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I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

I’m always against on this kind of decision making especially if the one being subject is important part of your life which is wedding. You are postponing your wedding just because you invest your funds on crypto which you that is too volatile. Yes the market can give you profit but also this profit of yours can be deleted instantly once the market already correct which is inevitable for a pump like this.

I personally wouldn’t do this especially if everything is already planned and you are the only postponing it for the sake of some profit while you have enough funds for the wedding. You should only invest money what you can afford to lose because there’s no guarantee on crypto investment.

Sorry to say but this sounds very ridiculous, it clearly shows you are not yet ready to marry. Perhaps this should be a wakeup call for your would-be bride to make better decision  :D
You should already know btc price will start to rise rapidly at some point and should not be enough reason to halt any real life event for.
I hope you can take advantage of the upcoming bull market because some people can get carried away during this period and ended up not doing as they intended.

Too many wrong decisions here. Firstly, you are not financially stable but you want to get married, who does that? I know that you don't have to be rich before you get married but being financially stable is very necessary. After marriage, you are not longer for yourself but for your family and you can not put their survival on mere hope of nobody knows tomorrow. Have a stable means of finance before thinking of marriage or better still leave that woman to who can take care of her.

Secondly, what are you holding for in the first place? Wait, don't tell me you invest money meant for your marriage. Holding should have a goal to achieve. If your goal is to get married with it fine but if otherwise, I'll say you have no plans on ground. Moreover, invest with what you can afford to lose has been on a trend for as long as I can't remember and not investing with money meant for things like marriage. For instance, if bitcoin should go down to $0 dollar today, your marriage money is gone right? You have a long way to go.

I mean something like a marriage anniversary is something that you should celebrate at least since it is only going to happen once a year. But I get it that you just continue to hold saving it for a higher profit next time for a higher return, I could probably take that unless it is a wedding, and if that's the case since the wedding is probably just going to happen only once on your life so you should at least do some preparations. But yeah being practical is for sure a good thing that you do here, You actually right for sure we should just keep the pleasures and set them aside for now if we still doesnt have the funds for that, It is like dont buy something that you can't really afford, it was just pretty simple right if you can't afford something just dont buy it yet until you can afford it already. I mean it was still going to happen it was just delayed since you just aiming for a higher profit right, it just meant waiting for more profit so that you could get more profit meaning that could probably be a more luxurious wedding anniversary celebration.

Personally, I would just do savings before even starting to invest in cryptocurrency because of this reason, if you invest in Bitcoin without having a financial foundation like savings, emergency funds, insurance, etc. this is probably what going to happen to you, waiting for the right moment to sell on the market, if you having the urgency to sell it is more likely that you are going to have the wrong decision, but if you have savings something like that there was no need for you to sell your investment you could easily hold for years, then still having the funds to do the celebrations because you have savings etc.

I don't have the right to tell you what to do in your marriage but I can tell you that everything is not about money.
I agree that we should cut down costs in times like this, but there are ways to cut down costs without eradicating the anniversary celebration. If it's so important to you and/or your wife you can do something small and spend less.

It is for reasons like this that we invest. We don't have to be very wealthy, or financially stable before we can have nice things. As long as you don't go above your means, it should be fine. Being disciplined and cutting down expenses doesn't mean we have to live sad lives so that we will be financially stable in the future.
The problem you care about and the people who care about you matter and if they're happy then you'll be happy too. 
Not every decision will lead to making more money, but as long as it will put a smile on the face of our loved ones and make them happy, I think it's worth it.

It's obvious your wife did not understand because for her the relationship and family are the most important thing. Women are genetically programmed to care about the family, children, as they say, to keep the fire going. When you don't want to celebrate the anniversary it sends a message that you don't care about the family and you've even proven it yourself by saying that you provide for her financially, so she doesn't know where the money comes from, what investments you make and how much you can profit from saving up.
Keep doing what you're doing if you're the one responsible for finances, but at the same time show her that you care. Celebrate the anniversary, just make it cheaper. Think of something that will work as a surprise for her but won't cost a fortune.

Wow, I'm surprised you have a wife with the ridiculously stupid way you talk about women, or at least you have the kind of wife that you deserve - one that you don't want to treat equally and one who will accept that mentality. Maybe it is more related to the society that you currently live in, than a reflection on the "species of humans (women)" - as many societies still do not treat women equally or fairly. In many middle eastern countries, it is still frowned upon for women to take a job and contribute equally, but this is such a backwards caveman type mentality that stifles these countries. Many of them would still be scrambling around in the sand due to this way of thinking, if it were not for the oil that has brought them a lot of money.

From my perspective, you made the right decision. I don't think I will sell my hodling for just an event that will bring nothing but expenses. Bitcoin Investment should not be tampered with because of the marriage anniversary celebration. Your wife might not understand but it is up to you to make her understand that your decision is for the good of the family. You can even decide to have a small get-together with immediate family members instead of throwing a big party. Anything that would make you sell your coin at this point should be avoided.

Some women understand Investment and will not advise you to spend on a mere celebration when there is a great opportunity to make a good gain. I know some women who are the ones who encourage their husbands to cut expenses and save for the future. I think she needs some financial education to enable her to know that it is important to make sacrifices to gain financial stability.

Sorry, but the woman that you are trying to blame here for not understanding your situation or the decision you are making isn't wrong at all. Marriage is not something that happens every day, it's unfortunate for those who get married more than once but one's goal is always to get married once in their lifetime and spend the rest of their life with their one and only partner if things work out well, and you can't compromise on this special occasion no matter what your plans are for the future.

I'm sorry to say but what you are doing isn't what a grown man would do because if you are doing this for the family, you are ruining their happiness by doing it and that isn't what one should do. Investments and everything are important, but they are not as important as your marriage, and you are not supposed to use the money that you are supposed to use for your wedding anniversary to make investments hoping for some profit god knows when.
Don't ruin your and hers life by doing this, get your prioritize straight, it's your responsibility to make sure that you do everything to keep your family happy.

Dude, it's your wedding anniversary and you've just canceled for investing and chasing profits? I can't tell if this is the real fairy tale or you're really talking with a sense and this is real. If you're going to invest and you're affecting people with that decision of yours, much better not to invest and not to hurt someone's feeling especially your wife. She may not understand it but the respect that you're going to give to her about celebrating important life events that you share is more than what money is.

When you think about it, you can as a matter of fact do both, without having to sacrifice one of them. You just necessary to make your wedding anniversary celebration even simpler so that it doesn't cost too much. It's only that that's the human attitude, where they always want to appear more capable and superior than other people. And if you are not ready to get married and have a domestic relationship, you should not get married. Since you really can't appreciate and respect your partner. And for a husband, apart from being the head of the household, he is also the backbone of the family, who has the obligation to support himself physically and mentally.

Based on my judgment, you are the one who has no clue about how pleasure and fun work. Also, happiness is something that a person can only experience when they are satisfied, and satisfaction is in getting what they want. On the other hand, humans have an insatiable nature and can never get everything they crave for. If your standard of pleasure is the feeling of satisfaction, then you will never get that pleasure and happiness.
To remain happy, the simplest method is to take pleasure in what we possess and in each stroke of fortune, without comparing it with other people. And it is difficult to feel happy if your measure of happiness is the happiness that others find.

You definitely make a good choice, ceremonial and celebratory event is not a necessity, there is no urgency for selling our assets for that matter. But if I were you, I would be starting to save some money from now, to fulfill my wife's wish for an anniversary celebration, maybe for next year. It's not wrong to enjoy some of our hard-worked earning especially with someone that we care about. At the end of the day, it's better to be rich and surrounded by people that we love, rather than just be rich alone, or with fake friends who only show when we are rich.

You should have known the kind of woman you married before marriage. If you married a materialistic woman, there is no way you will expect her to change along the way. Women are more excited about spending money than getting and keeping, men are excited by getting and keeping, so you and your wife are not thinking the same way. Make your wife understand your plans and investments so she can be patient with you for the better pleasures that you will be able to provide her later when you have had better profits from investments.

I understand your point since you are just utilizing every opportunity to make profits while the market is very impressive. However, let me remind you that such important events like marriage anniversaries or thanksgiving should be given importance as well and be celebrated as long as you have the means to celebrate. And knowing you’re capable of that, I believe your decision this time is not much reasonable. Make your wife happy at least as this type of ceremony only happens once a year.

Know that bitcoin has a lot of opportunities to offer so if you can’t maximize this time because you want to prioritize celebrating with your wife, that’s very fine as you have all the chances to grab the opportunity next time.

I don't know you neither do I know your family but over the years, I have learned that women are right. And your second paragraph proves it. You didn't talk this through with her before you went ahead to cancel the celebration. Did you consult her? It's more than just the economic benefits, it is about making know that she is also an important member of the family group and that you value her and her opinions. She would probably had consented to it if you have done it the right way

I don’t even believe your story because it sounds somehow to me like when you know you are holding your bitcoin, why do you have to start planning for your wedding? Do you think cancelling your wedding ceremony makes sense to you? Why do you have to cancel your wedding, It doesn’t make any sense to me. Besides,  if you are planning to get married, then you should be able to make use of the coin you are holding, so if the bitcoin bull run doesn’t come, then you are not going to get married? No one is sure when the bull run will come, everyone is just hoping we see it soon. If you are planning to get married and your last hope is the coins that you are holding, then it’s better that you just sell them off.

How do you even expect her to understand you when you are not ready for the marriage, You shouldn’t have a fixed date yet, it’s not about whether she is the one providing for the family, but behaviour like that doesn’t make any sense to me.

Well, I understand that some people invest in Bitcoin with a set goal of what they intend to archive with the profit they have made from it, but then again, I want to ask if Bitcoin is the only source of income that you depend on to carry out your wife's marriage rights. If Bitcoin is the only source, then what will happen after you still sell when you have gained enough profit and still use the money to perform your wife's marriage rights? Does it mean you will go broke again? 

Sorry for the too many questions, but I think that aside from having a Bitcoin investment, you should also have other sources of income that you can be saving gradually and accumulating the amount that is enough to allow you to marry your wife while you still hold your Bitcoin for the future.

Just talk to your wife about money stuff. Let her know why you're into Bitcoin and why you canceled the celebration. Find a middle ground where you both feel good about the financial choices and still enjoy some fun together

I don't know, mate, but for me, yes, I understand your desire to invest your funds in crypto to make it grow more, but for what purpose? You didn't mention that either way. I'm against your decision. It's not that your partner wants something that could attract attention, but a wedding is a sacred ceremonial. It is very important for your partner as it proves that you are sure of her. You want your relationship to take a step further and more committed, but because of your desire to invest, you sacrifice it, which may affect your relationship in the long run. I think you should think this throughly. You should have separate money for investment and wedding. If you are not ready for the wedding, then why did you talk about it with your partner? Or why did you plan it right? Postponing it will be a bad indication and a bad infliction on your relationship. Yes, you may gain a lot of money, but will your relationship still be there? Think about it. You could plan a simple wedding because it doesn't matter how expensive it is or not; what matters is your vows and commitment to each other.

i can understand OP's point that a extravegant anniversary celebration is pure spending with no ROI.. however
think less about the material cost of the celebration and think of the significance that its a milestone highlighting your relationship

the OP's wife may care less about the cost, but wants to experience a moment of celebrating the relationship. in which case part of marriage is communication and compromise.
so instead of just cancelling the anniversary to save money.. instead think up creative FREE idea's of how to celebrate and make the most of the day without the extravagant part..

EG work out something that makes the day special that you can afford via income rather than having to dip into investments

EG if she wanted a huge party at a posh hotel which booked 20 rooms for friends and family and a dance hall and DJ
replace that by saying you and her are going to a local bar to celebrate(free entry, no hire). there is no bar tab but anyone can come and celebrate by buying their own drink(maybe even the friends buy the couple a celebration drink), if they wish to come meet up and have some fun, where the celebrating couple at most pay for their own drinks while dancing the night away

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it might be a case the wife is more upset the husband cancelled the acknowledgement of a relationship milestone and doesnt understand why the husband doesnt want to celebrate the milestone.. rather than being about the money, he needs to compromise and atleast offer a cheap but intimate memory of the day

however if the wife is the type that wanted to use the relationship mile stone as an excuse to go on a spending spree to try to artificially play out a rich life style to friends and family, where its more about presenting a successful wealthy life rather than a intimate romantic memory, well she needs to compromise to atleast offer a cheap but intimate memory of the day

I think, as great and practical you think you are you have to understand that this is something your wife is looking for. I reckon you guys already have this panned out and to bail on her at the last minute all because you wanted to be the husband who’s thinking of always profiting is going to damage your relationship with her trust me.

Dunno if you know of this yet but you probably do since you guys wouldn’t be married without it but there’s this thing called compromise,where you have to take the other person’s feelings into consideration with everything that you plan and do. And should an impasse arrive you have to be willing to give up some of your access and ease for the person to keep the relationship strong. Bitcoin is going to be bitcoin the next year, this one important event in your married lives isn’t. Enjoy it and give your wife something real nice this time cause she’s really looking forward to it based on how you protray her anger is .

Remember mate, money’s going to be money tomorrow. You guys however have limited times here on this blue-trap bubble. Make the most out of it while you’re still together and worry about savings and money when you cross the bridge.

It appears like you have it the other way around. The purpose of money is to have a happy life. A happy life is made up of beautiful moments with your loved ones, themselves the very reason why money has relevance. I don't understand why you have to sacrifice creating sweet memories for the sake of that uncertain skyrocketing market. It should be the opposite.

My friend, you aren't talking about logic. You are talking about a misplaced desire to make more money.

You are too focused on profits but ignore the small things that can make your wife happy. Life is not only talking about investment or business but there are other things we need to do. Celebrating a wedding anniversary is important so that we can always remember the difficult time processes with your wife and you also don't need big money because the celebration is made as simple as possible at home without spending a lot of money. I think it depends on how you become a leader at home because your wife should listen more to her husband by giving an explanation.

Selling a little bitcoin or taking some savings to celebrate the wedding day is good because it can make our household more harmonious. Never ignore small things with family because you will be quite sorry when they are gone, money can be sought but happiness cannot be bought just like that.

that's good, because of course the thing that really has to be done in investment is to hold it patiently and wait for a moment that is really profitable and sell it, many people fail in this case because of various reasons, and including like you,  in my opinion it's right we have to hold it. with this I advise you to have an emergency fund because I think everyone needs an emergency fund, of course this can help us in dealing with something that happens suddenly because this can also help so that the investment we do is not disturbed at all with emergency funds owned this can help us in dealing  with problems that occur unexpectedly such as accidents that require medical expenses to overcome them  and it is impossible for us to have to sell the investment that is being run just like that  let alone sell it when the moment is not disturbed at all.

With this emergency fund it can help us deal with problems that occur unexpectedly such as accidents that require medical expenses to overcome them and there is no way we should sell the investment that is being run just like that let alone sell it when the moment is not right or even bad. everyone wants financial freedom therefore we should be able to consider everything as well as possible.

Life is not just about money, there are other things that need to be prioritized such as love. Postponing your wedding anniversary celebration will disappoint your wife, you will be considered stingy and don't attach importance to the beautiful moments in your marriage. Every husband needs to maintain harmony in the household, your wife's happiness is your responsibility.

I don't know how your wife will feel when she finds out that your wedding anniversary event was canceled due to your selfishness in maintaining crypto assets rather than allocating a certain amount of money for the wedding anniversary celebration. Lower your selfishness a little, then put yourself in your wife's position. A wife's happiness is not how much money you can collect, but with a small surprise she will feel more appreciated and considered important by her husband.

I don't know if the OP expected us to cheer him for such a stupid decision. To begin with, you have to enjoy life and not obsess about finances, but this decision that affects marriage may have consequences that he seems to me not to have foreseen, such as that from now on his wife's head hurts more often when he feels like having sex.

It is good to have control of finances and improve the economic situation, but there is only one life.

All you need to do to make your wife know the reason why you cancelled the anniversary celebration, is for the good of the family but if she can endure to allow you hold the coins till the massive bullish season appear she will not regret for the family. I know, there are some women that will never listen to your explanation at that moment but if you show them some of the things they need to see before believe, it will make them to ignore the anniversary celebration that will make them to touch their savings than to encourage the man to go ahead with the holding to achieve more money to the family. If you are holding Bitcoin, I think it will increase you financially soon which is the benefits for those that will hold it long before they can release them for sale.

Do what makes your life comfortable, in harmony with everything around you, family, children... because each person only lives once. Sometimes it's not about money, it's about relationships that come with benefits, or call it a draw. Money and property are important, but it cannot be denied that the family needs to stick together. The wedding is an important thing, with this I do not support your approach of letting the wife wait and what she feels, her psychology, criticism and looking at her. Remember that when you have any problems, it is your wife and family who care for you, not someone else, or something else, respect what is meaningful to your life

It's just once a year, and if you're tight on finances, celebrating your anniversary on a budget is completely understandable! After all, what matters most is the shared moment, not the amount of money spent.

Consider this: if you celebrate despite financial limitations and your wife feels loved and appreciated, wouldn't that contribute to overall happiness in your life? Her smile and contentment could motivate you to work harder towards your financial goals. While celebrating might not directly impact your finances, wouldn't it contribute to the bigger picture of "happy wife, happy life"?

Of course, this is just my perspective, and different people might have different priorities.

OP is married already. What he thought about doing was to celebrate his marriage anniversary. Which i feel selling off his bitcoin for a marriage anniversary party is totally pointless. It is a bad idea, i won't think about it twice ill refrain from making such a decision. OP can get a Boquete of gift from his emergency fund or any other surprised present for his wife, or still take her out personally to a reserved hotel and have a romantic dinner night. This is a better way to celebrate anniversary instead of spending unnecessary by throwing a party to celebrate it. Funny enough all these expenses can be done from his emergency fund.

Unless, unlike other investors that forget to keep emergency funds when investing. This is the kind of situation they later end up in the future. Not is a good time to start saving that emergency funds so that next year anniversary OP could have enough to celebrate his anniversary. Tempering his bitcoin investment i=would be a regretful decision that he will make.

Well how much it would cost to celebrate a marriage anniversary? At maximum, you will be doing an outside dinner and give her some gifts and that all. That won't cost much and you could have spent that money and make her happy.
Also, such small spending won't hurt your long term Bitcoin planning and also don't you spend money on day to day items  ???
I think you made the wrong choice here.



No, he is not postponing his wedding, as he is already married. He only decided not to celebrate his wedding anniversary.

Don't avoid pleasures altogether, I'm pretty sure that you could benefit too with a little of that in the long run, and if I'm being honest you're better off experiencing happiness while you're working for something, don't chase the bag too much or you end up not appreciating the chase. Has anyone heard of the saying it's not about the destination, it's about the journey,  that's how you should approach your life and how you make money because once you've reached that destination, that's it, you're done and when that happens, you'll end up missing the journey and how you could've done something different there and you end up living with regrets even though you've got your goal.

OP isn't writing about wedding. He's writing about marriage anniversary celebration, which means that he is already married(at least that's what I can assume).
Spending money on stupid shit while you are financially unstable is counterproductive. OP's wife must understand that money doesn't fall from the sky (or doesn't grow on the trees) and making big expenses for unnecessary celebrations can have negative impact over the finances of the entire family. On the other hand, OP shouldn't be so confident about Bitcoin/crypto bringing him guaranteed returns. The crypto market is volatile right now and the price pump to 48K USD won't last forever.

I guess you didn't understand what op means by anniversary. That means he is already married but wants to celebrate some years of their marriage and I think it is not totally wrong to postpone it to another time when he would be confident to spend money on it. He perhaps wants to wait longer to see the difference he would have from his hodling now and what it would turn out in the future.

However, my point to op is that he doesn't look serious to plan selling his coins at this time. He should have known the bull season is approaching so why buy coins and you plan to hodl it for the bull gain yet you are planning it for ceremony.

You are married but you think of your wife that way? It's understandable if she's upset about cancelling your anniversary because it's a once a year celebration of your marriage life. It's not about attracting other people's attention, it's about the two of you. Though I also understand if you prioritize your investments especially with the expected bull run. However, it's your wife after all. It's not a random person. You prioritize your investments but you should also know how to handle multiple priorities in life. Both can be your priorities and both can work together if you know how to handle it.

It's an anniversary so you had a year (or even months will do) to plan ahead and save money for it without the need to use your current investments or sell your coins. I wonder how long will you postpone your anniversary? Bull run doesn't just end after a few days. But to be fair for the both of you you can just talk it out. If you're planning to postpone it, give her at least a time period until when will it be postponed. Or if you want to do it next year, then tell her so she wouldn't expect nor get disappointed.

This is the type of ideology that doesn't show enough respect to humans. The idea is that you shouldn't have any pleasures that doesn't bring you income, meaning that you do not deserve a hobby that you spend money on and not make any money from. Why? Why are we like that? Even animals have fun at times, why do we feel like we are not deserving of a life that is better? Why must we think that money is so valuable thing that we can't make it work any other way? Why must we think that people who do not work hard or work at a great job, do not deserve life?

It's really a shame that humanity came to a point where we do not care about anyone but ourselves, we need to do better, we need to improve the world to be a lot better for our kids and instead we ruined it for them.

Well, entertainment is a huge thing to everyone's life. You could chase as many as profit you want, but if burnout takes plaace earlier, then goodluck on your journey. Essential goods are now becoming more pricy which adds difficulty to our daily living experience. It is also normal to chase for profit however, be reasonable still  not because you took the risk, means there wil be something in return since in this market, nothing's gonna change it if both of them are decided already. Always choose to be baalaanced of things: if you are doing a bit great then never hesitate to win others as well. But with people who don't care that much then they still haave if ever I wouls be makihg a proposal.There's no need to com pletely you know nothing bout. That's simply the plan of longterm.

That's the sad reality. People who don't use cryptocurrency may not understand the importance of prioritizing your current holdings for a better future. Instead, they may choose to focus on instant gratification and seek to have the same pleasures as others. However, in the current situation, it would be better for you to talk to your wife about crypto and educate her on the benefits of holding it for the future. You could also consider saving together for your next anniversary as a way to work toward that future together. By helping each other, you could both experience the joy and satisfaction of investing in your future.

This is a very sensitive discussion and I'm going to share my humble opinion because as they say, what lord has joined together, let's no man put asunder, be careful of some advices here because not everyone here is married, some of them has not even dated, doesn't have a girlfriend and will give you advice that will crash your home.

Did you buy the coin early or you bought just recent? I'm asking just to confirm if you have just get the normal opium of new investors that always think that the market will continue to rise forever, honeymoon might be a liability but there will be nothing as painful as not going for honeymoon and also not having profits later because crypto investment is very volatile, I hope you are putting caution as you are anticipating for greater profits.

On your wife issues, I'm sure you guys understand each other better, you have seen some quality in her before going to the alter, if you have promised her of honeymoon before now, then I will say you are wrong for denying her that life of honeymoon but if you can persuade her and promise her later, it will make sense to surprise her later when you sell your investment and take her to where she want, she will enjoy that even better when there is even more money I think. ;D

In the life we live, of course we have to be able to run it well and we have to feel comfortable with what we live and not be a burden so that we can't live life well and we see a lot of people who do too much work to be able to get a high income. so they don't have time to enjoy happiness with their family. Of course they won't be able to enjoy life with their family because they are too busy so it is very rare to be able to gather with their family.

That's right, we have a thirst to appreciate the family we have because it is impossible for other people to care about our situation if we experience difficulties, of course our closest family is the first to care about the difficulties we face and thanks to their support it will be easier for us to solve problems that we face.

Buddy. Firstly, there is no need to generalize that all women are only interested in entertainment or whatever else you have in mind. Secondly, you are not ready for marriage, since you do not understand that marriage is a union of two people, but if you are of the right orientation, a man is completely and entirely responsible for his family. This is a woman’s opinion, and believe me, we do not like greedy and stingy people, knowing full well that such individuals want to get married to get a maid.
As for your financial independence, while you are young, you can work several jobs; you should not rely on the rise of Bitcoin. Get moving and let the people around you have some joy in the form of the holidays. Stupid hoarding may one day lead to you being left alone but with your capital.

I understand you very well, but be more clear to yourself mate, you are simply not ready for marriage and if you proceed just because of someone's opinion you will regret, only you knows you better, if you are not ready let the lady go, don't give promises you can't keep and don't waste someone else child time, tell them where you are heading and if they are fine with it they can follow.

Forget that women are attracted to pleasures, you as a man must be worth something before getting married, if you believe that I am wrong, think like you already have a daughter and you find out that her husband to be is someone in your present state, will you tell her to proceed?

I am from a country with bad economy and still I vowed to never get married until I made it, even when I fell in love with someone I couldn't do it, because I don't want them to suffer for my own failures and mistakes, running from marriage doesn't mean you are irresponsible, you aren't just ready it is, and I have seen many people that rushed into marriage, thinking since they are two heads things will get better gradually, they ended up rushing out of the marriages.

Depending on which country you are from, financially stable and a solid future foundation will make things easier for you, do not deceive yourself, look around you today, too many marriages are ugly because of financial problems, build a better foundation first before looking into marriage.

There are a few lessons in life that you learn very quickly & one of them is to do what is required to keep your woman happy. Obviously investing & preparing for the future is important but cancelling your wife's anniversary celebrations is not a good idea. Surely you can still buy Bitcoin & buy her a small gift or go out for dinner.

It's only easy to say but hard to do, however many wants it because after it they can now feel comfortable. With that said, there is still a struggle at first and if only that's how it works like we work too much to earn a very good pay, all of our efforts will pay off though sadly it's not how it works but we are still being paid small for all the hardworks that we have done to our boss.

Most workers still has their own rest days and this can be used to relax and bond with our families but even without it, working hard alone for our family, can be enough already to make us happy and they will also feel the same for us, yet sometimes there might be guilt and others that they can feel.

Look, getting hitched before you're rolling in dough isn't exactly unheard of. Some folks prioritize love, commitment, and building a life together, even if the bank account ain't overflowing. Others prefer to wait until they're financially secure. It's all about what works for you and your boo.

Now, being responsible with money is key, no matter if you're single, married, or juggling fire-breathing poodles. Talking openly about income, expenses, and goals is like financial foreplay – essential for a healthy relationship. Building an emergency fund and not blowing your whole paycheck on impulse buys? Those are life skills everyone should master.

Investing can be cool, but it ain't magic beans. There's always risk involved, and using your wedding fund as seed money is like betting on a one-legged unicorn race – risky business. Diversifying your portfolio and understanding your risk tolerance are like wearing a helmet when riding that unicorn – essential for a smooth ride. But hey, if you're gonna invest, seek professional advice first. Don't just wing it and hope for the best.

Anyone can make a woman happy, anyone can do it for their beloved woman and this will not be a problem for someone who really loves a woman, they will never think about the losses they have received and the most important thing for them is that they can make the woman they love happy. if we postpone our wife's birthday celebration just for the sake of investing, of course this will be very sad for them because no one gave them anything on their birthday of course this will make them sad and we can make a small celebration as best we can and will promise to replace it if we have get profits from investments.

Then why are you getting married when you know you are not financially stable? Marriage is not what you are just supposed to rush into, when you are getting married, you should be able to take care of your wife and children without even touching your crypto investment. Let’s just assume we are in a bear market and we are not expecting a bull run soon. If you decide to marry with your investment, then how will you feed yourself and your wife after the marriage? And even though we should have reserves in life, that we can fall back on in case anything happens you are already planning to use everything you have to marry.

Right now that you have already cancelled your marriage, when are you planning to fix another date? When we are I n a bear market, or when? I guess you are not just ready to marry, if you are really ready, then you won’t cancel your wedding. Just talk to your wife, and you two can have a small wedding for which you are going to spend a little money.

It's an important point in your life, and IMO, it's not something that money can replace, at least in my understanding. It's best if you have separate funds for investments and for such matters. In this way, you are gaining on both of these aspects and not leaving the other behind. It's important to keep familial relations intact, too, and not just financial things since family is what's left when all of your money is gone.

Money is not the sole source of happiness in the world. Although it can contribute to someone’s happiness but it will never be completely enough. With this, I came to understand your wife’s point of view as she values more memorable events, but it does not mean that she is depriving you to make money on one side. Live a balanced life . Know when to pursue money making fast  and know when to take a slow move. Your wife is your most precious asset so always gives her more value than money.

Bitcoin's bull-run is a fantastic chance, and hodling may appear like the best gamble. Keep in mind that wealth is meant to improve life, not just accumulate. Though reasonable, your approach is as frigid as a ledger balance. Relationships and life events? The actual investments bring delight, memories, and shared joy, which Bitcoin can't

Of course, saving and investing are vital in volatile markets. Take care not to let your ledger consume you. No gender bias. Focus on balance, understanding, and cooperation. Your wife's celebration is a demand for recognition and unity, not entertainment

Always remember that Bitcoin lives on community, consensus, and belief. Use those methods at home. Find balance. Possible approach to celebrate without derailing financial goals. Balanced life is the best portfolio

It is a weeding anniversary celebration; it is not that you want to get married; if I understand you clearly, it is what you have been doing over the years, or it is what you just want to start now. but you don't have money to celebrate it, and you don't want to sell the bitcoin you are holding because you don't want to miss this coming bull run opportunity because you have good expectations for it. I will say nothing bad about adjusting the wedding anniversary celebration to celebrate the next one, but the truth is that you shouldn't always depend on the profit you will make from your bitcoin investment; always try to have separate savings for emergencies and other stuff like this. not full assurance of anything volatile in nature, because anything can happen. Now that I assume it is an emergency, what will you do? Are you not going to sell the bitcoin?

It will not be easy to understand it, but I believe with more explanation she may later understand you, but honestly, no one will be happy not to see the promise fulfilled because the wedding anniversary is just like a promise because it is what everyone will expect you to celebrate when the time comes. 

Hahaha I do agree with what you just mentioned.

It does sound that OP is not financially stable and sound given that there are many decisions in which he is indecisive.

If you plan on marrying and settling OP, then you should be prepared to divide all of your wealth unless you sign a pre-nuptial agreement. If lack any form of stable income, then your marriage has a big chance of failing especially if only your soon-to-be wife provides for the family. If you are living mainly on the hopes of profiting from your investment, then you are clearly not ready for this kind of commitment.

Remember that while marrying may sound relatively easy, the life after marriage is what challenges most people. The expenses, the priorities, and the commitments that you have to sacrifice will definitely show; and currently it shows that you are not ready for that kind of life, OP.

As women, we have a nature that really wants to be noticed and pampered, so it's actually not wrong if you celebrate your wedding anniversary with the cheapest possible concept.
you should know that marriage anniversaries happen once a year and we don't really feel special about our anniversaries, but wedding anniversaries are very special, just eating a small meal means a lot to us, don't assume that women those who are willing to accompany you do not understand your financial condition. in this case, you are wrong, i do not confirm your thoughts.

I hope you enjoy being divorced because you may find yourself in that state soon enough, look I get it, when you look at things from such a point of view, your decision to cut down expenses like that may seem to make sense, but unless your significant other is onboard with the decision, the only thing you will accomplish is to strain your marriage over a dumb decision like that, it would have been better for you to try convince your wife to downsize a little bit and save some money instead of outright calling the whole thing off, because I can assure you this, maybe you will save yourself that money, but you are going to pay for this in some way or another as this is the kind of thing that never gets forgotten.

You are already married and decisions like this needs to be taken sceptical. First of all, your wife knows you have some holdings in bitcoin and she prefer you to have the marriage ceremony than saving that money in bitcoin which you’re hoping for to make a good profit in the future. This is a marital issue and needs to be sought out by you guys and know which is priority over the other so that you don’t get to make your marriage life hard or full of misunderstandings with each other because of a small issue that is not worth been fighting about. If your wife knows what is bitcoin all about, she might agree to it but if she’s not, it’s her right that you need to provide for her to achieve all of her needs if you can afford it. Take your time, sit your wife down and you guys should sought yourselves out.


You are mistaken and taken marriage anniversary as a new marriage. They are already married and the wife wants an anniversary for the wedding for how far they’ve spent together married I think. Bitcoin is meant to be invested in for the future but it shouldn’t be at the expense of not having an enjoyable life with you and your family. For instance I want an investment in bitcoin and have something important to do which when withheld can cause an increase in its price later, I would rather get that thing done and postpone my investment. It is the zeal to get to invest before bull run that matters and not the actual amount you’re able to invest before bull run and been living a life of discomfort to achieve your long term goals. Anytime you can invest before bull run is still okay and not stress yourself out to must have it when you can’t afford it at the time.

As women, we have a nature that really wants to be noticed and pampered, so it's actually not wrong if you celebrate your wedding anniversary with the cheapest possible concept.
you should know that marriage anniversaries happen once a year and we don't really feel special about our anniversaries, but wedding anniversaries are very special, just eating a small meal means a lot to us, don't assume that women those who are willing to accompany you do not understand your financial condition. in this case, you are wrong, i do not confirm your thoughts.
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Anyways, it is good to know that women like you who could find treasures on little things exists. My wife would never accept this plans of having a dinner out there in the name of fulfilling all righteousness of the event. She eventually said to me that why would I suggest we would just sit out for a drink and have some chops just like that? She demands that I should explain to her if is there something unique about the food out there comparing to the ones she cooks at home or do we have to go on a more expensive wine other than the one in the bar at home?
She basically want all that of a flamboyant ceremony where friends and families would be invited.
@Renampun, I guess this is been cleared that some of you women doesn't make demands or governs the family in a financial range of assisting the man economically. My wife is typically off from your house thoughts.

Its just a simple advice but do whatever that makes you happy,if you're saying you can't celebrate with your wife on your anniversary,then why get married at first.Marriage is not a game,marriage is your life so every effort you put in to make your business or job to appease you,then put in 3 times of that pressure into sustaining your marriage.

of course everyone wants their life to be comfortable and secure but it can happen depending on us who run it and in my opinion this is easy to say but difficult to do having a job that earns a high income of course must be done because the guarantee of the future is in our own hands,  and to enjoy time with the family we have to do it because with the income earned it can be enjoyed with the family itself so it depends on us alone by dividing the time but,  by having a job and a large income in my opinion it should be owned.

I think balancing time is what must be done  because these two things are things that must be maintained and owned because they are also related to each other, the other side of the family will be happy with us having a job and a large income, the other side we need a job with a clear income to be able to survive by meeting the basic needs of daily life.

Drastic times calles for drastic measures so if the OP has been celebrating his marriage anniversary all along and decides to skip it this year for a good reason, because he's investing in Bitcoin and hodling it to sale in the peak of bull run, I'd say that's a good economic plan. Only thing he needs to do is to let his wife to understand that it's important to skip this year's anniversary, because of his investment that'll yield them massive returns in about a year's time, they can celebrate their anniversary in a very low key this year, I'm sure that any reasonable woman will understand.

Being a sole provider in the family is a big responsibility and the breadwinner has to sometimes take some decisions that can cut short the family expenditures, inorder to save and invest in a reputable investment like Bitcoin, which he knows what when it's bull season, the family will enjoy profits in ROI and the investment capital will still be yielding more profits in the future.

That is of course the hardest time, trying to convince your wife to postpone gratification is very difficult. I have the same thing, I sometimes believe that my wife can't accept even one million dollars that will come in a year in exchange of paying one thousand dollars this year. I mean she probably would, that's too much, but she definitely looks like she may not even accept that at times. If you ask her one thousand now or 5-10 thousand in a year, she will 100% guaranteed would reject that offer.

It is so silly and so difficult, sometimes I get like some extra jobs during weekends, which isn't that common, it happens like maybe 3-4 times a year at max, and I would be able to pay our debts better that way, I tell her we can't go out this weekend, she says ok, understands we need money, and when the weekend comes she asks if we could go out. Like... what? We just talked we can't :D. It is not easy.

It all depends on yourself but it would be better if it is a sacred thing then don't leave it. As long as you and your partner have no problem with celebrating your wedding anniversary then it is up to you but if in the end this becomes a problem and causes a rift because you decide to be in bitcoin instead of celebrating then I don't think it needs to be forced.
Because after all when talking about sacred things like marriage and celebrations like this then it is a joint decision and you have to involve your partner in decisions like this so as long as it is not a problem if it is not celebrated then indeed your decision is quite good but otherwise in this case if it is a problem then you are doing a risky thing.

Don't be too forceful about something if you are still not able because being in bitcoin is not a compulsion and there is no need to force yourself too considering that in this case there are always priorities that must come first apart from investing. Just do as much as you can don't push yourself too hard.

In this case, of course it must be decided together and don't let us make our own decisions and ignore our partner's feelings. Of course this will be a problem in the future that we cannot avoid. After we make a decision together, of course it will be easier to decide to keep holding a number of Bitcoins. that we have collected or taken some for the wedding celebration and this really depends on each individual.
Yes, of course we don't have to force ourselves to keep holding a certain amount of Bitcoin if we are not yet able to hold it and if we really need it, it would be better to use some and keep collecting when we have the funds ready.

Like some would say that I am not man enough yet and I forced myself into marriage While they questions why I would skip a marriage ceremony which is a pride for a woman like my wife. Indeed. I can bet I live a comfortable home with my wife when talking about provisions and taking proper responsibilities.
Just as you have said @Furious 7, I can get forced in to do all that wills of my wife because she is not the breadwinner and definitely doesn't know what goes out there when I am chasing after making profits for the benefits of the family.
The marriage ceremony was for pleasures and it is the same money that I am on target that brings about the sweetening pleasures so, the ceremony can keep on hold while I chasing this great opportunity bull run in the Bitcoin. There are always things to spend monies on and celebrates in life but without the finance, then there is no just Possibilities to make them reality activities.
So, I would choose Investing and hodling on this Bitcoin bull run a priority before considering ceremonial activities.

Wait, don't get me wrong here because I'm not even talking about your marriage problems or whether or not you're man enough to have a partner but what I meant in my previous statement is don't force yourself to try to invest if there are other more important needs that you want to do. you should read the last sentence that I wrote before so that there is no misunderstanding here.

When there is an urgent need and it can interfere with your situation in any way then we should think more realistically so that we prioritize other needs over investment. because after all even though investment is a very important thing but in the end this is a secondary need not a primary situation and must do so when you have more money then invest but if not then don't push yourself too much by immediately having to invest.
As I said earlier wedding celebrations are quite sacred but it is not mandatory if you have decided to postpone it and save money for the celebration in investment it is not a problem, it's just that this must be discussed first with your partner because after all the celebration is done with the partner you have so the decision cannot be done alone because there must be communication so that the decision taken in the end does not hurt either party. Investing is indeed a good thing but if the decision to invest with money that should be for wedding celebrations and instead it makes a rift in the household then it is also not a good thing to do in the end because the family is the most important in this situation.

Money is the only happiness in the world. For this reason, only happiness without income must be pushed aside in pursuit of profit. Because if you can use that time to make more money than the happiness you want to enjoy without profit, then that happiness will definitely beat your happiness without that profit.
Suppose now you want to enjoy heavenly bliss. So what to do is to make a sad person happy or to help a needy person by giving him some money. What you will get as a result is called heavenly peace which you can never get without money. Yes, you need love in your life but it is also true that without money your love is worthless so we should leave happiness without income aside and chase after profit.

At this scenario do I need a financial adviser or a marriage councilor? Please @southerngentuk convince me more on why I needed an adviser when I have to invest for the benefits of myself and my family because my intentions was to skip this year anniversary ceremony and accumulate more to my Bitcoin hodling since the bull run is hereby so I could be a pertaker with the investors to smile over appreciative profits the Bitcoin market would offered. Honestly I considers money first because pleasures would always come when there is money.

If you could bare up with the potential risks like been leaved out by your wife to be then its your choice but actually i do agree with this kind of mindset on which this is something i could say that you would really be that ended up on having those financial problems or struggles if you do really just that let yourself be that focusing on pleasures on which you do know in mind that sooner or later you would really be able to feel the effect of it on the time that you do really need up some money or on the time that you would be needing up some funds. You would really be surely thinking that it is really just that right since you could still
make some income with your job but you would really be finding out the relevance on the time that you will really be on such tough point or situation. People wont really be seeing out such importance on the time that they are still on a lavish life situation but when things or shit things happen then this is where you would really be going back and thinking back again on thats the wrong thing that you have done?
These are the main questions that you would be having on mind.

You should talk it to your partner and explain it cause not everyone could understand you as an investor, for you it might be not so big but for others it is a very special moment for their life.
If both of you couldn't seem to agree on each other on this one then might as well consider how you would live after marrying each other?
You need to see a partner than wkuld understand you and you also needs to understand your partner.
Sometimes it is not just about the money it is also the moment and memory that you would create, that is why there are people who are spending so much money to make those memory special.

Getting married before being financially stable is one of the common mistake that should be avoided. Don't blame the women in general because there are women who sacrifices everything for their family then her husband and then for he kids and she forgot to live her life when all these responsibilities are hanging around her.

On the time that you do have plans on having that a marriage life then it would be always best that you should really be considering that you do really need up to have those savings for the future.
You are building a family and it is really just that right that you would really be needing up to plan accordingly so that you wont really be struggling in terms of money or finances.
If it turns out that you had impregnate someone not on the right time then you would really be able to suffer those difficulties on which we know that this is something a messed up kind of situation.
This is why on the time that you are on such situation then you would really be needing to cope up and this isnt something simple.

Everything should really be in plan but there are things which arent that expected to happen and this is why adjustments would really be needing to be done of course
if you do want to sustain and survive.

In short OP is not ready for marriage yet. We all know that marriage is liability and couple should know that before settling down. One or both partners should have atleast one stable source of income to avoid such situation wherein you choose the other option for your I don't know if OP mean money is for wedding day or whatsoever. We should be responsible for what we are planning to do in life so I hope OP will understand that.

OP also does not elaborate whether he is holding Bitcoins or what but let us just say he is, then there is no problem with that as long as they both have agreed on it. Since OP already has done what he think is good for them both so be it.

Even just using up your own common sense would really be able to tell you on who would be the one that will be having a good life when it comes to finances on which it is really that pertaining into those couples who do have savings or have already prepared financially compared into those couples who doesnt have income and doesnt have financial back ups on which it is really that something that could bring out a huge trouble on the time that you do both would be get married. Proper planning isnt really just that only good on marriage life but also in other plans in our lives as well on which you do came yourself prepared rather than on dealing
without having those back ups or plans because there's soo much different in between the two if you do ask me. If you arent that prepared on getting married so better skip it out but if you do already have those
plans then try to make yourself that be able to sustain and could really be able to provide on what are the things that needs up to be provided.

It seems that you here still like calculations, if the matter is for marriage then it is a joint decision and you as a man of course have to be prepared for the costs incurred. If you still have immature thoughts about this, it is better for you not to get married and try to reflect on yourself that marriage is not about financial gains and losses, it is no longer about your money and your wife's money. I know you may be in the comfort phase of investing, but be rational in responding to the market because you can encounter all of this before and after marriage. Delaying an agreement with another party is too childish if you still think like this. Having a family means you have to put your ego aside, it's clear here that you still don't feel like sharing the profits and happiness with your future wife.

What you say is very true, if we don't have mature thoughts about this, it would be better for us to postpone considering what we have planned because if we only think about ourselves and don't think about our partner in this case, of course we are not ready to build household with our partner and if we are too pushy to do it, problems will arise when we are in a relationship as husband and wife later and of course this is something no one ever wants to happen.

Faysara is currently the source of someone's profit or someone's happiness in the world.  I am a small person, I may not understand so much, but I will try to say as much as I can because nowadays the whole world is running after income and on top of it the whole life goes on.  ?  Youth is the last king, even he himself does not understand it, because chasing after it means denying happiness.  Come on in the whole world no one behind you is true.  If you don't want to eat, then what do you eat? If you don't want to eat, then no one would chase income, they would all live in relaxation because if you have to eat, you have to earn.  Brother, you can never make your own good news without income. If you have income, you can enjoy happiness.

In building a family, it is not recommended to blame just one party, such as the woman, because the one who should have more responsibility is the man who has been named husband by working together through his wife as well. So when there is a problem that cannot be handled by the husband, of course the wife must also help him for the smooth running of their own household so that their children do not experience difficulties because of certain problems.

I also agree that everyone who doesn't have stable finances should avoid marriage because basically it is mandatory for anyone to have an income before starting it. So considering an income that is as mature as possible and as stable as possible before marriage is a very appropriate option in my opinion because there are many divorces after marriage within a few months just because of unstable economic problems in a household. So things like that should be a special example for those who are not married and don't have stable finances.

What I know is that money in every marriage is very important, and money is what we keep a family going. But I don't really know the definition of your own financially stability,  because one can still have money to provide the basic things for his family but because of some important projects the man can decide to cancel some plans to meet up some things. From what I understood from your right up it is as if man must have excessive money to be able to provide whatever the family want before planing to go into marriage.  

If a man is able to provide food and do the basic things for his family I don't think it is a bad idea of going into marriage because sometimes life is unpredictable, waiting to make more money to be rich to provide everything the family will want is not a guarantee. The target Is just to get a stable job that the income will be good to provide for the family.

We earn money for life and livelihood. So nothing can be above life and livelihood. Everything in life needs a break and work has to be done. So chasing only profit doesn't seem very reasonable to me. Yes, but of course, we should chase profit but we should respect certain moments in life and spend time where profit may not be the motive. Because we know that we destroy our bodies to make money. Again, I spend money to fix the damage to the body. So from the above discussion, we understand that we should earn money for life and livelihood but in that case, we definitely need some break and it is very important to value and give time to life where profit may not be the motive. This will accelerate our long-term profitability.

This is about collaboration. Both parties have roles, but to blame the man? Old-fashioned and irrelevant. Supporting each other. A good partnership requires each partner to step up if the other falters

Agreeing to get your ducks in an order before marriage is wise and crucial. Stability and managing what you have are more important than wealth. Those who jump without looking thinking love would pay the expenses are dreaming. Wake up! Financial knowledge is as important as loyalty in marriage. Ignoring it means building on sand

Yep, money is important, but life is more important than it. One should think of earning money when they know they have the opportunity where they won't need to sacrifice something very important in their life for it, and they know they are doing okay even without it.
One should only sacrifice everything including important events and occasions in their life to earn money and profit if they know they need the money at any cost because they know they don't have any money and if they don't earn that money, they will be in trouble. If that isn't the case, one shouldn't go for it.
I would never sacrifice a very imporant thing in my life just to earn money when I know I can do absolutely okay even if I don't don't get that money.

Providing the basic needs for the partner is what essential and one who seeks more money even after you are making enough everything you need to survive is kind of comes under gold diggers in my opinion who should not be chosen as life partner in the first place for the better future of the family. A man might have passion towards something but he should not compromise anything to run behind it, always prioritise the family and if it's not possible then things will get complicated.

I applaud you for your resilience in extending your holding of your bitcoin because that is being practical with what you've  learnt about bitcoin. However. I don't like the fact that you called of a very remarkable event in your marriage life off totally. It would've been nicer if you reduce the budget or made it a private event between only your family, instead of the possibly community celebration planned earlier. That way your wife would've understood more and not victimize you for ignoring a very important detail of your marriage.

Your wife might feel like you're not putting in the effort because you're skipping the anniversary celebration. It's not just about the money, homie. It's about showing her you care, about the little things that make her feel special. Instead of assuming she doesn't get it, talk to her! Open communication is key in any relationship. Listen to her perspective, tell her your side, and maybe you guys can find a way to celebrate that fits both your budget and makes her feel loved-up. Think outside the box! Forget fancy dinners – maybe a romantic picnic in the park, a surprise breakfast in bed, or a DIY date night with a movie marathon and popcorn would do the trick. It's not about breaking the bank, it's about putting in the effort.

This doesn’t sound right. I don’t think it’s emotionally smart to just cancel your marriage anniversary celebration if you had made plans (with your wife) about it. I can understand how she’d feel because you likely raised her hopes. What I can advice is that as you have decided to rather continue hodling, the least you can do is for do a little celebration. It doesn’t have to be big with a lot of food. You can light a candle and buy a drink while you guys discuss walk down memory lane and discuss future plans.

Can't blame your wife though. I mean she has every right to misunderstand you, especially that anniversaries only comes ones a year and we never know what will happen to our marriage life moving forward.
Now, this is where you have to understand that you need to invest what you can afford to lose, because that money you put in bitcoin cannot be withdrawn anytime you want, just like the money you saved in your local bank. During bear market your money will be at a temporary loss.
 This is where you realize that a separate savings is essential when you're investing into something that is as volatile as bitcoin. That savings could either be your emergency funds or something you could use in the events like anniversaries and other important life events.

You don’t have to be lavish in your marriage anniversary celebration, a simple but meaningful one is good enough. I think that’s what your wife is only longing to have, not exactly as luxurious like you imagined. The important thing is you celebrate it with her, and let her feel that she’s loved and highly valued most especially in your anniversary day. While you have your own logic of that, but I also think your wife’s reason is more valid. I suggest set another date for both of you so you can make it up for her.

Totally agree and as much as I think logically in this situation, the feelings of OP's wife should've been the one that's more prioritized compared to a small profit of hodling but now that things are over, it's probably time for OP to give back to his wife if he wants to keep her because if that celebration was supposed to be a big deal to the wife then there's going to be a problem and resentment is a really good way to destroy a marriage even if you think she's okay with the idea and you let her understood your intention of cancelling that event, she's still going to be mad at you and she'll definitely bring up that issue when you're arguing and you're going to have a problem. Hopefully OP's wife is understanding and that she'd done a different thing unlike most women about their emotion.

And to you OP, you just lost the privilege to cancel another event without that big of a backlash because there's definitely more and bigger consequences when you do this kind of stuff again, if you want to avoid that, you might want to open a dialogue with your wife about this because there seems to be some miscommunication or no communication between the two of you about this stuff.

Generally, women need men who are protective and that is all things and sometimes women also fulfill their needs, such as the ceremonial events that I mentioned, at least they can be done, but as simple as possible, because it is a moment that needs to be celebrated too.

Well, in this bullish market you have created an entry point that has minimal risk and maximum profit, so make sure to accept any kind of loss and talk about investment strategies in BTC. I personally still hope that one more step up and we will see BTC will fly beyond ATH it's back.

Yes. bitcoin is still facing an uncertain direction and this is also impacting altcoins, but if we see a deep price recovery if it is able to survive you will be the best winner in the market.

Everyone should spend their income wisely. Of course, we should not do any luxurious work with the saved money, even if we don't do it, we will continue.  After meeting your overall needs from the money you earn, you can hold some part of the bitcoins and never withdraw this held amount.  If you spend your entire money on holdings without meeting your basic needs, you will have to withdraw your savings.  And celebrating the wedding anniversary by withdrawing the money stored in BTC is absolutely ridiculous to me.  Although now Bull Ram is running you can use the dividend from your deposit for wedding anniversary and hold the principal back in BTC.

True, but they already set the wedding, and almost the ceremony is the one that is waiting, but the OP chooses to focus on investing. Well,  we can't argue with that; it will be a waste to let the opportunity come, especially if he literally chooses to invest in bitcoin at that time, then he is already in a big profit as the bitcoin price right now is going insane. But the thing is, it is not necessary to fully cancel the wedding; instead, the OP should talk to her partner about making things simple in order to continue the wedding. You are right, a simple but meaningful wedding is enough because it shows that your partner is committed to its partner, but yeah, the OP chose to let it all out just for money. Now maybe the wedding might not happen anymore, and because of what happens, the soon-to-be wife might not forget what the future husband did to their upcoming wedding.

Everyone irrespective of their gender is attracted to a good life and the pleasures life has to offer. I can assure you it’s not just women that are attracted to the pleasures of life.
If you had truly wanted to celebrate and have a good time with the wife on your marriage anniversary, you would have planned and saved towards it.
You’ve got to get priorities and while it’s really good to build up your wealth and trying to minimize costs and expenses along the way, you should really not forget to spend your time and money on close friends and family.

Keeping the wife and family happy is as important(perhaps more)as trying to invest and grow your wealth.

agreed with this thing, to be a responsible man one should stick with the plan that they spewed to other people in this regard, this come out as an irresponsible act if im being honest I mean yeah investing is good even more so if turns out the money is growing, but cancelling marriage, one of sacred event, i mean really? don't you have plan before hand about this and the budget specifically allocated for this.
anyone should know that sometime its not all about money, money is just one thing i mean having many of it is great but definitely no excuses to cancel the marriage anniversary out of the blue just because you wanna invest.
as you said, little celebration will suffice, his wife will probably be happy too even with little celebration if he does good with investment definitely a win win situation here no one got hurt.
but I guess some people have their own way of doing things.

Don't be too hard on your family and you also need to think about their happiness even though it is ceremonial. A small celebration will not waste all the money you have because you can use other money to give your wife a little surprise. Ignoring small things that are full of meaning will lose sensitivity and instead we will be too greedy in making money, then forget about small celebrations with family.

Preparing your finances to be better is really necessary, but at a certain stage you don't need to force everything into investing. Creating better financial resources must be prepared but also not neglecting other things. I have seen how greedy people are in making money and they are actually unhappy and then try to think about why having a lot of money if our life is not happy. It's useless to make a lot of money if someone ignores the family at important celebrations because actually money can be earned but happiness needs to be prepared.

I don’t think it’s big enough to destroy their marriage. With the tone of the topic, I can tell it was a subtle conversation with his wife, and even if she may not be really happy, she knows that he’s not doing it because he is stingy or spending the money on another woman. But I understand and agree that most women can make issues out of almost anything. Like I said, if they had planned it already, it’s bad (unless his wife totally agreed to it). And in general, it mustn’t be too big to have been canceled due to funds.

So money matters can get a little tricky with your partner, right? Like, you're trying to be all responsible and save for that dream vacation next year, but they'd rather grab tacos this weekend. Sound familiar? Here's the thing, getting on the same page about money doesn't have to be a drag. Think of it like a team effort, where you're both working towards the same awesome goals, like crushing debt or finally chilling on that beach.

Talk about the cool stuff you want to achieve together, whether it's a trip to Bali or finally buying a houseplant that won't die. Then, get real and figure out a budget that works for both of you. Maybe it means skipping that extra latte a few times a week, or maybe it means you both pick up some side hustles for a bit.

Remember, you're in this together! Celebrate small wins, like paying off a bill or sticking to your budget for a month. And if things get tough, don't be afraid to seek help from a financial advisor. They can be like your financial cheerleader, helping you both reach your goals.

I would say that there should really be some exemption when it comes to this manner on which we are talking about marriage event on this one, you cant really just that always think off about those future profits or gains
on which you did come up into a result that you would really holding up your marriage just for this manner. I wont really be surprised that your wife to be would really be that frustrated or would really be getting mad
with this kind of decision on which this is something that pertains about on having that bond that would really be lasting up forever in together. You did make out some delays just because you have invested.

Well, you would really be lucky if you would be having a girl that would really be that making out those kind of understanding on such situation on which they would really be that seeing
those potential and benefits rather than on rushing up yourself on getting married. This is actually that situational on which if both of you do talk about financial aspect
and trying out to build up before you both do get married then it wont really be that a good option or path to take.

I could understand it if it is going out with friends spending money on unnecessary things for pleasure or fun, but celebrating occasions.
No even if I only have small amount of money I would spend it on special occasion specially with my love ones to make the event more meaningful for them.
What's the point of your earning if you couldn't even celebrate a special day with them?
You could always earn money, but the memories that you could create on such occasion would only happen ones, it is not always about the income life is not just about money and you should also know it since you already have found your partner for a lifetime that you believe.

People refuse to understand that there's life outside bitcoin;
When we begin to give our life a better treat, we will enjoy it to fullest;
The moment you realise that you are free to do what gives your life a better meaning the better;
Someone could actually sell his bitcoin for a vacation;
You owe bitcoin to take care of your problems;
Selling it to solve your problems or for marriage is not a bad idea.
Although I don't know if you intended to hold forever;
Sell some fractions of your bitcoin to buy your needs and love comfortably. You can die tomorrow.

A married life is hard, so it shouldn't be rushed. It's not only about having a money but also about having the right partner, and the only way to know this is to hang out with them for a long period of time.

I think that a marriage can also be an asset, if we are going to be married to a rich person but if not, it can be a liability at first, though it can still turn into an asset later on, once our kids get older because they will now work for us. Our partner can also help us. To have a stable income seems hard but we can always save, just in case our income source have shut down, so that we have something to use while we look for another again.

I hope that your wife is your best friend right? I am not married but one day when I am ready to settle down and take all responsibility as a man, I will marry my best friend and I hope you have done the same because best friend understands each other more than they have misunderstandings. If she knows you have an investment, she ought to be understandable enough your reasons on not providing flashy lifestyle that she wants, she need to know the value of investment. However, if she fail to understand your intentions after all the talk, I don't think these is going to be the only misunderstanding you guys will have, there are many more that might come later, so be prepared for whom you marry as wife.

I just think that since you have your money on investment like Bitcoin, you shouldn't have proceed to marriage when you know such things will bring problems, you know the kind of woman you marry, you know better and see better than most of us here that are dropping our one cents and opinions.

Just do your thing, if you think celebrations can be delayed and it's just a pleasure and your wife is totally okay with that. That's your relationship and there's no one that will stop you to use that money to anything else or by investing in the crypto market.

That's right, you know your woman better and she knows you better too. Don't get overhype with expectations over reality but it's up to the kind of arrangement that both of you have.

If it's part of your plan to have a better life in the future, good luck to all of us who are investing and keep on investing and holding bitcoin.  8)

I don't see any need of you cancelling your marriage because you are holding bitcoin,its ridiculous.
This simply shows you don't have a plan and your finances depend on the bitcoin you are holding, your wife don't need to understand anything but you should understand, if you are not financially stable no need to get married, at all and you should also   check other   stuff outside bitcoin, find a job, the fact you are holding bitcoin doesn't mean you are doing well financially, sorry if I sound mean.
What if there was no bull run? think man.
Bitcoin isn't holy grail, the goal is financial freedom and independence not sole dependence on it.
In essence I don't see anything reasonable about your decision,  the
truth is everyone is entitled to there opinion or decision.

   What if you didn't come across bitcoin, would you have remain unmarried.

This is not always true for everyone. If you make enough money then you do not need anything, you could just chase hobbies that benefit you. You do not even have to be rich, you could be poor, or you could be just making median income, and nothing major, but if you are capable of sustaining yourself and not need more and more money, then you could just have an ordinary life. I know a teacher in an university, a friend of mine, and he has a small house with maybe thousands of books, all he does is go to work at the college, come home, read books, write some stuff, and sleep that's it.

Some people are happy that way and they do not really need more money to live a happy life, they should be considering it as something that would be normal.

I know you might have expected to get an applaud for your decision but the truth is that it's not always about the money. You're talking about your family as though you're referring to your employee or someone that's supposedly far from you.

If for any reason you want to alter the plans of celebrating your anniversary with your wife, it should be a product of mutual consent were you make her understand the reason why you are doing what you are doing and the best way to possibly do it is to reduce your budget for the anniversary and maybe take her out on a cool dinner were you guys can have a cool chat and maybe talk about your investment decision on the date. I believe its right to make your partner understand the reason for your actions so you won't put her in the dark and make her feel as though you're not considering her feeling at all before making any decision.

Investing into Bitcoin is good but it's not until you see  that the market is bullish that you will invest, your anniversary comes just ones in a year while you have the rest of the year to accumulate as much Bitcoin as you want to, what's the esense of the accumulation you're accumulating if you can't spare part of it into solving your real life problems?

Putting your life on hold because of a bull run does not seem very sensible and it's expected your wife would be confused in this situation. When will enough be enough for you? Is there a certain point that it needs to reach before you will cash out a small portion of it, so you can get married? At the moment it seems like you do not have any plan at all to progress your life outside of owning this bitcoin. Your "logic" is also precarious because you never know when a selloff might come, so be wary about thinking you know it all.

I perfect understand the op even though I feel that his post is incomplete, for I think I am also in the same situation as he is though in a different area or dimension.

I am also married, and currently, I am building my first house for me and my family, recently as the crypto currency market started going up, I had to pause my house project to a complete stop, and hodl my cryptos for the now, and also try to add more cryptos to my positions, since this is a circle that only comes once in 4 years, I've had two opportunities like this in the past, and I missed out completely, and here is another opportunity and this time, I swore not to miss again, for no body knows which of this opportunities will be the last, so, I decided I must take full advantage of this circle, I paused every single thing I was doing that was taking money off me.

But my wife doesn't just understand, she wants me to take my money off crypto and continue our building, but I've said no on multiple occasions she brought the discussion up, and tried to explain to her understanding but she seems adamant, I just let her be.

Women are generally the same, they all seem to behave exactly the same way, so, as a man, when you doing something and they don't support you, just ignore them and keeping doing what you do, as far as you are very sure that what you are doing is the right thing.

I am a married man, and I can tell you categorically that my wife doesn't like public attention or even reckless spending, I am married to me best friend and my manager, she is in charge of our family finance's since sh can manage more than me, so it all about individual and not generally that women like extra vargant spending.

One of the thing that make women to behave extravagantly when they get married is the husband that cause it from the beginning, at least before you get married, you should already have seen traces of wastage in the spouse and at that you as the man should have work on caughting that habits down from the beginning, but most men fails in this regards because instead them to currect the lady at the unset, the take it as love and overlooked alot of things and when you finally get married it becomes too late to correct anything at that point.

Women are women. They will be upset today but eventually it will vanish after couple of days. So just talk to your wife heart to heart and I think if she’s looking forward for a great future with you, I know she’ll understand. Focus on your bitcoin investment but at the same time, do not let your wife feel ignored. Tell her that she’s a big part of your plan, and her emotional support on what you’ve been doing is a big thing. Maximize your bitcoin accumulation so that when bull run comes, both of you will come to prosper. Celebration can be delayed but big opportunities like in bitcoin never comes to your door all the time.

Generalising "women" as a monolith? Your first error. Everyone has their own family and financial perspective, regardless of gender. Communication, not disregarding criticism

Bitcoin's volatility merits respect despite its financial revolution. Understanding the risk and having a plan is as important as the potential for huge gains. Unbalanced strategy. Bitcoin investing should be part of a broad family security strategy. There are other ways to get rich. Real estate (the project you stopped) has permanent value. It's a family home and a basis for stability and growth

Finding a balance is key. Dialogue matters. Share your vision and listen. Her worries are valid. Maybe you can invest wisely and finish your foundational project. Bitcoin's path is fascinating, but your family's health is precious

agreed with this some people just have their own way of to be happy, maybe indeed some people are so happy when they got stacked money on their bank account but honestly
everyone could choose what they are passionate about and it is almost guaranteed that they could be happiest person alive even if their earning isn't so amazing.
i've seen many of my friends too that took the path of having art degree, well they all know its gonna be rough path they are taking but regardless they still do it and willing to pay for it.
why? because they are passionate about it, can't really blame them since they are happy with it and good for them.
but well it will never hurt to have that additional money just in case, after all everything requires money these days, even healthcare the most basic thing that people should be having.
basically, do whatever you are passionate about but earn good money if you can since its never hurt to have money alright.

Congratulations for your decision! You are a wise man who have long term goals and care about the future and welfare of your family! What you did is completely understandable. Bitcoin bull run is an unique event every 4 years, and we don't even know if next bull cycles are going to be so rewarding like the current one. On the other hand, you can schedule a new marriage ceremonial anytime, without restrictions. So let's prioritize Bitcoin investment for now.

Well, she should understand your logics, because it's pretty clear and simple, besides benefiting her as well after all, as you are doing this for both of you. I'm not sure if we could generalize and put every women on the same basket, as there are women who would be totally comprehensive and support the partner on his decision, while putting her personal desires aside, just like the man is doing, in order to achieve something better for the couple in the future.

To consider every women to be blind and fool consumerists is to consider women can't have long term goals. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm reluctant into believing it's really true... At least, that is not the personality of woman which would attract me to propitiate a strong bond like a marriage.

It's not wrong and dominant like that and as you said, a woman is also really comprehensive and supports every decision of her partner, but in my opinion it also depends on the woman's mode too, if the timing of the delivery is in a condition where the household's financial condition is safe, that's okay, but If is not yet safe, the perception will be different, especially if the main needs have not been met normally, be it daily household or monthly needs because the number of women is high and their mindset is quite far ahead in this matter.

Of course every couple will support each other if in making decisions we ask them for advice and if a woman does not support everything their partner does, of course there are problems that they did not decide together and that makes the woman not follow the advice their partner decides. When it is time to give birth, it certainly requires a lot of money to prepare for the birth and if their financial condition is in good condition, there will certainly not be any disputes and if their financial condition is not in good condition, it will certainly be very difficult to find the cost of giving birth and women will of course always feel worried about their future if it cannot be fulfilled.

In defense and pursuit of financial gain, it's often wise to keep pleasure aside and focus on the strategies that drive profit, ensuring long-term success and stability. 8)  Investing and saving a basic strategies to keep one afloat in times of need.

Yes, exactly. Investing in bitcoin is good for the future, but don't damage your investment goals in the wrong way. If we have a family and are married, of course financial decisions are the result of joint decisions because if not, it will worsen household relationships in the future. So be wise in investing in Bitcoin, don't ignore our partner's opinion, especially if he doesn't agree, educate him in a good way until he really knows what we are aiming for.

Especially when it comes to celebrating a wedding anniversary, of course for women this is very important and must be celebrated because this moment occurs once a year. Even if you want to take advantage of Bitcoin (bull-run), you need to communicate well with your wife. If he doesn't agree, don't force it. Because what is certain is that it is never too late to invest in bitcoin, it cannot be today, tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, you can still invest in bitcoin because bitcoin is a long-term investment.

I don't know whether I should agree or not. Because I can't understand such a moment for now. But if you make this decision for the good of everyone in your family regarding economic improvement. So I think that's a good thing. But you also have to make everyone understand it, especially your wife. This is where financial education is important for our partners. So that people who understand financial management will certainly understand the decisions you take. Because in unstable financial conditions, putting aside momentary pleasures is a wise decision. But I think celebrating special moments such as wedding anniversaries or similar should still be prioritized. But it must be with the minimum possible budget that will not disrupt your economy in the future. Because life is not just for today but we also have to prepare for the future.

Now I agree with you, women will tend to support whatever their partner does when all their needs are met or their finances are at a normal point, but not so if they still feel deprived of all their needs which will make the story a little different. But there are also some of them who are in any condition will always support their partners, as long as it is positive, and there are also some of them who are always demanding even though all their needs are met.
I think this goes back to each of them personally, depending on their personality or nature at the beginning, because usually couples tend to show their true nature when they are married.

That's correct, this issue is base on perception and how you present your opinion before your wife no matter how wife may like fun or celebration a right approach can convince her for a moment break.

But for me I don't see much on the canceling if the celebration as he can cut down if it was to be elaborate celebration make it just small and promise bigger one ahead why still in pursuit of the bitcoin bull.

@jrrsparkles, I am totally agree with this because it creates problems in our marriage life. It is easy to say that everything will be managed but whenever it comes to money then it is not easy to solve the problem. In a marriage, there are lots of people involved so when that marriage does not work because of money then those people taunt that married couple. Without money, no one can survive properly. In married life, it is very much important to being financially stable.



Absolutely right. Whenever a marriage does not work or any problem occurs in a marriage, everyone blames the woman without any reason. That is absolutely wrong. Because every woman gives their 100% in a family. she just forgets herself and doing every possible thing for her family, kids, husband, and other relatives.

As the head of the family and since you are the breadwinner of your family, you have every right to make investments except for wedding anniversary celebrations. Because I think none of us know what the future holds. So if we are careful and invest some money in good places without wasting it then it will bring good results for us at the end of the day And your wife or all the girls are a bit too emotional so don't feel the need to pay too much attention to their words. But if too much pressure is applied, you can celebrate wedding anniversary on a small scale with some of your money. Then you can invest the money as per your plan.

A lot of things are not done for pleasure but they are done because some occasions don't come a second time in our lives, which is why when they come, we should do our best to make them as memorable and beautiful as possible so that we can remember and cherish those moments for the rest of our lives no matter where and in what condition we may be in the future.
So even though I understand that money and gains are important things for anyone in this era, family and events and occasions that are related to them should be celebrated no matter what because we don't know when we die, so it's also important to make sure that we are giving them time and value as well alongside our jobs and sources of income.

In my opinion, investment is the most important part whether you are married or single. It is true that no one knows the future, whether it will be a disaster, being fired from work or something else. Saving is important so that we have unexpected reserve money. Must be able to manage money and be able to allocate it correctly for anything. Saving also doesn't have to be in the form of money, for example, to make a business grow. buy land, farm

That's true, investment is quite an important thing. because it can help us in the future. but it depends on us, whether we can do it well or not, because investing is not an easy thing, of course you need good skills and knowledge to be able to understand every aspect involved. it's true what you said. Before making an investment, of course we must have reserve money or an emergency fund, because of course we live in reality, so disasters may occur which may be quite serious and require funds to overcome them. Therefore, if you want to invest, of course you have to think about things that must be prepared first, such as reserve funds.

saving is the initial way to invest, because it is impossible for large amounts of money to come by itself, of course to invest we must have enough money and saving is one way, whether it is saving at the bank or saving by yourself. Money management in life is of course very important, therefore as much as possible you must be able to manage it well, because many people have problems when they have money but they cannot manage it well.

The experience I had when I was young was that I suffered from controlling money to save and invest in the future. I imagine that in the future when I am old and my energy is no longer as extra as when I was young. This makes the goals of work, investment, saving have a purpose, yes, even though we are destined, no one knows, at least we have to have a goal so that we don't suffer in old age.

I also think so because it is a very important and emotional day for a married couple. Especially for a woman it is very important. Every husband must be try to do something, especially for his wife. It does not mean that he must doing something big which needs lots of money, they actually want time not money, he can do anything for his wife who leaves her family, and friends and marries him. He can do anything, especially for his better half which makes her happy. actually, we are leading a robotic life nowadays, we don't have much time to give our family, we need to manage some time for our special person.

They can even be upset for no reason but there are also men who are like that. It was like they are crazy xd. We can talk to our wife but what if their response is something that we don't want to hear? Like they will leave us if we don't obey what they want? I know most men are weak against their partner and they end up obeying their orders. This is wrong and besides, there are still plenty of fishes in the sea.

We only need to make sure that we will be more choosy this time. Bitcoin investing is passive, which means there is no need to monitor it from time to time. This is great because we can spend our time instead to our loved ones or by doing other things which are also important.

Y’all be getting it wrong he’s married already it’s his marriage anniversary ceremony he cancelled….

But bruh why would you cancel your anniversary celebration that has already been fixed because of something that would fall without notice …anyways who am I to judge but then you would have just celebrated it since the date has been fixed already to me cancelling it made no sense

That's what most persons have said here virtualizing the whole system like memorial marriage ceremonies is more important than chasing incomes for the welfare of the family.
Like I'd always say, it takes only grace and an economist to maintain a billion dollar financial status if a man marries the outdoor and the materialistics type of women. All they wants is just spending spending and wouldn't even give you that chances to go out there and make the money which requires to afford those needs.
@oktana, are you aware that there are women who just want their man to stay indoors with them without moving an inch out from the house and yet they want this man to provide their needs ought to be afforded by money?
This is just it, don't stick to live by the romance of pleasures of of a woman. They're just in to enjoy while the men are out there for hustle and struggle to get them the money for their enjoyment. So if you don't resist them in some ways the same woman would be the one taking you for trash due to your incompetent to provide for the family.

I love my wife with all my heart and she's my world, we're married already and have been doing this marriage anniversary ceremonies at other times so it is not a marriage right or something compulsory that if we skip one then I as the man has made a controversial to the home.
However, I talked to her personally about this and I never let the day to I dark like that, we had some little experiences in reflect to the day, we had some outdoors and just cut of the cost towards the cerebration because it was usually something family and friends do comes around so this time it was just two of us on the date.

More money to the home brings more union and same time, attracts more laughter to the home. I knew what I was doing. And I've refused to be carried away. As long as bitcoin is increasing this so much, there's no just regret for me and my wife m we're doing so well.. thanks in anticipation 💯

I don't know how long you've been married and how you used to celebrate your previous wedding anniversary but I don't think it's a smart decision that you postponed it because you didn't want to sell your bitcoin. I've come to realize that money is not everything and little things matters in life. Wedding anniversary is a very special occasion for couples and you don't need to buy your spouse a car or an expensive jewelry to make you feel good about yourself. Taking her out on a date and professing your love for her is more than enough and whenever you've the money you can do more.

That is all I needed to hear. Considering thats the case, you did the right thing because you had to discuss with her and yet did not entirely rule out at least a form of celebration. I must commend you as a good man because while you’re trying to make her happy about the anniversary, you’re also trying to be there financially for your family and trying to do both isn’t easy. Well done!

Exactly what I want to say and convey is that there is no happiness or satisfaction in life without money. I will find happiness in my life only when I have money and not otherwise. But the body should be prioritized and listen to the body so as not to fall ill. Because health on earth is the best blessing of the creator. I have seen many lovers in my life who promised before marriage that even if they take shelter under a tree after marriage they can live happily together. But after marriage when they see that their lives and livelihoods are being hampered poison seems to come out of their mouths. If there is money there is happiness in the mind even if they do not marry the bride or groom of their choice, they can have a family happily.

Apparently you've really made some positive points to gearing Investors without being stoppable which is practically by paying deaf ears to distractive pleasury activities that tending to stop you from reaching your goal.
Basically as the breadwinner of the family just as you've pointed out, I don't have to welcome every financial demands from the family hence I know as women are concerned, they'd never understand what it takes to make the money rather than just making requests bring money today and bring money tomorrow.
My wedding is done and dusted in years past and the wedding anniversary shouldn't be a ceremonial activity to hinder my insightments of investing to make more money for the family. Even, there would be always other times this weeding anniversary can be made remarkably as my wife wanted but this year own is just going to be between me and wives marking the day while family and friends are not being involved as other times.
Investment before pleasures.

Based on the statement from OP, he isn't financially stable, and he is very concerned about the income he is holding for his life. In such a situation, his wife isn't understanding him. This shouldn't happen, because he has been doing all this for the betterment of his family and not for his own. She should understand what he's trying to convey. When we're much into the crypto market, we should also know that market changes could happen anytime in any direction. Keeping that in mind, he should spend a little on pleasure, because if he ignores the anniversary celebration a few times, citing the market, then she might feel bad. Things need to be done in a way that shouldn't affect both their plans and expectations.

No one can dispute that financial stability can contribute significantly to one's sense of well-being and contentment. Money provides access to resources and opportunities that can enhance our quality of life, fulfill our desires, and alleviate stress related to basic needs. But true happiness isn't solely contingent upon wealth. Financial security can certainly facilitate a comfortable life, but it doesn't guarantee inner fulfillment or emotional satisfaction.

Good health is an invaluable asset providing our ability to enjoy life and pursue our aspirations. Without physical and mental well-being, even the most affluent individuals may find their happiness compromised. Hence, listening to our bodies and prioritizing health is essential for sustaining a fulfilling existence. Financial strain can exert significant pressure on personal relationships that lead to discord and dissatisfaction. Love and companionship are fundamental aspects of human life, but economic stability can greatly influence the dynamics of relationships. Financial security can impact not only individual happiness but also the harmony within families and partnerships.

Naturally women really like fun, especially outdoor activities, and women generally like this fun because they like freedom.
But unfortunately women fail to understand the true meaning of life when it comes to financial patterns because very few women are able to manage finances for future problems. It's different when they are married and they will naturally arrange the needs for their family life.
Women are difficult to understand when they are not married because we often see them not having plans. A responsible life regarding finances will be much more difficult to control when someone does not get a balance between income and expenses and this applies to men because women will be much more frugal when they get married and have children, while men will find it difficult to control.

Yes and this is why I firmly believe that satisfaction is more important than success to be happy in life. Because it is never possible to judge the length of success in our life. Success is when we think of successfully passing our educational life. When it is complete it seems that actually raising money after a life of education may be a success. After earning money in this way if you can get a house car marriage children then success is achieved. Thus when a person reaches the threshold of death without his knowledge it seems that nothing in the world can bring success to a person. So we need to be content and focus on our own work and help others in their time of need as best we can. I believe that only then will happiness come down in this worldly life and the dynamism of our economic life will be maintained.

Obviously I'd assume you're getting this whole thing wrong because I'm happily married in couple of years now and hadn't been that incompetent man of the family.
I and my wife has also experienced our marriage anniversary ceremonies on several occasions so what profitable different this one eou make it we skips it? Anyways to make it right to you @Fortify, I'm not excusing my marriage but a just anniversary.

So why can't Insight productivity and invests on it with a fund that can be spent on pleasures without income return?
When do we get to understand that money brings about respects for the man in his home but losses those respects when there's no more money?
I'd better keep up grinding to have my family more money while pending some activities because the activities can always be recalled again but opportunities to regain the chances of making profits could be lost without recovery.

Being successful is not that easy and requires a lot of dedication. It's great that you are participating from the recent bull run and are able to fully provide for your family. Unfortunately there are enough people who didn't have enough free capital to invest in crypto currencies during the last bear market, or didn't know enough about it invest larger sums of money. We should be understanding and trying to help our friends as much as possible. This doesn't mean that we need to spend a lot of money supporting our friends, already small things can make a big difference. Being open with your friend about how you invest your money is good. It shows that you think about longterm goals and are planning for the future. Helping our friends to get a similar mindset is already a huge change and will lead to long term profits as well.

I actually do not aks know if you've been married or not else I'd had loved to ask how you also celebrates your wedding anniversaries because I don't know if it's one of the kind you just take your wife out on a date with little expenses involved just as you may say.
Mine is usually in a big occasion and it's not just only involved between inanr my wife but also families and friends are all involved which by means it becomes expensive for and the state of my current economy isn't appreciative so why can't I cut some cost maybe limiting some extraordinary expenditures such as the wedding anniversary?

@sokani it'd be much appreciating if you ask me to take my wife just a date just between us as a suggestion probably considering that I'm chasing to achieve some money for the families welfares. Maybe the date as you may say would actually serve much atleast given the day a remarkable but anyhow if you cares, I was actually out there on a date with my dearest wife. 😆 Only that the day was kinda unusual comparing to other seasons.

I didn't actually bring this thread up here expecting everyone to have an opinion that'd convey with my action of postponing my marriage anniversary because most of us have our different views just as different opinions of forum users has be raised on this particular ground. But I can say you're at the point to understand actions @n0ne.
Something everyone needed to ask was "if not for the market change, would I still had have the thought of postponing this event"? And the clarity response is yes because before the approach of that remarkable day, there had been an alarming inflation in my country which the economy system isn't adorable as usual.

So I had to cut cost my engaging to the opportunity with an exploration potentials so I we as a family can stand a chance to beat the economy situation. In a norms we're supposed to spend our money based on the current status and considering our financial sources of income. Honestly I'd had still have the money invested on other means with the potentials to yield more more but I was open minded sighting that Investing it on bitcoin would be much comfortable for me while I strives on alternative sources while life goes one and I also make counts of profits to my holding.

I had such impetus with the believe that opportunity to make money might come and such opportunities might not be made available again but wedding anniversaries would always come time after times.

While there were people that have done nothing during the bear market. I have seen a lot of investors that have prepared themselves for this upcoming bull run. Anyone who's able to prepare for it to come and have invested properly despite it's risky, they will see how the market will turn their lives better. It doesn't have to be that much, as long as you're consistent and you've been doing it at the timeframe that you set, you're all good.

I understand that with your most memorable day and you have to do some cost cutting but if I'm on it, I don't think that I can do it.

  There is always this sign of relief you get when everyone in your circle is made, it brings this satisfaction and joy seeing all your family and friends win, it simply makes one life easy especially if they are friends you’ve had from way back. Assuming you fell up, maybe you had a bad day at the market and you lost a lot of money. You wouldn’t have to worry or sell off any property. If y’all got each others back then gathering up a little something for you wouldn’t cost a dime for your friends. So you see that true friendship are really healthy, not just for your mental health but also your financial health too. I am fortunate to have experienced the taste of good friendships, friendships that are willing to go extreme for you regardless of the circumstances and conditions at the moment, all they want is the best for you.
  Also, one can attain to richness faster with good friends. Because good friends build together, they cry and smile together. This is why they commonly say be careful with your circle, be in the circle of greatness and not in the circle of too much talks with less work. If I’m in the position to show my friends how to bake bread, I will gladly show them the ingredients and the process of how to so that they can bake own their own. I know a lot of people will want to you to be careful with you friends but trust me when I say they will be signs and red flags if you are in the wrong circle of friends, it is either we are to blind to see the red flags or too carried away. Good and healthy friendship still exist and a lot of young people are exiling themselves building something great together. So tell me why can’t you ?

Those people who have made themselves ready for the bullrun to come again, we will never see any post about them because they are all now settled and is only waiting to take the profit of their patience and consistency in accumulating more and more fractions of bitcoin just before the next halving.
I don't think people who have less income but still was able to have bitcoin somehow, will have to stick for the reasoning that they didn't get enough profit in the bullrun because they only have a small bag. Well, there were a lot of opportunities to DCA everytime bitcoin had a sharp correction before. These people doesn't only know how to effectively DCA and save money everything they can to make a purchase during sharp declines. 
A lot of people have not really learned from the last 3 bitcoin halving and the potential high profit in the post halving.

You are being quite disrespectful towards your wife if I may say so op. Wedding celebrations usually happen once in a lifetime which is why it's perfectly understandable as to why she is pissed about your decision.

Both of you should have discussed and taken a mutual decision instead of deciding on your own. This sort of stuff creates cracks in a relationship.

Hodling Bitcoin should not be a reason for op to take decision to put his marriage on hold except he is trying to make a big ceremony for the marriage that will make him to spend a lot. I don't really the kind of marriage they want, I think it would have be best if he calls his partner and they discuss and he explains things to his partner concerning his hodling in bitcoin, then they plan for a simple marriage thst will not cause them much.

If the partner still insist for a big ceremony I thnk it is not a good idea because as couples it is important to have good savings before going into marriage. If the partner is not okay with a marriage that they can afford while they invest, then it is not the fault of the man putting marriage on hold because married life is difficult when their is no money and no investment,  it can be frustrating.  I think they need good planing before going into marriage to gain good financial ground.

A wedding doesn't require the big costs that we need unless they want a big celebration like you said, which requires a lot of money and they have to be able to prepare a lot of money to be able to hold their wedding and it would be better for both couples to discuss the event that will be held. they prepare by looking at the money they have and if their partner has Bitcoin that they will hold and the target has not been achieved, of course they can explain to their partner about this so that there is no misunderstanding by their partner.

That's right, holding a big wedding party is not a good choice if we still have little savings and choosing to prepare savings to be able to run a household life will certainly be better because there will be many needs that they will need when they are running their lives in the future and I agree with what you say, every couple who wants to get married, of course they have to have good planning for their wedding and prepare savings and investments for their future.

If you want to make fun and enjoy your pleasurable moments, then you must have spent time investing and making money, if anything that is taking your time and money is not profitable or a means of an investment to you in which you can as well fall back to as an asset in the future, then we need to desist from such because we are only wasting our time in them, we have to make sure that our time is being invested on something productive so that we can have something to fall back on during the time of rest.

What you say is almost the same as the principles that rich people have and what I mean by that is that rich people think when they want to do something that can cause them to sacrifice their time for something more valuable. Because with something more valuable, they can also get a reward that is worth it in the future or when they are no longer able to work as they are now. So it is very important to use the time we have on something productive for the sake of a more relaxed future so that we can enjoy the results with our own satisfaction.

First of all you both should understand each other and should help each other in every occasion because there is no friend better than a partners. If you are financially unstable then your wife should understand this thing because it is necessary to live your married life happily but it is not important to show this thing to a society.

You should explain this fact with great care to your wife and should say that instead of wasting money on celebration if you utilize this money in investment then very soon you will become financially stable and then your each dream will come true because in current age everything is possible with money.

Yes, usually rich people have a different mindset from people in general, and it is this difference in thinking that makes them succeed in achieving their wealth or succeeding in achieving financial success in their lives, their thoughts are more directed to something further, or that means rich people think more about long-term benefits and benefits than momentary pleasures.

For the rich, time is the most valuable thing or it means that for them time is more valuable than money, which as we know that when we are able to make the best use of time it means that we will also be able to take advantage of every opportunity that comes where the goal is yes to gain benefits in any form, especially money.