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Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

I was going through reddit in the early hours of today, and came across a user who lamented bitterly through his post, of how unlucky he has been in gambling in the past few weeks, like almost a month now, he said he bets minimum, twice every day, but have not won a dime for the past weeks, and this made him hate himself so much, I sincerely felt pity for him, for I remember one time I lost a huge sum of money to betting, I felt so bad that I thought of killing myself  ;D.

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now?  ;D

Lets discuss.

there are instances that i can recall the loss i made whenever i visit again the casino and then try to remind myself to withdraw whenever i win a certain amount. i don't really hate much that i think of killing myself but it keeps reminding me of the loss whenever i see the casino signature.

what i could say is that i learned my lesson and if ever i go back to that casino again, i will make sure to withdraw even when its just $50.

Had this terrible experience in 2015 when I was sourcing funds for some school clearance, I thought it was a good decision to just go play virtual soccer and augment my funds since I already have half the money, I foolishly obeyed the voice of destruction from within me and went for the drill. log story cut short; I was drilled so hard that I lost the half of the money in my possession to gambling. I literally felt like ending my life that day at the thought of having to gather the funds from the beginning again, like I literally cursed myself over and over again for my foolishness. It was a very bitter experience, but I learnt a valuable lesson from it.

Am very much sure that I haven't hated my self for losing, this will only make you gamble more because you would want to win and gain back your losses which is of 2 different options either lose or win and losing can cime very easy, which means you will continue to lose more.
Gamble who can do so is a type that doesn't cash out because of their greediness, what what greediness can cause.
When you bet a game and the casinos gives you an opportunity to cash out but you didn't , you might also lose the little one they gave to you that you rejected including the money which you staked with. Such things will make some people to hate them selfs because they have lost that money that they once have an opportunity for.

Gambling loses can be very painful and frustrating,  it can make you begin to imagine if you were born with hard luck. This was my case when I haven't taken control of my emotions, then if I lose, I increase the gambling amount thinking that will help me recover the loss only to sink deeper into loses. I hated myself so much but I couldn't help but come back again to gamble another day, not remembering the previous experience that left me in deep pains.

I'm glad that those dark days are over, now I plan my gambling, from game selection to maximum acceptable lose to target wins, everything is dutifully arranged.

To be honest, I have not been in this kind of gambling situation, and I don't pray to get pushed any day to the extent that I will gamble off the amount that will make me regret my actions.

When I started gambling, I can remember that I made some mistakes, like putting all my hope in the amount that was supposed to be won, while winning is not guaranteed, and most of the time, the game gets blown and I feel bad. In those days, my friend also advised me to stake an extra 60% of the initial money I wanted to stake on a game (it was a sports game), which I did, but at the end, the team that was supposed to win the match lost and the game got busted. I felt very bad that day, but I did not hate myself; I just took it as a common lesson.

The day I played Crash, I lost huge money because the game was so tempting, and I was just glued to the game to make sure I could reach up to 200x multiplayer because any time I did not stake any amount, it would get to 200x and above, but as soon as I staked some money, it might just stop at 20x or 50x, so I kept playing until I lost a lot of money that day, but I did not hate myself. As a gambler, don't just take things too seriously. Don't dwell so long on your losses, but rejoice more when you win.

I've never hated myself because of gambling, nor did I hate myself at all for any other reason.
I don't lose much money and I'm a casual gambler, so there's really no bad sides of this. It's more of a hobby for me than anything else.

There were situations where I felt bad about it, like I wasted so much time playing a game and it was all for nothing because I lost, but that happens when you get your priorities wrong, meaning that you don't understand what the goals are. You're paying to have fun and if you lose it's still money well spent.

Many people that are gambling want to make money from gambling. That is where the addiction starts. I have been like the person before, although I gain and lose but my losses are always more. Sometimes I will gain but instead for me to quit for the day, I will continue to gamble and ended the day with losses. If I gain I continue to gamble. If I lose I continue to gamble. That is the problem with addiction. The more you are addicted the more you will just feel like gambling.  He needs to change his mentality about gambling. He should stop gambling with the amount of money that he can not afford to lose.

I lost my savings for 6 months in a single night because I was too eager to win. If I can remember it correctly, it was the release of a new car and I wanted to double my money to buy it the next day. Unfortunately, things did so bad that I lost that much. I never blame anyone other than myself qbout what happened. Actually, up until now, regrets stil kicks me because that was a lot of money to be spent only in gambling. It just became a learned lesson however, an expensive one. Losing is part of the game and I am fully aware of that but there are just things and desires that would push you to your limits.

Probably my worst experience, imagine working for six months and saving just to 'give' it to gambling providers. No matter how I just want to laugh on the situation, it just still hurts the same. Eversince, ai assured to manage my bets. Whether I lose or win, there will be a limitation. Greed will push you to do things outside your risk tolerance. I accepted how gambling works that day and so far I am doing a lot better than my early years in this industry.

$40 gone in just a day. That's when I hated myself the most. I got careless, I got greedy, I was so angry that I let them take my money without even thinking about it first.
That's a huge amount here in our country and I didn't think I could go to that extent of losing amount just because I am chasing my losses. Now, I am trying to get it all back using the bonuses I acquired by spending all that money. Somehow I got a part of that loss but still not enough. I know what I am doing is wrong because chasing losses could mean losing more but I have a plan to just use the won amount today and let it go if ever all that profits are gone.
Gambling sites have means to put everything back to normal although the fact is they will keep on taking.
I got lucky 2-3 times in my gambling rounds. The only difference that I see now is I get more spineless whenever I see a profit. There's this perspective that I don't want to continue because they might take it back unlike how I did it before.
Truly, chasing losses is a headache and I don't want to be in the same position again. Luckily, I got some wins and I might stop if ever I feel like it's enough. Just getting 50 percent back will be okay for me. And then maybe I can get lucky again after a good night's sleep.

One of the worst experiences I had was last month. I experienced a losing streak, actually I had won but I was greedy so I didn't withdraw a penny and kept playing until I ran out again. I spent all my income from the campaign on gambling, for maybe 5 weeks in a row I made deposits but didn't make any withdrawals. At that time I was too ambitious to chase losses so I experienced losing streak, this rarely happens and last month was the worst for me

And what makes me even more regretful is, I had a loan on the forum and I should have been able to pay it off but because I was chasing losses I used the money to gamble. It was really bad but I've got myself under control again and I think everything will be fine in the next few weeks. No, I don't hate myself, sometimes maybe yes, but generally no

Let me tell you a simple personal story about myself and my gambling experience, in the last couple of months back,  I have experienced a series of losses to the point that some weeks I lost all my entire holding with zero balance available at the end of each week,  at that point,  I felt bad but being a player with experience and management practice I know that,  at some point, I am going to make a good bounce back winning so I endured all along.

Until last Tuesday when I heard may series of wins and luckily for me,  I made some good profits from my session and was able to withdraw my balance,  this healed me of all my previous bad experiences.

Losing is of course unpleasant, even if it's not worth much. A series of consecutive defeats of course makes anyone feel angry with themselves, including me, but this is not the best way to express yourself. Gamblers must be aware that they need to be responsible gamblers for whatever impact they have, so they should not hate themselves and regret their losses for a long time.

Losing and winning are part of gambling, so they should not forget that. If you lose a lot today, stop for a moment and come back tomorrow or go somewhere to meditate. No loss is fun, it's all annoying.

One thing we should know is that gambling is a game and in every game, there must be a winner and there must be a loser. Gambling as the name implies is a game of uncertainty. Gamblers takes thee risk and accept the results as it is hence gamblers are advised to gamble with the mindset of having fun and not to earn, gamble with what you can afford to lose and not what you are banking on to fetch you a return on profit, gamble responsibly and not aggressively.
I have never hated myself for loses because I already made up mind of the uncertainty that comes with gambling. Of I lose any game, it doesn't affect me because I play by the rules and principles of gambling. So I don't feel it that much when ever I gamble as I do it for fun.

It did really comes into a certain point that i have started out to think in a corner on which i have those thoughts in mind on what the heck that i have done? Why i did make out such action? I should have stopped
and able to secure those winnings while im still positive or with those common lines on which we do know that most gamblers would really be having so. Its never been that simple not really that easy
i should say on trying out to control yourself here on gambling space on which on the time that emotion would really be getting involved then there's no way that you could really be able to find yourself
that easily avoid on tending to tolerate it specially when you are on such condition on which you dont really care on whats happening around you.

There would really be coming into a point in life that you would be starting on blaming out yourself on the time that you would be messing up. Self realizations and admitting out your mistakes
could really be only possible on the time that you would be experiencing those unfortunate events but before that you wont really be thinking up that much.

Well I would say if you haven't had these then it's safe to call you a newbie to gambling because I believe everyone must have experience such. For me the feeling was hectic as I hated myself so much that I couldn't even sleep and all I ever thought about was for how I would claim back money I used up in the playing that whole session but like every other time, I resorted to my therapy which helps calm my nerves alot and this is hours of swimming, it helps me alot and since from that day I have always watched my gambling if the loses are in a series o quietly just end the whole session.

I have had some doh! moments thanks to questionable bets, thats for sure.  I never went full-on self-loathing though.  Kicking yourself when luck goes south just makes a bad situation feel worse.  Its like stumbling down the stairs then getting mad at the stairs and  sure, I had regrets over money wasted, but beating myself up over stuff I cannot control? That road only leads to more ramen my friend.  All you can do is shrug, maybe laugh at your own stubbornness, and try to make better bets next time.  Win or lose though, got to remind yourself: its just money.  Your worth is not tied to dollars lost gambling.

Yes, I have a series of losses that I forgot when was the last time I won, I'm just so lucky that I'm not losing a fortune during the time that I experienced a lot of losses, but it also made me realize that there's such a thing as longest losing streak in gambling so I always in check not to allocate a huge portion of my money to gamble or even take a loan.

It was a blessing in disguise because it gave me a true picture of what gambling is that losing is inevitable and that there's such a thing as a long losing streak something that will remind you to bet what you can afford to lose.

It's one of the most important tool to always know when to quit for the day,  and since gambling is full of uncertainty of events,  I think it best that we take proper caution on how we handles things,  and to always set a limit as to what and how we go about our gaming time,  some times,  the most important thing to learn is to learn to respect timing and if we set a timer such as stop time,  we should endeavour to follow such time and to arrive as a safer state of mind.

I used to lose also applying this kind of formula in the past like,  I always got carried away with gambling more than my spare time,  and even if I won or lost,  I still continued to gamble due to my over-energy or greed to either recover or make more winnings.

I don't feel that way because of losing because I understand gambling is not what you will be optimistic about to win but however, I do feel very bad if I allow a cash out to disappear in my eyes  ;D and I ended up losing the game. This happens in football when the cash out is available and I become indecisive to go for the smaller profit against waiting for the full payment, thus losing such makes me feel bad and regretful.

I don't gamble every day because I know that I'm very unlucky in gambling games, I don't know why, but in every game I play, I always lose, I also win sometimes, but most of them really lose. I remembered every gambling game I played in those days was a total loss, that's 1 month that I always lost, but the beauty of it was that I only gambled once a week, but of course I was still disappointed in myself during those days. and what I did was quit gambling for a few months. My budget is also around $44. It's so bad, I don't know if that has happened to others, straight 1 month of loss. Maybe the good thing about me is that I'm not addicted to gambling, because I don't have a hard time letting go of gambling, probably because that's the only time I gamble. If you gamble every day, there is a chance that you will become addicted to gambling and your money will run out very quickly, especially if you always lose. Now I'm playing gambling again and I just reduced my gambling budget.

So far, I have never experienced anything like that, because when I gamble, I always try to remain consistent with the limits that I have previously set. In the gambling that I do, apart from setting a maximum deposit amount, I also set a maximum playing time limit, and I even schedule it. where I only gamble on weekends and the maximum limit I can spend on gambling is two hours. So I only gamble for two hours a week. and it is clear that by doing this, apart from being able to help me overcome financial losses and the negative impacts of gambling, this can also help and make it easier for me to control these activities. So that the gambling that I do does not become an inhibiting factor in carrying out other activities, which are more important than just gambling.

And I never hate myself personally, when I experience defeat, because defeat is a normal thing and has become a certainty that we will get. I am always able to accept the final result I get at the end of the game, even if it is a defeat.

I'm sure what you described has been mentioned quite a few times on Reddit and possibly on the forum as well; unfortunately, it's quite common. First of all, under no circumstances should someone contemplate suicide for whatever reason, especially if it's about money. First things first, I don't bet large amounts and tend to be a little conservative when it comes to betting. I find it kind of a waste of money to bet large amounts; I'm not expecting to yield huge returns, and I prefer to wager what I can afford and don't mind losing.

With that being said, although I've certainly lost some money in the past, I wouldn't go ahead and hate myself for it; it's a choice. I find it way too exaggerated to resort to such measures.

like I keep saying, I've had several experiences and alot of surprising things keep happening everyday... An incident where a man stripped himself naked and offered his life to anyone who's ready to take it, at his will, with full responsibilities to it... We had to like, beg him to atleast to get dressed - probably he was drunk? ion know.. sometimes I wonder why people won't just desist from doing things that would hurt them at the tail-end.
That would be the dumbest decisions to make.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

You look like a disciplined player, I think there are few of them, because many come to relax or release stress. They are not interested in following the rules; they came to break them in the form of an inadequate bet on all the money here and now. Thus, after a week of disciplined work, the player wants to feel irresponsible at least here. But he doesn’t realize how frivolously this will ultimately lead him to losing.

In fact, even for me, it is very difficult to observe such restrictions as you have made for yourself. I couldn't stand them even for one gaming session. Still, I come to gambling to relax a little, but at the same time I don’t allow myself to do inappropriate actions and I can stop in time.

First, before you go on to  hating yourself because you are not making profits in your gambling why not stop to ask yourself will my hating of myself due to my persistent gambling losses change anything in the results in my future gambling or everything will still be static. Hating oneself because of gambling losses which obviously this is not within your control it's like leaving the cause to attack the effect. The cause of your losing is that you're gambling, so why don't you stop gambling and see how you will not be losing your money anymore. Very simple right? Yeah!

This hating of oneself is not nice for my looking because if one hate himself because he loss games then he would stop gambling and I don't think one can hate himself but can only hate unlucky nature and not himself. Or hate the particular casino and would not play the game again. You can only pity yourself and not to hate yourself. A gambler slogan is always I will win one day so if a gambler hate himself then that slogan can't be actualize because he has to cut himself from gambling so that hatred of oneself will not be there again.

When you pity yourself then you have to use another strategy to win.

You know, I had an experience where, while I was playing gambling, I felt very annoyed because I always lost. It was the kind of feeling that I didn't want to be given a chance to really win, that I felt someone was controlling the game I was playing. You know that feeling of a gambler.

This is where I realized that what others say is true: the house always controls the game, no matter what you choose to play; they will also decide if they want you to win a small or large amount. But what you're saying is that I haven't gotten to the point where I'm disgusted with myself.

For me all the time I have gambled I consider it fun although I loss but it's funny sometimes because I intentionally place bet that even common sense will tell you that it's never gonna work but I still proceed.

I use to gamble because I want to make a significant amount of money that will change my life but i realized its never possible to make a good living out of gambling.

One time i had bad experience with gambling was when I got scammed apart from that experience I have never had any bad experience with gambling anymore.

Some time ago i was with my boss in his apartment and everyday we spent together after work we will fund our online casino which is the BC games we usually compete with each other who will make more profit while playing the crash game so it's just fun all the time.

Why do I have to hate myself because of gambling losses? Gambling shouldn’t be a do-or-die affair, you shouldn’t gamble to the extent that you will hate yourself because you lost in gambling. Since I have been gambling, I don’t really think I have gambled with the amount that’s going to hurt me after losing to the extent that I will hate myself. If you lose money and you are beginning to hate yourself, then something is wrong, because things like this can lead to some people being depressed and some ending up committing suicide. Always gamble with the amount you know you are not going to hate yourself after losing.

The only time I do feel bad after gambling is whenever I am with my friends, and maybe an argument comes up and we decide to place a bet that anyone who’s right will win the money, and I end up losing. I don’t feel bad because of the amount that I lose, I do feel bad because I lost an argument. But it’s just something me and my friends do sometimes to have fun.

The gambler who made the huge money in the betting will start to think like you said.Even they get the opinions like you said to finish his life for the loss.But it won’t be the solutions for the loss,they should increase their confidence to the game.They arrange the capital for the new game,this time arrange only from the income.Don’t get money from the loan resources,because loan will be the wrong decision to the gamblers to use for the gambling.Now the gamblers take a time of 2-4 weeks to analyse the entire gambling game.Because the gambling strategy alone make the gamblers to win huge money,So spending time on the gambling is good one.Finally back to gambling to raise the loss money.

You wont really be having those regrets if you do just simply that accept on the risks involved with gambling on which on the time that you would really be losing money then you wont really be that
having that kind of impulsive feeling since you've been already expecting from it. Losses is really that inevitable and this is something that you should really be that realizing at first.
Hating  yourself because of too much loses? Then you arent that prepared on facing up gambling in the first place. People would really be that messing up their lives just
because they are trying to push things to happen even if we do know that it cant really be just that possible with gambling on which loses are inevitable.

I have only had one occasion I truly hated myself for gambling, I felt bad for nearly two days after losing money to the dices. I was getting greedy and trying to get winnings by using a relatively high wager and low multiplier. What happened what quite what one would expect to happen, but I es quite new at gambling and I thought I could beat my bad luck by going as safe as possible.
In the end, I lost my wager in a bad luck punch.

It was not  lesson as expensive as some which have been already shared here in this thread, so I would not really complain. I am impressed on how much some of the people here were willing to gamble and the feelings they had after losing those amounts of money. Remember, anyone who reads this thread: if you feel seriously depressed and cannot see the light in the end of the tunnel, please try to get help as soon as possible, there is nothing wrong on admitting to have a problem with addiction to gambling or being struggling with bad feelings thoughts.  :(

When I tried playing poker, I was so bad at playing it that I lost all the money I made in a month from my job and then I decided poker wasn't for me. I played the game for about three weeks and I lost everything. I was determine to win so I didn't get discourage and kept playing but after losing so much ai had no choice but to look for some other type of game so I can enjoy gambling and not always getting bad results when I gambled. I wasn't playing for money therefore I avoid getting addicted.

Why many gamblers like myself back then lose when gambling is as we follow what other individual are saying and not looking for games that we can play well and win. We think what others are doing will be the best thing to do but it doesn't favor everyone. I had to switched to sport betting and since I made that decision, I have be enjoying gambling. I don't win everytime I gamble but I don't lose all the time.

There are times when I regret my actions, especially if I think I overextended my luck and never stopped when I'm already ahead. It happens to the best of us. I never really hated myself for it, as hate is something of a deeper form of emotion that stems from something intense inside you. Regret is a far more fitting word to what I felt on those losses over time, and I simply just remind myself of what happened previously if I feel like I'm committing the same mistake again.

I didn't. But I did gave myself a quick metaphorical slap if I do say so myself lol. And what I mean by that is I didn't beat myself up for losing so much money cause there's already so much to be stressed about and I'm not about to lose my shit anymore just cause I drained my bankroll. But during those few days after losing myself to gambling I came upon a realization that ultimately lead me to work towards learning how to responsibly gamble. At the end of the day the only reliable companion you will have is yourself and if you beat yourself up for shit you can't really control you're only driving the issue further when you could've been using the time and effort you're given to work towards a solution.

I don't mean to sound like your therapist or a motivational speaker lol but I'm pretty much just speaking my mind about what worked for me best. I know a couple of us here are not really vocal about their issues with gambling and it's not great that you're keeping it to yourselves but if you really have no plans of divulging what's going on with your lives anymore, then at the very least work towards finding a solution. Start with my suggestions and then let me know if it worked out for you.

There are always these moments,
Moments that you wish you didn’t have to go with your guts over an old or a roll and what ever form of gambling you engage in. In all, it haven’t summed up to the point that I felt like killing myself. Just regrets and wishing I didn’t get to gamble in that moment but, it ain’t the case now.

Before I even make a stake, I get to accept the worst possibility, knowing that I could live with it rather easily than have a disturbed mind and so, I come to the conclusion on either I should play or leave it be. I think what have saved me more from gambling over the years is how I’ve come to accept the outcome and isn’t entirely after what I stand to benefit from gambling. Of course it’s a hope that you win but, it doesn’t matter if I loss too.

This is an experience I don`t like to share because I hated myself for being so irrational. I have had so many bitter experiences about gambling but the most pathetic I will share. This happened six years ago when I graduated from the university. As a young and vibrant guy with big dreams and plans for the future. I had always saved to establish a website where I could render academic-related services like selling e-books, proofreading articles online and then even writing academic papers devoid of plagiarism.

I have always been a sports lover and so when a friend told me about sports betting I felt it was an easy way to get the money remaining to establish my website. I ignorantly thought sports betting was about saying Team A will win and they must surely win because they are the stronger team without knowing that the outcome of a game is determined by different factors. I placed a multi-bet and had a cut one. To me, it was close and I was so confident that I would win my second bet. It was a story of cut one (lose), lose, lose, lose, lose, lose, lose, lose, lose lol until I lost $1500. I blamed my friend for the loss because he introduced me to gambling.

People only blame themselves when they lose but very happy after winning. Winning can not be everytime. It's high time gamblers get to know this. I couldn't remember hating myself just because a game lose. I believe my time to win is at the door.

Yes I have been in this kind of situations before and this one just happen in a single day which I decided to take some extra gambling activities and gamble more than I use to and i spend more than I also use to spend, usually i could have just used an amount between 0.5$-6$ on my local curency to start the day, but that very day I deposited about $9 or so on my local currency and I walk down to slot game.

to cut the whole story shot I lost all that money that day and I deposited again and same thing happened, I was like for a game which is base on luck what happened today, it was not as if I didn’t win any single one but out of 3-5 games I might not even be lucky to win any single one and that was how the day ended.

Lol, just last night I have this experience, I also won some money, but I didn't stop for the sake of looking for more, (greedy). And in the end I lost my winnings + my capital and then deposit twice and lose again.

Very bad experience for me, but then again, it's just another gambling day for me, so I just wake up not looking backward at that losses and experience but think that life goes on and so just take that as a learning experience. And I think everyone here has his/her own experience and how to cope with it.

That's when your greed kicks in and gambling draws you in deeply You probably thought that on the 2nd deposit you can get profit again and withdraw with the first deposit profit but the opposite is happening. Gambling is like that so you have to always keep yourself under control from gambling.  I did not know how to control myself and made serious mistakes like gambling with loans. I realized this when I lost them.

A person who starts using gambling seriously for profit will have very bad results. For this gambling should always be used for fun which we sometimes forget. And then make a wrong decision and the result is very bad

Yes, I've come to some point where I blame myself for being unlucky, but it's more like I hate myself for doing gambling, or I blame myself because I have known gambling. There is a point in my gambling where I stumble a lot, which costs me a lot of money and puts me in debt. Luckily, I manage to wake up from that path that I build. That's why instead of blaming others or the luck for not siding with me, I blame myself because I do gambling and I can't control myself sometimes.

Its irresponsible for a gambler if he blames himself for being unlucky; not all gamblers have the luck to always win; and also, what do you expect from gambling? This is a world wherein you should expect to lose more than you win. News about someone getting rich from gambling is rare because it's not a common thing, so don't expect that you will enter into gambling and prosper.

It is normal to feel so sad about losses that you keep blaming yourself for not controlling the urge to gamble more than you can afford to lose. I have faced this kind of feeling when I carelessly chase losses to the extent of blowing the money that was budgeted for something else. Some persons have gone as far as committing suicide because of these feelings but I have never felt this way. Most people I read who committed suicide are persons who borrowed funds or sold possessions to gamble.

I have had such regrets so many times but it didn't last for a long time. I usually have such feelings when I gamble more than I can afford to lose. But I have learned to follow my gambling plans so I have not had such regrets in recent times. My gambling experience recently has been without regrets or self-hate because gambling is not just a means of getting money but I gamble also for enjoyment.

Nah! There were few regrets but not to the extent of hating my self for being unlucky. I enjoy the game actually but there are few miscalculations of my bets that made me a bit disappointed to have the said decision but it's all part of the game really.

I personally don't hate my self because of excessive gambling loss I just accepted it right away that it is part of gambling itself.

No hate to be honest as I am now a responsible gambler compared to my previous years, I learned a lot of lessons from my own mistakes and others who share their experiences here on this forum.

As long as money is involved and the loss is huge, it really doesn't matter how it was lost, I would just hate myself for such a distasteful decision and the consequences that would follow.

I have had some experiences though and it may not be as serious as the guy in this story who placed bet twice in a day, but whenever I did place a bet, it becomes an issue to see the result, so I don't bother checking because I know somehow I lost and the pain of checking to confirm only makes the matter so much more painful to have lost yet again.

I simply just zero my mind and do it for fun instead of spending money with hopes of winning and then go weeks unend without a single win.

I don't blame or hate myself in any case of losing a/some bet afterall I bet with the amount of money I can afford to lose and I can only feel a sense of aggressiveness towards some people at moment after some time I would forget about my losses and move on of course I did my analysis before placing my bets so if I lose I count myself unlucky, I have the believe that there are more opportunities ahead and in as much as  I have extra money to fund my account there is no qualms, Moreso I bet mostly on soccer matches so that means I only bet on weekends occasionally during midweek Uefa league matches matches thus that reduces the idea of betting everyday and prevent addiction to gambling.

I think a lot of people can share my experience...

You have a long losing streak and then you get that urge to "Go big or go home" and you go "All in"!!  In most of those instances, you end up losing everything.  >:(

Chasing losses or going "All in" is seldom a good idea and it ends in frustration and anger or tears. 

Just accept that we have "On" or "Off" days and just adjust your play according to that.  ;D

because of the way I easily get addicted to doing certain things, I don't allow myself to gamble to the extent where it would become a serious threat to my emotional well-being and so I haven't gambled to the extent where I hated myself for going that far.

But I have had a course mate in my undergraduate days that used all the money his parent gave him for is school fees to play gamble and lost it all out and was unable to pay off his fees and thet coursed him a serious problem in his studies that resulted in him having an extra year in school and till date, he is seriously regretted his habit. Gambling is not to be followed up as something your life depends entirely on if not you're going to learn your lesson the hard way. Gamble with an amount you can afford to loose and find yourself something reasonable to do with your life so you will live a balanced life.

I think most of us go through this kind of scenario in our gambling experience. I myself had experienced it and just like most of us, I lost my whole bankroll in an instant because I became tired of the losing streak. Thinking that all of my unluck was released and the "all-in" will be my lucky bet. You will instantly think about your actions after you lose on a scenario like this, you have no choice to continue since you don't have funds anymore, all you can do is to regret and move on.

This scenario sucks but I guess we all should experience this as this as the realization that we can get from this is important.

I've never hated myself after losing a bet simply because I gamble just for fun. Yes, losing is a part of gambling, so why should I hate myself for that?  Of course, you should never bet more than you can afford to lose.

I don't think about "hate" but I will admit my mistakes. But in the process of gambling, I learned to be responsible when playing, and there is nothing beyond my control to be upset with everything around me.

And honestly, I feel pretty lucky when I gamble, so not only was the experience good, but the results made me happy. But I have lost many times, and I still smile that this is simply a game and I am the one who controls it, not letting it control the other way around.

Most people lose control and feel uncomfortable when gambling, which puts them in difficult situations, so trying to stay alert is the most basic thing.

It's good he now hates himself, if anyone had advised him, he would have taken the advice for granted, at least now he can make a decision on his own.  It is okay he realised early and can retrace his steps. He will heal.

Many gamblers fall into this category, they won't stop gambling until they lose everything. They keep encouraging themselves that the next gambling session will be that big opportunity to win. When they are in this mode, they ignore all forms of warning signals. They learn best when they meet their own misfortune.

I have made quite a number of losses in the past but it is not up to the amount that will make me hate myself. I am not a regular gambler but whenever I decide to, I gamble with very small amounts where I do not have to mourn over my loss. Over the years, I have come to realise that gambling is a game of luck, no matter the amount I stake, I might win if luck  shines on me.

Maybe my moderate gambling habit is influenced by the fact that I have a job and other side hustles where I earn from and still dedicate my time to. I only gamble when ever I have an interesting match coming up. I do this  to exercise my analysing skills(sports betting). Gambling is more of a fun thing for me.

I never have hated myself for losing in gambling as no one forced me into it.It was my decision to go there and try my luck and when you lose trying your luck there is nothing wrong.What is wrong though in my opinion is that the slot providers never tells us real time RTP and they give us a fixed one which no one can really explain it in a human understandable way.

I feel a bit sad and maximum I blame myself for taking that decision that time but I never hated or hate myself for gambling.

Of course. There was a time when I felt really bad about myself. I had managed to win a series of bets, which rarely happens, but my greed took over and I made some bad decisions based on my emotions. Unfortunately, when it comes to gambling, I always seem to go through a losing streak. Recently, my cousin invited me to gamble online, and he won, but I ended up losing all of my bets because I couldn't control myself once again.

As I mentioned earlier, I lost all my bets while my cousin won. Despite this, I decided to continue gambling without worrying about the amount I was spending. In the end, I lost everything. I was filled with self-hatred at the time, and to calm myself down, we decided to drink liquor instead.

This is one of the things I have seen happen to my close family where he had a big problem when he tried to enter the casino, he just played there for the first time and he brought all the money he had saved however, He lost all of it. He locked up himself in his room for a few days, crying, and then he came to the point where he almost committed suicide, sorry for the word, but it was true. It had a profound effect on him, It was one of the things he regretted and it was the key to his learning in Life. This is also one of the reasons why he quit gambling, and thankfully he stopped, especially that he's working abroad after that incident.

This the feeling one can have when their is much expectation to make money in gambling and this feeling is very terrible. With the understanding I have towards gambling I don't think I will play and get to the point that I will hate my self, I think at this point it is not just addiction that is the case but it has gotten to the point of depression.   It is always advisable that when playing gambling and it has start changing your moods and feeling , the next step one needs to take is to stop playing.

Gambling is a very unpredictable game that sometimes it happens that one can play and never to win any game through out, when the loses are increasing it is just better to pause.  Gambling is a game that people needs to apply wisdom,  if people just continue playing without any reasoning I think it can land them into serious problems that may be beyond their strength to control . Gambling is not a way to make fast money , if people should understand this I don't think they will be have much issues with the effect of gambling.

Those experiences do occur to me but disappears after sleeping over it. The game is over, I'd remind myself. Then spend some weeks without gambling as a means of thinking of my mistakes. Because moving on to a fresh gambling session after the previous losses could be detrimental to gaming skills, and affects the emotions, which could lead to more mistakes. I've been in some situations where the money lost not only pained me, but the doubt I had on the predictions which could have landed me a win, got me worried. Gambling offers unique experiences to gamblers, and we need to understand that it's not meant to make us feel so bad of ourselves. What matters is staying responsible and maintaining our bankroll henceforth. The past moves so fast, and we have to run to the future, such that the past don't remain in our memory. Most gamblers who don't let go of their huge losses, end up wondering over the past that they forget what to do in the present.  

Interesting, I'm not sure if there are many gamblers who experience the same thing as you say. you know, maybe on a lighter scale there are many gamblers who have experiences almost similar to this thread. for me personally, yeah, I have experienced this phase and the situation was very complicated at that time. honestly, it is very difficult to express in words or even writing in this post. In my experience, if someone is in this phase. usually, you will be very devastated, both mentally. whether it's psychological, depression and everything related to hating ourselves for the series of gambling losses we made.

BTW, this thread is like interviewing gamblers.

But yeah, no problem, we can even share experiences with each other or learn from the experiences of members in the community. in short, in my case, I experienced a phase where I hated myself both mentally and psychologically. like regret that keeps spinning around in our brains, blaming ourselves for actions that I felt at that time were very stupid. not a few people experience this situation, needing help and assistance from other people. whether it's family, friends, yeah, at least relatives, family, can be more helpful from the psychological side of the gambler who is having a problem. if not, then it will become an even more complex problem. In this case, the point is that I experienced a phase of losing a lot of money at the gambling table. Since then, I started to reflect back and try to flashback everything. of course, thanks to the support of family, friends and myself, I can learn wisely from experience. Anyway, cases like this are not easy to resolve instantly, it is certain that each person has different phases and recovery methods. Based on my experience, so far, I am still gambling. although, at that time it had taken a break for several years. important points for me at the moment, understanding, awareness and responsibility.

I blame myself in a way that tells me to be aware of how much money I'm losing when I'm on a losing streak, I don't necessarily hate myself but shouting curses and telling myself harsh words is one way to go when it comes to making sure that I don't bottle up the anger that I'm feeling when I'm gambling and so it doesn't burst out when I'm not gambling anymore and it saves the people that I'm interacting with that I'm not cranky after gambling. So far I'm doing just fine with that kind of set up in my gambling life, I'm all out of anger after gambling and no one is annoyed with me after gambling so it's win-win for me.

I never hated myself just because I lost at gambling, but I regretted it because I didn't follow what was set. Having experienced it was a lesson to obey what was set. I have experienced a defeat that was quite painful in my opinion just because of one match and had previously decided not to choose that team but because the team faced a very weak team so I thought it was impossible to lose and it turned out they actually lost so all the results in other matches were in vain.
Because I never hate myself for losing, everything can be accepted even though it takes time and it should be like that because there is always a chance to gamble again and also a chance to win as well as to lose so it's just like a wheel that keeps turning.

Yes, I may have blamed myself but I don't hate myself because I was too careless in making quick decisions which ended up spending my budget in a short time when I should have used the budget to play for a few hours but it ran out in a matter of minutes because of carelessness, but talking about a series of losses, after all, who here is a gambler who experiences a series of wins, I think maybe not too much, winning and losing is actually a part of gambling that doesn't really need to be thought about in my opinion.

Take it as an example, if I am happy with my victory then I should be happy with my defeat, but even so, we still take lessons from the mistakes and defeats we experience, we don't have to regret it because whatever has happened will not come back again even though we can have the opportunity to choose to recover all the money you have lost, you should never do it because in the end it will only increase regret and lose more. just enjoy whatever the result is because that is more important than having to hate ourselves.

I've never experienced a series of losses to the point where I hated myself but I have experienced big losses. At that time, I didn't hate myself because I realized that it resulted from my mistake of not being able to control myself, seeing the losses I had experienced previously. Indeed, I felt sad because I had experienced such a big loss, but then after experiencing many losses, I realized that I really had to reduce my gambling activities. And I was lucky at that time. I didn't really have a serious gambling addiction and was still able to realize that it was my own fault.

So why do we hate ourselves? We have experienced so many losses while we have decided to continue gambling because we want to pursue a win, which we realize is difficult to obtain. We must be able to realize that after experiencing some losses, it is time for us to stop gambling and instead continue gambling. And we don't need to chase wins because gambling is not for making money but for fun.

This is an interesting question and I’m sure most of the reply will be hilarious if everyone will be honest on their answer because I personally sometimes have a violent intent towards myself whenever I lose big time due to my greediness.

I already slapped my face hard one time when I lose my bankroll after I lose it all even though I’m already in huge profit few minutes before the disaster happened. Sometimes this kind of self slapping is very effective to me to wake on how shit I was when I lose all my bankroll that supposed to be in win if didn’t get dumb to just walk away with profit.

Hmm I'm curious, what is it that makes you blame yourself for the losses that you have experienced and why do you start the same thing? If that's true then maybe I would say that you are not a responsible gambler in the sense that you can't accept any results at the end of the session, but if it only happened once, meaning you didn't make it a habit and only at certain moments then maybe I would say that it's quite normal because everyone can never always avoid making mistakes that make them disappointed or lose, but if you keep repeating the same thing and with the same reaction at the end of the session especially when losing then maybe as I said above you are not able to accept the fact that you lost and that means there is no responsibility in your gambling approach, logically if you are always angry with yourself for losing then why not find a solution? For example, reduce the budget so that at the end of the session you don't feel too disappointed with yourself or another way may be to quit.

LOL, 😁
I would say majorly, most serious gamblers must have experienced this same thing a couple of times depending on how long they've been gambling, I remember vividly one night last year, I think it was in the month of November 2023, can't remember the actual date, but then, I was playing pick six game on l0tt0.com, and less than one hour into the game, I won a substantial amount of money, I was so happy, and felt its possibly a lucky day for me, that if I keep playing, I would win even much more, so, I kept playing and after some minor winnings, I started losing and losing, at a point, out of frustration and depression for a win, I changed my client seed believing that was possibly the problem, I continued to play and kept losing.

At a point, I started praying to atleast, win back that money i won before, then I would stop, since I've already lost all the money and now losing my initial deposit as well, but nothing, I played all through the night for more than 4 hours, until I ended up with an empty bankroll, I felt so bad I could not sleep that night, at a point, a tear 😢 fell from my eyes, just remembering this incident now, looks very funny to me, but sincerely, it was not funny for me the day it happened.

I can tell that the person in the story above has no friend. Anyone who has a friend they gamble with or discuss stuff about gambling with, they would have no room to feel this sort of self-pity that makes them hate themselves. This is because the person would notice that everyone  are more unlucky in gambling than they are lucky. They will through the conversation know that every gambler is going through the same thing. They will banter, laugh, tease themselves over it and after it everyone is fine and happy.

No matter how worse my gambling experiences are, I will leave to gamble another day. I also do not take it that seriously. I have other real life things doing other than gambling.

When you say serious losses, that means a large amount, right? Even though I have never experienced a large amount of loss, I don't want to experience it, and I will never experience it because I have limits that I set when I play gambling.

And these limits are only a small amount of money, so even if I lose, it's not a big deal. Even if I lose, it's fine because I don't really take it seriously; instead, it's just for fun.

When I didn't have much money I still took a risk and continued betting. This didn't end up good for me unfortunately. I lost a significant amount of my savings and this affected me psychologically too. I was really sad every day for some time by thinking about how silly I was about taking such risk. Betting was like an addiction to me those days.  :(

Later it was like a turning point for me to quit betting with my own money for a while. I started to just making bets in times like betting websites gave me free balance to play due to earning it somehow or just being lucky.

Now it is really helping as I'm not feeling addicted to betting anymore.  :)

I have had one experience, the loss was not repeated loss per say; but I made a wrong move that deny me of money that would have change my life for that moment. I had games selected and it was review by me and what I normally do with plenty of rack up odds is I make sure I round it up in hundred anytime I want to give a long shot of half time to win or win either half. I did all my selection and review but I had 99.8 odds, I wanted to round it to 100 and added one extra game and it was set and I clicked bet with my stake.

What happen after the games looks like miracle, all games were right but I got the shock of my life with the last game. It didn't win. The game I should have ignored and play deny me of other winnings. For a week, I didn't enjoy gambling and still remain one of my pain loss but I have move on. Gambling has a way of humbling the way you think sometimes but it's all fun.

The gambler who lose the money in the gambling site was the easy one,because it’s just the possibility of the game.Many people get the depression by the time of losing their funds in the gambling site.But the important factor of the gambling site is the same gambling site will help the gambler to win the big money.If they do the gambling with some good strategy which can track the algorithm of the gambling site.The gamblers will get temptation after the game loss,but the loss of money will always give the temptation to the gamblers.If you interact with the gamblers they will share the gambling strategies with you and it helps to earn more money.

I haven't done anything rash so far that I would hate myself for losing in gambling. Since I enjoy trying new games that my friends have introduced to me, I will gladly bet whenever I have the guts to do so to see what will happen. For example, if I were to try playing the game and wager a small amount, I would definitely withdraw the money and deposit it into my account as soon as it increased.
 
However, there was a time in my life when I placed a small wager and, through continued play over a brief period of time, I did manage to make a sizable profit. However, as a greedy human, something inside of me kept telling me that I ought to wager more money than I usually did, and I chose to gamble rather than cash out my winnings, which ultimately caused me to lose and all of my profits to vanish. Although I was disappointed in myself at the moment, I didn't hate myself enough to consider suicide because I only gambled for the profit I made; therefore, I guess the house wanted it in return, even though my money was still there and only the profit was lost.
 
I believe that each of us has a unique and amusing experience when we go back in time to our silly human behaviors.

He is probably repeating same thing, whenever he notices he's lost lots of money while gambling. That doesn't make him irresponsible. I actually chuckled reading his response, in the sense that it could be his way of cautioning himself for spending so much money gambling. Since he's not worried on the development, he's all fine with it and nobody is getting disturb for his action. Then his reactions shouldn't be a trouble either. Gamblers have different ways of dealing with losses. Some time when I lose the reactions from me doesn't match my normal action or behavior. He only needs to find something else to make him feel happy when in such a mood. So that it won't eat him up in the process. It's always a thing we should expect as gamblers. Not all gamblers, though.

I had a lot series of losses, but I never thought that I was so unlucky, because I also had a long series of wins, I understand that losing and winning are part of the game, the only time that I hated myself so much was when I lose money that I should have not allocated for gambling when we are experiencing a series of losses we need to stop because we are just going to frustrate ourselves by blaming ourselves.

Stopping when we are experiencing a series of losses is the right way to do, and just let it pass in your mind, in gambling there is no such thing as unlucky there is just a series of losses and it happens to every gambler, if you continue to gamble even though you're experiencing all of these, then you are addicted to gambling.

This happened to me only once, when I was still inexperienced in gambling. After playing for a long time, I was met with a series of failures of consecutive defeats, which ultimately led me to lose my entire deposit. After that, I was upset and hated myself, because I thought about why I even got into all this, because if I hadn’t done this, there would have been more money. The amount was not huge, a few hundred dollars, but since I am used to taking everything seriously, my moral suffering was not commensurate with this petty money.

But then I accepted it... probably this is one of the stages of acceptance. I realized that losing is only part of the game and in return the victories will be brighter. Now I’m more restrained and don’t allow myself to bet too much, because if that happens, I’ll start to hate myself again, which I really don’t want to repeat.

As an adult I don't remember that ever happening to me, and I'm glad I didn't, especially seeing the stories told in this section. When I was younger I did lose more than my fair share playing slots, but I didn't hate myself for it. I was ashamed and a bit angry, but it helped me to learn the lesson and not fall into those behaviours as an adult.

The worst thing I experienced was when I gambled and won quite a lot of money, but I didn't stop playing, I thought that this was my lucky day and continued playing until in the end I didn't win a penny, and I had gambled all my income. I

Losing and winning are two things that always go hand in hand in the world of gambling, everyone experiences that, including me, I also experience the same thing, but I never blame myself when I lose a bet, I know and understand that it's gambling, so there's no point if I blame myself.

I've thought from the start that the bad luck I experienced in betting wasn't caused by my fault, it was purely my luck that day and it was unlucky, maybe I can try the next day, if the next day is also unlucky, maybe I'll stop for a week to rest, maybe I'll get lucky when I go back in and bet.

I don't hate myself because I was unlucky, but because I stepped up when I won $2500, however, I used almost half of the money I got to gamble again with bets that were much bigger than my habit. It's like this memory can't be los, in fact I'm not sure I'll experience the same win again with $40 deposit.

well, this become the stupidest decision I ever made, and made me hate myself at that time. But, I don't hate my self until now. Because, it's time to look at something in the future.  ;D

Just in today's lottery as we do have a lottery game in our country to guess 3 numbers. If you are correct you will win and I will say that you will win a decent amount of money. Today I haven't been able to bet because of my laziness due to the weather, and guess what that number that I've been betting on since January was the result. So I was mad earlier today, which caused me to do house chores rather than sleep. But this is really gambling as it is not my lucky day so we should also learn to accept our losses.

My wife which is my girlfriend that time join me on hating myself. She hates me more than I hate myself that time because I keep using our joint savings fund on gambling. This not a series of loss but just a one time loss. After this incident I never touch any funds that doesn’t belong to me solely. Btw I’m not exactly pertaining to actual gambling here but on Ponzi scheme that gives me 10% daily profit. That time I’m still new on this kind of scheme and I thought I can grow our savings through this new found investment.  ;D



No but we are both laughing now to this mistake because of how dumb of me to think that I’m genius that time to find this kind of rare investment opportunity. This is worst on gambling because I don’t have any chance to get an ROI from the start compared to gambling that give 50/50 chance.

Experiencing defeat in gambling will definitely make our minds a little disappointed. Moreover, the nominal amount of money used in gambling is quite large. Of course, for everyone who gambles, it will definitely be a very sad thing.
But for me personally, I am the type of person who doesn't like to blame myself. Because this will actually make the situation worse. So when you experience defeat in gambling, it would be better if you respond with a cool head.

Because if I personally am asked about losing when gambling, it seems like it happens quite often. But I never regretted it too deeply. Because it's called gambling, losing is a big risk and we have to have the courage to bear it. So basically we have to be aware of this. Because if we don't realize it, then when defeat befalls us, it feels like the world will definitely fall apart.

And the simplest and most effective advice that I have proven is very good for gambling is to manage your finances. Because by managing finances well, we will know where we will enter and at what point we will stop. If it is clear, the point is that the capital that will be used for gambling must be regulated or allocated. So, if for example the money has run out, then stop gambling until there is enough money to gamble again. Well, from this, I personally rarely lose big in gambling. Because the key is that I always manage the finances I have for gambling.

So in conclusion, when it comes to losses in gambling, I have experienced it. But to hate myself for that I never.

When I suffer lose streaks, that's when I feel like I'm bad in analyzing and I'm not capable become a gambler lol. Even though I only gamble small amount, but lose is still lose, no one want to lose, just like you're playing a competitive games e.g. MOBA or FPS, you're trying to play as best as possible.

Usually I will bet in safer choice to increase the probability to win.

Yes, there was one when I was just starting to gamble,  what made it more disappointing was I was trying to win because I needed money but while you keep trying to win it's the losses that keep coming, I considered myself jinx because the series of losses is just unbearable so I decided to take a time out from vacation, and when I came I was surprised that the wins just kept on coming, that erased my mind that I was a jinx in gambling.
A long series of losses and a long series of winning is just natural, so I learned that when you're having bad losses better take your time, and when you're having a series of wins then strike while the iron is hot.
However, none of these matters if you're playing for fun - winning and losing don't matter when your mindset is focused on enjoyment.

This thread reminded me of what happened to me a few years ago when I started my sports betting journey with the hope that I would be able to win something, on the first day I created an account at a trustworthy casino and deposited 50$, made my first bet of 10$ and I lost, I was upset because I had a lot of hope that I would be able to get that bet right. but I made a mistake and lost $10. then I made another $10 bet and lost. Again I was very upset because I was counting on getting that bet right, then I kept making more bets and I lost on all of them, causing me to lose all of $50 without at least managing to get at least one bet right. That made me very angry that I made another deposit of $50 and I lost everything

I started to wonder what the hell I had that I couldn't get at least one game right, and it wasn't a multibet bet, it was simple bets. so I made a deposit of 30$ and lost in 2 bets again, I was so angry that I told myself that I would not bet again, but as the minimum withdrawal amount was greater than the 10$ I had, so I did a bet that I randomly chose the game, something that I just wanted to lose, but it was unbelievable that I won the bet even though I had bet on the underdog, then I received a free bet and I was right, I managed to recover my profits. But I still preferred to stop playing for many months because I didn't want to have that feeling of consecutive losses for a long time.

It hurts a lot to lose consecutively for a long time, the thought I had at that time was that I was a loser, so I only started making bets again when I started to know how to analyze games and when I forgot about greed, today I bet with little money and I have managed to get successes and defeats. which in my opinion is something positive considering that the house always wins. I don't expect big wins, but I struggle to hit games with big odds that give me a profit

To hate oneself is a tough extreme feeling, so I don't think I have been on this situation at some point. I already felt heavily regretful, but never reached to the point of hating myself for losses faced in gambling. On the other hand, if I wasn't able to learn from my mistakes and continued gambling and losing money without limits, that is, if I became a gambling addicted, then it's possible I would hate myself for not being able to get out of this vicious circle.

And actually, when people reach to this level, it becomes very dangerous for them, because it keeps leading the individual to further negative consequences and habits, possibly reaching to suicide, since they feel too bad about themselves that they just want to escape from this aversive conscious state of mind. It's the complete opposite of the narcissist person, who is always superior to everyone else. The one who hates himself will always feel on the bottom, unable to elaborate any positive concepts about his own personality and traits.

Therefore, everyone should be careful to not reach this bottom. If you feel like you are hating yourself, that your self-esteem is too low, or that you are a complete failure, these are signals to be attentive to, because they might be leading you to self-destruction. Seek for help, and be assured that it's not too late to revert the situation and find qualities in yourself, besides achieving goals in life which you will make you proud, satisfied and self-realized.

I had a series of losses... When I was younger and without family I had situations when all my wallets got empty! But I never hated myself, that's a very wrong thing to do. I can throw some hard words in all directions, but I usually calm down after a few minutes and I just continue with my life. Of course, I made some promises to myself that I would "never play that game again in my life", but that never lasted too long.

Now I am much more careful with money. It's important to be careful about deposits/spending on gambling and to take breaks after some consecutive losses. As I said many times, it's all fun & games as long as we play with amounts we can afford to lose. As long as it's like that it's never "the end of the world" even if we lose some money.

I don't think that I have that moments that I have hated myself due to gambling and with my losses. I understand and accept any loss that I incur especially with sports betting.

I've got a lot of disappointments and losses but that doesn't make me hate myself for my actions. Maybe some of the times, I've got regrets but it didn't come to the point that I have to hate myself.

A normal reaction like cursing and regretting that I have bet when I lose sometimes but it's not that I hate myself due to that because eventually, that feeling is gone.

Everyone appreciate that field in which he find profit but if he losses money in such field for just two or three times then he will not support that field but will talk against it. Same is with gambling that people evolved in gambling cannot identify about its harmful effects because it gives them an opportunity to earn but they fail to get the point that win is for just one time in whole year while you faces loss for the whole year but gambling is such a toxic field that nobody can leave it.

Don't gamble at first but if you initiate it then don't gamble for whole day because it can then ruin your life and you will leave all other activities for gambling. Accept success and defeat both because they are part of game and don't be too busy in gambling as it is not a suitable field.

There is only one time that I regret in my gambling loss even though if I look at it right now the amount is considerably small, compared to my other losses.
And even though it is small back then it was due to the time and our current situation that moment, that makes it so heavy compared to my other loss that is way higher.
Back then I was just a student and had a small savings and when I got home there is no food for our family, and I decided to make more money by risking it so that I could buy decent meal for all of us, and it end with me losing, and decided to stop when I only have an exact amount to buy snack for all of my family member that day.

Of course, every gambler will have had bad experience that may not be forgotten until now.
I sure that every gambler has experienced massive loss that left them really devastated.
This is very normal condition that occurs, but the attitude regarding conditions like this also depends on whether the gambler himself has responsibility or not.
Those who have sense of responsibility may only regret little but not make mistakes such as recovering from losses, but those who do not have sense of responsibility will definitely blame themselves and really hate the decisions they have taken.

I have experienced conditions like that but it has been quite long time and it all happened when I was often careless and gambled excessively, I couldn't even really accept reality and forgive myself for the mistakes that resulted in big losses.
The impact can be felt for quite long time, from incidents like this lose self-confidence and try to do anything to win, such as following the methods of other gamblers.
And this does not solve the problem but adds to the problem because the losses are much greater.

I was trying to remember if there was really one point of my life that I have hated myself for losing and for gambling. But since you've mentioned when you were still a student.

I think that I've got one before when I was already gambling and still a student back then. No job but just getting full support from my parents and it's not that big at all.

Like using my money to bet on some games, like in a physical unusual casino and as it should be for my budget, I've spent it there and kaboom I've got nothing left. So, we've got the same experience on how we've blamed ourselves for gambling and having that expected loss.

it must be a very difficult situation for you. Hopefully, it won't happen again in your life and gambling experience.
every gambler must have bad experiences in gambling. some even frustrate us.
I once spent my entire salary in one month on betting. That's the worst thing and what I regret the most when I don't have good financial management in gambling. it's just like money passing through your hands in a matter of hours.

It is the point of realization that you have lost continuously which results to regrets. Losing is not a new thing in gambling and loss is just something you will feel more when numbers are getting that big that it'll literally hurt your bank account not only your bankroll in gambling. The regret I have experienced is when I lost consistently for 3 weeks. Regret originated with the thought that gambling was really not for me. It is because I was chasing profit back then, that I became frustrated in each loss and for some reason it pushed me to play until I win back everything I lost. However, it is not how gambling works and happening to its players.

We would all be in that situation as long as we are here in this industry. It is just fine having regrets which means you are aware of how bad or good your career as a gambler is. What's important is to learn if you are committing mistakes or to accept things and prioritize saving yourself from huge loss. It is normal to chase win however, if you are being too eager of it, you often make wrong decisions driving you too much towards the game.

There's always that feeling that we are really that having those kind of regrets on doing gambling specially on the time that you are really that losing big or its your first time on losing that huge
amount that you havent done before. You would really be having those thoughts that you shouldnt have gamble in the first place. In my own experience then i have been into this condition several times
but i do still end up on playing again. Why? getting bored and being enjoyed on playing gambling is there. This is why i cant leave up gambling but now that i have been able to learn those lessons
then i could still be able to hover myself that responsibly on gambling field. Gambling isnt bad as long you are really that having the control and responsible with your actions then
you should really be just that fine.

Gambling all day long happens because they are already in the game and have enough addiction, they keep less and less and do not want to stop.
The bad effect is indeed to abandon all activities, it is not very good.

There should be management and when to stop.
If there is no control then there is no time to stop, losing will make them more eager to continue gambling, let alone big wins then they want to continue playing.

It's about lust control and greed, I myself am even too eager to keep playing when I always lose.
But I try to control it all so as not to fall into bigger losses.

I love playing slots and betting, but it has its limits.

I gamble so little that I've never really regretted it. Talking about hating myself for it is definitely a step further, so I haven't felt like that, ever. I know how regret feels though because I felt that when I thought about the bitcoins I sold in 2017 and 2018, but it's important not to dwell on it too much and be positive. If I ever start to hate myself for this I'll immediately stop gambling. Know guys that it's a sign that you're on your way to depression and possibly, one day, suicide.

I don't have any worse experience with gambling but I would love to share my friend's experience, for people to know what greed can cause.

It happened that a friend of mine had a good prediction of football matches he bets on and had the slip of the same games in four places. And each of the bet slips results in $5k, making it a total of $20k.

Could it believe a cash out of $4k per slip($16k total) was brought out for him to withdraw, he refuses to take the cash out, all because he believes that the two remaining bets would played as predicted, not knowing that it would cut(destroying his whole bets).

Ever since that experience happened to him, he kept hating himself because if he had withdrawn the cash out like that, he would have been richer than waiting for all his bets to finish playing before he could withdraw.

That's the worst experience ever, I have seen someone experienced. Someone's breakthrough in life was denied because of their greedy nature to win each of their bet games

I often tell the story of my gambling journey in the past where I felt like a bad addict and I answered yes, I have experienced that.
at that time, before I recovered from addiction and had time to leave this forum for a moment, I really regretted selling something valuable because I was tempted by a previous bet which had made me lose and chased after that loss, but in the end I couldn't think wisely, all the money I had was lost. in gambling and finally I left gambling, I didn't go home and left the house for more than a week. I just isolated myself in a building. I thought about regretting that I couldn't control myself and had sold all my valuables and the item I sold was the last valuable item. that I have.
but luckily someone I didn't know passed in front of me and saw my condition like a depressed person and long story short I told that person about my regrets and he advised me to go home and I finally told my family about everything. I was addicted and finally I was matched by a woman who is now my wife who helped me recover from addiction.
this story happened before I got married and now I have forgotten everything about my past and I have become a more responsible gambler and have never regretted anything I did in the past.

It's normal to regret losing at gambling, but always apply wise thinking to think that tomorrow we will get compensation for the losses we experienced, whether from our work salary bonus or from anywhere else, but be assured that these losses are your valuable experience and you don't need to regret them.

Knowing your limit in gambling is everything and I can bet that 90% of all gamblers fail to access this control. It's very hard to stop gambling when losing because your brain and thought will all be focus on trying to get back that win and their is this stupid thought that always come with it too which is the thought of gambling all instead of stoping at the moment of high losing spree.
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As a gambler I have had my bad days but am just greatful that I didn't let it destroy me because I realized where the urge was taking me to and had quickly stop and revised my pattern if not my days would have been filled with lots of regrets.

If I experience series of losses in gambling I would not hate myself for being unlucky but rather hate myself for being unable to control myself by continuing to gamble even when I've lost a lot already, for not knowing that after loosing a lot consecutively, I should have taken a break. Gamblers are always loosing, but different people handle their losses differently. As a gambler who is already hating themselves for being unlucky, you make yourselve one step closer to getting depressed which is dangerous for health.

Gambling is a game that has its most part luck dependent and so when gambling you just have to make sure you are risking that which you can afford to loose just should Incase you are not Lucky enough on that day but then just make sure you are not going irresponsible and you are taking calculated risk.

Some gamblers do say that as you gamble daily it brings you close to your winnings days and maybe this was a typical case such that on the supposed winning day you didn't gamble you shouldn't feel too bad yet you may still have another Lucky day ahead just make sure to still stay responsible gambling and not letting this make you anxious and start gambling aggressively because that will only be irresponsible on your side and lead you to possible gambling addiction.

If there's a gambler who ends up thinking like that, better find another hobby as gambling is not for them.

To the point that a gambler hates themselves because of being unlucky in gambling, their minds are not properly working anymore.

I have experienced several big losses in my entire gambling journey but have not ended up thinking like that.

I think everyone must have felt unlucky when they were gambling and sometimes they can also feel lucky once in a while, we have to understand that most gambling has a risk of losing and it is not uncommon to see someone who is unlucky in their gambling and continues to experience defeat, causing them to become addicted. , there are several factors why people can become addicted, first because they chase their losses and try continuously so that one day they can win big, second because they have experienced victory once, so they continue to gamble hoping to get lucky again.

Gambling is a game of chance, therefore we should not expect too much from gambling, think of it as having fun then you won't be disappointed even if you have gambled many times, but if you expect too much profit and you can't get it then it will be very disappointing. For yourself, I never hated myself just because I was unlucky in gambling because I used it to have fun.

You and other people must be having a hard time because losing games. Remember that you can't control what will happen when you play games, so be careful and responsible. Losing runs can be hard on your feelings when you're uptight. Seek help from family, friends, or a professional. Staying healthy and happy is more important than getting rich at the casino. Others care about you and want to help you. Help is available if you or someone you know is having trouble with gambling

Yes, it is a big loss if we cannot have clear boundaries when playing gambling. We gamble only to get entertainment and not to chase victory. And we also can't take gambling too seriously because the more serious we are, the more likely we will be eager to win. And when that occurs, we will probably forget our limits and start to experience losses that get bigger and bigger over time.

It's good if you have clear limits when playing gambling using small amounts of money. This can prevent your losses from becoming large because before you lose a lot, you can leave the casino and not return. Gambling is just for fun and it should be that way.

I have never had major losses in gambling simply because I am generally not a gambling person and losing does not force me to win back. The game is interesting to me only from the point of view of game systems, strategies and chances. I like to collect interesting observations on the internal logic of gambling and their internal patterns, which are very often implicit.
      I don't even know what would motivate me to bet big money without a significant chance of winning. In addition, people who lose large sums usually have poor risk management and money management. It's always very bad and always ends in some kind of drama. Unfortunately it is so. Limit your losses first.

Hating yourself after making a gambling stake or hating yourself after a gambling attempt is not supposed to be so. A lot of people regret or hate themselves after making a stake especially when the lose the bet or some other persons may also get angry when the place a bet and won despite the odds and wish they had staked more.
The reason most of these persons end up hating themselves is because they had probably staked more than they can afford to lose and actually still lost the bet. If a gambler continues to stake in that manner they end up being an addict. Gambling is supposed to be a fun act unfortunately it isn't for most people.

Gambling itself is not harmful; how you handle it is. Self-hatred? That's a sign you're missing the point. It has nothing to do with regretting overspending or wondering how much you could have earned. It's about being aware of the odds, being aware of the game, and, most importantly, being aware of yourself

One such approach is to view gambling as a means of self-control testing. Define your boundaries, be aware of them, and honor them. Whether you win or lose shouldn't matter to you as a person. It's a game, and fun is the goal of games. If you get this right, you'll discover the ideal ratio between excitement and accountability. People, it's all about perspective. Modify yours, and your experience may well be modified as well. It is your responsibility to ensure that gambling remains enjoyable

Yes, I understand that every gambler has his own way of approaching his gambling, and from what you said it seems to  be true that that is the way he always does, namely by scolding himself when he loses, but I don't know what the purpose is because it will be a futile action if he basically always repeats it in the sense that there is no change that leads to prevention, especially if he always repeats with a large budget amount that he basically cannot account for. So the main point here that I suggest is that it is better to slowly reduce the amount of the budget, and for the problem of his way or reaction in accepting defeat it does not matter if it still wants to be applied every time he experiences a losing situation, and with this then obviously there is a change that occurs that he will not really feel the amount of large losses that will keep him in a good financial balance.

If they have reached the stage of hating themselves for losing, this should make them realize that they don't need to gamble too often and should immediately reduce their gambling activities. That could make them experience even more losses if they continue to use and spend more money. Indeed, some people can win, but if they calculate the total of their wins and losses, they will see that they still experience losses. Those who hate themselves because they have used a lot of money, but it turns out all the money was spent on gambling, and they haven't been able to win any money. They really have to introspect themselves if they hate themselves after gambling and losing a lot.

Well I believe what can only make me hate myself or have regrets will be when I have over gambled away all my bankroll which I have a very watchful mind on. If you don't want to ever feel regrets then planning and setting limits to gambling habits is the only way to it and  also  many people stories about how they merciless fucked up has proven to be a big teacher too and reading this always helps keep me in check and avoid doing those things that makes a gambler go crazy.

This is not always the case on most gambler. You are really lucky if you manage to limit your bankroll to your dedicated amount for a long time gambling since many gambling always failed to do that when they are on the actual effect of gambling that usually cause the addiction.

Not all people can fight their greediness when gambling and usually over extents their budget for the sake of chasing losses. I encounter chasing loses many times that makes me hate myself during the time when I still have a lot of funds from my bounty profit here in the forum. I learned my lesson a lot that time and become real responsible gambler right after I sum up all my total lose.

You are right, what happens to others by the mistakes they make is definitely how the wise people learn their lesson in order for them not to do what will cause them to go through the same ordeal.

From my personal experience, responsibly gambling requires a well conscious and focused mind, and slipping out of course in this regard can be very easy, this is to say that, there is a very tin line in between responsible gambling and irresponsible gambling, there have been times when I was playing slot game, I was losing but yet, could not bring myself to quit, why,? Because I was hoping for a win that will help me recover all the money I have lost in that session, or at least, some of it, and before I know what is happening, my entire bank roll was gone like the wind, this is exactly how some gamblers end up in regrets.

It does really shows that your emotionally unstable and not really that much that stable when it comes to thinking on which you do hate up yourself just because of your gambling losses.
On the moment that you are already hating up yourself because you do lose so much then it does means that you arent prepared on doing gambling. On this way it would really be that best that you should really stopping on doing such thing. So far i havent been able to reach up into the point that i do hate up myself because of too much gambling loses.
Gambling should really be that fun and not something that stressful, you should really be stopping as soon as possible if you are really that having these kind of disappointment
and stressful moments.

Oh yes definitely!

This happened recently wherein I had to gamble $400 because I was rationalizing with myself that I am too deep now and I have committed so much money that everything would be a waste if I did not win a single round. Unfortunately, the night ended with me losing much more money and I was never able to recover the money that I have betted on.

The problem with gambling stems from that hope that you are chasing- such hope that you MIGHT win in order to recover your losses. But that hope is a dangerous landfall that can snowball quickly especially if you are afraid of accepting that you just lost a handful amount of money.

With that experience, it made me thing that I never want to experience battling the odds. If today is just not my day, maybe gambling is not really for me.

I mean most of the time this is probably what is going to happen since we are going to regret it in the end when we gamble so we surely hate ourselves when we lose and have a lot of regrets about gambling. For sure most of us as well are saying that you are very unlucky if you lose a bet right, and that is just it we are just unlucky to win and we are going to end ourselves that time.

Most of the time I have a lot of regrets about making a huge bet, but at this time it doesnt happen very often since I already know before even I start to gamble or create a bet, I already set up my mind that my bet is going to lose for sure and I'm gambling only just for entertainment and for fun not really because I wanted to win When I'm doing it most of the time, I could easily avoid being frustrated on my game and getting a good game if I win the be.

Probably one of the worst experience is just losing hundreds of dollars in gambling, I mean it seems to be working first on my experience and few rolls/bets, then all of a sudden just completely lose my it and my momentum is just gone a consecutive lose streak losing a hundred of dollars, which is a huge amount for me that time since i was just a student that time.

Of course, no one wants to lose when engaging in gambling activities; this is the outcome we are actively trying to avoid. However, the nature of gambling dictates that losing is an unavoidable event, while winning is only a possibility. Despite our best efforts to achieve victory, the harsh reality is that no single strategy can ensure a consistent winning streak in every gambling endeavor. Perhaps, it even makes sense that achieving victory in our gambling or betting endeavors requires some losses to be endured first. Sometimes, experiencing loss may make us feel a little discouraged. When we are in a state of stress, there are people who choose to take a break while others choose to continue their gambling activities. However, it would be better if we choose to take a break from these efforts to restore peace of mind and emotions. Because if we continue to carry out gambling activities, this will only foster impulsive tendencies which have the potential to worsen the losses we experience.

not just ever, in my opinion if they often gamble then they must often get unlucky because that is definitely experienced by gamblers it's true that you say gambling completely has risks which in my opinion cannot be avoided let alone eliminated because the risk of losing at gambling is certain. also it is one of the things that is a certainty in gambling,  because if you don't win,  you lose, but I make sure that many of the gamblers experience defeat so that they can get addicted to gambling.

I think a lot of them are addicted to it because of the points you got right, first with them chasing losses or wanting to recover their losses, and secondly with the wins they get it makes them confident to be able to get another win at gambling, and even though they gamble more losses but they don't mind that because they can still be covered by their beliefs that they have in gambling. It should be so, with the defeat obtained,  we don't have to hate ourselves because losing at gambling is a certain thing,  so don't expect much from gambling either because most likely if it is like that it will only produce disappointment like you said.

I believe these words are very wise. A simple example, this is related to sports betting, I am sure that if we bet on every match, even every day, the possibility of losing will be very large - I say this because I have experienced it, besides we bet randomly on clubs that we don't know the chance of winning. also small because our observations are not in-depth in a match.

If we observe sports matches, especially football, with a big chance of winning, we understand what clubs will play in the match. And that doesn't happen every day, there will be a break.

Therefore, perhaps it is better to be careful and patient and make good choices. We don't need to rush or have to gamble every day, which could possibly increase stress if we lose. It's better to have low intensity but have a high chance of winning.

Until one finds himself into the conditions that make other feels pitiful on him for what has happened, when we took risk beyond we could manage to cope or bear, then things turned a calamity on us only for the purpose of us gambling a d taking the wrong steps in doing so, some good example people do that makes them regret were as follows.

1. Taking loan on bets
2. Addictions in gambling
3. Continuous losses
4. Inexperience gambling
5. Over confidence.

All these are things gamblers could go into and make them have their worst nightmares while gambling if they do beyond their capacity.

Why bother with hate when its a negative and can only make you lose more, it wont add better judgement only add self doubt.   Hate the mistake and lack of consideration before a bet not yourself, you can always correct yourself and be optimistic in that outlook so long as you are prepared to apply more patience and thought to your process.    Hate would be an immediate empty reaction, I would save that energy towards avoidance of future mistakes quite often we are too quick to react and it does not help and is an inaccurate counter to the mistake.

If I remember the losses that made me really hate myself, it was when I lost in a row and I sold whatever items I had just to recover the losses. That was what was on my mind at that time, but after everything was over the next day I started to realize that I it was very stupid to expect more from gambling, and that became a lesson in my life in gambling

It seems that you have lost funds on gambling overnight but you don't realize that you should stop gambling when greed forces you to increase the bet on the next gambling, you should avoid every word "recovery" on gambling before you will be disappointed about losing higher funds,

If you set a budget limit for gambling then emotions can be controlled and you will avoid greedy gambling because it will not increase your other budget for betting.

True and maybe I would say that it is typical of irresponsible gamblers in the sense that they are unable to accept any results at the end of the session especially losing, as you said this happens because of a lack of consideration before betting which makes them unable to accept losing at the end of the session. This is why it is important to understand what gambling is all about, after all gambling is not at all a place to earn but nothing more than a game of "possibilities" that will lead to two things between winning or losing, one will never know what the end of the game will be.

So the point is if you are involved in gambling then you must be able to accept both results, if you really want to win then you must also be prepared to lose, don't be a loser because after all you can't beat the arrangements made by the casino. This is why we are always advised to apply limits and self-control in gambling, because after all this activity is very vulnerable to making you lose a lot of money due to uncontrolled emotions. So the bottom line is that we must be able to make peace with ourselves about losing, with this then I think you will not feel too emotional and do not have to hate yourself for losing.

Yes usually this is always the problem of most gamblers, they do not put the amount they can afford which in turn makes them focus on recovery actions and obviously by focusing on this then they will do more experiments because their goal is to restore something that has been lost and actually this action will only make them end up with a slump or a greater amount of loss. So of course as you suggest we must limit the gambling activities that we do because with that indirectly we will not suffer many defeats like those experienced by gambling addicts who always act excessively, however control and also limits are always recommended if we are involved in the world of gambling because with this besides we can minimize the budget we can also minimize the possibility of emotions which of course can make you end up with out of control actions because of the situation of defeat that you cannot accept.

I can not remember how many or countless times I have loss in gambling which made me angry at my self. But no matter the situation I kept playing untill I won. but after that I haven't been able to win again. But I haven given up though. Life is all about risk is better to take the risk than always saying hadbi know!!

Not for once and it's probably never going to happen, because gambling isn't going to be fair with gamblers, it's money game and it's more favouring to the casinos not the gamblers, if I can't use small money what will happen to my bank account? I will probably end up in debt and fucked my life up, by myself.

It's just the reality, gambling isn't going to make you rich like you dream, it's better to be safer than sorry later, but people will never do this, their stupid ways of believing everything is outrageous, don't get it confused, you can make money from gambling, but don't expect to always make money like it's your source of income.

Many gamblers deserves what happen to them, the vibe that we get in gambling is the most impossible way of making money, you should all be scared and have some senses to safe your bankroll and risk very little amount.

Well, the truth is, when I play and I have losses that I Shouldn't have, it's something to hate oneself, because having a good balance and deciding to risk everything, it's something that I've done, and I come out feeling guilty about doing it because it's something that's very wrong. , we are people who must learn to do things better, we cannot be thinking about doing things just to do them and risking things just like that, because we are people who must always do everything so that we can win, so when we take those risks we they make us lose our balance if it is a reason for us to hate each other, but first of all be present in our conscience that things can be done in different ways and that is where our responsibility Comes in, it is something that we must do better , if we take care of our way. To do things, because it is different , we have to do everything we can to avoid errors.

My biggest mistakes in this is using the martingale, I learned that very well when I played dice on freebitco.in, I always lived using the strategies that I saw the most on YouTube about them, so it is in this order of ideas that we should know that when we are playing for any case that we have, it is very reckless to use the martingale, unless we have a lot of balance , I would not do it, because it is risking a lot of money, and well, from experience doing that always made me regret it, and that I made no mistake without lying, I made it like 3 or 4 times , staying at zero, after I had some Respectable balance, then one learns like that , because it is the only thing that can be done, losing, I am honest when I lost it because I learned more that martingale was not a strategy for me, even with a lot of balance, it is not good to do it, unless you have a lot of Money and it is not a problem for the Person to run out of Money.

Of course I have, and I think all gamblers have felt disappointed and even hated their own decisions after losing. I think this is a normal thing, in fact this way we can be more careful in making decisions when gambling. However, if you keep making the same mistakes, you need to readjust the way you gamble because if it continues it will become a disease. because the disease of self-blame is very dangerous if not treated immediately, blaming yourself usually results in regret and regret leads to stress.

I used to hate myself when I gambled and lost. This often happens when I get so carried away by the euphoria of winning that I still want to continue gambling even though I should stop first and withdraw some of the winnings. However, because I lost control, ultimately what was a victory became a defeat and that's where I often blamed myself.

To be able to remain consistent with the rules we have made, and have good self-discipline. So we must be able to respect these rules, and never try to break them once in a while, because once we break these rules, this will continue until in the end we eliminate the rules that we have made ourselves.

And as wise gamblers, we must be able to view gambling as mere entertainment, nothing else. And to maintain a balance in our lives and daily productivity, we must be able to determine what is a necessity and what is just entertainment. So we will always prioritize things that must be prioritized (obligations and responsibilities).

And indeed, sometimes when we win, it can make us more confident to continue playing because we think that luck is on our side. So this is why it is important to act normal and not be too euphoric about the victory we have achieved. My advice is that when you get a number of wins that are quite large, then immediately stop and take a break from the activity, to just soak in your emotions and regain full control over the gambling that we do, and the same goes for when we experience consecutive losses.

Spending time and money on hundreds of gambling games and not winning is very painful and makes you feel like you haven't been lucky. But for me it doesn't make me hate myself just because I still haven't won gambling. I believe that everyone has different luck and different times. So I will still play because I really like the game rather than having to blame myself and hate myself.

Many gamblers get the way of the game after the loss in the gambling site.The reason was the money he had loss was the real money earned by the gamblers.But the gamblers who try to keep their game continuous after the loss only able to make the money from the gambling sites.Because the gamblers may loss the money,but actually they had earned more knowledge from the gambling losses.But some gamblers doesn’t recognise that knowledge was gained instead they criticise themselves for their loss.After the loss,I had a habit of playing by arranging the funds.Because I know their was the possibility of winning in the gambling site.

Every gambler has certainly experienced the misfortune that generally occurs in a row and losing beyond the limit, it's just that the losses I've experienced are not too bad. I recover quickly so I don't really feel hatred for myself because of gambling, usually I count 1 or 2 months. between my wins and my disappointment in gambling, I hope I don't experience the worst thing in gambling

all gamblers have at one point experience their losses and it is up to the gambler how he react once he got his losses. depending on the level of the situation you are in. is the money coming from a loan shark? or is the money dedicated for your tuition or your kid's tuition? the degree how you react relies on your financial needs on that period and where it should be going to if not spent on your gambling.


every gambler has his own failures, regrets, mistakes and more. so at one point, i guess everyone is guilty of such feeling. how many times? i guess, a lot here can't count anymore how many times they have had such episodes of hating themselves. it is no surprise. hate yourself but still coming back to your games. the important thing is you know how to move on, forget what happened and still know your limits in this game. without setting your boundaries, you will truly regret your decisions because you may suffer some unforgettable circumstances owed to your gambling habits.

I can recall losing several deposits in a row throughout the week, and the worst thing i've done is probably slapping my face to wake up from the same mistake that i've been struggling to deal with.

Now, I would simply cope through other means instead of hating myself so I could quickly move on from those losses and form a plan on what my next move would be because losing is always part of gambling, and the best way to deal with it is by letting it go.

A person who experiences defeat in gambling must experience it many times and not just once, but even though he experiences defeat many times a gambler continues to carry out his activities even though the risk of losing is clearly visible. There is no definite victory because there is only defeat before our eyes, it is rare for gamblers to experience the victory or luck they hope for because gambling is more dominant in experiencing defeat and we have to be able to accept that whether we lose or win because of luck, no one knows.

Gambling addiction is caused because they are too ambitious to win or chase losses, therefore many gamblers who play excessively cannot accept their losses because they have spent quite a lot of money. Gamblers who understand the risks should always have limits when gambling and do not hate it even though he is always unlucky in gambling because there are many people out there who have even lost their homes and possessions just because they are addicted to gambling, so even if you experience a loss, don't ever regret it, therefore use gambling with the money you can afford.

This usually happens to many gamblers who experience consecutive losses, but that doesn't stop them from continuing to gamble. They don't feel that the losing streak can make them stop gambling, but they feel that their win is closer than before. For this reason, many of them ultimately choose to continue gambling. But they don't realize that it will only increase the number of losses, and when they realize that, it's too late, and they feel disappointed seeing the results they got. And they feel that they hate themselves because they gambled excessively and couldn't prevent the many losses.

There is a very subtle point here in that they begin to look at themselves from the outside only after it is too late to do this and everything is lost. It is important to understand that this should have been done at the moment when the player is in the game, but it is so difficult to do that it is almost impossible, because the player is almost obsessed with such feelings as: excitement, curiosity, excessive self-confidence. From this we must draw conclusions that will not allow us to repeat these mistakes. And if they were a little smarter and more restrained, they wouldn’t have to hate themselves because of it later. Therefore, it is important what we do in the moment, because it determines our entire future life and different areas, be it gambling or something else.

Yeah, losing is more common than win. Recognizing the risk doesn't equal accepting loss. Game comprehension is key. The beast accumulates loses. Success requires judgments, discipline, and, dare I say, knowledge

You highlight addiction, a major issue none can ignore. Hope and despair fuel it. Now we pivot—it's not about winning or chasing; it's about playing wisely and within your means. The golden rule. Every gambler can hold or fold. No shame in leaving. That's strategy, not loss. Avoid glorifying irresponsibility for the love of the game. Gambling should be fun, not life-destroying. Play smart, safe

I believe this is not strange to regular gamblers. We often joke with each other that once you fall into a streak of bad luck, it will be difficult for you to escape, you will only lose and lose. At that time, you almost just threw money into gambling unconsciously, without thinking about anything else.
I have also experienced this situation many times, I once placed 20 consecutive bets on only one over, but it only came out under, and countless other times were the same, also a bit disappointed about myself, but why only appeared 1 door, when the probability is always 50/50? What I learned later is that you should not stubbornly continue to play when you have had more than 3-5 consecutive losses, stopping and coming back the next day will be a wise choice to escape the losing streak.

In my opinion, this is because they still have hope in gambling, where they still have the belief that gambling can give them big wins that they can get. so they don't look at the risks involved, because they can still cover this with confidence in the big wins they can get. But even so, I think they must occasionally think about the large number of losses they have suffered and reflect on it. It's true what you said, no one knows whether luck will come or when it will be on your side.

Yes, that's right, in my opinion, there are many people who chase after defeat or want to recover from their losses, with the ambition that they have that makes them fall into something that is not profitable, if they can accept the reality of the defeat that they experienced, maybe there won't be any big losses. happen. But unfortunately many gamblers cannot accept the reality, they tend to want to recover their losses which leads them to become addicted to gambling in the long term.

Those who look at themselves and then hate them should be able to realize that it is too late because they have already experienced loss in gambling. They cannot see what impact they will get after they finish gambling, so they can only see this after they finish gambling. If they are obsessed with chasing wins, they will not be able to see how much they have lost but will only focus on their efforts to win the gambling game. If we realize that we have hated ourselves for losing self-control, we must try to prevent that from happening again by always trying to exercise self-control because that is the only thing that can help us prevent many losses. But we must not hate ourselves no matter what mistakes we have made, and we can only try to correct those mistakes so they don't happen again.

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There was actually a time where I got angry with gambling because I keep losing my money, I don't use a lot of money but the gradual losing was so noticeable and it went on for a long period of time, I got mad and I forced myself to open up a new account on another casino.

This was the time that I stopped gambling like four times in a week, now I do it just twice, and opening a new casino doesn't solve the constant losing then, I decided to went on a break for like three weeks and I came back and it was a bit better than before, I think taking some time off gambling is not a bad idea after all.

Gamblers who don't have a lot to lose always end up chasing losses, I've not done this before because I knew about the urge of chasing losses in gambling, it's like walking into the trap of a casino, this will definitely drain you faster than anything else, trust me, not all those that ended up chasing losses knew they would, it just happened.

There have been a lot of such instances, but in most of them, I didn't lose my bankroll directly, instead, I used to win some money, more than my initial bankroll, and then I used to gamble more with that money out of greed to earn even more, and then I would lose everything, including my initial bankroll. In such moments, I hated myself very much for not stopping when the time was right and when I already had a lot of profit on top of my initial bankroll.

My reason for hating myself is probably more common because you might feel bad if you don't win anything for a whole month, but you will need much worse if you manage to win a large sum, but because of a lack of patience and self-control, you lose it all back to the house instead of stopping and withdrawing the funds.

I once won a lot of money gambling, because of my greed, I didn't get a single penny, it really impressed me, if I withdrew all my winnings, of course I could buy a house, until now I hate it, that's why now I rarely gamble

Every gambler who wants to win indeed have great hope and confidence in himself to be able to win a large enough amount of money hoping that luck will come to him even though it is clear that there is no definite belief in winning at gambling because gambling is full of uncertainty. Thinking about risk is the key so that we don't take too much risk so that we avoid being greedy and also have the ambition to win big, let alone hope in gambling because this is just a game full of risk.

Most gamblers who don't accept losing are like that, they try to recover their losses by continuing to gamble even though instead of being able to recover, their losses increase. It is very difficult to recover losses. If you are not careful, your balance can be drained due to chasing losses too much which causes you to become addicted to gambling and Once again, never hate yourself, even though you always lose when gambling, it means you are unlucky. Stopping for a while is like saving yourself from misleading gambling.

Maybe many people have been in a situation like yours where they managed to win a lot of money from gambling but they became greedy and instead continued their gambling game. But it turned out that it didn't give the results they wanted because they lost so much that they had to spend all their money, including their winnings.

You should not hate yourself because of that experience. But you must be able to learn from this so that it doesn't happen again. And you have done a good thing by reducing your gambling activities by rarely gambling. I think that's what other gamblers should do too.

It's true that there is no definite belief about winning at gambling. In my opinion, this is something that is still a mystery and will forever be a mystery because no one can guess accurately whether the gambling they do will result in a win. Some gamblers don't think about the risks involved, I mean the risks involved in gambling are often ignored, even though if they could see this side maybe they wouldn't experience big losses.

I think by them recovering the loss it means they can't see the risky side of gambling. also I think when every time they lose gambling they regret it, but the regret is still outweighed by the hope they have of winning big. and in every regretted loss they may hate themselves for not being able to control themselves well. it is true what you said that saving yourself from gambling should be done consciously not to gamble excessively,  because it is not a completely profitable action.

mistakes are valuable lessons that don't need to be regretted or even blamed yourself, it's not necessary.
with mistakes we have a very good experience to become a better self and if there is a gambler who hates himself because of a previous mistake which made him lose all his money I think it is not necessary and instead it should be used for learning and take something positive not to repeat it in the future.
every gambler here, I'm sure they all had bad experiences in the past, making them feel very guilty for making that mistake, but I'm sure that after making a mistake in gambling, they become very careful when betting and always remember their mistakes in the past so they don't repeat it again.
but if some of them still repeat the same mistakes, I'm sure they are not ordinary gamblers but excessive gamblers or gambling addicts who ignore everything related to the risks they will get.

there is no point in regretting the mistakes we made because we gambled because of our own choice and when something happens we should be able to accept the risk.

In trading, Yes, but in gambling, No. Haven't I been losing in gambling? I have, but not much, and it is due to good plans and budgets. From the beginning, I had this mindset that gambling is not the avenue through which I would make it in life, so whatever I am doing in gambling is for two reasons. The first is that, it could be for entertainment, I like to just play for the fun of it at times and it has been so good when I am truly in the mood for gambling for that entertainment which will not be able to be substituted for movies and other ways of keeping myself busy. And for the entertainment part, I keep the wagering low, so that I will not because of having fun losing big. That would also be foolish.

Though I lose my casino money which is majorly for fun at times, but most times, it takes time before losing it, so it always serves its purpose. While the second reason is for money-making. I do this in my sports betting, but still, I do not risk senselessly. I can deposit $250 and plan to bet with it 10 times. This has always kept my gambling out of the pressure that many often face. Not only that, I manage my gambling portfolio very well and make withdrawals sometimes too, so all these reduce the tension in my betting even as I focus on my main jobs and do not think of gambling as a big deal to earn for me.

Hating myself? Never done that when I lose, maybe I regretted my decision but it was never a hate. However, I would just be able to accept it within 24 hours as I don't want it to bother me on my upcoming session in gambling. I made a mistake, I learn from it, that's the only process but sometimes when I go overboard, I need to stop for awhile to evaluate my mistakes and reflect on it.

We are human so we are prone to make mistakes, and since gambling does involve our emotion, it's important that we are not weak, otherwise, we will easily get addicted and it could possibly ruin our life. But let us not allow it will happen to our lives, best thing to do all the time is, learn how to forgive ourselves.

What else can we do to ourselves due to hatred because we had the experience of loss while gambling, don't need know right from the beginning that gambling has it's own risk of winning or loosing, what else then can we do to ourselves than to take heart and console self for more caution against the next time, I know some people have witness being a severe trouble before for this kind of reckless gambling attitude of theirs, some go to the extent of commiting suicide when they couldn't bare it anymore, we ha e to watch the way we gamble before it lands us into trouble.

Only if the gamblers know this that losing in gambling is a part and parcel in gambling, then for sure they will never ever hate themselves of losing in gambling or blame themselves for tough luck. Also if one gambles responsibly with a reasonable amount of money, then even a lot won't have much bad effect on his financial health as well as emotional health.


Well, gambling addiction is the next level and we cannot presume what will be the reaction of the gambler who loses money in gambling. The gambler must realize that any act of irresponsible gambling can cost them their money and even their relationship with their family and friends can become bad.
An irresponsible gambling can take your life from heaven to hell in no time and even the gamblers won't realize what has changed so quickly and by the time they realize, it will be too late.

Yes, every human being should also be aware that every time you fail, don't ever try to blame yourself because people always make mistakes, especially in gambling, even though I have played gambling better than before, I still sometimes make mistakes, everything needs a proper process. not short of being better, the point is never to blame yourself because that will only lower your self-confidence and have a bad effect on us when gambling.

At least for every mistake we make, we still gamble responsibly. In any case, every mistake can be an important lesson to be better, it's okay to make mistakes because we are only ordinary people who often make mistakes and what you say is true. We have to forgive ourselves and always take lessons from whatever failures we have in gambling and not make it something that makes us continue to feel guilty and ultimately makes us continue gambling because we want to recover from our losses and mistakes, ultimately becoming addicted to gambling.  ;)

We should be able to learn from our mistakes so we don't repeat the same mistakes. But if we make different mistakes, there is still no need to regret it because everyone who can learn from their mistakes will develop into a better person. We don't need to blame ourselves for the mistakes we make because it might not allow us to get up to correct those mistakes. We must try to get up and correct the mistakes and try to understand where the mistakes lie so that we can avoid them. That is a good lesson for us, especially if we can learn from those mistakes so that we can share our experiences with other people so that they don't make the same mistakes as us. And even though the mistake is due to losing money from gambling, we will see that we can reduce the loss without making it even bigger. We can limit the use of larger amounts of money so that the losses will not become larger. Many gamblers have made mistakes, but only a few are willing to learn from their mistakes, so only a few can use gambling better.

So there is no point in regretting mistakes because mistakes help us recover from those mistakes to be better in the future. And with these mistakes, we can learn to accept the risks of gambling because when gambling, losing money is a normal thing.

Hated is a strong word, thankfully I never hated myself for gambling, I mean if we are talking about just gambling, otherwise I do end up hating myself everyday lol. But when we are talking about just gambling, I do not gamble all that much to hate myself.

The worst situation was losing just a bit of money, something I really needed that's true, but in grand scheme of things, it wasn't really half of my salary, I have never lost that much, so when you do not lose even half of your monthly income, you lose less than that, it means no matter how much you needed that money, you end up recovering. This was of course like ten years ago or so, which means that it has no valid feelings left about that one anymore. Be careful, bet small.

Overall, mistakes are useful lessons. Embracing and learning from them helps us evolve. Indeed, ruminating on past mistakes hinders progress. Instead, knowing what caused these failures helps us make better decisions.

When gambling, this mindset is especially important. Each loss has been sobering but informative. I learnt to like gambling and establish limits. Being in the moment, experiencing the thrill, and understanding when to back off. It maximises delight and minimises losses.

Sharing my experiences helps turn past mistakes into collective wisdom. Why our mistakes can help others, especially in gambling, is fascinating. Acknowledging this can make gambling healthier and more fun. The game is about learning and having fun, not losing.

If I often lose when gambling, of course I will be angry and hate why I experienced this, even though what I want is a big win and that will definitely be experienced by other gamblers because what is experienced or felt like this is something that. ordinary and unusual. aimed at gamblers. However, it does not rule out the possibility that I will gamble again, but with the warning that I have to be more careful and still control myself well when I want to gamble and I will use this experience as a lesson for myself personally so that I don't make mistakes that result in losses and losses. big on gambling.
Hate it or not, but it will be a good guide to learn to be more careful and responsible.

Experiencing mistakes is a lesson for us so that we can change our lives and correct those mistakes, and it can mean that we are getting something that can help us develop even better. Reflecting on past mistakes is okay, but we shouldn't get caught up in those mistakes so that we can't get up again. However, we must be able to recover from that mistake to fix it.

Regarding gambling, when we experience a mistake, we must be able to learn where the error lies and try to correct it so that we will not experience the same mistake again. This is important to mature our thinking so we can use gambling properly. We have to learn to control ourselves and understand how to use gambling well so that we don't make mistake after mistake.

Yes, we often share our experiences, whether good or bad, so that people can learn from our experiences and they don't have to experience what we experienced. However, we must be able to gain something from other people's experiences or our own so that we can be better at using gambling as entertainment.

Some people will be liberal and not hate themselves but another part will be frightened by the flawed version of themselves as they indulge in gambling more, like it was a moment where their regrets were voiced and their repentance was expressed but even so, the feeling of disgust should not be maintained, hating more and more only makes us become a more damaged version of ourselves. As you mentioned, it is a lesson and an improvement in personality, each shell of the buggy version will be the maturity of a future version with powerful fixes
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This behaviour is what makes you a responsible gambler, when you're learning from your mistakes and improving on your behaviour as a gambler you'll soon notice you'll be enjoying yourself when you're gambling. We cannot determine what the outcome of our games are but we shouldn't blame ourselves for every loss that we get and put ourselves into depression. Some losses there's nothing we can do about it as gambling is an activity that can give you profits or loss.

Every gamblers losses sometimes, but it's how we handle this losses is what determined if we're responsible gamblers or not. Some individuals will immediately chase after their losses when they lose but a responsible gambler won't do that but to learn. Regardless of how we hate it when losing don't take your own life as some gamblers do when they lose. To prevent this don't over spend when gambling.

Yep, it's true that gambling is a mysterious thing because no one can win for sure even if they have used any strategy because gambling is a game that has a smaller chance of winning than losing, if you win then it's money from other people's losses. Casino owners create gambling to provide games that are money-based but fun for their users. By considering it as entertainment and managing expenses well, it will not be a big risk for the gamblers themselves.

Yes, some gamblers sometimes ignore the risk of losing so that they only realize it when they start losing quite a lot of money and in the end regret having ignored this risk. Even though they hope that if they win they can recover their losses, gambling winnings are not certain, we don't know how big the winnings are and I don't think it's enough to cover the losses they have experienced so far. So even though they hate themselves because they often experience losses, but still they could not restore the situation to normal.

If they can learn from their experience or from what they have experienced, it can give them maturity and a mature way of thinking because this is gambling and there will be times when we lose. Losing when playing gambling may be more common than winning, so they must be prepared for the risk of losing their money. If not, they will only hate themselves because they have spent a lot of money but haven't been able to win any money. That's the point of learning self-control and using limits when gambling so that we don't gamble excessively. We must be able to use gambling properly to avoid feeling disappointed, stressed or even frustrated.

I cannot see how... "coming back the next day" ..will improve your luck?

Yes, I think casinos change the RTP, so you might come back the next day and the casino might have flipped the "happy" switch... and you might win 1% more than the previous day. (Slight adjustments)

So it's not your luck that has changed, just the slight adjustment to the RTP. (Some casinos request this from their game providers, but they can do it with their own original games)

Sports betting is a beast on it's own... and it's influenced by 1000s of factors. (Odds/weather/mood/bad intel or data... etc.)

Hahaha, that good because you never feel regret and whatever the outcome of gambling, even if you lose and lose certain amount of money, it will still make you happy.
An attitude of self-loathing will usually appear when big failure occurs and this is normal condition for anyone to experience.
Many gamblers blame themselves or even blame others for their losses but this is mistake and if it continues it can also have bad impact.
As gambler, you must have a patient attitude to accept everything that happens in gambling and everything can start when the aim of gambling is to have fun.

Whether we have lot or how little monthly income we have, we still have to have limits when we decide to gamble because otherwise it could get out of control and cause us to make careless actions such as increasing the number of bets.
This is not only related to income in one or two months but also in the long term, when gamblers are used to increasing bets then every time they gamble they will definitely do the same thing and this is clearly very detrimental.
If you can accept it, it not problem and what actually happens is that it is still very rare for gamblers to be able to accept any of their losses.

I've never gambled and lost and it's gotten to the point where I hate myself for being so unlucky, even when I'm on a losing streak. Because I thought that it was just gambling, what did I expect from gambling, especially since most of the games I played were slots, so I understood that the percentage of my losses was higher than my wins. So when I'm really unlucky, I usually stop for a while until I can calm down and start playing again.

There's really no need to hate ourselves over this, we're just unlucky. We don’t know at what point luck will overtake us and whether it will happen at all. Also, we cannot influence this, so why then experience these negative emotions, we need to be above primitive emotions, and this can only be achieved with reason and calculation. Of course, it is difficult to fight your emotions, I understand, because this is inherent in us by nature and there is nothing wrong with it if we cannot defeat them, but next time, if you lose, try to control it more than before. By hating ourselves, we only slowly destroy ourselves and slide down, and we can also spit it out on the people around us, which will definitely affect our relationship with them. I wouldn’t want this, and I don’t think you would either.

I don't know the reason why gamblers should hate themselves because of losing if not for the fault of the gambler himself from the beginning. You do not just gamble senselessly, but if you did, then you can blame yourself or even hate yourself if that is what is nice for you to do so that you will not repeat it again. So why not? Gambling rightly has approaches to it, you can't miss it if you follow the right approaches and due process, and you can only miss it if you do otherwise. Missing it entails the fact that the gambler is gambling anyhow, and some will be gambling within gambling itself, which makes it so ill.

Gamblers must have certain gambling styles and approaches, and if these approaches are good enough, they will bring about better gambling results and even pleasant experiences for the gamblers. But in the absence of this, it will be losses and mismanagement of the gambling account, so no gambler should be exonerated in this regard. They must be blamed and they can be bitter with themselves to enforce a change if that is what it takes. All that matters is for them to stop making mistakes and treat gambling as it should be done. Or else, they will continue to lose in their folly.

With responsible behavior we will be in control when gambling because this behavior is good to carry out in daily activities, especially when gambling responsibly we will also be consistent in playing time and how much money we will spend fairly and not excessively.

Agree, we have to be aware and accept defeat if this happens. We will not chase victory too much by continuing to gamble. Sometimes we also need self-control to perfect it and it is possible that we will not experience big risks from gambling.

Accountability is crucial, and reckless gambling is inherently dangerous. I find it unfair to tell them to blame themselves for failing. Isn't it better to learn from mistakes? Im convinced.

I like the idea of "proper" gambling. I support strategy, discipline, and research. These aspects are essential to gambling and life. To never miss the mark is unrealistic. Even with the finest techniques, losses happen. How we handle losses defines our gambling experience and character.

Gambling is fun for me because of the experience, not just the winning. Highs, lows, strategy, suspense. Its life in miniature. I promote a joyful, respectful, and self-forgiving relationship with gambling.

That's right, the chance of winning in gambling is very small, compared to the very big chance of losing. I think many gamblers experience continuous losses because they don't see this side, so they continue to gamble even though they lose and lose. and indeed any strategy cannot ensure that you will win with certainty. If gambling is done well and with good understanding, perhaps the risk of losing large amounts of money will not occur.

and in my opinion, the regret they experience does not necessarily mean they will be able to stop gambling, maybe they will even want to continue gambling because they want to recover the losses that have occurred. and even if they win, I don't think that victory can cover the losses they have incurred. The wins they have obtained will not fully cover the many losses they have experienced. That's right, no matter how much they hate themselves for the defeat that has occurred, it won't change the situation, even if they think about it hard, it won't produce results that can turn things around.

If you had the thought of killing yourself after a loss, then I don't think you should be gambling anymore. No matter how much you are going to say that you "just thought of it, you would never do it", gambling is not safe of you. In fact, it is not normal to think of killing yourself over "some" losses. You didn't harm yourself the last time, but what is stopping you from doing it the next time? You might end up gambling all your savings and everything you have, and then the next step you might want to take is something drastic. Gambling should be all about fun and excitement. It shouldn't be about hating yourself or trying to harm yourself.

If you are not ready to accept defeat, don't gamble. Very simple right? Generally, gamblers already know what they will face at the end of the game, if they don't win, they will definitely lose. Hating yourself will only add to new problems such as depression and other things that will affect your body and mental health.
Losing is an unfavorable situation for gamblers, this situation is certain and is experienced by many other gamblers. Always use money that is ready to be spent to prevent other things that could harm yourself. Blaming yourself will not return the money you just spent at a gambling place, just accept the reality and start avoiding gambling if you are not ready to accept defeat.

It only goes to the point being discussed here for excessive and impulsive gamblers because they don't know when they should stop, so even if they are losing constantly, they still keep going until they reach the point where they exhaust all their accounts and lose everything they had which is when they start hating themselves for doing that, but there is no point in having this hatred because what has been done cannot be undone and you have to live with it now.

This is why everyone needs to think it through before making any decision, especially when it comes to financial decisions because if you make a wrong decision and lose your money on something useless, you will not be able to forget it and you will hate yourself for making that decision when you realize it.

Fate will really be that depending on the things that you would gonna do on which it would really be that something whether you could really be able to stop for yourself or would really be planning on proceeding on despite of the losing condition that you are really that facing. Not all would really be having that the same mindset or intellect when it comes to things on which there would really be those people who would really be that continuing even on the worst condition or odds.As long they would really be able to follow up on whats up into their mind then they would really be simply sticking with that.Gambling should really be just that for fun and not something that would really be destroying your life, on the time that you would be making yourself that being affected much by it
then this is where issues do really come and would be resulting into disaster.

Losing is inevitable in gambling, therefore it must be expected already when you use your money to play. Consistent losses are certainly not funny at all but come to think of it, if you're not happy with what you're doing and it's just giving you stress, making you hate yourself for being so unlucky, do you think it make sense to continuously playing?

In my experience, I also felt the same way when I was a newbie in online gambling and has a high expectation to win. I thought I can double my money in snap and it's not hard. But gambling slap me with the real deal. Thus, if you can't bear losing your money, much better to not play at all.

We all know that, unless we don't want to accept the truth that we lose money. Actually, that shouldn't be a huge issue since losing is part of gambling, it has only become a problem when we lose control like gambling more than our budget especially if that money we loss in gambling is already allocated for something more important, that will make us desperate and instead of stopping and try to find money to replace that losses, we tend to try it again in the same venue we lose more than our budget. We call it stupid, but that's how we act sometimes, we just have to accept our mistake and learn from it.

They realize that they have spent a lot of money and experienced continuous losses and they also continue to gamble, no matter how much they know they have lost a lot. They still don't give up and are even more challenged to continue trying to gamble and wonder whether they can recover their losses or not instead get big profits. Their persistence in trying is indeed very good but that doesn't mean it applies to gambling because if they chase their losses too much they will end up getting trapped in a big hole and no one can save their situation or it could be said that they will get into big problems that they themselves have caused.

Sometimes regret doesn't make someone feel like giving up or stopping because they still believe they can win at gambling no matter what, they will always try continuously until the point they don't have any money and if it's like this I'm sure he will hate himself because he has always been a loser failing in a gambling game in this case can be a lesson that gambling can make you feel mentally down if you can't control yourself.

If you are someone who doesnt really like on losing money then gambling isnt for you or you should really that making yourself that be able to avoid gambling because this is really that definitely be able to experience those things on which it is really just that right that you should be wary about the reality or else you would be finding yourself that becoming that impulsive due to that extreme disappointments into it.
This is why you should really be that wary about the risks involved and not forcing up things to be working on that way.This is why it would be best that you should really be realistic on what you are doing.
Dont be hopeful and gambling should really be played just for the sake of fun and then you wont really be having no problems with this.

That's right, because they don't care about the big losses they experience, in my opinion it's because they still have the belief that they can get big wins at gambling even though they experience continuous losses, that's not a benchmark for them to stop gambling. I agree with you, the persistence and ambition they have is good, but in my opinion the persistence and ambition they have is misplaced, if they continue gambling like this the number of losses will always increase.

that makes sense, indeed regret cannot make them stop chasing victory, I think they have to feel the lowest point of the impact of gambling, maybe it can make them aware and can make them stop gambling in pursuit of victory. I don't know what kind of thing, but what is clear is that it has to slap them so that they can wake up. and maybe that lowest point can make them regret and hate themselves for having done careless actions.

Yes, gambling's cycle of loss and pursuit of win might feel endless. But lets not forget that gambling is entertainment and a joy for many. I believe the solution is prudent gambling, not banning it. Imagine if same persistence and ambition were used to study savvy gambling. Limits, stopping, and odds are key. Psychology and money are involved.

Advocating fun Gambling properly combines fun and excitement with self-control and awareness. The lowest point should be a wake-up call, but it should also teach temperance and gambling within one's means.

In my opinion, those who chase victory do not care about losses and they will not feel that the money they have lost is a problem. and in my opinion we shouldn't have to chase wins at gambling because chasing wins will only drain our finances. It's true what you said, the key is in wise gambling, we have to gamble appropriately, not gamble excessively. because excessive gambling will only make us miserable and it will drain our finances.

In my opinion, learning to gamble intelligently is the same as cashing in your winnings, because cashing out the winnings you have obtained is the best and smartest choice. Limitations in gambling can be done by limiting the budget for gambling and limiting the time for gambling, because if we gamble for too long that is not a good thing. and can stop gambling at the right time, when we win or lose we have to stop gambling because this is related to wise and intelligent gambling.

If we love to win money from gambling and if we won some money then for sure it is ourself who gets too much love from our own self but this should not be the case if we lose money in gambling and start to hate ourself. This means that we are too much controlled by our emotions and do not think that gambling is a game of winning and losing. Only if we can save our money in gambling, that will be a big success for us. Gambling is such that you cannot win everything and you cannot lose everything. Those who know this will plan accordingly so that they have more winnings amounts than the losing amounts in gambling.
However, ourself is more important to everyone and we should not harm ourselves or do anything bad with us, in case we face bad luck and lose some games.

The gambler who made the big win in the gambling site,will have seen their money multiplied in their wallet.So this will boost his confidence in the gambling site to make money in the gambling site.If the gambler increases their betting money again after he get more confidence in the gambling site will leads to the big loss.So the gamblers who get money all the time will get more temptation to play the gambling again.The gamblers should control their temptation if the gambling money is important money for the family expenses.The gambler get the chance to win huge and loss completely in the gambling site.

On the time that you do already make yourself numb when it comes to loses then its better that you should really be making yourself to quit gambling because it is already a solid
indication that you are already getting addicted to it. This is the main issue on most people and this is why you should really be that responsible on actions you are making.
Dont come into a point that you are spending up too much because this is where people do usually falls down and whine and cry later on when they have dont
more money into their pockets. Loses are inevitable and this is something that you should really be wary with gambling and be sure that you would be that responsible of course.

Lol, it depends on why you are gambling.  I mostly gamble for entertainment.  In that case I really could care less on at least small types of losses.  Even the bigger ones it comes and goes.  If I had a good time that night in the casino then we'll it was all worth it and just the cost of a night out.  Don't take it too seriously and it becomes a lot easier to deal with.   

Gambling addiction is indeed one of the most common problems, with cases that tend to be all about gambling addiction because gambling has a bad impact if we do it excessively, where there is no good responsibility for the gambling that is done, which leads to addicted to gambling and making big losses. Excessive actions that make them irresponsible are also wrong thoughts that encourage them to carry out excessive or irresponsible actions.

It's true, even if it's not because of gambling it's the same, I've been there where I didn't have any money at all with the many desires I had and it made me cry with that very unfortunate situation. so is gambling if we use a lot of money to gamble maybe it's true what you said when all the money runs out to gamble they can just cry bitterly. losses are inevitable but losses can be minimized by us gambling responsibly and having certain limits set,.

It's easy to say don't take gambling seriously, but when you're in the situation, you might not be able to do everything you said. Gambling does different things to people's minds, many lose their minds because they can't control what to do when you enter the world of gambling. We don't know the mindset of all people why they gamble and why they get to the point where they take playing it seriously? why are many making it a source of income even though it shouldn't be? Why do so many people continue to lose and are in huge debt but continue to gamble? It's hard to explain, isn't it? So no matter what you say that people shouldn't take gambling seriously, you won't understand until you are in their situation.