Who do you blame?

[tread93]

Sup, often gambling is blamed for making people part with their money, or casinos are blamed for existing, or government is blamed for allowing gambling in particular country, and along the lines.

Point being, just because there is gambling available, at the end of the day, it's individual's own choice that (s)he decided do it, and no one is to be blamed except oneself if something bad happens.

Do you take responsibility for your losses, or do you play blame game?

Oh yeah I take full responsibility and beat mhself up for it pretty bad when I do stupid shit in general but especially with gambling. This is my secret trick to help me stay away from gambling for long periods of time  I mean dont get me wrong sometimes casinos and games can definitely mess you up but at the end of the day its all your own choice

[Africolo]

This is normal to put frustration on oneself, feel disappointed for making the wrong picks and sometimes shift frustration towards players and clubs for casting a bet slip and turn it in to a normal football banter for that week and that's all for those of us who play only soccer bets.

If everyone gambled in a way most of us do, there would be fewer pointless lawsuits against casinos.

It's okay to be frustrated and sometimes angry when you don't win. You blame coaches for their faulty tactics and referees for wrong officiating. But what makes you a mature gambler is taking full responsibility for your actions. Blaming the casino for the outcome of games is wrong because you were not coerced into placing bets.

Some lawsuits against gambling are mainly because of accusations of scam or poor services and not necessarily because of addiction.

Some of these lawsuits; they argued and claimed some games were built to exploit gamblers and that that most RTP were fraudulent.

Most of these filed lawsuits came from addicted gambling players looking for compensation and a way to express their frustrations.

[Mahanton]

We all have to be accountable on how we are gambling and not that we shift blame on others, gambling is more of a personal decision than shifting of the blame on other people, we should know this, that whatever happens in it, we are going to be more responsible for it, because its all about us and we should not allow for the others to take the full responsibility of what we are expected to be in charge for, also, we should not shift blame on anyone for any failure experienced in gambling.

And when it comes to gambling, the only person that needs to be blamed is the bettor because the betting site is only a platform, and what the user uses it for does not concern the site, and this is why the person betting is the one to be blamed, so I am not even bothered about blaming anyone. The best thing is to have plans when betting so that even when you lose, you will not be looking for anyone to blame, so this is why when you are placing bets, you bet what you can afford to lose. That is the way, and when you are gambling, it is better to just take responsibility and move on.

The betting site will not bet for you but instead it's you who will use the platform to place your bets, though it's usual that after suffering with a loses a person or a gambler will find someone to blame and point their fingers, there are so many raise concerns and opinions but in reality if you don't want to lose then don't go and play as simple as it is so you won't blame anyone as there's nothing to point your finger if you don't associate yourself into it.

These kinds of activities just make me laugh, everything here depends on your own decision, so blaming others after losing, will this doesn't matter to anyone, and no one will care it, because the loss will be yours alone, you are deciding to gamble more with your money, if you lose money, you will be responsible for it, and you will also face problems yourself. So here you should at least have the ability and understanding to consider right and wrong, those who try to gamble more by blaming others like this, they are definitely making themselves look stupid, no one is forcing you to bet, it is absolutely your own decision, so the responsibility of losing or winning is also yours, so it is important to think about this first.

And the funny part is people act like someone pushed them to press that bet button when in reality it was their own fingers doing it this mindset of shifting blame is just an escape from accountability but the truth is money doesn’t care about excuses once it’s gone it’s gone. Gambling has always been a personal choice and the moment you sit at the table or log into the platform you already know the risks so pretending afterwards that it was because of others influence or bad advice is just a way of hiding from the truth if you want the potential thrill of winning you also need to be ready for the sting of losing. In fact the ones who constantly push the blame end up never improving because they never analyze their own behavior or mistakes they keep repeating the same cycle expecting a different outcome and when that fails again the blame game returns so the real maturity is not in winning every time but in owning both outcomes and adjusting yourself instead of pointing fingers. and when you think about it this blaming habit is the exact opposite of what gambling requires because gambling already comes with uncertainty so if you can’t even accept the results that come with your own choices then you’re not really cut out for it every wager is a risk that you agreed to and if you’re not ready for both sides of the coin you shouldn’t be playing at all, also there’s another side to this people who always blame others after losing usually don’t celebrate others when they win if someone gave them advice and they won big they’d take full credit for it but when they lose suddenly that same advice becomes the scapegoat it shows the double standards in their thinking and that’s why many gamblers end up stuck in frustration.

[leonair]

Sup, often gambling is blamed for making people part with their money, or casinos are blamed for existing, or government is blamed for allowing gambling in particular country, and along the lines.

Point being, just because there is gambling available, at the end of the day, it's individual's own choice that (s)he decided do it, and no one is to be blamed except oneself if something bad happens.

Do you take responsibility for your losses, or do you play blame game?

Oh yeah I take full responsibility and beat mhself up for it pretty bad when I do stupid shit in general but especially with gambling. This is my secret trick to help me stay away from gambling for long periods of time  I mean dont get me wrong sometimes casinos and games can definitely mess you up but at the end of the day its all your own choice

You must take all the responsibility in gambling. Because here you are gambling knowing the risk, so you cannot blame anyone for your loss. And you cannot blame anyone for your stupidity because it is completely your personal matter. If you cannot control yourself from gambling and cannot keep your limits, then it will be completely your personal failure. And no one will take the responsibility for this failure. It is definitely good if you have some unique strategies that can keep you away from the deep addiction of gambling. Because without good strategies, you cannot control yourself because there are many accidents in gambling and because of this you cannot control yourself easily.

[retreat]

Accepting losses is one of the things that shows maturity in a person’s gambling activities. For those who accept their losses, it becomes easier to control themselves and avoid falling deeper into gambling, such as chasing losses that only lead to even greater losses. But unfortunately, not many gamblers have the maturity to accept their losses. Most tend to blame the platform or the game they are playing, suspecting it is rigged or involves cheating intentionally designed to trap them. When in fact, the main problem lies with their own inability to control themselves, which causes them to lose more than they should.

[Yablee0]

Someone who understands responsibility and accepts their losses can be considered an adult who can answer for their actions. However, the world is such that it is easier to blame all your mistakes on others. There are many to blame: a difficult childhood, a bad country, and teachers who did not explain and educate enough. Gambling is also on the list of the guilty; some believe that it is not entertainment but a way to earn money. Blaming everyone around is childish behavior, and until people understand this, they will be unhappy, since the way out of their accusations lies within themselves.

Sure, many people are always looking for where to drop their blames, nobody want to take responsibility of their actions and that's the problem we are having, casino or other gambling companies never for a day call or force you from your home to come and play rather you walked by your self to their own office and  play it all by yourself, and if anything later goes wrong you will be looking for who to be blamed, that is unreasonable, casino or any of the companies always indicates in their terms and conditions that you must be up to 18year, which simply means you must be an adult, up to the age of accountability and being able to take decisions by your self.

So in essence is that let's try and build up that mindset of being held for our own actions, It only makes us a better people.

[laijsica]

Sup, often gambling is blamed for making people part with their money, or casinos are blamed for existing, or government is blamed for allowing gambling in particular country, and along the lines.

Point being, just because there is gambling available, at the end of the day, it's individual's own choice that (s)he decided do it, and no one is to be blamed except oneself if something bad happens.

Do you take responsibility for your losses, or do you play blame game?

Oh yeah I take full responsibility and beat mhself up for it pretty bad when I do stupid shit in general but especially with gambling. This is my secret trick to help me stay away from gambling for long periods of time  I mean dont get me wrong sometimes casinos and games can definitely mess you up but at the end of the day its all your own choice

You must take all the responsibility in gambling. Because here you are gambling knowing the risk, so you cannot blame anyone for your loss. And you cannot blame anyone for your stupidity because it is completely your personal matter. If you cannot control yourself from gambling and cannot keep your limits, then it will be completely your personal failure. And no one will take the responsibility for this failure. It is definitely good if you have some unique strategies that can keep you away from the deep addiction of gambling. Because without good strategies, you cannot control yourself because there are many accidents in gambling and because of this you cannot control yourself easily.

I agree with you. Blaming others for your losses in gambling is foolish because the gambler who plays on his own decisions should take responsibility for it himself. Some gamblers blame the casino developers after losing or have friends around them who give him advice to help him. I think you should gamble with the amount of money you play without taking advice from others and based on your own judgement because dependent behaviour does not allow you to become an experienced gambler. You will lose most of the time through the game and the amount of winning will be very small. Gambling with this kind of mindset can keep you away from gambling addiction. By applying your own decisions and strategies, you can reduce the amount of losses as well as gain new experience and avoid doing foolish things like blaming others.

[Platinumys]

I will gamble myself, gamble with my own money and gamble using my own skills and experience, and if the results do not come in my favor after doing all this, then there is really no one to blame for it. In gambling, it is clear that every gambler has to take the maximum risk of money, if we can accept this fact, then we will never blame anyone else.

Winning and losing in gambling is a very normal thing, but when the amount of losses is much higher than winning, then we actually have to take a break for a while and think about why we are losing regularly.

There are actually many reasons why a gambler loses in gambling, such as he may not be able to make the right decision, he may not be able to choose the right team while betting, and he is in too much of a hurry. If these common problems are the main reasons for losing, then I think that if a gambler takes a break in between gambling, at least he will not have to lose later due to this problem.

[Cryptmuster]

Accepting losses is one of the things that shows maturity in a person’s gambling activities. For those who accept their losses, it becomes easier to control themselves and avoid falling deeper into gambling, such as chasing losses that only lead to even greater losses. But unfortunately, not many gamblers have the maturity to accept their losses. Most tend to blame the platform or the game they are playing, suspecting it is rigged or involves cheating intentionally designed to trap them. When in fact, the main problem lies with their own inability to control themselves, which causes them to lose more than they should.

You can always find someone to blame for your failures, but that’s just an attempt to avoid responsibility, and it’s a habit of a weak person. In gambling I chose betting for myself, and I believe that in this case no one can be blamed but me, because I’m the one who chooses the bet. And if something unexpected happens in a match, then it’s just bad luck, because that also happens.

[giammangiato]

These immature people are dangerous for any type of business. I once helped a relative and explained how cryptocurrencies work, their value, their history, how to invest, and how to gamble online. When he started earning his first profits, I was the best; as soon as he started losing money, it was my fault.
I explained to him that choices are individual; I simply explained for free, thus wasting my time for him without asking for anything. He couldn't blame me. After this experience, I recommend it here on the forum, but I don't want to be held responsible for personal choices!

[junder]

Accepting losses is one of the things that shows maturity in a person’s gambling activities. For those who accept their losses, it becomes easier to control themselves and avoid falling deeper into gambling, such as chasing losses that only lead to even greater losses. But unfortunately, not many gamblers have the maturity to accept their losses. Most tend to blame the platform or the game they are playing, suspecting it is rigged or involves cheating intentionally designed to trap them. When in fact, the main problem lies with their own inability to control themselves, which causes them to lose more than they should.

It is true that one of the best behaviors in gambling is being able to accept defeat. This is a mature attitude in gambling because players like this are likely to be wise in gambling, as their goal is simply to have fun or they are not too obsessed with winning. Those who suspect manipulation or other issues are often those who view gambling as a source of income, whereas that is not the case. If one were to think of it as a business that needs to be developed, there would be no misunderstandings here.

[Olatundespo]

Accepting losses is one of the things that shows maturity in a person’s gambling activities. For those who accept their losses, it becomes easier to control themselves and avoid falling deeper into gambling, such as chasing losses that only lead to even greater losses. But unfortunately, not many gamblers have the maturity to accept their losses. Most tend to blame the platform or the game they are playing, suspecting it is rigged or involves cheating intentionally designed to trap them. When in fact, the main problem lies with their own inability to control themselves, which causes them to lose more than they should.

It is true that one of the best behaviors in gambling is being able to accept defeat. This is a mature attitude in gambling because players like this are likely to be wise in gambling, as their goal is simply to have fun or they are not too obsessed with winning. Those who suspect manipulation or other issues are often those who view gambling as a source of income, whereas that is not the case. If one were to think of it as a business that needs to be developed, there would be no misunderstandings here.

The reality is that casino developers always want you to lose but you always want to win, the gap between the two is entertainment. Casino developers are always ahead because it is their business strategy. Some casinos cheat gamblers, it is realistic but you cannot hold them responsible or question it because you have started playing on their platform by following all their terms.

Sometimes there can be suspicions about cheating and the actions of the casino company but most of the time it is proven false. Most gamblers get emotional after losing and blame others, even the casino companies thats most may be baseless.

[swogerino]

Accepting losses is one of the things that shows maturity in a person’s gambling activities. For those who accept their losses, it becomes easier to control themselves and avoid falling deeper into gambling, such as chasing losses that only lead to even greater losses. But unfortunately, not many gamblers have the maturity to accept their losses. Most tend to blame the platform or the game they are playing, suspecting it is rigged or involves cheating intentionally designed to trap them. When in fact, the main problem lies with their own inability to control themselves, which causes them to lose more than they should.

It is true that one of the best behaviors in gambling is being able to accept defeat. This is a mature attitude in gambling because players like this are likely to be wise in gambling, as their goal is simply to have fun or they are not too obsessed with winning. Those who suspect manipulation or other issues are often those who view gambling as a source of income, whereas that is not the case. If one were to think of it as a business that needs to be developed, there would be no misunderstandings here.

Human nature though has it very difficult to accept defeat, in our daily lives, in our jobs we are always in competition with other people and we want to always do better than them which will lead to recognition and prestige. The same in gambling we as human beings have difficulties to accept losses there and most people simply cannot accept such outcome, they continue to play hoping that one day they will turn the fate to their side and they always blame the game, I was one of them that used to blame the providers and never once until recently blamed myself, since blaming myself, I have greater self-control and I can stay without or with gambling as much time as I want or as I see fit to.

[DanWalker]

Do you take responsibility for your losses, or do you play blame game?

How can we blame the government, the casinos or the existence of gambling when the gambling habit is our decision and behavior? No one forces us to gamble, and we gamble for our own pleasure or greed. What right do we have to blame others?

No offense but in my opinion people who keep blaming gambling or investing every time they lose are losers. They fail to control themselves, and those who only know how to blame without daring to face and admit their mistakes, they will always fail in life.

[LUCKMCFLY]

I think that there should be no such thing as blaming someone for our losses , because we must be responsible for our actions, If we play in a casino and lose for whatever reason, it is our own fault, and no one else's.

[Mpamaegbu]

Do you take responsibility for your losses, or do you play blame game?

Those who blame others for their losses are plainly irresponsible. Yes, they're irresponsible and are not likely to make any progress. Gamblers should own up to whatever the outcome of their actions is. There's a reason gambling has age restriction not to allow minors into it. One of such reasons is taking responsibility for one's actions while on it. Why pass the buck when things go sour like the biblical Adam but take the glory alone when it goes well? I like those who blame themselves for what action(s) they should've taken that they didn't take or what action they took that they shouldn't have taken. That's the way to go. Those ones are men enough.

Avoid anyone who shifts blame so you can guard your peace of mind. They will blame you for not even brushing their own teeth.

[purple_sparkles]

I think that when a player gets carried away, loses self-control, and spends large sums of money, they tend to shift responsibility for their actions onto external factors. The most important thing is that it only takes one experience to learn a lifelong lesson and not repeat such actions again. However, if this behavior continues, it’s worth seeking professional help, it will be cheaper in the long run.

[Asiska02]

These immature people are dangerous for any type of business. I once helped a relative and explained how cryptocurrencies work, their value, their history, how to invest, and how to gamble online. When he started earning his first profits, I was the best; as soon as he started losing money, it was my fault.

Trying to shift blame when one is met with a loss in gambling is a sign of unprofessionalism and anyone engaging in such should not be someone you should condone in any kind of place of benefits with some sort of uncertainties that may lead to loss which may arise because of the nature of the place. People easily try to shift blame in order not to be held accountable for their losses, they thing it is something wise, but they’re just killing their self confidence and it will affect them outside the scope of gambling. Losses are inevitable, so when you come across one, take it with one mind and work towards trying to minimize further occurrence of such losses in the future.

[DaNNy001]

Do you take responsibility for your losses, or do you play blame game?

I take full responsibility for my loss. So that, I can know where I went wrong and work on that part not to fall into more losses in future. This also help me checkmate my gambling activities on when not to gamble for a while after a big loss.

If i don't take the responsibility of my losses, it will make me continue doing the same mistake over and over again, because I will always put the blame on people. Our inner mind do tell us the right thing but sometimes, we ignore and do the opposite.

This is the best way to think as a gambler, if you can't take responsibility for your decisions or actions then you should not be gambling In that first place...taking full responsibility for your losses also makes you become a better gambler and this happens when you start learning from your mistakes and becoming more careful with that decisions that you make when you are gambling, blaming others won't help

[ChocolateBitcoinK]

I think that there should be no such thing as blaming someone for our losses , because we must be responsible for our actions, If we play in a casino and lose for whatever reason, it is our own fault, and no one else's.

Actually, there is no logic in blaming someone else for your loss, did someone give you too much hope for gambling? Did they force you to gamble? It's your money, so if you wanted to stay away from gambling, could they have done anything? No, in fact, we have no logical reason to blame others, you gambled with your money with full knowledge, so if you lose, you will be the only one responsible, there is nothing to blame others for.