, even in F1 the highest sport drivers most of the time blame each other even when they are at fault.

You are talking like this because you want to take responsibility for your actions, many people in this open world don't want to take responsibility, but they want to take claim if they win, they hate failure but love to win, this is an unfair world I think their parents must have failed to tell that while growing up.

Normally what is casinos promising anymore? Nothing right? It's crazy how people believe that they can make money from gambling without working their asses for anything, this is why fun is all I dare expected from gambling even though I am going to use my money.

Peace of mind is when you gamble with the mindset of having some great time and nothing more, if there are many people getting rich off gambling how many topics have you read on here about it? For the past how many years now? Yet the numbers of gamblers keep growing isn't it? Some eyes will forever remain shut.

Responsibility is indeed always personal; you don't allow someone else to make decisions for you. They can only present an idea to you, which is telling you how to gamble and how gambling works, but it all depends on how you choose to treat that information that will determine how your action will be. The gambler decides how much to place for each bet and not the person or something they choose to shift blame to.

This is quite normal; blaming the casino is an expression of frustration over a loss, and it can happen spontaneously. However, it's important to emphasize that blaming the casino is completely pointless. You blame the casino for your loss, but the next day, when you have money back, you deposit it back into the casino and play with the ambition of winning enough to offset your previous losses. You're playing with a grudge over your previous loss, and this is clearly reckless behavior that will only lead to greater losses.

If you're truly disappointed with the casino you visited, then all you need to do is block the gambling site and never visit it again. This isn't about badmouthing the casino, but about ultimately returning to it.

I see the problem here as being that people simply don't understand when to stop playing, that's all. They have no limit or boundary in their minds that cannot be crossed, and even when they start to get upset, they continue to play anyway and bring their deposit to a critical state from which it will be difficult to recover. I think that blaming anyone but yourself in this situation is normal; people don't want to admit their mistakes at this point.

Laying blames on casinos or even the government won't change the idea that the bet is made by the individuals. Outside control may affect, but the decision to gamble is mainly a personal one. I believe that taking responsibility for any lose is much a healthy approach, if not you continue going round errors rather than learning from them.

Hahaha, no one force a gambler to put his bet so why he pointing finger to someone when the outcome didn't favor your pick, like you mentioned, gambling is a sole responsibility of the gambler who choose to gamble, no one should be blame. Though there's  a big impact coming from the influence of someone, but the action still depends from the gambler itself if how he'll take his move and make his bets.

I think it's normal to blame the casino in your mind, this happens when you are frustrated and depressed after you must have lost a lot but logically you know that it's part of the game and it's not that casinos fault...no one is to be blamed for our losses and for the fact that you bottle them up inside means that you actually know that you are the one thats responsible for your losses because of te decisions you made

Some people are blaming others even if it is their doings because they are in denial of what they have done to their lives. So do remember that at the end of the day, it is on you how you will direct your life to any path. Because you can always alter the path by choosing the appropriate one. So it is yourself to blame on whatever route you will traverse on. As a gambler, you should already know the repercussions of your decisions. This is yourself who is carving the path in this game, so it is yourself that you will blame afterwards and not others. You can gain some insights from others, but do take note that the final decision is always yours.

As you start gambling at the beginning of the day, you have to take responsibility for the outcome. Some casino lose you through their own plan. It may be that the developers do not let the gamblers win if they do not want to and the algorithm is set that way.

In my opinion, you have entered the gambling game prepared for any outcome of winning or losing. In that situation, if you are defeated by manipulation, it is a regret and at the end of the day you will be responsible for yourself.

In conclusion, it can be said that I like to gamble through my favourite casino site, so if it deliberately loses me, I do not blame them for that. I blame my luck because in most gambling games, the chances of winning depend more on luck than experience.

And once a gambler is too much biased and doesn’t want to take responsibility for their own decisions, then it becomes a major problem for them to grow from that level that they are, as they will not only be good at doing that with gambling but also with other things. They will always look for excuses to blame others for their actions instead of taking the fall and learning from their mistakes so as to avoid it next time.

It will always be an individual's responsibility because it is our own choice. The government and casinos never force us to gamble, it is our own decision to join gambling. So it makes no sense if we blame the government or casinos. We are free to join gambling or not, it purely depends on our own consideration. For example, you don't gamble because you have your own reason to avoid gambling. Choosing the option, you have no consequence to accept from the government or the casino.

In fact, you can never save those who, even after gaining real experience, do not understand their mistakes and are not aware of the right thing from a major disaster.
They will continue to walk continuously but still they will not be able to let go of their expectations, that is, they will always have their false expectations, and because of this false expectation of luck, they continue to gamble more and more.
And this matter certainly causes a lot of deep harm for them. If people do not learn from mistakes, they can never improve.
And thus, those who fall into this cycle of gambling and if they do not understand the right thing in time, or if they do not think of getting out of it even after understanding, then it will certainly cause a lot of deep harm.
Here, the power to decide is completely yours, casinos are never forcing you to gamble, you can refrain from it if you want.
But if you continue to ignore the right thing, it will never be a reason for your good luck but rather a cause of more disaster.

For me basically gamblers should grow to a point where their understand that gambling is a high risk thing and for that they must prepare themselves to the point that their can build the bases that keep them at a stable position at most regardless of what happens,. I believe so much that those that complain about losing and blaming casinos are the guy's that came into gambling with aim to win at most and coming in with sure bets that eventually disappoint them.

You are right, the government doesn't have a hand in people's gambling habit because chosing to be a gambler is a personal decision that one make for him or herself. The government can not force anyone to go into gambling neither can they stop everyone from gambling no matter how hard they tried it can not be possible. The problem with people is that some people went ahead to abuse gambling by going to the extreme where if they don't gamble they will become restless and might even want to borrow if they have gone far or dip in it.

You are stating the fact, at the end of the day, there is nobody who holds a gun to check where you gambled or deposited today. This is the individual's own will, and they should be responsible for their own actions. Talking about the government, they will not stop gambling because it provides them with good revenue. States don't run on emotions, ethics, or mere talk. They need money for a better economy to survive in the world, and that's why they allow casinos. Also, gambling does not introduce greed, it is the individual's own thoughts that they are now chasing and ruining their lives. So there is no one to blame except oneself.

Personal responsibility is so crucial in life but many governments pander to the masses who fall for scams or instantly blame others for their personal issues. Nobody is forcing people on to gambling sites, people make many choices and decisions before depositing money, along with every time they decide to participate in a game - they are free to stop at any moment in time, but think they are smarter than the casinos. They are not smarter and casinos make millions of dollars every single year from all these small acts that collectively mount up to huge profits. You are the person in charge of your own destiny, stop expecting others to protect you from wasteful ways that you can spend your money and take control of your financial decisions.

Before gambling, I understood one thing very well that gambling is not a source of income because here winning or losing is completely uncertain. If I gamble, there is a possibility of my losing, I will lose. If I gamble, there is a certainty of losing. But there are some gamblers who cannot accept losing. Even after losing in gambling, many people try to blame others for that loss, which should be avoided. You have to bear your own profit and loss. Blaming others is a manifestation of your own ignorance. When I lose, I feel bad, but I don't have any difficulty in accepting it. The responsibility for its good and bad depends entirely on me.

You know it has been a culture, like a normal thing now in our society to shift your blames to the next person, you don't want to take responsibility of your actions then who will? you weren't forced at the first instant to gamble you did it at your own willing. We really need to work on this very aspect of our life because it is causing more of harm than good, let's try and take responsibility of all our actions because it only makes us a better person.

It is very important because no government wants its country to face economic disaster and always wants a country to be self-sufficient in economy, that is why they allow some prohibited things or objects. For example, no matter how harmful smoking or drinking alcohol is, the government of a country does not oppose it, rather they allow it for business and trade, for production. Similarly, the government of a country earns a lot of revenue from gambling, from which a country can reduce a lot of foreign pressure. So no matter how much drug addiction or gambling is one of the main reasons for the destruction of the youth in a country, the government will never ban it, but rather allow it. But even then, if someone personally destroys himself by being addicted to gambling or drug addiction, no one will be responsible for it, not even the government. He himself is responsible for his destruction.

Even when I bet based on a friend's advice, and I lost. I still have to take responsibility for my own loss, not blame the friend who gave the advice. We cannot blame the casino, because they only provide the games, and it is we who decide to gamble.
Although some people, who I am sure are mostly non-gamblers, will blame the casino rather than the irresponsible gambler. We cannot blame anyone except ourselves. But everyone has a perspective on the situation they experience.

Blaming others after losing at gambling is a common tendency but it indicates a loss of control over yourself your realization that you are solely responsible for your gains and losses is a very positive aspect. Taking responsibility for your own mistakes or decisions is a sign of mental maturity when you learn to take responsibility for your own decisions you will be able to learn better and make more informed decisions in the future.

Of course, I have only myself to blame for my losses. But you know how people in general do not like to blame themselves! We agree to everything just to take the blame off ourselves and shift it onto others. However, the reason is most likely in our naivety and inexperience. When we take risks and lose money, we are actually paying for expensive lessons in the school of life. The school of life has very expensive lessons in risk management. Naivety is a rather serious disease that is dangerous to life and health, so we have to pay dearly for it. Our losses hurt us and this pain constantly reminds us of our past stupidity and our weak experience. Therefore, perhaps there is no need to blame anyone. Everything happens this way because it cannot happen otherwise.

It’s clear that a gambler should blame only himself for losing money, but still, friends shouldn't give advice on what to bet on. Even if you realize that you're responsible for your losses, deep down you may still feel unpleasant about your friend's bad advice.

In life we tend to accuse another person in order to reduce the pain of failure. Nevertheless, we should understand that a lot of the losses that we take are the results of our personal choices. These are the painful experiences that can be lessons learning to us to be more cautious in future risk taking. Maybe, we should also believe that bad things occur as there is something wrong we are not ready enough or are not keeping a good eye on something and this helps us to be more cautious in our make ups.

The first sign of irresponsibility is when the gambler blames others for his actions. if you can't own up to your decisions as an adult then you are not mentally mature and shouldn't be gambling In the first place. It's like going to purchase an item and after making use of it you go back and ask for a refund, it makes no sense at all. You cannot eat your cake and have it back, if you are not sure of staking an amount don't do it

No matter who advises you to gamble, they are not responsible for the loss because you made the decision. Even though the advice was given, you have the right to decline it, but you still went ahead and gambled. Nobody is to be blamed when it comes to gambling; this is a decision made by people.

 It is always good to gamble with money that you can afford to lose to the casino. In gambling, you either win against the casino or the casino wins against you. If the result is not in your favor, you just need to accept it. One of the things to learn in gambling is to make your decision, accept your loss, and never blame anyone, not even yourself, because you had the chance to make the right decision in gambling.

Players may blame the casino when they lose at slots and then start accusing it of designing the games to take advantage of them. However, the games can only be controlled by the providers, and casinos can't manipulate them at least, that’s how it should be. I would advise such players to place bets responsibly, so they won’t have to blame the casino, except maybe the teams, since there’s always someone to blame if you want.

There is no guarantee as a gambler for you to make money from the betting platform you are making use of which is why we need to be wise and make decisions that will not haunt us later after we had made such a selfie move to make money from betting.

We owe no casino the leverage to make money and since a casino is a private owned enterprise, there mission is to make money from the market which is why we need to use our head when always trying to make quick profits from betting. You could lose your money or win it, we all need to be wise and take caution so we don't end up losing everything that we have just because of greed to earn more without risk management.

Blaming a casino over your gambling addiction is not one thing that I fancy because casinos too are more concerned about making money from the rest the gambling community so it's Left for the gambler to gamble with caution knowing that you have the right to control your self when it comes to gambling

Well Blaming the casino and luck is never a winning strategy, because while people want to become rich or have big wins they always increase their losses.
They never expect it will help them in having anything positive, people who play for fun and have a solid strategy rarely experience problems like these, as they understand the consequences of their actions and are prepared this gives them peace of mind and better results.

A healthy mentality is crucial in casino games as it allows gamblers to maintain balance and make informed decisions, however this approach never works for everyone as there are many different views and arguments about casinos and losing to them.

there is something I notice in gambling instead of you to take advise of anyone on gambling it is better for you to follow your instinct follow your mindset that will give you a rest of mind and they can also give you an opportunity for you to win a gambling, but most people does not know that this can make you to win not the instinct or the directive of another person, that is why I continue to tell people that do not follow anybody to do what they are doing that I have to do with the gambling because you may not be privileged to have the opportunity of winning gambling, whatever that is in your mind do it in gambling so that you will not portion any blend to anybody when you lose and then when you also profit

Yeah for sure, when a gambler or any other individual is highly healthy in it's mental, emotional wellbeing, then it's a crucial steps to gaining advantage in every decision to be made. The only reasons why many gamblers always feel like nothing really good coming out of it is the issue of mental disordeiness.

That's an action I actually believe is unethical. Gambling is essentially a matter of one's own volition, and when we gamble, we should be prepared for the risks involved. But it's reasonable to say that those who blame others are losing self-control. Yes, gambling can affect emotions, and if players lack self-control, their emotions may become uncontrollable.
Taking responsibility for our own mistakes or decisions is the right behavior, and it extends beyond gambling.

Despite the fact that we all make decisions in our lives ultimately on our own, I would like to say that in those countries where online casinos are banned, the percentage of visitors is much lower, because after all, this is an obstacle for many people.
Even if we consider the example of a guy traveling, who is thinking between two activities on the weekend: to go to a casino or to play billiards, then having learned that casinos are prohibited in the country where he ended up, he will simply shrug his shoulders and go play billiards. And I think there are many such examples.

This is absolutely true, it is important to have a mindset of accepting any outcome in gambling, because every outcome always depends on luck.
so here you have to accept any loss or win and limit yourself, if gambling goes to an excessive level, it will cause harm.
so the decision here always depends on yourself, because you can manage gambling responsibly if you want, Because everything depends on yourself.
but if your mindset is wrong and you have greed and passion, then you can easily make wrong decisions, which easily leads you to addiction.

One thing, is I've never blamed my own failure or addiction on someone else, I'm more than 18 so yeah I take full responsibility of my actions in what ever I choose to do. I've been in gambling for quite some time now, not addicted ( never been addicted to anything in my life ) just a casual gambler, losing and winning some times but I never see need to blame the Govemment for my misfortunes.

I've never seen anyone the Govemment made to gamble, it's always a choice. I see so many adults crying over gambling ads and I'm like "dude no one is forcing you to play" if you don't like what you see, the best way to react is to ignore.

We all have to be accountable on how we are gambling and not that we shift blame on others, gambling is more of a personal decision than shifting of the blame on other people, we should know this, that whatever happens in it, we are going to be more responsible for it, because its all about us and we should not allow for the others to take the full responsibility of what we are expected to be in charge for, also, we should not shift blame on anyone for any failure experienced in gambling.

Correct on 3rd party games but not on house game since casino have control over these type of games.

I do blame sometimes the game and accused it of being unfair but that is just me on trying to release my disappointment when losing. For me there’s nothing wrong to blame the game when you lose if your reaction is just contained within yourself without affecting others or spreading negativity against the casino.

I easily coped on my disappointment when I stressed out already.

Not only the government but also the gambling platform never forces the gambler to gamble. Gambling is done on the gambler's own interest. But the problem arises when the gambler loses control and conducts gambling. It is completely unreasonable to blame someone else for gambling lose. Those who blame someone else for their mistakes in such a situation can never be prudent gamblers. If the gambler cannot accept gambling easily, then it is better to avoid everything related to gambling as soon as possible.

The first sign of irresponsibility in gambling is when players blame others for their losses if you cannot own up to your decisions as an adult then gambling is not for you it is like buying something and then asking for a refund after using it it makes no sense you cannot eat your cake and have it back if you are not sure about staking an amount then it is better not to place the bet. Many players blame the casino when they lose at slots claiming the games are designed to take advantage of them however the games are controlled by providers and most casinos do not manipulate them except for house games where the casino has some control it is important to place bets responsibly to avoid feeling the need to blame anyone else sometimes it may feel like someone else is responsible but discipline in betting is key. Blaming the game for a loss can be a way to release disappointment as long as it is contained and does not affect others or spread negativity towards the casino this is a personal coping method for some people it helps manage stress and frustration after a loss and allows the player to continue gambling responsibly without externalizing anger or creating conflict. Learning to cope with disappointment and accepting losses as part of the game is essential it builds mental maturity and prevents unnecessary conflicts with other players or the casino itself controlling reactions to losses is as important as understanding the games being played.

It's usually newbies that will rather shift blames on the casino instead of taking the responsibility for their gambling decisions and results. The blame they shift on the casino probably makes them feel satisfied or less frustrated but at same time it builds up problems for them such that they would not want to learn from their mistakes and it is very bad character to exhibit.

This is normal to put frustration on oneself, feel disappointed for making the wrong picks and sometimes shift frustration towards players and clubs for casting a bet slip and turn it in to a normal football banter for that week and that's all for those of us who play only soccer bets.

If everyone gambled in a way most of us do, there would be fewer pointless lawsuits against casinos.

Gambling is a game of wins and losses, this is what we all signed up for, we can either win or lose, those are the two possible outcomes. There's a third option and thats a refund, this happens when the casino is at fault and also when there's an error in settling a game you staked on, this is also possible in sports games when you pick an option like over 3 and the teams end up scoring 3 goals. anything asides this there's nothing to blame the casino for

that is right, every single decision we take when gambling was completely from us and not anyone else, and so we are the ones who should take full responsibility for our decisions and actions, and blaming others for your own mistakes and errors would be completely unacceptable. part of being a responsible gambler is accepting your errors and mistakes when gambling, and learning from the mistakes

It's okay to be frustrated and sometimes angry when you don't win. You blame coaches for their faulty tactics and referees for wrong officiating. But what makes you a mature gambler is taking full responsibility for your actions. Blaming the casino for the outcome of games is wrong because you were not coerced into placing bets.

Some lawsuits against gambling are mainly because of accusations of scam or poor services and not necessarily because of addiction.

Not just newbies but most gamblers blame their losses on the casinos when they lose big instead of accepting defeat and putting taking the blame for gambling with the amount they could afford to lose, it's no longer new that casinos do not force people to gamble and the rules is very clear the casino doesn't force anyone to continue gambling when they are losing but the greed of wanting to win back the amount that is lost has always been the reason why gamblers end up losing so much in gambling. Gambling is risky every gambler should be mindful of the mistakes they make and take responsibilities instead of shifting the blames to the casinos.

Yes. I gamble consciously and don't blame others. Because gambling is a personal decision, blaming others is incredibly foolish. Even when we register on gambling sites, they ask for age and then there are signs stating that the decision to gamble is a personal choice, not coercion. The reason for the age restriction is because age influences our decision-making process before gambling.

We humans are logical creatures all actions and decisions are based on rational consideration. Therefore, human decisions and choices are influenced by information and careful consideration, including when it comes to gambling. When we gamble, it's our choice, and the consequences are our responsibility, not the government, casinos, or anyone else. Furthermore, gambling has existed since ancient times, so every decision to gamble is your own, including the risks involved.

While at the end, all these doesn't change anything, when they have already lose the game, though as you have mentioned, they catch the forum and in so doing for relieved of the stress on loss, while in some cases, we can discover that the gamblers don't even do such, either they win or lose the game, they move on as they have already expected either of the two to happen, we don't have to be too desperate with gambling, that we must win and if we lose, then feels disappointed for nothing.

And when it comes to gambling, the only person that needs to be blamed is the bettor because the betting site is only a platform, and what the user uses it for does not concern the site, and this is why the person betting is the one to be blamed, so I am not even bothered about blaming anyone. The best thing is to have plans when betting so that even when you lose, you will not be looking for anyone to blame, so this is why when you are placing bets, you bet what you can afford to lose. That is the way, and when you are gambling, it is better to just take responsibility and move on.

I often see people blaming casinos, the government and most often gambling advertisements, I smile a little seeing them and how stupid they are, I can't blame the casino because the one who has control over ourselves is ourselves, not like what I said, if something bad happens then blame yourself

The betting site will not bet for you but instead it's you who will use the platform to place your bets, though it's usual that after suffering with a loses a person or a gambler will find someone to blame and point their fingers, there are so many raise concerns and opinions but in reality if you don't want to lose then don't go and play as simple as it is so you won't blame anyone as there's nothing to point your finger if you don't associate yourself into it.

For the fact that most gamblers don't see how important decision-making is in gambling, they will always make mistakes and look for someone to blame at the end of the day. If gamblers were to learn to have the habit of making good decisions about the amount to gamble and when to stop, there wouldn't be any regret or a need to look for someone to blame. Most gamblers don't even have a good pattern in gambling, a plan, or good habits. Gamblers gamble just as they wish; they are controlled by their urges, and that is why people will always regret and look for someone to blame after gambling with an amount that they can't afford to lose.

These kinds of activities just make me laugh, everything here depends on your own decision, so blaming others after losing, will this doesn't matter to anyone, and no one will care it, because the loss will be yours alone, you are deciding to gamble more with your money, if you lose money, you will be responsible for it, and you will also face problems yourself. So here you should at least have the ability and understanding to consider right and wrong, those who try to gamble more by blaming others like this, they are definitely making themselves look stupid, no one is forcing you to bet, it is absolutely your own decision, so the responsibility of losing or winning is also yours, so it is important to think about this first.

Not all gamblers fall in this category but the fact is that the number of gamblers who have no decision or their own is more than those who are not being controlled by the spirit of gambling, addicted gamblers are often seeming complaining of the difficulty in winning in gambling but they will always gamble no matter the amount he has lost. No one should listen to gamblers when they complain they must have who to blame on for their losses.

Those people who blame others (casinos, government, etc), they may be a typical of person who never admit their mistakes. If they never admit it, they will never understand it. So, they will keep blaming others. Unfortunately, this type of people is very difficult to give any advice. When we try to advice them, they may refuse it and blame us, too. You actually have done the right way if you only keep smile and stay away from them.  ;)

The greatest disappointment system comes when these gamblers get trapped into believing that the following win would always compensate the past loss. You might observe how this attitude is repeated a number of times finally making people pass over the fact that the odds will never be in their favour. We should point out that accusing others is not a solution of the problem; on the contrary, this forces someone out of the control. I suppose a good initial step is taking responsibility by realizing that everything that happens is because of oneself and not because of the outside factors.

Oh yeah I take full responsibility and beat mhself up for it pretty bad when I do stupid shit in general but especially with gambling. This is my secret trick to help me stay away from gambling for long periods of time  ;) I mean dont get me wrong sometimes casinos and games can definitely mess you up but at the end of the day its all your own choice

Some of these lawsuits; they argued and claimed some games were built to exploit gamblers and that that most RTP were fraudulent.

Most of these filed lawsuits came from addicted gambling players looking for compensation and a way to express their frustrations.

And the funny part is people act like someone pushed them to press that bet button when in reality it was their own fingers doing it this mindset of shifting blame is just an escape from accountability but the truth is money doesn’t care about excuses once it’s gone it’s gone. Gambling has always been a personal choice and the moment you sit at the table or log into the platform you already know the risks so pretending afterwards that it was because of others influence or bad advice is just a way of hiding from the truth if you want the potential thrill of winning you also need to be ready for the sting of losing. In fact the ones who constantly push the blame end up never improving because they never analyze their own behavior or mistakes they keep repeating the same cycle expecting a different outcome and when that fails again the blame game returns so the real maturity is not in winning every time but in owning both outcomes and adjusting yourself instead of pointing fingers. and when you think about it this blaming habit is the exact opposite of what gambling requires because gambling already comes with uncertainty so if you can’t even accept the results that come with your own choices then you’re not really cut out for it every wager is a risk that you agreed to and if you’re not ready for both sides of the coin you shouldn’t be playing at all, also there’s another side to this people who always blame others after losing usually don’t celebrate others when they win if someone gave them advice and they won big they’d take full credit for it but when they lose suddenly that same advice becomes the scapegoat it shows the double standards in their thinking and that’s why many gamblers end up stuck in frustration.

You must take all the responsibility in gambling. Because here you are gambling knowing the risk, so you cannot blame anyone for your loss. And you cannot blame anyone for your stupidity because it is completely your personal matter. If you cannot control yourself from gambling and cannot keep your limits, then it will be completely your personal failure. And no one will take the responsibility for this failure. It is definitely good if you have some unique strategies that can keep you away from the deep addiction of gambling. Because without good strategies, you cannot control yourself because there are many accidents in gambling and because of this you cannot control yourself easily.

Accepting losses is one of the things that shows maturity in a person’s gambling activities. For those who accept their losses, it becomes easier to control themselves and avoid falling deeper into gambling, such as chasing losses that only lead to even greater losses. But unfortunately, not many gamblers have the maturity to accept their losses. Most tend to blame the platform or the game they are playing, suspecting it is rigged or involves cheating intentionally designed to trap them. When in fact, the main problem lies with their own inability to control themselves, which causes them to lose more than they should.

Sure, many people are always looking for where to drop their blames, nobody want to take responsibility of their actions and that's the problem we are having, casino or other gambling companies never for a day call or force you from your home to come and play rather you walked by your self to their own office and  play it all by yourself, and if anything later goes wrong you will be looking for who to be blamed, that is unreasonable, casino or any of the companies always indicates in their terms and conditions that you must be up to 18year, which simply means you must be an adult, up to the age of accountability and being able to take decisions by your self.

So in essence is that let's try and build up that mindset of being held for our own actions, It only makes us a better people.

I agree with you. Blaming others for your losses in gambling is foolish because the gambler who plays on his own decisions should take responsibility for it himself. Some gamblers blame the casino developers after losing or have friends around them who give him advice to help him. I think you should gamble with the amount of money you play without taking advice from others and based on your own judgement because dependent behaviour does not allow you to become an experienced gambler. You will lose most of the time through the game and the amount of winning will be very small. Gambling with this kind of mindset can keep you away from gambling addiction. By applying your own decisions and strategies, you can reduce the amount of losses as well as gain new experience and avoid doing foolish things like blaming others.

I will gamble myself, gamble with my own money and gamble using my own skills and experience, and if the results do not come in my favor after doing all this, then there is really no one to blame for it. In gambling, it is clear that every gambler has to take the maximum risk of money, if we can accept this fact, then we will never blame anyone else.

Winning and losing in gambling is a very normal thing, but when the amount of losses is much higher than winning, then we actually have to take a break for a while and think about why we are losing regularly.

There are actually many reasons why a gambler loses in gambling, such as he may not be able to make the right decision, he may not be able to choose the right team while betting, and he is in too much of a hurry. If these common problems are the main reasons for losing, then I think that if a gambler takes a break in between gambling, at least he will not have to lose later due to this problem.

You can always find someone to blame for your failures, but that’s just an attempt to avoid responsibility, and it’s a habit of a weak person. In gambling I chose betting for myself, and I believe that in this case no one can be blamed but me, because I’m the one who chooses the bet. And if something unexpected happens in a match, then it’s just bad luck, because that also happens.

These immature people are dangerous for any type of business. I once helped a relative and explained how cryptocurrencies work, their value, their history, how to invest, and how to gamble online. When he started earning his first profits, I was the best; as soon as he started losing money, it was my fault.
I explained to him that choices are individual; I simply explained for free, thus wasting my time for him without asking for anything. He couldn't blame me. After this experience, I recommend it here on the forum, but I don't want to be held responsible for personal choices!

It is true that one of the best behaviors in gambling is being able to accept defeat. This is a mature attitude in gambling because players like this are likely to be wise in gambling, as their goal is simply to have fun or they are not too obsessed with winning. Those who suspect manipulation or other issues are often those who view gambling as a source of income, whereas that is not the case. If one were to think of it as a business that needs to be developed, there would be no misunderstandings here.

The reality is that casino developers always want you to lose but you always want to win, the gap between the two is entertainment. Casino developers are always ahead because it is their business strategy. Some casinos cheat gamblers, it is realistic but you cannot hold them responsible or question it because you have started playing on their platform by following all their terms.

Sometimes there can be suspicions about cheating and the actions of the casino company but most of the time it is proven false. Most gamblers get emotional after losing and blame others, even the casino companies thats most may be baseless.

Human nature though has it very difficult to accept defeat, in our daily lives, in our jobs we are always in competition with other people and we want to always do better than them which will lead to recognition and prestige. The same in gambling we as human beings have difficulties to accept losses there and most people simply cannot accept such outcome, they continue to play hoping that one day they will turn the fate to their side and they always blame the game, I was one of them that used to blame the providers and never once until recently blamed myself, since blaming myself, I have greater self-control and I can stay without or with gambling as much time as I want or as I see fit to.

How can we blame the government, the casinos or the existence of gambling when the gambling habit is our decision and behavior? No one forces us to gamble, and we gamble for our own pleasure or greed. What right do we have to blame others?

No offense but in my opinion people who keep blaming gambling or investing every time they lose are losers. They fail to control themselves, and those who only know how to blame without daring to face and admit their mistakes, they will always fail in life.

I think that there should be no such thing as blaming someone for our losses , because we must be responsible for our actions, If we play in a casino and lose for whatever reason, it is our own fault, and no one else's.

Those who blame others for their losses are plainly irresponsible. Yes, they're irresponsible and are not likely to make any progress. Gamblers should own up to whatever the outcome of their actions is. There's a reason gambling has age restriction not to allow minors into it. One of such reasons is taking responsibility for one's actions while on it. Why pass the buck when things go sour like the biblical Adam but take the glory alone when it goes well? I like those who blame themselves for what action(s) they should've taken that they didn't take or what action they took that they shouldn't have taken. That's the way to go. Those ones are men enough.

Avoid anyone who shifts blame so you can guard your peace of mind. They will blame you for not even brushing their own teeth.

I think that when a player gets carried away, loses self-control, and spends large sums of money, they tend to shift responsibility for their actions onto external factors. The most important thing is that it only takes one experience to learn a lifelong lesson and not repeat such actions again. However, if this behavior continues, it’s worth seeking professional help, it will be cheaper in the long run.

Trying to shift blame when one is met with a loss in gambling is a sign of unprofessionalism and anyone engaging in such should not be someone you should condone in any kind of place of benefits with some sort of uncertainties that may lead to loss which may arise because of the nature of the place. People easily try to shift blame in order not to be held accountable for their losses, they thing it is something wise, but they’re just killing their self confidence and it will affect them outside the scope of gambling. Losses are inevitable, so when you come across one, take it with one mind and work towards trying to minimize further occurrence of such losses in the future.

This is the best way to think as a gambler, if you can't take responsibility for your decisions or actions then you should not be gambling In that first place...taking full responsibility for your losses also makes you become a better gambler and this happens when you start learning from your mistakes and becoming more careful with that decisions that you make when you are gambling, blaming others won't help

Actually, there is no logic in blaming someone else for your loss, did someone give you too much hope for gambling? Did they force you to gamble? It's your money, so if you wanted to stay away from gambling, could they have done anything? No, in fact, we have no logical reason to blame others, you gambled with your money with full knowledge, so if you lose, you will be the only one responsible, there is nothing to blame others for.

Unless someone has a gun to your head literally forcing you to gamble but when that happens you have bigger problems to tackle lol. Yes the blame game is a complete cop out, there is no excuse other than your own stupidity and losses I am with you 100%. I hope the folks who can't control it get a grip because when gambling you can't play games like this with your money if you can't afford it

Yes, I agree with that. We must first accept losses before we even try to blame another. I mean, it's our decision to gamble in the first place, and I think we also knew the risk before we even tried to gamble our money. The house edge will always get the upper hand, and as long as we have accepted that fact, then I guess we can enjoy gambling more.

Of course, we can win sometimes, but it's up to us whether we will keep on going or not. Another decision that must be made, and we cannot blame anyone if we make the wrong one.

True, acceptance is very important to move forward, if you can't accept and you can't take the blame then better not to gamble or not to involve yourself to any gabling activities, pointing fingers to someone else only shows that you are at huge risk in losing more than you can afford to let go, as you'll keep on pushing forward even you already loses a lot, you will find ways to justify the situation just to continue playing.

I take responsibility of my losses since it's my decision to gamble my money. This is the reason why it's a must to know what you're getting into before playing. Because losing is inevitable in gambling. Hence we should know the consequences to become prepared if worse case happened.

Playing in moderation, self control and acceptance (in facing losses) are crucial. If you can't bear losing your money and will just blame the casino or others for your losses, then better to not gamble at all.

Honestly, that's why knowledge, discipline and self control are everything you need to be in gambling because if you cannot be able to set boundaries and limits to yourself then at the end you will pay the price for your inactions and the prices you pay for gambling is grade by grade, especially depending on the amount of money you have staked into it. It's more money, more risks and more failures, more damages. People talk big about building strategies when gambling but the biggest kind of strategy you should build lies on your ability of quickly knowing when you should continue or stop and making such decisions immediately instead of allowing your emotions take control of you.

At the end of the day gambling is a personal decision you make to your self and your taste so whatever comes thereafter you should be able to take the full responsibility of the consequences instead of playing the blame game besides nobody forced you there in the beginning so you should be bold and man enough to take your responsibilities with full chest. In gambling, never allow anyone to persuade you into taking any responsibilities when it is your money and investments at stake.


I've learnt that once you stop blaming people and you begin to take full responsibility of your choices, it will automatically make you to start to learn grow and make smarter moves when taking subsequent decisions. I believe that the moment you begin to shift blames to others by allowing others to control your decisions in gambling, trust me, it is the moment you should agree that you are setting up yourself against losses that are worse than the ones you have encountered in the past. So, you've got to learn how to accept your mistakes, identify the solutions and move forward to the next challenges ahead.

That's true, especially with the so-called profit, which of course when we experience a loss, we might not be able to accept it. I mean, most people seem to be like that, but we have to look at the circumstances first because in gambling, I think the losses we can experience are something that is absolutely certain to happen and cannot be avoided, so we should be able to accept it. Moreover, if we can't accept this reality, it will probably make things even more difficult for us. And if it does happen, don't look at others, but look at ourselves to blame.

Losses are an integral part of gambling. Therefore, you must always be ready for them. It is clear that everyone wants every bet to be a winning one and for winning streaks to last as long as possible, but that rarely happens. For me, it is already acceptable if I place several bets in a day and the losing ones are the smaller part. That is already quite acceptable for me, and of course, in gambling you should not blame anyone for losses, not even yourself.

There is a moment that every gambler regrets. I am sure that poker players have especially many such stories, because this is the kind of gambling where not everything depends on luck, but also partly the outcome of the game depends on the poker player himself. For example, when all the cards on the table are opened in a one-on-one game after an all-in and the one who had a good combination of cards in his hands loses.

I have seen this even at international championships in Vegas and it is always a show. But the one who could not win will then remember this for years and regret it.

Agreed, we're to blame ourselves when we find ourselves gambling because we're supposed to be incharge of our mind and not letting the games be in control of us. Even when we're held at gun point, we still have the choice of choosing not to gamble irresponsibly and get ourselves in challenges that we can't get out of. Being addicted to gambling is something that isn't easy to get out of and you'll still be owing debts because you'll be borrowing to gamble.

It's better we don't gamble than to be blaming others when we start having issues that's causing us to get low on cash. Blaming others isn't going to stop you from having the problem that you have hence owning up to your mistakes is the only thing that can help you because you'll start taking more precautions that way.

A gambler or newbies that wants to start gambling is meant to already know and have a full details of what they are venturing into and knowing that gambling is a game of chance which you are not going to win the way you expect or desire to, winning is based on how the casino's house edge allows you to and you can not blame them because they are there to make profit and not as a charity company to make player rich. Even though some people luckily get rich, it is by great luck.

I get the point about personal responsibility but this is not only about willpower. Addiction rewires the brain and makes stopping much harder even when someone knows the harm. Easy access to gambling and pressure to chase losses trap people who never intended to be in this situation. Blaming someone rarely helps and it pushes people to hide the problem. I have seen families tear apart because of this and the fallout can last for years.

If you want to help start with a calm nonjudgmental conversation where you point to specific changes you have noticed. Offer to help find a counselor Gamblers Anonymous or a debt adviser. Help reduce access to money by removing saved cards or asking the bank to block gambling transactions. Set firm boundaries so you do not cover debts or hide losses. Keep records of threats or violence and call emergency services if someone is in immediate danger. Look after your own mental health and talk to someone about how this is affecting you. If you want I can write a short plain message you can send or find local support contacts and draft them for you.

Indeed, as you have that full obligation with such amount that you'll going to use, I guess most of those responsible gamers managed to understand both risk and potentials, the very reason that they keep that composures and balance with their gambling activities they are not blaming anyone but they take it thing on their own and managed to move forward after.

A series of sudden wins at an online casino can break the psychological defenses of even the most prepared gambler.
Because in fact, such a gambler will be preparing for the fact that the results will, at best, show 50/50: wins and losses.
And if suddenly he wins once, then a short time later a second time and immediately a third time, then most likely he will relax a little and think that today is a Lucky Day.
And this will be the first step towards the gambler not having a completely cool head when it comes to online casinos or betting.

When you win a gamble you tell yourself that you deserve it because you predicted very well you don't blame anybody for your win but when you lose you tend to blame someone for your losing is that really normal.
Just like you said Dr.Bitcoin_Strange that gambling is a game of chance and one can't be too sure if he or she will win or lose, gambling should be done for fun and not just for the money, if you are gambling for the money you will always blame the team that you played to win and they lost and you may also blame the gambling company which is very wrong.
However when you are gambling for the fun and you lost you will always blame your skill of prediction and you will just try to improve more on yourself, I really don't like when people blame gambling companies for their lost it is a game so when you lose don't blame anybody because when you win you don't blame people.

You know, sometimes the government should also be blamed for allowing gambling to operate in its country. Many ordinary citizens can become addicted to gambling and ruin their lives.

Even if they do allow it, there should still be limitations. But at the end of the day, as gamblers ourselves, we should know our responsibilities
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Imagine that someone wakes up very early every day and goes to work, when he comes back very late and tired he sleeps, for 30 days this person is working very hard, but has weekends as days of rest, he takes his salary that he earned with great effort and takes $50 after paying all the bills, he takes this $50 to be able to play in some casino, he keeps playing and loses $20 and when he wants to continue playing he receives a notice that he cannot continue playing because he exceeded the limit that the government established

so at that moment the person will think: "who spent 30 days working hard?" Was it the government or him? If it was him, then why doesn't he have the right to use the money he receives as he wishes? the problem of governments that limit their citizens, and with these limitations they make people start using dark methods and this makes the situation even worse

This is probably why the best poker champions are those people who not only have a very analytical mind and the ability to calculate the odds of winning, but also those people who really keep their poker Face and their thoughts under the strongest control. And even if they see that their potentially winning combination ultimately failed to bring victory, they will accept it as a given.

And this explains why there are so few true professionals even among those who can count cards very well.

People who doesn't take responsibilities blame everything on people, there must be people to take blames for their shortcomings.
If an underage gambles, we blame the government for not setting and implementing laws against children gambling. We also blame the parents for not raising responsible children.

When adults get addicted, they blame their peer group, they blame the casino for designing addictive games and possibly blame their family for financial burden.

You're right every one somehow finds a way to shift their failures to others but the fact remains that when it comes to gambling we should hold ourselves accountable because what ever that happens to us we allowed it to happen.



Gambling is one thing that is dangerous so when engaging in it people should not allow themselves to be taken over by it so that we don't end up blaming people for your faults

We should be accountable for whatever we do. In as much as we are adults, learning to be accountable and responsible for whatever decisions we make will save us alot of stress.
If I decide that every month, gambling will take 20% of my income, I should be able to discuss this with my wife and set out the monthly budget, whence it is exhausted, we gamble no more and wait for the next month.
But if we don't make this basic plans and budgeting, we will be surprised to see how we struggle with gambling and its effects.

I have not seen anyone get rich from gambling. Maybe I have not seen such gamblers in my area but I have seen some gamblers who have been involved in gambling for a long time. I think they win but hide it and even if they lose they do not reveal it. Those who get involved in gambling knowing the risks may continue gambling for a long time but gamblers who decide to continue playing only for the sake of earning money cannot survive on this platform for long. Most of the time luck is the determinant of winning or losing and you will not win most of the time so it is not a good decision to aspire to get rich from gambling.

Ofcourse people will always have something to put the blame on because it is possible for something to be a reason why one became addicted to gambling to gambling but no one has an excuse to give because because their are people who found their self in the the same condition they never become addicted,  if these people can be discipline that means anyone can also be discipline to, so no excuse to give . Instead of looking for who to blame or what to blame it is just better to try to make a change and to to try t be responsible in gambling.

It's the same way: when we gamble, we must be prepared to lose the money we deposit. That's why it's important to assess our financial capabilities. Betting within our means is sufficient. Furthermore, blaming or venting emotions for lost money on others is completely unreasonable.

Gambling is not a good idea to get rich by gambling. Gambling is not a way to make money for entertainment or a get-rich-quick scheme. Greed always leads people to ruin, and gambling out of greed doubles the chances of losing money. It is better to gamble with the money we can afford to lose because it is not possible to predict anything in gambling. If you follow the right rules, it is much easier to avoid losing extra money and maintain self-control.

But if we look at how novice gamblers play with money that they even still need for other purposes, so painful losses are inevitable.
Gambling is not just about profit, but about luck or bad luck because all of it will happen quite randomly and some sports betting is based on luck and some analysis that can indeed be applied.

But for a game like Slots it will really be based on luck, so those who think they will get rich with gambling,
they are just risking their money for an entertainment that will end up losing.

I agree, blaming others for your own losses is a sign of irresponsibility...we must learn to hold ourselves accountable for the losses that we incur in gambling because we are the ones that made the decision of staking that amount of money....this is why it's very important to always be cautious of our stakes, gambling with what you cannot afford to lose can end up becoming a problem

What's your point?
Sure, gambling isn't a proper way to be rich because the chance isn't quite high. If someone wants to be rich, it is better to focus on investment. Gambling is a place for entertainment purpose although there is a chance to win the jackpot (big money).

True. Gambling must use safe money. It means we use the amount of money that we afford to lose. Although there is a chance to earn money, there is no guarantee to get certain amount of money. So, we just try luck and enjoy the games with small amount of money.

It's always like that, in fact sometimes players don't accept that they can have failures , or they feel ashamed, sorry, I don't know... but as they mature they will Know that Winning and losing in the casino is normal, especially losing, the bad thing is losing a lot of Money.

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I agree, gambling is 100% an individual's own choice and any financial losses are their own responsibility.

Although there are some exceptions, like if a casino has exempted a player from gambling at their establishment/platform on request of the person themselves, due to a problematic gambling addiction, then the casino is in the wrong to having let that person gamble again - assuming the person was not hiding his identity and made his name clear to the casino.

It is true, wrong to blame others for gambling losses. Before you decide to bet your money, you should already understand the consequences and rules of gambling. If you're of legal age, you don't need anyone approval to bet, and in my opinion, people of legal age certainly have more logical thinking when taking action. I mean, they're no longer easily influenced by others or even by gambling ads.

I think many people have experienced frustration due to consecutive losses, but in that situation, the right attitude is to stop temporarily, not to blame others or the bookie. Therefore, never use gambling for purposes other than entertainment, as it will cause many bad impacts on daily life.

When it comes to gambling 🎰, playing the blame game just shows that you are in the wrong place and not ready to take up responsibility!

And unfortunately gambling has slapped a minimum age of 18 because as humans we believe a person at this age should be grown enough to make their own choices as an adult, if age isn't the barrier then whatever greed that follows that pushes people into gambling addiction is on the player themselves and never the gambling platform!

Indeed, regrets or realization take place when a person losses a lot, those who are ready to admit their failures will manage to move forward, then restart everything, to the point that they are willing to forget about it and permanently stop, while others still in blaming defense, pointing fingers to someone or the casino itself which will not going to help, as they will chase those loses and repeated that same mistakes.

It seems to me that everyone has some kind of limit. The sad part is that some lessons come at a very high cost, and this doesn’t only apply to money but also to close relationships. I can’t fully understand people who break their relationships with loved ones for the sake of gambling, what drives them in such moments, and how they can be helped. After all, gambling is something that can be controlled, it’s enough just to be able to calculate how much money you earn, how much you need for living expenses and essential needs, and what remains for everything else, including gambling.

Unreasonable but expected. Ranting, blaming, venting negative emotions, either through chat or through different means is a way of a gambler to release his madness. Sure, it's not right but there are worse things that could happen if a gambler cannot release that emotion. I've seen streamers who destroyed their keyboards, monitors, and there's even one who smashed his smartphone due to frustration.

These kind of actions can be prevented if they can rant their emotions in a chatbox or maybe a channel where it will be welcomed and accepted.

People never blame themselves but in my opinion people face losses due to people's mistakes. Gambling is definitely a person's own choice if he gambles as he likes and then loses then it is his fault not anyone else's fault. Gambling side does not force a person to gamble but people play there of their own will and if they lose then they blame gambling it should not be done at all. But there are some things that we can blame like the government of a country cannot control everything properly here it makes many kinds of mistakes when we blame them. But in our case we should not blame others but if we focus on what we like later if something goes wrong from there then it is our fault. So I think we should blame ourselves for whatever we do if it is due to loss.

Well, this is a classic thing.

Of course the responsibility is on the person that gambles themselves. But of course the moment they lose all their money, they want to blame someone else.

That's quite typical human behavior. It doesn't make it good though.

Blaming someone or something for your mistakes, losses, or failures is cowardly, irresponsible, and a loser's mentality.
I don't mean financially, but personally.
Gambling is a form of entertainment, but it still has a significant impact on a family's daily life, work, and finances.
If you have the mentality of a child, gambling is literally devastating.
If any of you feel irresponsible, can't manage your emotions, and struggles to gamble, you should stop gambling immediately or not start at all.

Sometimes I think that all of us, even those who consider themselves to be very morally strong and have great self-control, can show their dark side through uncontrolled gambling. I mean, excessive greed can manifest itself so much that it makes us weak. And those who were confident yesterday will hate themselves and be hated by their surroundings today.
Therefore, if someone doubts, even by 1%, that he will be able to maintain self-control, then such a person should stay away from gambling. After all, this can become the most difficult test in his life, which he may not pass.

Not just unreasonable, but also has the potential to birth irrational thinking and behaviour that could lead to even more losses or even addition. every gambler should come to the realization that losses are an inevitable aspect of gambling, and that no one regardless of their expertise is above losses, and perhaps this could help them device a better way to approach gambling in order to avoid unintended and unnecessary losses.

As a rule, stories about strong addictions have many variables and, of course, the gambler or bettor himself is to blame, but the fact is that the environment, as well as education, and upbringing by parents - all this influences him.
Of course, no one forces us at gunpoint to press a button in an online casino to place bets or deposit money, but this is not an absolutely 100% decision of a single gambler. I believe that to a certain extent something pushes them to do this.

This is true because any gambler who is with his right senses will never blame anyone for his or her lose, how can you possibly blame someone for losing when the person is not there with you when you were seriously making your prediction. Though sometimes you May be getting opinion  from people around you or friends more especially in offline gamble but you have every right to stick to the one that is suitable for you. And Yeah, that's how it is sometimes when making a prediction your friends may be bringing suggestions and sometimes you can get distracted this is why I don't team with friends when making prediction I don't like taking other people's prediction, though I can remembered taken my friends suggestions and it failed but I don't blame him for that because I know that gambling is just a game of luck.

Sometimes gamblers shift the blame for losing to others or the casino because they are frustrated which is normal but we must learn to own up to our mistakes snd decisions..gambling is something that's done out of your win free will, for the fact that no one is forcing you to do it simply means that you are responsible for the outcomes of your actions...this is common with beginners because they are not mentally mature yet

That's right, many novice gamblers are not able to control their emotions, so when they experience a loss of a certain amount they will blame the other party. It is nothing new that in this case, the bookie is the party most often blamed. I think that as time goes by, novice gamblers will be able to understand well how gambling works, and how they should control themselves when gambling. Usually novice gamblers have the perception that bookies will provide fair winnings that correspond to the amount of money they have spent.

Shift the blame to others is a very wrong way. This shouldn't happen, even for the beginners. I'm sure the beginners must understand the consequence when they decide to play gambling games. I agree that playing gambling games is basically our own intention. So, we must blame ourselves if we did mistakes such as losing huge money or addicted to the games. It is just strange that gamblers blame others because there is no element of compulsion to play the gambling games. Well, in my own opinion, everyone who wants to gamble, they must ensure that they are matured enough. That's why at least someone should be 18 years old to join gambling.

Blaming someone or the casino for your loss is a sign that you are been irresponsible.  You are suppose to be responsible for your choices at the casino or any other places, it helps you be better at whatever it is you are doing and help you learn the lesson you should  learn so that in the case of a subsequent time, you will be able  to do better than you have done at the first instance, when I suffer loses, I see it as an opportunity to learn and get a better strategy, I do no throw blame around because I do not de it to be necessary.

As long as you don’t understand how everything works, you will blame the casino, especially beginners who think that the casino can influence the games. But there is no point in blaming anyone, because if you decide to gamble, you must understand the probability of winning and, most importantly, that you can lose what you bet. After losing, you want to get back what you lost, but blaming someone makes no sense because it won’t help you recover what is already gone. You need to think about that before you even start playing.

Yes we should actually do take responsibility for every loss of ours, because gambling is not a thing anyone can be forced into doing it. Tho  some game's don't go as expected or predicted taking football for example a very big team get beaten by a small team, which isn't supposed to be when that big team has over 70% chance of winning at the end of the day we will want to blame the game we played on but the truth is we it's our responsibility and nobody cause it's a won or loose game, one must definitely happen, that's why so many people see gambling as a game of luck. So blaming the government or even casino doesn't change the fact that you made the choice your and not forced into doing it. My advice for any new gambler have this in your mind you own your win and you also own your loss, so take responsibility it nobody choice but your choice.

It's not just a sign of being irresponsible, but it's also a sign that the person is not ready to be a gambler, because as a gambler you need to know that whateveryou gamble with should be considered lost and not to start thinking about who to blame if the game result is not in your favour. Every true gambler is aware that they are risking whatever they are gambling with and that they are solely responsible for whatever action they take and not to shift it to another person.

But why will a gambler only gamble with just the mindset of winning alone without making plans for failure? Gambling is never a one way thing, you win today and lose another day that's just part of the industry.  And someone who loses a bet shouldn't be ashamed, as there is nothing to be ashamed of, because I haven't seen any gambler who hasn't lost a bet, so feeling ashamed is not really ideal. I know that someone who just lost a bet do feel bad momentarily, but after that moment a gambler should pick himself up and try again next time.

It's individuals' choice but always remember that there are some people who lacks education and doesn't know the value of money. And obviously, they're the target of these gambling platforms even if you check some statistics, majority of those who lose money are people who are in the poor side while wealthy people and are financially literate are not the common victim of gambling platforms. These people who gambles are those who are hoping to have a life-changing win from gambling and that's the reason why they gamble. Making it more accessible attracts them to this "life-changing" dream of them so they will definitely try and of course, it's not hard to avoid.

As for us who are knowledgeable about gambling, of course it's on our decision if we will gamble, we blame ourselves.

Because in the end, it becomes a selfish way for some people to pretend that they are not guilty for what they have done, and this is actually the most cowardly way to avoid admitting the mistakes they have made.

Many gamblers do this because they cannot accept defeat but also do not want to be blamed or held responsible for their own mistakes, so they try to shift the blame to a third party, especially the website that manages the gambling.

In the end, if they realize that this is a foolish thing to do, they should try to admit that they made a mistake, but their ego seems to be much bigger than admitting the mistakes they have actually made.

The thing is, nothing surprises me anyone. So many people just don't have what it takes to handle certain things especially failure. If everybody's expectation to get a win is fulfilled, then the gambling industry will collapse in no time. I actually placed my betting on hold recently after experiencing consecutive losses. That is literally the best way i could help myself because i understood that betting is far beyond a 50/50 chance of winning. One problem that i have observed is that a large percentage of gamblers are into gambling with the wrong approach. They think it is a do or die affair, so they see the need to ponder on everything, including their losses.

Because of the most common human nature that we the human always take the positive things in the first for us, And if I say it roughly, there are more such people in this world who always think about positive sites but think less about negative sites. And this is more the case for those who are new to gambling, because in most cases they are influenced towards gambling mainly by watching positive news, in most cases they are inspired by seeing an influencer get the jackpot or seeing their friends and relatives win huge amounts and later they come to gambling with this hope and spend extra funds which they are not able to lose. And in the end there is nothing left but regret and blaming.

That's true, some people get so emotional and decide to play blame game over their actions, some would even be blaming gambling for their wrong choices, truth of the matter is that casinos and betting platforms don't force anyone to use their platforms for gambling and every gambler is responsible for their choices, it's not as if the casino makes decisions for anyone or tell people the options to pick when gambling therefore no one should blame them when they lose, moreover gamblers are even supposed to use their spare money to participate in it so if anyone does otherwise and end up losing, gambling or the casino's are not responsible for their actions, people should quit the blame game and learn to take responsibility of their own actions.

Another aspect we should look at this, which is although ironical is that not everyone who is an irresponsible gambler will acknowledge the fact that they bet irresponsibly. They might not know even if their relatives tell them that they over gamble, gamble irresponsibly or are addicts.
This is where the major problem lies. Someone who doesn't acknowledge that they gamble irresponsibly is a bigger problem. You will only be able solve a problem that is acknowledged to exist.

This is also applicable to addiction. The problem of some addicted gamblers is also their inability to acknowledge that they are addicted. It is the family and friends of the person that will be making futile efforts to solve it. Addiction will only be cured if the addicted acknowledges.

Yeah, well, that's the thing right, most people prefer to blame someone else. That's the easy way out.

The problem is that reality doesn't work like that.

If someone decides something, then it is their own choice, and their own responsibility.

You will be ready to lose when you play for some time and understand that everyone loses, there is no way around it. And in order not to blame anyone, play only with the money that you can afford to lose. No one forces you to gamble, it is your decision, so there is no point in blaming anyone. Gambling requires order, like any other business involving money, if you manage it chaotically, you will lose more than you earn.

I can't blame anyone else but me. Nobody forced me to play casino games or to bet money on sports.
I don't believe that a world in which casinos/bookmakers don't exist is possible in real life. Gambling exists since the beginning of the human civilization. Even when casinos/bookmakers are totally banned by the government, people would still find illegal ways to gamble. Blaming the casino/bookmaker just because you have lost money is immature. If you have reasons to believe that the casino/bookie scammed you, just find a good lawyer and try to prove your claims in court.  If you can't prove your claims, just accept your losses and move on. This is the only way to deal with misfortune.

In this case, nobody should be blamed for anything of these thing whether the government, parents, gambling platforms, or the stations or events promoting gambling casinos. Everyone that is into gambling should understand that this activity is not triggered by more of what we see but more of our interest to make money from betting.

This is more of interest and choice and not always determined by the gambling promotions we do see on the TV. The aspect of using little fund to earn big one is why we do see more gambling participants looking for every means to gamble and make money for themselves. Our decision to gamble often should not be disposed on the government or the gambling related promotion we often see around us.

Gambling is ultimately a personal choice and responsibility blaming casinos governments or ads doesnt change the fact that each person decides to place a bet people are attracted by the idea of turning small money into big wins and that interest comes from within more than from outside promotions sure ads and visibility play a role but the final decision is always with the individual.

Taking responsibility for losses is part of the process blaming others only creates excuses and avoids accountability anyone who chooses to gamble needs to understand the risks and accept both the gains and the losses as their own decisions the reality is gambling is built so the house always has the edge so without discipline and self control the chances of losing increase dramatically.

Instead of pointing fingers its better to focus on self awareness and managing impulses those who set limits and treat gambling as entertainment usually handle it in a healthier way while people chasing fast money often end up with regrets in the end no one is forced into gambling the decision rests on personal choice and mindset.

In gambling, the mentality of accepting defeat and gambling according to the ability to lose is very important, when a gambler gambles with more money than he can afford, and when he loses, he cannot accept his loss, because he borrowed that money from someone, or gambled with the money of some important work of his, and for this reason he cannot accept his losses, and as a result he decides to gamble more to recover his lost money, and thus he falls into a cycle, from which he starts to become addicted, so in gambling, it is necessary to maintain discipline and only play with the money that he can afford to lose, and it is necessary to stop in time.

When wining alone has taken over the mindset of a gambler what do you expect, you should expecta gambler at this point to think that losing does not exist amayone or losing is no more part of gambling, some gambler refuse to accept the fact that losing is is associated to gambling, this is what makes them to feel as if something unusual has happen whenever they encounter loss in gambling, why will anyone even feel shamed of losing, was there any assurance of wining at first, lets get this thing straight, if there are gamblers that are ashamed of losing, that's to say that such gamblers should be ashamed of gambling itself, let's accapt what gambling is instead of having other mindset aside what gambling represent, this will help us a lot.

In life generally, if you're found of shifting blames to people on certain steps you take in your life you will always find yourself in a situation where you remain in the loop, swinging between the bad and ugly side of life. There's no point hiding from the shadows that cast the light of truthfumess in you by shying away from your responsibilities. The worse part is, if you keep shifting blames to people, you will get to a point where you cannot grow in life because it only means you're not bold enough to face your realities.

In this aspect i will not blame the government for allowing gambling to be into existence in so many countries because there still many people that are surviving with this gambling and there are people that has not understood how to gamble to win, and believe that there are many games that government has band because they feel if eventually such games is allowed in the countries it will surely be harmful to the society, so i blame those put all their ways of making money with gambling, such people will end up being so addicted to gambling that he can went further in selling things just to gamble, so it is good to find something meaningful and just see gamble as fun, so that one can not be so emotional when it comes to lossing.

Blaming others for your losses is a loser's mentality. As the OP stated, every decision is a gambler's own choice. It makes no sense to blame others for the risks you experience from an activity you chose to engage in.

Furthermore, there was no coercion or threat from anyone to engage in gambling or to risk your money, so clearly, if the question of who is to blame is your own actions, it's your own actions.

To be fair, that ""it's all on the player"" perspective is too straightforward.  Although individual responsibility is important, casinos intentionally create bigotry by allowing near-misses and ""losses disguised as wins"" to keep employees working even when they are losing. regulators are actually reducing these because they increase the intensity of play.  Additionally the house edge means that the longer you play, the closer you get to expected losses, chasing is not just a lack of self control,  it is a mathematical calculation. so yeah when I own my bets sometimes, of course it is naive to act as though oversight and environment design are unimportant.

People need to have an awareness like you so that they don't always have to lose money on gambling because their goal is to get more money and hope for the jackpot.

It needs to have boundaries so that there is a wall that they can't go through and that will secure money and mentality, so that there are not too many losses that occur.
People who are too greedy with the aim of earning more money without limits will only end up miserable.

It is better to gamble for entertainment by having restrictions that should not be crossed and management needs to be done correctly so as not to become an addict.

Every gambler is naturally conscious and has a plan, but most gamblers are highly inconsistent. Their plans and playing styles change when they experience a losing streak and the urge to take bigger risks arises, leading them to lose control. If all gamblers were truly able to control themselves, then I believe casino cash flow would tend to outflow more than inflow.

I agree with you, taufik123. Having limits protects against all the negative impacts of gambling. Large losses can be avoided when a gambler sets limits, not only on money but also on the length of time spent playing. But unfortunately, this is easier said than done.

Exactly even when the game where given to you by someone else you choose to take it you where not force . So is on you , that’s why I see no reason for one to blame others for their loss in gambling . Beautiful is all about uncertainties and stuff so no one can actually tell or predict the outcome of gambling that’s why most folk usually say gambling is all about luck . Because it usually takes luck for one to win the system .

I don't really like when I see people do blame game. If I smoke tobacco and I'm addicted to it and later get heavy cough, I wouldn't want to blame government for allowing smoking, because it's written that smokers are liable to die young and I did anyway. This is same thing applicable to gambling where gambling is allowed by the government, it's been tax by the government and the gambler gamble away with momey. I don't think it's wise to blame the government for its mistake.

If you are gambling and you lose your money, blame yourself because you had it in mind from beginning to gambler. It was your choice to do it but where you win when you lose or won is when you gamble responsibly, gamble with small amount of money than you can afford to lose and not with an amounts to waste that mind turn out to be given you sleepless night just because you believe you can, there is no such thing as quick momeg in gambling.

Every gambler have the right to make decisions, no one really need to force a gambler to place their bets even if they were given to them by someone. It's really a choice indeed. If my friend give me a booking code to try and I eventually did, but unfortunately I lost the bet. There is no point in ignoring the person and there's also no point to plain the person either. Gamble is for fun and sharing a bet with other gamblers is also art of the fun.

Alot of gamblers have found out that gambling can be predictable whereas that is a wrong assumption on their path since if you have believe that you win a game regardless if you have skills in that games or not, you have already missed your step, gambling for fun have a lot to do with your expectations from your bets and games.


Let say if you are a core gambler, never expecting to win us one way to keep ahead, since this will help you to avoid two things, which are not chasing the winning and also taking up you losses without excuses.

Essentially, once we decide to gamble, it's a choice we've made, so we should be prepared for the risk of losing our deposited money, especially since the chance of losing is greater than the chance of winning. When we gamble and lose, emotions may arise, but blaming others is unethical. However, cases of blaming others may occur, and the perpetrators are most likely those addicted to gambling.

What does chaotic mean? Isn't the game process itself chaotic? We can't control it. We can only monitor the bet level and nothing more. For example, take the same slots. How can you determine when you'll win? That's chaos, isn't it? So there's no point in observing anything. We came to the casino to enjoy the game and have fun. We pay money for that, and sometimes we even win something.

In reality it is, it is easy to say but when trying to play in gambling or betting it is difficult not to violate what has become a limit.
There are many people who forget what their goal is to play and how long the maximum time to play is, so they end up losing more money.

Little or many of no one has ever made that mistake, getting too carried away with gambling and not following every rule they made themselves.

As a gambler, I completely agree. It’s different when you’re actually in the situation, playing, compared to just talking or planning about it. Obviously, your emotions are different too. You’re still calm before you start, but that changes once you’re playing. When your emotions kick in, you don’t care about whatever plan you prepared once you hit your limit, especially during or after a red streak. Nah, it’s easier said than done to control your emotions in that situation.

this has been my advice to people in gambling, anyone who is into gambling knows that gambling is not something will assure of I believe that in gambling will have to know that the risk that is involved can occur at any time, so management of risk is what makes us to be a gambler and the controlling of our emotions whenever we lose is also what makes you a gambler be because you know quite well that gambling can be good or bad at the same time because it's not every time that you Gamble that you will get a profit a profit in gambling is something that comes unexpectedly so therefore gambling is not a sure thing that you will benefit from it.

On the one hand, we can understand gamblers who try to blame others for their failures, because human psychology is such that they do not want to feel guilty. But on the other hand, every person earns money through hard work. And if he is ready to lose this money, then he must understand that his work will be in vain only because of his own actions and decisions. No one presses the buttons for the gambler, only he himself.
And if the casino does not allow you to win, then the money will be reset and the gambler himself will have to experience poverty, and it will be only his fault.

Yes, blaming the loss on the gambling site or other people is not really healthy.

In the end, it's the decision of each person, and they have the responsibility to take the blame of their actions.

They would happily take the wins, but the losses are always ignored or blamed on someone else.

For the very fact that you took the decision to gamble you should be responsible for anything that comes both positive and negative but basically most gamblers always prefer to shift the blames from themselves to the gambling sites or whoever. Buts it's required to gamble responsibly and at the same time it's applicable to take responsibility for any outcome be ot a loss or a win when the time comes.

Of course, if you blame me for giving you a booking code that put you at loss, I wouldn't give you any booking code again because it shows that you are not a matured gambler. Blaming someone for your losses wouldn't bring them back because he didn't force you to bet on the game. You wanted to win and don't know how to go about it was why you listened to him so why not blame yourself for listening to him.

Gamblers cannot accept losing most of the time in the game, they always want to win. The mental preparation to continue gambling according to their ability is available to those gamblers who have a reasonable flow of funds. The mental pressure of gamblers to recover their money at all times is present as a result of which they continue to gamble regularly. One of the reasons for continuing to play regularly is that they have lost a considerable amount of money in the past. Maintaining and being patient in gambling is only possible when you can control yourself. To control yourself you have to keep a limited amount of money flow and set a limited time for playing.

Precisely! There are many factors that affects you when you are inside the situation things really hard compete against your ownself, just like you said it's really easy saying things when you are not in the situation but once you experience things i's your wise decision making and your readiness that may allow you to stay on what starategy or set up that you create, there's no room in pointing fingers to anyone aside from your own will, it's you who decided to gamble and it should be you that will handle things inside.

I find it crazy if they blame us since after all we cannot control the result. Maybe better if this situation occur we should explain it to them so well that even if we give those codes to them there's still a chance that they might lose their bets. With these for sure their expectation would lower down and I think there's no situation like blaming us would gonna happen.

If they still blame us despite of those efforts we made I guess I will stop talking to them since they are so immature for doing those actions.

But if those situation to me I don't blame anyone since I am liable with each actions I made so hopefully other think the same way to avoid getting in trouble.

So, unfortunately, gambling is based on luck. i am not the best person to say this since i am not good at math, but i think it's important to understand that casinos don't randomly play losing games. They expect to make a profit, and so in my opinion, the payout percentage isn't exactly fair.

Of course, everyone is given common sense to think and make their own choices. If they agree to follow someone else's advice, for example, then the gambler is ultimately responsible.
However, if they become angry when the results don't match their expectations, it can be concluded that they are irresponsible gamblers who come only to win but are not prepared for the risks.

Therefore, it is crucial and mandatory for someone to first understand what and how gambling actually works. This approach applies to many other things we encounter in life, not just gambling.

Well you cannot  blame the casino completely at the same time because for them too they are out there to make profits and ofcourse the gamblers will have to loose a game for them to start counting their profits as a business.  As a gambler it is important to understand this and  make sure to protect yourself that you are not loosing to the point you have to start looking for whom to throw the blames at securing you feel you were deserving of a win and lost, knowing you are depending on luck ti an extent, you should put to consideration that you are going  to manage your bankroll to the point  whereby you do get chance with your bankroll been in the best position to make you money and not you loosing all to the casino at once.

You made a good point, with what you've said, I believe that you now understand that casinos are business owned by people like me and you and the purpose for any business is profit, so since we know that winning in gambling is by luck, what does that tell, I think we have to educate ourselves on the fact that we can't win more than the casino no matter how smart we are or the strategy we think we have got to know, so having known all this, we have apply a high level of precautionary measures while gambling, whats wrong for gamblers to gamble and stay responsible since the facts about gambling is made known.

So what will be gained by blaming other parties, will the money spent be returned or will they receive compensation from the government? It all means nothing because each individual does it without any coercion from any party, the attitude of a gambler must actually be able to accept whatever happens after gambling.
Losing is a delayed luck (in gambling), moreover the result will always revolve around two axes (winning and losing), so there is no one to blame other than yourself who willingly risks money that you cannot afford to lose when you lose the bet.

Emotions arise and are uncontrollable because from the beginning it is also not clear how the rules to play and where the limits are.
As I did in my first game with $50 (Raffle Prize) which I then used to bet with just one order, without thinking about just playing little by little or doing some other management.

With 1 big bet or just one bet played all, it is a stupid game and will indeed only affect the mentality so that it can no longer think clearly.

This is the reason why Gamblers should always have their emotions under check because gambling sometimes get a good part of our emotions and it makes us to bet continuously,gambling, putting our finances at risk this is the reason I am one of those people who think that gamblers should always go for a mental evaluation with an expert regularly to keep your emotions in check.

Gambling plays a major role in our emotions. When we win at gambling, our emotions become more eager to win, which can be called greed. Trying to get money back after losing repeatedly is another form of emotionalism. This is why gamblers should always keep their emotions in check and bet small amounts.

Gambling means relying on uncertainty, here the profit is yours, the loss is yours, everything is yours, so it is important to be responsible to yourself before doing anything, so here you have to limit yourself to the amount of money you can afford to lose, remember that gambling is not a place to achieve success, and you can never win from it as expected, and the loss that occurs in gambling can never be ignored in any way. So you have to prepare yourself to lose from the beginning, so that you can easily accept your losses. Here, if people's expectations are excessive, it will cause losses, so the right mindset must be followed from the first stage.

Blame games is a waste of time you know. If the casino isn't manipulating your games, there is no reason to blame anyone but yourself who wanted to gamble in the first place. I still remember a cousin brother that went ahead to gamble his masters school fee when he was supposed to be in Canada by summer few years back, he used the money to gamble until there was nothing left and he attempted to harm his life but was later rush to the hospital.

He is a change man now but till date, he regreted his actions because we didn't know what he was thinking in the first place. You are gambling with school fee that was raised by family for 6 months struggle so you can have better but the next thing he thought was to double the some amount, that was how he was doing until there was nothing left to fall back to until he decided to threaten his own life, I never knew life is that easy for some people or probably he was looking for a way so they don't blame him for his actions but that's was crude.

Gambling is essentially a business that seeks profit, and it's natural for players to lose more often than they win. I can't fathom why they blame the casinos for their losses. Perhaps they don't truly understand gambling; they think it's a way to make money, so they assume the profits are easy to come by. They should look at themselves; even if they experience significant or frequent losses, they wouldn't have happened if they hadn't done it.

Controlling emotions in gambling is a difficult task. Those who are able to control emotions can certainly do well in gambling. They can control their greed. They can prevent excessive gambling. They can prevent loss chasing after losing. Gamblers are basically driven by emotions. Those who can control their emotions in gambling will reduce the chances of getting addicted. Emotions play a big role in responsible gambling.

The gain will be to play the victim's role, as if nothing which went wrong was the individual's fault, but someone else's wrongdoing (the government, the casino, the social influencers, the society, the problematic childhood and so on...).

When the person plays the victim's role, it feels like in a comfort zone, where he doesn't feel guilty, neither responsible for anything. It's convenient and desirable.

That is why people act like that in different aspects of their lives, which go much beyond gambling matter.

And this wrong mentality is present among most gamblers, instead of seeing gambling as a form of entertainment, they see it as a source of income or a way to achieve success, and at this stage they make their biggest mistake.
Every gambler should limit their activities, and play responsibly, the casino does not force anyone to sit at the game table, a gambler cannot quit gambling solely because of his greed and emotions.
Everything depends on your own responsibility, if you really want to quit gambling, you can definitely do it, but if you give more priority to your greed and emotions, and always have the desire to win through gambling, then you will naturally never be able to quit gambling at the right time.
The problem is only in people's expectations and mentality, if someone plays with a limited budget for the sake of entertainment, and strictly controls himself, that is, limiting the amount of play and stopping gambling at the right time in any situation, then it will definitely be under control, and will not be a cause of addiction.
But when someone thinks of it as a means of income, then the main problem arises, then he cannot accept every loss in any way, and this is why if someone keeps losing regularly or in large amounts, it is the result of his own decision, so if you want to avoid big losses in gambling, you must play responsibly, set limits, because winning or losing in gambling is all a matter of luck, so expectations must be limited here.

Those who are able to control gambling do not necessarily mean that they are completely successful, but at least they have managed to minimize the losses incurred because they realize that in the end, this is something that must be done. When they experience defeat, they realize that it is a normal part of gambling, so they will not try to improve the situation by continuing to gamble just because they want to recover their losses or blame others, such as the website, bookies, or those closest to them, because they realize that in the end, it is purely their own fault.

Gamblers who can control themselves well are definitely aware that in the end, gambling is just a game of luck. If we manage to win, it means we are having good luck, but when we cannot win, they realize that this is an unchangeable certainty of gambling, so they will not force themselves.

There's no benefit to blaming others for losses; it only escalates the situation. Imagine if the person being blamed doesn't accept what the main perpetrator did, and physical contact might occur. But if the person being blamed becomes emotional, it's understandable. Blaming others for losses is unreasonable, as gambling is essentially voluntary.
I think those who blame others should reflect, as this kind of action is highly unethical. As you said, it's done without coercion. Even if a friend forces us to gamble, we can still refuse.

Everyone should be responsible for whatever actions you take at any point in time, you were not forced or asked to gamble and so the government or casinos should not be held responsible for your actions, it all depends on how you understand gambling and how you go about it , there are rules governing gambling and if you miss it you missed it all, so you follow the rules and regulations to become a successful gambler.

In gambling self control should be the ultimate so that you don't end up shifting your blame to anyone.
Having a budget and setting a limit in time and bankroll should be your first priority in other to help you manage your gambling activities properly because as soon as you avoid these first important steps,there you start having problem for yourself which can lead to addiction and we all know it starts from chasing your losses, not spending what you can afford to lose, borrowing to gamble e.t.c.

The moment you start blaming someone or government for not progressing or destroying your progress or luring you into addiction is the moment you loss your balance. Self awareness and self check is the vital thing someone can do to oneself, know when it's too much and know when to stop something that doesn't nourish you anymore, that's a top tier self care.

I can't blame the government or the agency or the platform for many faulty attitudes but blame the victim for not realizing himself and stop at the right time.

In this case we can't blame anyone but ourselves, Before you start, you already know that there will be consequences, right? In situations like this, the primary responsibility lies with oneself, as every decision made is made with full awareness. Many people choose this path out of the desire for easy and instant money, but it's important to remember that every decision carries risks that must be addressed, whether in the form of financial loss or other consequences.

That's correct. It is important that we understand that they mean business, which also means that they are going to make profits, and it will come from the gamblers. Not the other way around.
If we can accept this fact as soon as possible, it's easier to accept losses because we know they are not a charity that will just hand out some money for us. If we are lucky enough, we can win and walk away. But if we come back, that's when mistakes could happen. All we can do is rely on luck and be wise about the winnings. We can always be a winner if we don't come back. That way, we won't be blaming anyone afterwards.

Thanks Promocodeudo, there are people who don't like what i say, and it seems really absurd to me since i think i speak with grace and rationality.
I am not saying anything against anyone, i am just telling the truth, casinos are people who earn money and have done their sums, i am not saying they cheat!!!
Games are made to make money for them and make someone win, we can't all win

That's why I always say that if a gambler blames others for their losses, they're definitely a loser. It's a sure sign they came to win, not lose, and that means they're not a responsible gambler.
It usually doesn't take long for such gamblers to experience the negative effects of gambling because they approach it so aggressively. Honestly, I've been in that terrible situation, and I often use that experience as an example for others, especially some of my friends, to learn from.

Shifting blame in gambling is not part of my habit, because most of the games i play are done by me alone and i don't risk playing when am not in the best position of taking the risk, if it comes as i have expected, then that's all about my luck and it it doesn't, i have to buckle up and do more better depending on the game am playing next time, it does not change anything shifting the blame on the casino or any other person around us, including our own self, gambling is after all for fun.

Gambling is a form of entertainment, so it should be taken very lightly, so that it does not become an important part of your life, and since it is only for entertainment purposes, no matter what the losses or win, you should accept them and stop gambling after that, and again when you need entertainment later, you can gamble with a small amount of money, and come out again without worrying about winning or losing. Try to enjoy gambling responsibly, having an uncontrolled mindset here will only lead to losses.

You know every bet is fetterless so they are never ever in debt for you to win . The system is not neutral  either close misses & those losses which made to look like wins  are generally built to carry on being you playing & betting, so  this is the main reason everyone accuse staking money on something as a common health mess, it is  not just a mentality try out. so yes, take your losses but dont let the dens take you use fixed amounts exclude yourself & play it in a safer design with a better analysis

It's true that gambling is a form of entanglement but the fact remains that gambling has gone beyond just having fun and entertaining yourself, but it is now seen by most people as a form of making money so many people has taken it upon themselves gamble with the hopes of making quick money.

If that is exactly what should be done, I personally say something, if a person does not feel capable of losing money in a casino, they Should not play , before going to a casino we should see how much money we can carry that we can lose , if we do that there will be no problems , but if we go to a casino without having control we are not Doing anything , well yes, losing money.

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This means that we need support or evaluation from a psychologist to see how our mental state is, so that we will know what to do.
But it seems to be more complex and a beginner who plays then becomes an addict will never come to a psychologist, they just keep playing without caring about anything.

But for those who know how gambling is supposed to be used, they will not become an addict and will not bother them too much, There are limits and rules that are already made and should not be violated

Exactly, the very important thing is to understand how it all works; there's no point in jumping into something without understanding.
If you understand who wins and who loses, you'll understand perfectly well that the right thing to do is to play just to pass the time and have fun.

Whether you know the consequences or not is assume that you know it before getting started take so instance you start gambling without knowing the consequences unfortunately you run into trouble, did you think if they are judging this case that they are going to consider the fact that you didn't know the consequences? I'm sure that the answer will be no, no, so anyone who is into gambling should get ready to face whatever outcome he or she will get whether in the near future or maybe decade. So I see no reason why we should be blaming someone for our misfortune when we already know the consequences about gambling, even though some people may not know the consequences but you don't necessarily need to put the blame on something. And even if I'm close to such person I would ask him or her that what were you thinking that made you not to read the terms and conditions before going into it.

Most people do not like to accept that they were wrong,  that it was their fault that they lost, it is something that many see as natural, not me , I am not ashamed of that, in casinos and games it is normal to lose, what is not normal is to lose a lot of money, because to bet you should only do what you are willing to lose and nothing more.

I totally agree with you! Taking responsibility for what we do, especially in games, is essential for our growth. It's great to see that you play with this mindset of controlling risk and focusing on your own evolution, instead of blaming external factors. Ultimately, as you said, the main thing is to enjoy the game and learn from each experience. This makes everything healthier and more fun!

But I have a question for you:
Have you ever had a situation where, even though you controlled the risk, something unexpected happened? If so, how did you handle it?

And majority of gamblers don't treat gambling like it's meant to be an avenue to simply have fun, most gamblers treat gambling and a source of making money, they treat it as a business, something to be very serious about just like do with trading and other various means through which we make money from online..

Many gamblers hate to take blame for anything, some will even say it's a sign of weakness, this is why I real life, we see some people who gamble physically are always very arrogant and disrespectful like people without proper home training, well they indeed lack home training for sure since their arrogant and disrespectful behavior proves so.
This type of people blame casinos, or people around them, or whatever they can lay accusation on, to be the reason for their misfortune in gambling, meanwhile they win, they praise their self as being smart, I refer to this type of gamblers as the selfish ones.

A good gambling habit is to try your best to take responsibility for every mistake and action. Taking responsibility means one is ready to make a change and grow.

If one is fond of blaming, it will be difficult for them to have the understanding needed to make good decisions in gambling, and it will also be very difficult to have self-examination. There will always be blame at the end when things are not coming out as one wants them to be.

Perhaps they are egoists, but in general the game reflects a person, first of all he plays with his emotions and if he is not able to curb them, then the emotions will take over him. The player will think that he does not deserve to lose or come up with new excuses, but it is important not to deceive yourself, to be calm and reasonable. Understand that the game will not go anywhere and you can continue without being excited. I think I learned this a long time ago, all that remains is to come up with a good strategy for the game.

Though it's really hard to admit it when you are in the situation most of the time gambler find someone to point their finger, especially when they are losing money, instead of keeping the full responisbilities inside they will find other option to deny their failure in terms of controlling their emotions, it's always better to keep in mind that gambling is risky and needs to be minimize using spare money, it saves your butt losing what you can't afford if you have that kind of mentality.

And this is an absolutely correct opinion, because if a gambler sees others in his failures, then he seems to close his eyes and lives like that. And let it lead to nowhere for him. You need to have strength of character and intelligence to understand that we ourselves are responsible for our future and it is we who live in the world that we create with our decisions and actions.
Unfortunately, many deny this and continue to live, trying not to burden their conscience, but to shift responsibility to others for their incompetent actions.