To what extent have you hated yourself due to your gambling losses?

[slapper]

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not just ever, in my opinion if they often gamble then they must often get unlucky because that is definitely experienced by gamblers it's true that you say gambling completely has risks which in my opinion cannot be avoided let alone eliminated because the risk of losing at gambling is certain. also it is one of the things that is a certainty in gambling,  because if you don't win,  you lose, but I make sure that many of the gamblers experience defeat so that they can get addicted to gambling.

I think a lot of them are addicted to it because of the points you got right, first with them chasing losses or wanting to recover their losses, and secondly with the wins they get it makes them confident to be able to get another win at gambling, and even though they gamble more losses but they don't mind that because they can still be covered by their beliefs that they have in gambling. It should be so, with the defeat obtained,  we don't have to hate ourselves because losing at gambling is a certain thing,  so don't expect much from gambling either because most likely if it is like that it will only produce disappointment like you said.

A person who experiences defeat in gambling must experience it many times and not just once, but even though he experiences defeat many times a gambler continues to carry out his activities even though the risk of losing is clearly visible. There is no definite victory because there is only defeat before our eyes, it is rare for gamblers to experience the victory or luck they hope for because gambling is more dominant in experiencing defeat and we have to be able to accept that whether we lose or win because of luck, no one knows.

Gambling addiction is caused because they are too ambitious to win or chase losses, therefore many gamblers who play excessively cannot accept their losses because they have spent quite a lot of money. Gamblers who understand the risks should always have limits when gambling and do not hate it even though he is always unlucky in gambling because there are many people out there who have even lost their homes and possessions just because they are addicted to gambling, so even if you experience a loss, don't ever regret it, therefore use gambling with the money you can afford.

Yeah, losing is more common than win. Recognizing the risk doesn't equal accepting loss. Game comprehension is key. The beast accumulates loses. Success requires judgments, discipline, and, dare I say, knowledge

You highlight addiction, a major issue none can ignore. Hope and despair fuel it. Now we pivot—it's not about winning or chasing; it's about playing wisely and within your means. The golden rule. Every gambler can hold or fold. No shame in leaving. That's strategy, not loss. Avoid glorifying irresponsibility for the love of the game. Gambling should be fun, not life-destroying. Play smart, safe

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[SeriouslyGiveaway]

I believe this is not strange to regular gamblers. We often joke with each other that once you fall into a streak of bad luck, it will be difficult for you to escape, you will only lose and lose. At that time, you almost just threw money into gambling unconsciously, without thinking about anything else.
I have also experienced this situation many times, I once placed 20 consecutive bets on only one over, but it only came out under, and countless other times were the same, also a bit disappointed about myself, but why only appeared 1 door, when the probability is always 50/50? What I learned later is that you should not stubbornly continue to play when you have had more than 3-5 consecutive losses, stopping and coming back the next day will be a wise choice to escape the losing streak.

[junder]

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not just ever, in my opinion if they often gamble then they must often get unlucky because that is definitely experienced by gamblers it's true that you say gambling completely has risks which in my opinion cannot be avoided let alone eliminated because the risk of losing at gambling is certain. also it is one of the things that is a certainty in gambling,  because if you don't win,  you lose, but I make sure that many of the gamblers experience defeat so that they can get addicted to gambling.

I think a lot of them are addicted to it because of the points you got right, first with them chasing losses or wanting to recover their losses, and secondly with the wins they get it makes them confident to be able to get another win at gambling, and even though they gamble more losses but they don't mind that because they can still be covered by their beliefs that they have in gambling. It should be so, with the defeat obtained,  we don't have to hate ourselves because losing at gambling is a certain thing,  so don't expect much from gambling either because most likely if it is like that it will only produce disappointment like you said.

A person who experiences defeat in gambling must experience it many times and not just once, but even though he experiences defeat many times a gambler continues to carry out his activities even though the risk of losing is clearly visible. There is no definite victory because there is only defeat before our eyes, it is rare for gamblers to experience the victory or luck they hope for because gambling is more dominant in experiencing defeat and we have to be able to accept that whether we lose or win because of luck, no one knows.

Gambling addiction is caused because they are too ambitious to win or chase losses, therefore many gamblers who play excessively cannot accept their losses because they have spent quite a lot of money. Gamblers who understand the risks should always have limits when gambling and do not hate it even though he is always unlucky in gambling because there are many people out there who have even lost their homes and possessions just because they are addicted to gambling, so even if you experience a loss, don't ever regret it, therefore use gambling with the money you can afford.

In my opinion, this is because they still have hope in gambling, where they still have the belief that gambling can give them big wins that they can get. so they don't look at the risks involved, because they can still cover this with confidence in the big wins they can get. But even so, I think they must occasionally think about the large number of losses they have suffered and reflect on it. It's true what you said, no one knows whether luck will come or when it will be on your side.

Yes, that's right, in my opinion, there are many people who chase after defeat or want to recover from their losses, with the ambition that they have that makes them fall into something that is not profitable, if they can accept the reality of the defeat that they experienced, maybe there won't be any big losses. happen. But unfortunately many gamblers cannot accept the reality, they tend to want to recover their losses which leads them to become addicted to gambling in the long term.

[maydna]

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There is a very subtle point here in that they begin to look at themselves from the outside only after it is too late to do this and everything is lost. It is important to understand that this should have been done at the moment when the player is in the game, but it is so difficult to do that it is almost impossible, because the player is almost obsessed with such feelings as: excitement, curiosity, excessive self-confidence. From this we must draw conclusions that will not allow us to repeat these mistakes. And if they were a little smarter and more restrained, they wouldn’t have to hate themselves because of it later. Therefore, it is important what we do in the moment, because it determines our entire future life and different areas, be it gambling or something else.

Those who look at themselves and then hate them should be able to realize that it is too late because they have already experienced loss in gambling. They cannot see what impact they will get after they finish gambling, so they can only see this after they finish gambling. If they are obsessed with chasing wins, they will not be able to see how much they have lost but will only focus on their efforts to win the gambling game. If we realize that we have hated ourselves for losing self-control, we must try to prevent that from happening again by always trying to exercise self-control because that is the only thing that can help us prevent many losses. But we must not hate ourselves no matter what mistakes we have made, and we can only try to correct those mistakes so they don't happen again.

[Outhue]

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There was actually a time where I got angry with gambling because I keep losing my money, I don't use a lot of money but the gradual losing was so noticeable and it went on for a long period of time, I got mad and I forced myself to open up a new account on another casino.

This was the time that I stopped gambling like four times in a week, now I do it just twice, and opening a new casino doesn't solve the constant losing then, I decided to went on a break for like three weeks and I came back and it was a bit better than before, I think taking some time off gambling is not a bad idea after all.

Gamblers who don't have a lot to lose always end up chasing losses, I've not done this before because I knew about the urge of chasing losses in gambling, it's like walking into the trap of a casino, this will definitely drain you faster than anything else, trust me, not all those that ended up chasing losses knew they would, it just happened.

[Webetcoins]

There have been a lot of such instances, but in most of them, I didn't lose my bankroll directly, instead, I used to win some money, more than my initial bankroll, and then I used to gamble more with that money out of greed to earn even more, and then I would lose everything, including my initial bankroll. In such moments, I hated myself very much for not stopping when the time was right and when I already had a lot of profit on top of my initial bankroll.

My reason for hating myself is probably more common because you might feel bad if you don't win anything for a whole month, but you will need much worse if you manage to win a large sum, but because of a lack of patience and self-control, you lose it all back to the house instead of stopping and withdrawing the funds.

[Blowon]

I once won a lot of money gambling, because of my greed, I didn't get a single penny, it really impressed me, if I withdrew all my winnings, of course I could buy a house, until now I hate it, that's why now I rarely gamble

[klidex]

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In my opinion, this is because they still have hope in gambling, where they still have the belief that gambling can give them big wins that they can get. so they don't look at the risks involved, because they can still cover this with confidence in the big wins they can get. But even so, I think they must occasionally think about the large number of losses they have suffered and reflect on it. It's true what you said, no one knows whether luck will come or when it will be on your side.

Yes, that's right, in my opinion, there are many people who chase after defeat or want to recover from their losses, with the ambition that they have that makes them fall into something that is not profitable, if they can accept the reality of the defeat that they experienced, maybe there won't be any big losses. happen. But unfortunately many gamblers cannot accept the reality, they tend to want to recover their losses which leads them to become addicted to gambling in the long term.

Every gambler who wants to win indeed have great hope and confidence in himself to be able to win a large enough amount of money hoping that luck will come to him even though it is clear that there is no definite belief in winning at gambling because gambling is full of uncertainty. Thinking about risk is the key so that we don't take too much risk so that we avoid being greedy and also have the ambition to win big, let alone hope in gambling because this is just a game full of risk.

Most gamblers who don't accept losing are like that, they try to recover their losses by continuing to gamble even though instead of being able to recover, their losses increase. It is very difficult to recover losses. If you are not careful, your balance can be drained due to chasing losses too much which causes you to become addicted to gambling and Once again, never hate yourself, even though you always lose when gambling, it means you are unlucky. Stopping for a while is like saving yourself from misleading gambling.

[ethereumhunter]

I once won a lot of money gambling, because of my greed, I didn't get a single penny, it really impressed me, if I withdrew all my winnings, of course I could buy a house, until now I hate it, that's why now I rarely gamble

Maybe many people have been in a situation like yours where they managed to win a lot of money from gambling but they became greedy and instead continued their gambling game. But it turned out that it didn't give the results they wanted because they lost so much that they had to spend all their money, including their winnings.

You should not hate yourself because of that experience. But you must be able to learn from this so that it doesn't happen again. And you have done a good thing by reducing your gambling activities by rarely gambling. I think that's what other gamblers should do too.

[junder]

In my opinion, this is because they still have hope in gambling, where they still have the belief that gambling can give them big wins that they can get. so they don't look at the risks involved, because they can still cover this with confidence in the big wins they can get. But even so, I think they must occasionally think about the large number of losses they have suffered and reflect on it. It's true what you said, no one knows whether luck will come or when it will be on your side.

Yes, that's right, in my opinion, there are many people who chase after defeat or want to recover from their losses, with the ambition that they have that makes them fall into something that is not profitable, if they can accept the reality of the defeat that they experienced, maybe there won't be any big losses. happen. But unfortunately many gamblers cannot accept the reality, they tend to want to recover their losses which leads them to become addicted to gambling in the long term.

Every gambler who wants to win indeed have great hope and confidence in himself to be able to win a large enough amount of money hoping that luck will come to him even though it is clear that there is no definite belief in winning at gambling because gambling is full of uncertainty. Thinking about risk is the key so that we don't take too much risk so that we avoid being greedy and also have the ambition to win big, let alone hope in gambling because this is just a game full of risk.

Most gamblers who don't accept losing are like that, they try to recover their losses by continuing to gamble even though instead of being able to recover, their losses increase. It is very difficult to recover losses. If you are not careful, your balance can be drained due to chasing losses too much which causes you to become addicted to gambling and Once again, never hate yourself, even though you always lose when gambling, it means you are unlucky. Stopping for a while is like saving yourself from misleading gambling.

It's true that there is no definite belief about winning at gambling. In my opinion, this is something that is still a mystery and will forever be a mystery because no one can guess accurately whether the gambling they do will result in a win. Some gamblers don't think about the risks involved, I mean the risks involved in gambling are often ignored, even though if they could see this side maybe they wouldn't experience big losses.

I think by them recovering the loss it means they can't see the risky side of gambling. also I think when every time they lose gambling they regret it, but the regret is still outweighed by the hope they have of winning big. and in every regretted loss they may hate themselves for not being able to control themselves well. it is true what you said that saving yourself from gambling should be done consciously not to gamble excessively,  because it is not a completely profitable action.

[len01]

Those who look at themselves and then hate them should be able to realize that it is too late because they have already experienced loss in gambling. They cannot see what impact they will get after they finish gambling, so they can only see this after they finish gambling. If they are obsessed with chasing wins, they will not be able to see how much they have lost but will only focus on their efforts to win the gambling game. If we realize that we have hated ourselves for losing self-control, we must try to prevent that from happening again by always trying to exercise self-control because that is the only thing that can help us prevent many losses. But we must not hate ourselves no matter what mistakes we have made, and we can only try to correct those mistakes so they don't happen again.

mistakes are valuable lessons that don't need to be regretted or even blamed yourself, it's not necessary.
with mistakes we have a very good experience to become a better self and if there is a gambler who hates himself because of a previous mistake which made him lose all his money I think it is not necessary and instead it should be used for learning and take something positive not to repeat it in the future.
every gambler here, I'm sure they all had bad experiences in the past, making them feel very guilty for making that mistake, but I'm sure that after making a mistake in gambling, they become very careful when betting and always remember their mistakes in the past so they don't repeat it again.
but if some of them still repeat the same mistakes, I'm sure they are not ordinary gamblers but excessive gamblers or gambling addicts who ignore everything related to the risks they will get.

there is no point in regretting the mistakes we made because we gambled because of our own choice and when something happens we should be able to accept the risk.

[EarnOnVictor]

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

In trading, Yes, but in gambling, No. Haven't I been losing in gambling? I have, but not much, and it is due to good plans and budgets. From the beginning, I had this mindset that gambling is not the avenue through which I would make it in life, so whatever I am doing in gambling is for two reasons. The first is that, it could be for entertainment, I like to just play for the fun of it at times and it has been so good when I am truly in the mood for gambling for that entertainment which will not be able to be substituted for movies and other ways of keeping myself busy. And for the entertainment part, I keep the wagering low, so that I will not because of having fun losing big. That would also be foolish.

Though I lose my casino money which is majorly for fun at times, but most times, it takes time before losing it, so it always serves its purpose. While the second reason is for money-making. I do this in my sports betting, but still, I do not risk senselessly. I can deposit $250 and plan to bet with it 10 times. This has always kept my gambling out of the pressure that many often face. Not only that, I manage my gambling portfolio very well and make withdrawals sometimes too, so all these reduce the tension in my betting even as I focus on my main jobs and do not think of gambling as a big deal to earn for me.

[Maslate]

Hating myself? Never done that when I lose, maybe I regretted my decision but it was never a hate. However, I would just be able to accept it within 24 hours as I don't want it to bother me on my upcoming session in gambling. I made a mistake, I learn from it, that's the only process but sometimes when I go overboard, I need to stop for awhile to evaluate my mistakes and reflect on it.

We are human so we are prone to make mistakes, and since gambling does involve our emotion, it's important that we are not weak, otherwise, we will easily get addicted and it could possibly ruin our life. But let us not allow it will happen to our lives, best thing to do all the time is, learn how to forgive ourselves.

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

What else can we do to ourselves due to hatred because we had the experience of loss while gambling, don't need know right from the beginning that gambling has it's own risk of winning or loosing, what else then can we do to ourselves than to take heart and console self for more caution against the next time, I know some people have witness being a severe trouble before for this kind of reckless gambling attitude of theirs, some go to the extent of commiting suicide when they couldn't bare it anymore, we ha e to watch the way we gamble before it lands us into trouble.

[noormcs5]

Yeah, losing is more common than win. Recognizing the risk doesn't equal accepting loss. Game comprehension is key. The beast accumulates loses. Success requires judgments, discipline, and, dare I say, knowledge

Only if the gamblers know this that losing in gambling is a part and parcel in gambling, then for sure they will never ever hate themselves of losing in gambling or blame themselves for tough luck. Also if one gambles responsibly with a reasonable amount of money, then even a lot won't have much bad effect on his financial health as well as emotional health.

You highlight addiction, a major issue none can ignore. Hope and despair fuel it. Now we pivot—it's not about winning or chasing; it's about playing wisely and within your means. The golden rule. Every gambler can hold or fold. No shame in leaving. That's strategy, not loss. Avoid glorifying irresponsibility for the love of the game. Gambling should be fun, not life-destroying. Play smart, safe

Well, gambling addiction is the next level and we cannot presume what will be the reaction of the gambler who loses money in gambling. The gambler must realize that any act of irresponsible gambling can cost them their money and even their relationship with their family and friends can become bad.
An irresponsible gambling can take your life from heaven to hell in no time and even the gamblers won't realize what has changed so quickly and by the time they realize, it will be too late.

[piebeyb]

Hating myself? Never done that when I lose, maybe I regretted my decision but it was never a hate. However, I would just be able to accept it within 24 hours as I don't want it to bother me on my upcoming session in gambling. I made a mistake, I learn from it, that's the only process but sometimes when I go overboard, I need to stop for awhile to evaluate my mistakes and reflect on it.

We are human so we are prone to make mistakes, and since gambling does involve our emotion, it's important that we are not weak, otherwise, we will easily get addicted and it could possibly ruin our life. But let us not allow it will happen to our lives, best thing to do all the time is, learn how to forgive ourselves.

Yes, every human being should also be aware that every time you fail, don't ever try to blame yourself because people always make mistakes, especially in gambling, even though I have played gambling better than before, I still sometimes make mistakes, everything needs a proper process. not short of being better, the point is never to blame yourself because that will only lower your self-confidence and have a bad effect on us when gambling.

At least for every mistake we make, we still gamble responsibly. In any case, every mistake can be an important lesson to be better, it's okay to make mistakes because we are only ordinary people who often make mistakes and what you say is true. We have to forgive ourselves and always take lessons from whatever failures we have in gambling and not make it something that makes us continue to feel guilty and ultimately makes us continue gambling because we want to recover from our losses and mistakes, ultimately becoming addicted to gambling. 

[maydna]

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mistakes are valuable lessons that don't need to be regretted or even blamed yourself, it's not necessary.
with mistakes we have a very good experience to become a better self and if there is a gambler who hates himself because of a previous mistake which made him lose all his money I think it is not necessary and instead it should be used for learning and take something positive not to repeat it in the future.
every gambler here, I'm sure they all had bad experiences in the past, making them feel very guilty for making that mistake, but I'm sure that after making a mistake in gambling, they become very careful when betting and always remember their mistakes in the past so they don't repeat it again.
but if some of them still repeat the same mistakes, I'm sure they are not ordinary gamblers but excessive gamblers or gambling addicts who ignore everything related to the risks they will get.

there is no point in regretting the mistakes we made because we gambled because of our own choice and when something happens we should be able to accept the risk.

We should be able to learn from our mistakes so we don't repeat the same mistakes. But if we make different mistakes, there is still no need to regret it because everyone who can learn from their mistakes will develop into a better person. We don't need to blame ourselves for the mistakes we make because it might not allow us to get up to correct those mistakes. We must try to get up and correct the mistakes and try to understand where the mistakes lie so that we can avoid them. That is a good lesson for us, especially if we can learn from those mistakes so that we can share our experiences with other people so that they don't make the same mistakes as us. And even though the mistake is due to losing money from gambling, we will see that we can reduce the loss without making it even bigger. We can limit the use of larger amounts of money so that the losses will not become larger. Many gamblers have made mistakes, but only a few are willing to learn from their mistakes, so only a few can use gambling better.

So there is no point in regretting mistakes because mistakes help us recover from those mistakes to be better in the future. And with these mistakes, we can learn to accept the risks of gambling because when gambling, losing money is a normal thing.

[FanEagle]

Hated is a strong word, thankfully I never hated myself for gambling, I mean if we are talking about just gambling, otherwise I do end up hating myself everyday lol. But when we are talking about just gambling, I do not gamble all that much to hate myself.

The worst situation was losing just a bit of money, something I really needed that's true, but in grand scheme of things, it wasn't really half of my salary, I have never lost that much, so when you do not lose even half of your monthly income, you lose less than that, it means no matter how much you needed that money, you end up recovering. This was of course like ten years ago or so, which means that it has no valid feelings left about that one anymore. Be careful, bet small.

[Blitzboy]

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mistakes are valuable lessons that don't need to be regretted or even blamed yourself, it's not necessary.
with mistakes we have a very good experience to become a better self and if there is a gambler who hates himself because of a previous mistake which made him lose all his money I think it is not necessary and instead it should be used for learning and take something positive not to repeat it in the future.
every gambler here, I'm sure they all had bad experiences in the past, making them feel very guilty for making that mistake, but I'm sure that after making a mistake in gambling, they become very careful when betting and always remember their mistakes in the past so they don't repeat it again.
but if some of them still repeat the same mistakes, I'm sure they are not ordinary gamblers but excessive gamblers or gambling addicts who ignore everything related to the risks they will get.

there is no point in regretting the mistakes we made because we gambled because of our own choice and when something happens we should be able to accept the risk.

We should be able to learn from our mistakes so we don't repeat the same mistakes. But if we make different mistakes, there is still no need to regret it because everyone who can learn from their mistakes will develop into a better person. We don't need to blame ourselves for the mistakes we make because it might not allow us to get up to correct those mistakes. We must try to get up and correct the mistakes and try to understand where the mistakes lie so that we can avoid them. That is a good lesson for us, especially if we can learn from those mistakes so that we can share our experiences with other people so that they don't make the same mistakes as us. And even though the mistake is due to losing money from gambling, we will see that we can reduce the loss without making it even bigger. We can limit the use of larger amounts of money so that the losses will not become larger. Many gamblers have made mistakes, but only a few are willing to learn from their mistakes, so only a few can use gambling better.

So there is no point in regretting mistakes because mistakes help us recover from those mistakes to be better in the future. And with these mistakes, we can learn to accept the risks of gambling because when gambling, losing money is a normal thing.

Overall, mistakes are useful lessons. Embracing and learning from them helps us evolve. Indeed, ruminating on past mistakes hinders progress. Instead, knowing what caused these failures helps us make better decisions.

When gambling, this mindset is especially important. Each loss has been sobering but informative. I learnt to like gambling and establish limits. Being in the moment, experiencing the thrill, and understanding when to back off. It maximises delight and minimises losses.

Sharing my experiences helps turn past mistakes into collective wisdom. Why our mistakes can help others, especially in gambling, is fascinating. Acknowledging this can make gambling healthier and more fun. The game is about learning and having fun, not losing.

[zuzie]

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now? 

Lets discuss.

If I often lose when gambling, of course I will be angry and hate why I experienced this, even though what I want is a big win and that will definitely be experienced by other gamblers because what is experienced or felt like this is something that. ordinary and unusual. aimed at gamblers. However, it does not rule out the possibility that I will gamble again, but with the warning that I have to be more careful and still control myself well when I want to gamble and I will use this experience as a lesson for myself personally so that I don't make mistakes that result in losses and losses. big on gambling.
Hate it or not, but it will be a good guide to learn to be more careful and responsible.