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In life, we all battling with uncertain behaviour, that one will wonder why certain characters occur when one needs a helping hand most. we are facing some difficulties in our communities and families, and the people you think will assist you to sort things out seems to be the ones to disappoint you.its seems to me that person don't value life, they shows concerns only when people  are celebrating and withdraw when things goes wrong. Such life should be discourage in the society.  We should not only show up when things are working, we should always stand in good and bad time.

You can have many people with you during your good and happy times but you'll have few friends during your hard time ,this is the hard reality of this world.  Helping others and being able to do something for someone is a blessing and every person is not blessed enough or I can say capable enough to help other. In today's world people are so mean and self centered that they dnt feel any need to help anyone in crisis.

I already felt this way before when there was a major crisis in our place about 9 years ago and you can see people not caring for anyone except for themselves because they only want to survive and not showing compassionate towards others seems a norm in their hearts. But this is only visible when you need them the most and What broke my heart that day was when I see the people I used to care, leaving me behind and did not only ask if I was OK but act as if I am nobody to them. That's why after that, I don't care about others anymore except for a few that are truthful and if I ever help someone about anything, I won't expect the same help from them anything. Helping people is good and the only bad people that are not greatful are mostly the one who are not deserve our trust.

Human selfishness is inherent. We'd all like to do better and think that we're beyond reproach, but at baseline there is some level of what I would call "self preservation" that might exist during times of crisis. Seems ingrained in human physiology  -- consider it to be on the same note of the "fight or flight" response when humans are subject to fear, uncertainty, and shock.

We can only hope the time of crisis moves quickly. We're a very fragile species.

Before you conclude that someone doesn't want to help or assist you, it is important to ascertain or investigate if the person has the capacity or the means to reach out. This is because I have had such experience when someone became very angry with me because I failed to assist him. But the truth is that I didn't have the necessary resources to help.

Good and selfless people still exists, although they are very few. I have been privileged to have had contact with some uncommon people that are willing to sacrifice their comfort for people to survive.

There are also very selfish people that derive pleasure in seeing people suffer. They want to always be the boss, hence they would never give people the privilege of rising to their level or above them. These set of individuals are only friends when there is plenty to spend. But when you have issues or problems you would hardly get assistance from them.

But I have learnt never to expect much from people because you would always be disappointed. I keep less friends, work hard, keep my expenses low and rely on God.

Some people do not know how to ask for help, it is not a sign that they do not have their own problems that they are dealing with. These problems can become overwhelming that even if they are generous persons, they may need to reduce generosity, so their own situations don't turn bad in trying to help other people when it is no longer within their capacity. Generous people are not singled out from the effects of a crisis, so don't expect much from them.

we only learn to value wealth and money when we hit rock bottom and people we use to count on are not lending their hands. its a hard way to learn life but its what is happening during crisis. you will feel betrayed when they run towards you when they need help but are not there when you need as well.

i'm not surprise anymore with such situation for even siblings are fighting over an inherited house of the parents. the worse it will be if they are just step brothers/sisters. crisis brought out the worst in people.

I don’t think everyone withdraws generosity during times of crisis. I know I’ve been making an extra effort to drop a few dollars in the hands of people I see standing around these days. Personally, I think that donating to those in need is a huge part of the system that is largely neglected by most people, which is why organized charities are a thing. Make sure if you’re able to help out others in need. It will make you feel a lot better than eating out or spending extra money on most of the useless things people spend their money on.

Success has many friends and failure has many enemies, I guess this is nature. If you have money,people see you to be successful and they will come around you to enjoy with you because you are generous.

If things are not working out for you or you are facing some financial crises,people will think that you have failed in life forgetting that its only a little challenge that you are passing through, they will turn you down like you are shit to them,especially those same people that you assisted.

To know the real people that loves you,it is when you are in crises,they will stand for you and assist you but those that don't care about you but cares only about your success,when you are in crises, they will mock you and run away from you. You should also run away from them forever because they are fake.

Generosity also depends on the individual, some persons only give when they know that you have and can also give them back,the moment they notice that you don't have anymore,they will stay far from you so that you don't ask from them. While some persons,even if you have or not they will always give to you. The last set of persons, if you have or not,they will never give to you.

That's really kind and compassionate act by you that you think of helping others and think about charity but some people are not like you ,they dnt like help others or give anything to anyone. They like to keep their money to themselves and just keep on saving and accumulating wealth. It is right when you help someone that gives you feeling of satisfaction.  It is rightly said you can see true face of your friends and foes during hard times .

You ask a very generic question but it seems to be based on individual experience. I don't know what your particular case might be, but I have been able to increase my generosity in these times because I did things right and as a result I have done well financially.

Yours seems to be a particular case of someone who has let you down, and without knowing both views it is difficult to give a diagnosis.

That is human. Some people only care about themselves without caring about others.

Humans are endowed with different qualities. In the depths of people's hearts, when they commit a crime, some are sorry, some are not sorry and don't feel guilty. It's hard to understand what other people are thinking.

People who always take advantage of others, only when they are happy, and stay away when they feel difficult, are people who should be avoided. But in this day and age, there are many people whose behavior is unpredictable, they are very good at acting. Sometimes some people are deceived and do not know that they are being used. We can only know it in times of trouble and that person is not by our side.

How important it is in this day and age, that we look for people who truly understand us. Not only in happy times, but in difficult times he is by our side.

But... it is wise to protect yourself in times of trouble. I mean, what good is it to destroy yourself by donating it all away? Once all you have is gone, you won't be as able to earn more to give away, right?

Besides, some people don't really want your help. For example. Some churches provide trips to African poor nations, so that the church people can help those poor Africans. But they place more trouble on the poor Africans, who feel that they have to be hospitable towards their foreign guests who are supposedly trying to help them. So the Africans spend their last little bit of money taking care of the needs of their guests.

Make sure those you are helping want your help, and that your donations aren't being siphoned off by the organizers of the charity.

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We know who value our life only when we are struggling and we realize this once we pass through that in our life, yes it is disappointing but we can't force someone to stand by our side when they don't want to so you can find who is with you and taking part in the happiness only and distinguish them from the real loved ones who stand by no matter what.

Have you realized that we all have same opportunity to make it through in life, but only those that are quick in taking advantage and decision about it arrives there first, don't blame anyone for your rechedness because eafh individual will be responsible at the end forhow he lived his life, those that we thinknare rich are doing the uncommon things and paying the sacrifice it takes to make wealth and to maintain it, if you are in their position will you give today and the more you work and realizes profit you give again and again and everyday  people begin to line up for help from you, wasting thier precious time they could have use to start up something new, just to always appears before you that is working tiredlessly to earn a living and receives from you, can you continue with the giving? will you be able bto even achieve something for yourself? Lastly let me blow your mind, if you want to please everybody, you end up disappointing everybody, just do your best and leave the rest.

All I'm trying to convey is that everyone, rich or poor, needs assistance at some point. Some individuals let you down when you most needed them. It could not be money, but rather care and attention. Giving money is only one aspect of generosity. However, everyone should care for and show love to their neighbors if we are to attain world peace. Do not be reluctant to assist them in both good and bad times.

I feel like the crisis is not as bad as they want us to think. The media aim at scaring people and making them go into survival mode, afraid to spend money.

Don't expect generosity from people who watch the news every day to hear that their mortgage rates went up, gasoline costs more, Russians are threatening to blow up a nuclear power plant, or a dam to cause ecological disasters, and the winter is coming.
Personally, I've been spending more time at home because all the prices went up so much that I don't feel like eating out or hitting a bar. Generosity depends on your state of mind. Someone who is depressed is less likely to be generous and have enough strength to cheer others up.

I agree with you on this, often times I have come in contact with people who get offended because I was unable to assist them financially in their times of trouble and they come in conclusion that am a bad friend yet they didn't border to verify if all was ok with me. Speaking about my knowledge of Lord Robbens analysis about the human wants, the human needs are incertiable but the resources to satisfy them are limited so people need to understand that it may appear that all is well physically with someone but dip down within such one things are not ok. The high rate of inflation is affecting every one so people should not feel bad if they didn't get help they need from someone regardless of the position of the person.

That's true sometimes you can never understand what a person wants from you , either they want financial help,emotional help,or help with employment and so on. And if you are unable to help them likewise they'll get offended and you all efforts goes in vain. So before putting your efforts and energy towards anyone first make sure what that person wants. 

  You are correct; charity usually no costs money. There are times when people simply need care and attention or other acts of compassion.

No matter what, we should always be there for the people we love.

Generally, one takes a precaution within their life first before others. I don't mean a broad generalization but a basic instinct is people will prioritize themselves before others, and that other being is also different in their social relations. So, I think it is not merely people withdrawing from helping others, but they themselves are setting up better survival guidelines with their social circle.

Nevertheless, in the OP scenario, it must be sought that everyone should self-reflect on their own position within the world, I mean taking a broad look at whether you are in a relationship that is one-sided beneficiary relationship. We can't force how other should behave toward us and change things that are beyond our control, but by deeply figuring ourselves it will help pave the way forward for an embracing better future relations.

I always tell my friends that anyone that manages to give you a dollar in this economy likes you. Things are not the same again, people are having financial crises secretly within themselves without letting their friends know.  Each day, they come out strong while deep down they have nothing to give out to their friends. Not that they can't, they are only saving up for rainy days.

I don't feel bad whenever any of my friends can't offer a helping hand to assist me financially. I blame the economy for that.

One good turn they say deserves another. Its a world of credit and debts for some. Its hard not to render help as one that have been aided. Some people don't know what I means to be in the position of receiving help and haven't give before, it sort of feels exhausting.
That though shouldn't be some reason not to help, you help when you can and according to what measure you wish to.
The other end to this remains that, the side receiving help shouldn't be having much expectation. They have to try to work this out amd when help doesn't come or perhaps not in time, they too could reduce there burden. Life has always been that way.

Be nice enough to help when you can.

This is exactly how life is; no matter how many times it is repeated or preached, people will always do what they want to do. People are interested in what you can provide them right now, not in what you will become in the future or how they can help you. Whatever one does today, do it with a selfless heart and ask nothing in return. Because expectations often lead to disappointment, and disappointment leads to a shattered heart, which can eventually knock you down. Help while you can and expect nothing in return, and you'll live a happy life without worrying about what others can do to repay your charity when things don't go as planned.

In today's time where there is extreme inflation and employment, where there is depression  anxiety ,everyone is  stuck in their problems and is trying to maintain a normal life . It is really difficult to someone to help anyone in this time but those who are capable of helping anyone they should help less privileged people of society.
Another reason of not showing generosity is some people are selfish and never wants to help anyone .

How do we eliminate such a lifestyle from our culture? People ought to be able to support one another regardless of the situation; generosity need not involve material possessions but rather kindness and love for other people. We must develop the ability to support people through both good and difficult situations. That is how life should be.

How fervently are you to others because there's something I understand about life is that whenever you play an important roles to peoples life they also replicate what you have done to them, your behavior and attitudes really matters.
Now during crisis people tends to take absolute care of themselves before interfering for others, they source for their security and protection.

You're right, my friend, some individuals simply want to get assistance and never want to extend it. However, when they are in need, they scream for assistance and beg for it if no one help They call them gluttons. Life requires us to be patient with others and to lend a hand when you can. since no one can predict the future. I really believe that you can always have what you desire if you assist others achieve their goals.

We cannot blame people at the moment, most people in all countries of the world are going through difficult times due to bad global economic conditions. Because of the spread of high prices and wars everywhere, people have become concerned only with themselves and their families. We cannot blame them because the reality is bad and people cannot bear additional burdens more than that. Of course, it is necessary and good for those who have the ability to help people because this is the duty of people towards each other, society A human being should not be without mercy even in such difficult circumstances.

Sometimes we think that the people around us don't feel like helping, but that's not always the case because they may be facing their own various challenges. The problem some time we jump into conclusion that they don't want to help but the truth is that they want help themselves.

That's natural, because they may be under tremendous pressure, especially during the current economic situation.
they must focus on finding a way out of each problem on their own.
because when the economy goes down, people will panic at first, and they will definitely focus on finding a way out.
and tend to like to ignore the people around.

Sometimes, rather than nature, it depends on the thinking of the individual. Even when threatened with a pistol, some people refuse to lend a hand. They are really avaricious. We must learn to constantly check in on one another. People are going through a lot right now, so even a small act of kindness might cheer them up or give them a cause to smile once more.
No matter how much stress someone is under, let's be happy to lend a helping hand.

Harsh truth is that we humans are selfish in our bones. Being generous is a good trait that only exists in peaceful environment and people to associate with others or behave like a nice person. Giving money, food, clothes or any other things is not even a problem. However, in times of crisis, nobody would ever care about human morality and all we could think about is us, how to protect us from any harm or loss. Therefore, it is not weird when we hear in times of war or hunger,  people killed and ate people only to survive. Human nature as it is.

you do you show love to people outside your family? Because everyone seems to be advocate of good behaviour but some of are worse than what we preach against. Give without season, your faith can only be tested doing crises.

This is called 'Life,' & nothing is new in your post. Everyone here had faced the same in their life. So don't expect anything from anyone; this should be the only way of life. Remember, the wrong time reveals who is sincere with you and who is fake. So the one standing with you in your wrong time is the only person who is honest with you. But in the current ERA, finding such a sincere person isn't easy. 

I am not sure what you mean about this. People are often known to help each other during crisis and have a feeling of unity.

People here in Finland were quite polarized just few whiile ago. After Russia attacked Ukraine everyone wanted to help, they volunteered in lots of things and people united for Ukraine, and against Putin no matter which political party you were member of. Now we are saving energy and consider it as their humanitarian duty to help with the energy crisis. Cities have ordered to save energy in the winter and they are happy to do so.

If a green party would have suggested saving energy while ago and set up mandatory rules for cities, people would have lost their minds. But because the crisis is imminent, we don't even think twice about it.

Here's a study to read: People supporting each other during pandemic crisis (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8653327/)

I appreciate Their effort for reaching out to them. But I have witness some cases in life where someone you trusted so much turn you down where you needed him most.

That is how you know those who are sincerely rendering help to you, it is during your difficult moment. Those who run away from friends who are in need are bad friends and should be avoided when you get back on your feet. People should not pick their friends because they hang out with them at bars or casinos. Those places are full of people who bond over drinks and cigarettes and away from the real issues at hand. Another thing we have to learn here is that those who do that are hypocrites.

Ah you were talking about personal crisis, not national crisis. That's another issue. Most of friends aren't really as trustworthy as they seem. It's easy to say that "contact me if you need anything". Most of them doesn't mean it. It's just a quick way to comfort someone without putting anything on the line.

And they won't be expecting anyone picking their offer. Or if they do they would help with as minimum effort as they can. You don't need to be a bad person to promise help and take it away. Because it's a learned cultural thing and everyone is doing it. At least the part where they offer help (and in the end won't help if asked).

Often people have only 1 or 2 close people they can count on everything (if they are lucky). And often they are their own parents or relatives or room mates, or people they are romantically involved with.

But anyway, i see what you mean and it sucks. I have some friends, but i would need to think for a while who would help me lifting things or drive if i needed to move to another apartment. I could maybe count some of them unless they had something to do that day. I am uncertain if helping of me would be any kind of priority to most of them. If i had more serious issues, i prbably wouldn't have strenght to even ask.

A strange character of human beings or call when there is nothing in the possession of such a particular person it is when I'm a man is Italy lack of money it is when you will know it's negative behaviours or on something behaviours so I believe that what changes the situation of a man is because of lack of what it want

The world is changing and people are becoming scared of the the next man. No trust again and no one is ready to assist anyone..the show of love and unity is diminishing all over the world. Then how would people show genenoisty in Time of problem,when they can help or give assist when you're not in problem?

There is connection between religion and generosity, all religions teach us to help other human when they need it but nowadays people hardly have time to attend religious gathering  , this could be one of the reasons that people don't show generosity during the crisis  but I think people usually show generosity when they are left with something to give it to the people who are in crisis after meeting needs of their own family. The current economic crisis has made the life of common men so difficult that they hardly earn enough to meet basic needs. I am not talking about rich class of our society who are still making money and even during the covid-19 era they made huge earnings and I have witnessed , some of them do funding for charity organization who run free medical centers and supply foods to needy families.

Every human being under the sun as long has they are breathing have problems and challenges. No one is completely ok no matter how much the have. This is why during crisis everyone tries to help themselves first. In our present society every one is battling with high cost of lively hood, even the rich are crying so i don't blame anyone who can't help out, and if we see people kind enough to help no matter how small thwy should be appreciated.

  The small one within your home will go a long way, therefore it doesn't matter how much you have—you mustn't have too much before you can lend a helpful hand. Some people wait till they are wealthy before offering assistance. That is incorrect; instead, donate to your neighbours. We're discussing how to create a more cohesive world. And the only way we can do it is if we look out for one another. Everyone should always be giving.

It is just common sense. When everybody has money, everybody is generous. In the US not so long ago (maybe it is still happening I don't know) people were outbidding each other to get the house they want. There were many houses that got sold for higher than its listing price. That was pretty fucked up. For example the seller lists the house for $500k and out of the blue someone comes and offers him $550k. Why? Because he has too much fucking money.

When the interest rates rise, the exact opposite happens. Now money is expensive. Expensive to borrow, expensive to spend. Everybody needs money but no one is willing to spend.

Being kind and assisting those in need is essential to the coexistence of the globe and is a characteristic of the human life style. taking the time to look out for one another and show care. Giving must not involve money or tangible goods; occasionally, paying a surprise visit to friends and family can count as generosity. But the most crucial and necessary thing to do at a time of distress is to express concern for loved ones. In our society, adversity shouldn't prevent you from lending a helpful hand.

People nowadays don't know how to appreciate your effort, which, as you mentioned, is unrelated to money and intangible, but some people only appreciate it when you give them gifts and surprises. There are still people who appreciate our efforts, but they are few; most of the time, when we say "giving," we mean tangible things rather than love and care. Mostly in the crisis, people are not really thinking of helping each other since all of us are affected, so they are just doing things on their own to survive and not thinking of others.

giving, could be good advise or better ways to solve a problem during crisis. Some people are more inform than others, with their information one can be save from bad situation. But instead of share such information to people that want it most, they keep it to themselves. And cause pain for people that would've benefit from the information.  I'm try to prove that giving out material things is not most important thing when it comes to helping people in crises.  You can give them material things and they Will still die or suffer more. But when their well informed about the main causes of the crisis they can know when it will be over or how to cope with it.

However, material things are important too, because survive before any other thing.

What timing to me. There's this one family that I used to help at most times when I'm able but yesterday when I wasn't able to give them what they were asking, they treated me as if I'm the worst guy in the world. I don't understand why there are people who like them, they're grateful when we're helping them and that's common. But, whenever we're not able to give them some help because we're also dealing with our personal matters and lives, they're thinking badly of us. I'm good with helping grateful people but I guess there's a limitation on this, when they've asked you and you're not able to aid them and they're telling some bad words against you, that's off.

Wow, what an awful thing to do. They are the types of people who have discouraged others from acting morally. I'll tell you not to stop being kind just because some people aren't appreciative. No matter what you receive in return, keep doing good. Second, never expect anything in return when doing good deeds so that you won't be disappointed if you don't receive it.
No amount of evil can stop me from doing good to people because good always triumphs over evil.
I am aware that in this evil world, people tend to repay good deeds with evil. I'm curious about what's going on worldwide.

This is the sign that you need to drop the help that you brought to them and also tell them that you've done this before when they needed help, and now when you decline their request, they will be saying harsh words. Make sure they know that you will not help them anymore as your effort is useless. Many people I've known have already gone through this, which is why most people don't help their friends who are in need if they know they will complain if their request for help is denied. 

Funny how some people tend to reject their close friends because of one obnoxious person. There are benefits to assisting people regardless of how they respond to you, so you shouldn't let the misbehavior of one of your friends deter you from doing so. We should be helping individuals on a daily basis because we are strangers in this planet. No ungrateful person should prevent you from reaping the benefits of generosity.

This is not all about withdrawal from giving to others in need when there's social and global challenge that hold people into ransom like crisis and unrest, but there must be an appropriate approach to engaging the administration of the people involved during this situations, the trust in most cases is not there because the intended allocations will not arrived the targeted audians and the releives will be properly collected from the government or private bodies presenting but when there are no ways to how they can be monitored to the last recipients things will always go wrong as never wanted.

It is in times of chaos and crisis that you know who your real friends and family are. Anyone can support and love you when the going is good  becasue they know they stand to benefit from it. Nobody wants to associate with someone in times of hardship and tough times. Sadly, such is life and since i experienced it first hand I made up my mind to have no expectations of anybody. I also made up my mind to not trust people becasue i can really tell people's true intention when they offer to help you.

 @mvdheuvel1983 has actually summarized the reason why some people act the way the way they do during the time of one's need and I've got to agree.

 Funny enough, I've come to understand that it's the time you expect peeps to come through for you, it is the time they desert you and hence I don't expect much from anyone.
 Some would blame such an action on either lack of financial strength, others would refrain because there would be no one to see them when they do their 'acts of generosity'. In all, no one can pinpoint why people act the way they do.

it's quite unfortunate to have friends that only turn out for us only when we have event to celebrate and not when we're faced with hardship and problems. Religious, we ought to be helping people both in good and bad time. No one should desert a friend because he's in need, because he will surely come out of that challenge and you might need his help someday.

Just because someone looks good on the surface doesn't mean that their life is set up so that they are always there for others when they need financial assistance. Even people who seem to have it all financially occasionally struggle. I've witnessed a case where a multi-millionaire is pleading with friends for money to pay off his debts and feed his family.

Everyone is being impacted by the poor state of the global economy. People are currently having difficulty providing for their families food needs. Since the global economy is hurting both the rich and the poor equally, I don't genuinely blame people when I ask for their assistance and don't receive it.

Everyone can cite a justification for why they refuse to extend compassion. But no matter how little,  still show love, even if  it's not enough. Yours won't finish because of it. the economy and problems in the world shouldn't be an excuse for refusing to provide a helping hand. Together, let's share the tiny ones we have.

Only those who helped them out when they were in need or a worse circumstance are remembered. A word of caution:

I am glad that all of my friends are I can rely on since the start, though I don't have a lot of friends (just friends of friends). I can only count those I can rely on though it is only a few; at least they can help me when I need help. This kind of friend, when I celebrate things, I always ask them to go into our house and celebrate, and if they know I have big problems, they are on my side to support me. I know not all of us have this but if ever we can find this kind of people, let's treasure them and support them when they need help.

As long as you're willing to help others in nned same are some set of people willing to take that help you want to reneer to themselves instead of giving it tothe specific target audience, if we must dig deep in many riches today, we will found out that alot of bad had been done to have amass wealth by most of the rich fellows, this is when you get the impression that some people are really giving and contributing to help others in need but those in charge are the ones making the crooked diversion to their own interest and pockets.

It's Christmas 🎄 period, season of love and cares. Please Let's use this period to reach out to the less privileged and needy in the community. Pray for those in war and support them with Aids.

Merry Christmas! It is the best time of year to give gifts or food to those in need, especially these days. I know a lot of us have a lot of extra food right now; let's give it to those kids on the streets or people out there so they can eat some delicious foods instead of rotting them. Also, we can give any amount, no matter how small or large it is; it can be a big help to them. Let us donate what we can to those countries and people at war while also praying for their safety and the end of this war!

We appreciate your concern. Comrade, there aren't many folks in the neighborhood like you. My family and I had a fantastic day yesterday since we prepared and fed children from the street. It was a wonderful moment for me and my family, and seeing the happiness on their faces makes me want to do more.
I ask God to give us more and the desire to give to others.
Happy Holidays, everyone!

People really withdraw their generosity during crisis due to crisis something that can take off anybody's life when it is serious so everybody to watch itself didn't problem of crisis so that it will not be a video of that crisis so that is why some people withdrawal their self for such out or attitude even president always be humble in a crisis in the country do you know if there is a mistake something different may happen

Good day all, compliment of the season. This is the season of love, I hope you're all showing love In your dormen? As we hope and pray for those in crisis in their various communities and families come out of it strongly. Let's use this festive season to givya helping hand to people around us and those in crisis.

The reasons why people always withdraw themselves when crisis's happened among us in the society is because people in our society today always see the truth but saying it out becomes an issue for them because sometimes the political party they are supporting might be the one's causing the crisis's, but because you yourself is in support of the party you keep silent to the evil deed that is been practice in our society by your political party without putting an no and stop to things that will brings to crisis's among us, emotionally supporting the political party that are bringing the peace, love, and kindness in our society today is a good choice, because the only way to get a better tomorrow is to allow the good ones lead, and letting love leading in us forever.

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Thank you so much for this topic, well, firstly I wish everyone Merry Christmas and happy new year, this is a season of compliments, with love and kindness among us, well, I will say some people withdraw themselves from things that mostly end it come up with crisis's because there part experience in life, and don't want to repeat any bad energy that will came up to a disaster and crisis's among us anymore, what everyone needs and want now is a lovable tomorrow, and not withholding our part experience.

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It's new year, happy new year to you all. I wish to use this medium to appreciate everyone for your comments on this topic. As we entered into new year, let's remember the needy and those in crisis. Show them love and kindness. It might not be money but cares and love will help those in crises.

The mindset of most people or Countries who withdrew their aids from people or Countries they should have help is because they didn't see the possibility of profiting from the situation,
For instance  , Politicians tends to help the masses during election season just to gain the sympathy of the public so during election proper the electorate will consider voting them

Most celebrities and wealthy individuals help the poor because it will make them more popular by putting them in the limelight for the right reasons and gaining more relevance in the society

Some rich countries help poorer countries because of what they stand to gain especially when the poor country is endowed with natural resources,

The Rwanda genocide would have been prevented if Rwanda had natural resources then,  the West refused to step in because there was nothing to gain from the massacre.

The bottom line remains that most people  give help because of what they stand to gain  whether you're succeeding in life or  not, nobody likes investing in an unprofitable venture

such habits listed above should be discouraged in our society. You need not to benefit from your good deeds and helping hands. Some good deeds are for the sake of the society. Everything must not be for selfish interest. I understand we're leaving in an evil world. But we the good ones must show commitment that we can make a change. For others to emulate.

Helping people in need or crisis should be our habits, though, we don't pray for crisis. We Pray for peaceful co-existence. But crisis is inevitable.so we have to help those that are in crises within our reach