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Hi guys, so i want to take a girl out on a date but i don't know what to do. So can you guys tell me past experiences or any plans you've got to take a girl out on a fun date. I've known her for quite a while now and we're good friends (she's my cousin's best friend). She was recently in a relationship and I want to take her out on a date.Thank you!!!

-Hi again guys, so i was talking to some friends of mine that saw this post and asked me if i had asked the girl out yet. So i decided to let you guys know that i haven't asked her out and wanted to ask you if you guys know how i should ask her. Thanx!!!

Have nice dinner, take her to the movies, always mind your manners and be polite  ;D

Sorry, I was never on a date in my life, but I can tell you something. Just don't plan too much. Don't construct in your mind perfect date scenario and ideal final. Just go and do whatever you like to do. If she does not like that, that means she is not for you. Good luck.

you need to go restaurant and have to do candle light dinner with her favorite food :) you will sure enjoy this one night 

Well I don't know that, dinner in a restaurant is so popular that it is not original and fun anymore it feels so plain. It would be better if you showed her your favourite fast food stand in the dark part of the city instead.
It would be more memorable experience.

Dinner and a movie is so overdone.  Take her to an amusement park.  Mini golf, go carting, arcade tye stuff.  It's kinda hard to answer not knowing what area you live in though.  Go try something neither of you have done before.  I remember going bowling as a first date once.  Neither of us had ever tried bowling, we had a blast!

Go to a pub and play some pool, ir just go to a pool hall.  I like the pub idea because it's always nice to have a couple drinks if you want. If it isn't working it's easy to cut the night short as well.

Cook a meal together and watch a movie or some stand up comedy. Go to a casino or a horse track.  Horse racing can be fun to watch, bet together on a couple races.

Sometimes keeping it simple is the best bet. Don't try to plan it too much as it wont likely meet expectations.

Could always have a nice picnic and walk in the park although I am not sure if your both into nature if not that will totally be off
Either way be yourself and you should be fine
Else try bowling since its a classic or go shopping together (Weird but works)

Be yourself. You don't want to cause a fale first impression. If you are bragging or showing traits you don't really have, you will have to either keep up the lie for the rest of your life or eventually admit it.

picnic and walking by the beach while holding hands. it is so romantic. :)

Good idea is night at the theatre. No, not the cinema. The theatre, with live actors and actresses. This is by far my favorite first date idea! Most people don't venture to the theatre for a night out because they don't realize how great a show can be. Better than any movie!

An evening at a beautiful city, get something to eat, or ice creams and a movie either way.

I don't go out on dates, at least that's not how I think of the whole situation.

Why don't you decide with her? That seems like the best option.

One of the greatest first dates I ever went on was a place called the giggle dam theatre, http://www.giggledam.com/shows/show-season.

I'm sure there are places like this in a lot of cities, definitely worth the experience.  They get the crowd involved and it's a great was to break the tension of a first date. It was a bit of a rough start, lots of silence between the 2 of us but by the end we were laughing our asses off and talking like we had known each other for years.  

It didn't work out in the long run, but we're still friends and it still gets brought up from time to time about how much fun and different it was.

And it matters who is that girl you are dating. Is that your first time meeting? Do you knew her before? It is blind date? Do you have mutual friends? Your date depends on things like that.

For a first date, i dont prefer going to cinema, cause there will be less time to know each other. Better go to a restaurant, and play some arcade games :D

If you do this, go to the movie before dinner. That gives you something to talk about over dinner, :).

Just ask her out that id she wants to out with you or not... If she says yes then take her to the movies, restaurant or any place that suits your budget.

100% agree sometimes the most simple thing is the most fun to get along with your special someone it doesnt have to be expensive date the most important thing is how to get her trust and unleashed her child side have fun go to the park play badminton feed the ducks or the birds have a little snack at the grass while having a good conversation with her

And if she says no... chloroform is always an option. I heard it has a 100% success rate with picking up chicks.

Well rather than trying chloroform, i would prefer trying on some other chick

Do something that's meaningful or important to you. If your date has a good time, you have common interests and will get along fine.
Tip: Whatever you choose, make sure you have plenty of time to talk and get to know each other.

Talk a lot, like crazy, but let her talk even more. Listen, ask, have an attitude showing that you are intrested. Don't talk about sex too early :P

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"Oh, today we are going on a winery tour."

"How about dinner at the golf resort?"

"Trip to the museum."

That website is awesome for dating ideas. :)

Go to the pub. Simply as that. Conversation is probably the most important part of a first date. Chatting over a couple of drinks will ensure the mood is relaxed and will help to dispel any inevitable first date nerves. And if date wouldn't go well you can always drank yourself to death.

Watch a movie with her - but one that scares the shit out of her. Or do some bungee jumping or similar stuff.

Whatever you do, the most important thing is to get her adrenaline flowing. This will draw her closer to you and will let her remember the experience with you. Also she will be more easily aroused sexually. I've already tested this strategy successfully... ;D

ya.ya.yo!

The most low cost effective date is usually the idea.

I usually went to some scary movie and start getting head when its in the middle. Put your hand on her land and if she doesnt remove it, proceed.

Go do something with adrenaline = sex as someone mentioned.

You, my friend, need to aim higher. Get your self-esteem up and don't take no for an answer. Gags ARE an option!

Hi again, i need advise in how do i ask her to go out on a date? Should i just tell her or should i do something else? Tnx!

Just go to the beach, its good and its free.

It also sets the tone on lets get the fuk out of here so we can fuk lol.

Phone her up, don't text her.  Say something like "Can I ask you a question"  When she says yeah, say something like "Lets go to _________ on __________ night"

Ask with confidence and be forward, not overbearing though.  Practice what you want to say a few times before you call her so you don't sound awkward, test it out on a good friend if need be. Hell, write it down so you can't forget it while asking. Girls like a man that shows confidence.

Here is another one that's worked for me in the past.

Me: You got plans Friday night?

Her: No, why?

Me: You do now, I'm taking you ____________

Seriously, don't overthink it. Just go to her and ask her. It's simple. You will get one of two answers: yes or no. If it's yes, you win. If it's no, shrug it off and move on.

There are multiple ways to approach this I would say arrange it when you meet up with friends if not then the classic method is face to face have a good conversation going and then just slip it in at the right time, if not a text.
But I will go with ranlo and just take a good chance and try to find the right time.

Really?  Does this crap actually work nowadays?  At least with a phone call, there is effort behind it.  Sending a text takes very little effort. Hell, I just sent 3 while typing this out.  BTW, none of them meant anything. One of them was in fact a facebook post.

Yes. I completely agree. Texts are not good at all. Later on next level of relationship maybe. But asking someone out for the very first time via text message is huge flop. Do it properly face to face, this is the only way.

I second this one. You want to take her places that you can talk during. Movies are no good for talking during and a bad first date places.

I wonder though. Part of me can imagine a girl being pissed off because a guy tried to call her and ask her out.  Can't he text me like everyone else? I assume will be the response.

I think miniature golf is a great starter to have a little fun and loosen up followed by a nice dinner and or movie. I don't recommend the chloroform, not a good idea. That has jail time written all over it.

Do something fun, something that removes the possible tension. Restaurant is a bit old fashioned and tense, you are kind of forced to talk and behave in certain ways. You are better of with other things. It could be to play tourist, it could be to drive monster trucks, it could be to go cycling either way something fun. You have to balance a little.. you want to have some conversation, but at the same time not to sound like a preacher, so if you put this around some activity you will be fine. :)  

As she was recently in a relationship, you do not want to talk about that at all.  Dont ask any question about the breakup. For real, you do not want to hear about some dude and all the drama. Its not your goal  :) Avoid talking about this, but if she talks just listen.

The last bit is key, make sure when she is talking you are listening and not just thinking about what to say next.

Go out of town  :)

Pretend to be interested in what she is interested in.

Tell her how intelligent she is.

Go to a good restaurant with her and tell her why do you like she so much!

What if you cant afford a good restaurant?

What then? hahahah. go to mcdonalds?

Pretty much it. use worrds like "How interesting. Tell me more.." and pretend like you mean it.

lol did this work out for you? :D May as well try the 'italian' style, touch hair etc

Just go to take walk in the park, and grab dinner then head over to your place.

Ask her to stay since its so late to drive = get ready to fuck.  ;)

I found out what kind of dessert she liked (girls love dessert) and then brought her to the grocery store after dinner. We bought all of the ingredients together and then made a pie from scratch. It was awesome, fun and we got to do something as a team!

Smooth........ real smooth.........

How did that go in the long run?

I suggest a short activity, 1-2 hours in the late afternoon. You can get to know the person enough to know if you want to continue getting to know them with only a small time commitment if they suck. Something like mini golf or coffee. Then if things are going well, invite them to do something after like going out for drinks at a fun bar that has games you can play or to get a bite to eat or to help you make a pizza and watch a movie while you eat. If you already know the person just pick anything you know you'll both enjoy and can have a decent conversation.

Ask questions, treat her like you'd want to be treated. :)

This always works.

Source: i once get sum fuk

Seems valid, i will try this one next time...

Keep in mind if she checks off "dun wan sum fuk," that's actually her way of saying "I wanna play a game of rape." So really you win either way!

HAHAHAH, omg. best option ever. "rape game" = GG  :D

For me it'd probably be just going to dinner and spending some time together where we could get more familiar with each other. Maybe some cuddle time while watching a movie? ;)

Alright, I volunteer!   :P

Sir, please don't laugh about rape. Rape isn't funny.  Unless you're raping a clown. Or being raped by one.

A lot of people are saying a dinner then a movie. I think it should be the exact opposite. This way, you get to the theatre, watch the movie, THEN go out to eat.

During the meal, if you both have absolutely nothing in common and nothing to talk about, you can at least chit-chat about the movie. Things will be a lot less awkward if you can at least talk about something.

Awesome restaurants, *caution* can be pricey:

Cheesecake Factory - Fancier place that has a big assortment of dishes.
The Melting Pot - Awesome fondue style restaurant, look it up for all the info you need.

Winter is over, but if its still available to you, Ice skating is always good. A lot of hand holding if shes never done it, can be a very close intimate experience.
Picnic at the beach if theres one near you.
Picnic in the park.
My girlfriend and I just did this the other day. Went to walmart, bought a $5 batmitton racket set, volleyball, and a game with 2 velcrow circles you put on your hand and catch a ball on them. A ton of fun.

Doesn't matter where you go or what you do, as long as you:

1.) Act like you are worth being with and have genuine value. This is crucial! She's lucky that she's the girl that gets to spend time with you. You are a man in demand! Be confident as possible, but not a narcissist.

2.) Listen to her better than you're used to listening. Listen with your ears, your eyes, and your words.

3.) Make her laugh and smile. Laugh and smile back.

4.) Make her feel special, either by complimenting things like her shoes, accessories, etc, or by acting upon something she has previously commented on or hinted at. See #2.

5.) Keep the conversation light and lively. The easiest way to do this is to talk about what's going on around you at the moment, or by asking her questions.

6.) Are clean and fresh in your hygiene and appearance. You're fashion style is mostly irrelevant. Get enough sleep. Abstain from garlic, fapping, and pungent foods at least a day or two before you see her. This helps to enhance your skin tone, pheromones/hormones and natural scent, and your brings more radiance to your eyes. Girls notice such subtle changes.

7.) Don't ever act desperate or needy or clingy. This is death if you want to impress a girl.

8.) Demonstrate via words or action that you have productive interests and know how to focus on bettering yourself. Doesn't matter in what way, as long as you show initiative in other areas of your life.

9.) Can make a smart girl feel pretty or a pretty girl feel smart. But never say so in a boring or predictable way.

10.) Maintain relaxed body language, relaxed speech, a sense of being calm and collected, and meaningful eye contact, all of which should be easy if you apply point #1.


This is all assuming you actually like her and she's not just a smash-and-dash.


Remember, all girls want to be wanted, but they don't always know what they want. Show her it's you.

As Oscar Wilde said, "Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood."

Good luck, son.

Yeah I agree.

The awkward silence would suck lol. But outside from that, if you both eat a heavy meal you tend to just fall asleep or someones gonna get food coma.

Also the times of the movie is a factor. Try to lean towards night when it gets dark = horny time. I know this because I talked so much nasty stuff to girls at night and responded 90% win rate.

I'm not even going to ask what is your nasty chat!!!

Movies just arent a first date kind of place. First dates dont have to be long, but you do need to talk and find out if this is a possible person you want to spend more time with. you cant really do that in a dark room in silence.......(Yes i know you can if that room has a bed in it, but we arent at that step yet, unless OP had a good first date)

It's already been mentioned but a nice dinnwr or the movies, heck why not both! Also a picnic with a nice bottle of red wine!

Dinner is not good for first date at all.  Don't do lunch, or dinner, or drinks. Center that first date mingling in an environment that allows you to chat, yet gives you subjects to chat about other than "Where did you go to school?" It is better to visit a zoo or local park. Go bowling even you can't keep the ball in the alley all the time. Makes for good laughs if conversation stalls.

Dinner and a movie is by far one of the most popular things, although I do agree that things like zoos and parks are great choices. They also show that you can think outside the box, rather than just going with what everyone feels is "normal."

The best thing you can do is arrange a date around a gift you need for your mother or sister or dad or brother. Shopping should give you the opinions and some insight into each others sense of style, feelings about money, and those should lead more answers to the things you want to know in the beginning of what might turn into a long term relationship.

lol at getting date ideas from bitcoin dummies..... just fuck her and get it over with

Raping a clown..... not sure that would be funny.... plus who even finds clowns funny.

I can't give you an advise as it all depends on who she is; find something that passions her, and do it with her. Wether it is assisting a ballet performance, or rock climbing.. It also shows that you have a genuine interest in who she is and want to share a part of her life.

Take her to a Bitcoin meetup so you can meet nerds with neckbeards.

This date must have happened by now..... and if so, which ideas did the OP go with, and is there a second date on the cards?? Do we need to buy a new hat for the wedding??

Hi DAYAGO, so here's the deal: you've got 2 options, either you ask her out and find out what she feels or spend the rest of your life asking yourself what would have happened. It's your choice but i tell you, the longer you wait the worst it will be for you. Hope this helped!!!!

walking along the beach have a good food and wine and a very nice conversation.