keep pleasures without incomes aside and Chase after profits

[Sorryfor]

As the head of the family and since you are the breadwinner of your family, you have every right to make investments except for wedding anniversary celebrations. Because I think none of us know what the future holds. So if we are careful and invest some money in good places without wasting it then it will bring good results for us at the end of the day And your wife or all the girls are a bit too emotional so don't feel the need to pay too much attention to their words. But if too much pressure is applied, you can celebrate wedding anniversary on a small scale with some of your money. Then you can invest the money as per your plan.

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[MFahad]

In defense and pursuit of financial gain, it's often wise to keep pleasure aside and focus on the strategies that drive profit, ensuring long-term success and stability.   Investing and saving a basic strategies to keep one afloat in times of need.

A lot of things are not done for pleasure but they are done because some occasions don't come a second time in our lives, which is why when they come, we should do our best to make them as memorable and beautiful as possible so that we can remember and cherish those moments for the rest of our lives no matter where and in what condition we may be in the future.
So even though I understand that money and gains are important things for anyone in this era, family and events and occasions that are related to them should be celebrated no matter what because we don't know when we die, so it's also important to make sure that we are giving them time and value as well alongside our jobs and sources of income.

[irsykes]

As the head of the family and since you are the breadwinner of your family, you have every right to make investments except for wedding anniversary celebrations. Because I think none of us know what the future holds. So if we are careful and invest some money in good places without wasting it then it will bring good results for us at the end of the day And your wife or all the girls are a bit too emotional so don't feel the need to pay too much attention to their words. But if too much pressure is applied, you can celebrate wedding anniversary on a small scale with some of your money. Then you can invest the money as per your plan.

In my opinion, investment is the most important part whether you are married or single. It is true that no one knows the future, whether it will be a disaster, being fired from work or something else. Saving is important so that we have unexpected reserve money. Must be able to manage money and be able to allocate it correctly for anything. Saving also doesn't have to be in the form of money, for example, to make a business grow. buy land, farm

[Dewi Aries]

In my opinion, investment is the most important part whether you are married or single. It is true that no one knows the future, whether it will be a disaster, being fired from work or something else. Saving is important so that we have unexpected reserve money. Must be able to manage money and be able to allocate it correctly for anything. Saving also doesn't have to be in the form of money, for example, to make a business grow. buy land, farm

That's true, investment is quite an important thing. because it can help us in the future. but it depends on us, whether we can do it well or not, because investing is not an easy thing, of course you need good skills and knowledge to be able to understand every aspect involved. it's true what you said. Before making an investment, of course we must have reserve money or an emergency fund, because of course we live in reality, so disasters may occur which may be quite serious and require funds to overcome them. Therefore, if you want to invest, of course you have to think about things that must be prepared first, such as reserve funds.

saving is the initial way to invest, because it is impossible for large amounts of money to come by itself, of course to invest we must have enough money and saving is one way, whether it is saving at the bank or saving by yourself. Money management in life is of course very important, therefore as much as possible you must be able to manage it well, because many people have problems when they have money but they cannot manage it well.

[irsykes]

In my opinion, investment is the most important part whether you are married or single. It is true that no one knows the future, whether it will be a disaster, being fired from work or something else. Saving is important so that we have unexpected reserve money. Must be able to manage money and be able to allocate it correctly for anything. Saving also doesn't have to be in the form of money, for example, to make a business grow. buy land, farm

That's true, investment is quite an important thing. because it can help us in the future. but it depends on us, whether we can do it well or not, because investing is not an easy thing, of course you need good skills and knowledge to be able to understand every aspect involved. it's true what you said. Before making an investment, of course we must have reserve money or an emergency fund, because of course we live in reality, so disasters may occur which may be quite serious and require funds to overcome them. Therefore, if you want to invest, of course you have to think about things that must be prepared first, such as reserve funds.

saving is the initial way to invest, because it is impossible for large amounts of money to come by itself, of course to invest we must have enough money and saving is one way, whether it is saving at the bank or saving by yourself. Money management in life is of course very important, therefore as much as possible you must be able to manage it well, because many people have problems when they have money but they cannot manage it well.

The experience I had when I was young was that I suffered from controlling money to save and invest in the future. I imagine that in the future when I am old and my energy is no longer as extra as when I was young. This makes the goals of work, investment, saving have a purpose, yes, even though we are destined, no one knows, at least we have to have a goal so that we don't suffer in old age.

[Tony116]

This doesn’t sound right. I don’t think it’s emotionally smart to just cancel your marriage anniversary celebration if you had made plans (with your wife) about it. I can understand how she’d feel because you likely raised her hopes. What I can advice is that as you have decided to rather continue hodling, the least you can do is for do a little celebration. It doesn’t have to be big with a lot of food. You can light a candle and buy a drink while you guys discuss walk down memory lane and discuss future plans.

I also think so because it is a very important and emotional day for a married couple. Especially for a woman it is very important. Every husband must be try to do something, especially for his wife. It does not mean that he must doing something big which needs lots of money, they actually want time not money, he can do anything for his wife who leaves her family, and friends and marries him. He can do anything, especially for his better half which makes her happy. actually, we are leading a robotic life nowadays, we don't have much time to give our family, we need to manage some time for our special person.

[dezoel]

Women are women. They will be upset today but eventually it will vanish after couple of days. So just talk to your wife heart to heart and I think if she’s looking forward for a great future with you, I know she’ll understand. Focus on your bitcoin investment but at the same time, do not let your wife feel ignored. Tell her that she’s a big part of your plan, and her emotional support on what you’ve been doing is a big thing. Maximize your bitcoin accumulation so that when bull run comes, both of you will come to prosper. Celebration can be delayed but big opportunities like in bitcoin never comes to your door all the time.

They can even be upset for no reason but there are also men who are like that. It was like they are crazy xd. We can talk to our wife but what if their response is something that we don't want to hear? Like they will leave us if we don't obey what they want? I know most men are weak against their partner and they end up obeying their orders. This is wrong and besides, there are still plenty of fishes in the sea.

We only need to make sure that we will be more choosy this time. Bitcoin investing is passive, which means there is no need to monitor it from time to time. This is great because we can spend our time instead to our loved ones or by doing other things which are also important.

[Orekelewa Ade]

Y’all be getting it wrong he’s married already it’s his marriage anniversary ceremony he cancelled….

But bruh why would you cancel your anniversary celebration that has already been fixed because of something that would fall without notice …anyways who am I to judge but then you would have just celebrated it since the date has been fixed already to me cancelling it made no sense

[AVE5]

This doesn’t sound right. I don’t think it’s emotionally smart to just cancel your marriage anniversary celebration if you had made plans (with your wife) about it. I can understand how she’d feel because you likely raised her hopes. What I can advice is that as you have decided to rather continue hodling, the least you can do is for do a little celebration. It doesn’t have to be big with a lot of food. You can light a candle and buy a drink while you guys discuss walk down memory lane and discuss future plans.

That's what most persons have said here virtualizing the whole system like memorial marriage ceremonies is more important than chasing incomes for the welfare of the family.
Like I'd always say, it takes only grace and an economist to maintain a billion dollar financial status if a man marries the outdoor and the materialistics type of women. All they wants is just spending spending and wouldn't even give you that chances to go out there and make the money which requires to afford those needs.
@oktana, are you aware that there are women who just want their man to stay indoors with them without moving an inch out from the house and yet they want this man to provide their needs ought to be afforded by money?
This is just it, don't stick to live by the romance of pleasures of of a woman. They're just in to enjoy while the men are out there for hustle and struggle to get them the money for their enjoyment. So if you don't resist them in some ways the same woman would be the one taking you for trash due to your incompetent to provide for the family.

I love my wife with all my heart and she's my world, we're married already and have been doing this marriage anniversary ceremonies at other times so it is not a marriage right or something compulsory that if we skip one then I as the man has made a controversial to the home.
However, I talked to her personally about this and I never let the day to I dark like that, we had some little experiences in reflect to the day, we had some outdoors and just cut of the cost towards the cerebration because it was usually something family and friends do comes around so this time it was just two of us on the date.

More money to the home brings more union and same time, attracts more laughter to the home. I knew what I was doing. And I've refused to be carried away. As long as bitcoin is increasing this so much, there's no just regret for me and my wife m we're doing so well.. thanks in anticipation 💯

[sokani]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.

I don't know how long you've been married and how you used to celebrate your previous wedding anniversary but I don't think it's a smart decision that you postponed it because you didn't want to sell your bitcoin. I've come to realize that money is not everything and little things matters in life. Wedding anniversary is a very special occasion for couples and you don't need to buy your spouse a car or an expensive jewelry to make you feel good about yourself. Taking her out on a date and professing your love for her is more than enough and whenever you've the money you can do more.

[oktana]

This doesn’t sound right. I don’t think it’s emotionally smart to just cancel your marriage anniversary celebration if you had made plans (with your wife) about it. I can understand how she’d feel because you likely raised her hopes. What I can advice is that as you have decided to rather continue hodling, the least you can do is for do a little celebration. It doesn’t have to be big with a lot of food. You can light a candle and buy a drink while you guys discuss walk down memory lane and discuss future plans.

That's what most persons have said here virtualizing the whole system like memorial marriage ceremonies is more important than chasing incomes for the welfare of the family.
Like I'd always say, it takes only grace and an economist to maintain a billion dollar financial status if a man marries the outdoor and the materialistics type of women. All they wants is just spending spending and wouldn't even give you that chances to go out there and make the money which requires to afford those needs.
@oktana, are you aware that there are women who just want their man to stay indoors with them without moving an inch out from the house and yet they want this man to provide their needs ought to be afforded by money?
This is just it, don't stick to live by the romance of pleasures of of a woman. They're just in to enjoy while the men are out there for hustle and struggle to get them the money for their enjoyment. So if you don't resist them in some ways the same woman would be the one taking you for trash due to your incompetent to provide for the family.

I love my wife with all my heart and she's my world, we're married already and have been doing this marriage anniversary ceremonies at other times so it is not a marriage right or something compulsory that if we skip one then I as the man has made a controversial to the home.
However, I talked to her personally about this and I never let the day to I dark like that, we had some little experiences in reflect to the day, we had some outdoors and just cut of the cost towards the cerebration because it was usually something family and friends do comes around so this time it was just two of us on the date.

More money to the home brings more union and same time, attracts more laughter to the home. I knew what I was doing. And I've refused to be carried away. As long as bitcoin is increasing this so much, there's no just regret for me and my wife m we're doing so well.. thanks in anticipation 💯

That is all I needed to hear. Considering thats the case, you did the right thing because you had to discuss with her and yet did not entirely rule out at least a form of celebration. I must commend you as a good man because while you’re trying to make her happy about the anniversary, you’re also trying to be there financially for your family and trying to do both isn’t easy. Well done!

[MissNonFall9]

If you're gonna invest, seek professional advice first. Don't just wing it and hope for the best.

At this scenario do I need a financial adviser or a marriage councilor? Please @southerngentuk convince me more on why I needed an adviser when I have to invest for the benefits of myself and my family because my intentions was to skip this year anniversary ceremony and accumulate more to my Bitcoin hodling since the bull run is hereby so I could be a pertaker with the investors to smile over appreciative profits the Bitcoin market would offered. Honestly I considers money first because pleasures would always come when there is money.

Exactly what I want to say and convey is that there is no happiness or satisfaction in life without money. I will find happiness in my life only when I have money and not otherwise. But the body should be prioritized and listen to the body so as not to fall ill. Because health on earth is the best blessing of the creator. I have seen many lovers in my life who promised before marriage that even if they take shelter under a tree after marriage they can live happily together. But after marriage when they see that their lives and livelihoods are being hampered poison seems to come out of their mouths. If there is money there is happiness in the mind even if they do not marry the bride or groom of their choice, they can have a family happily.

[AVE5]

As the head of the family and since you are the breadwinner of your family, you have every right to make investments except for wedding anniversary celebrations. Because I think none of us know what the future holds. So if we are careful and invest some money in good places without wasting it then it will bring good results for us at the end of the day And your wife or all the girls are a bit too emotional so don't feel the need to pay too much attention to their words. But if too much pressure is applied, you can celebrate wedding anniversary on a small scale with some of your money. Then you can invest the money as per your plan.

Apparently you've really made some positive points to gearing Investors without being stoppable which is practically by paying deaf ears to distractive pleasury activities that tending to stop you from reaching your goal.
Basically as the breadwinner of the family just as you've pointed out, I don't have to welcome every financial demands from the family hence I know as women are concerned, they'd never understand what it takes to make the money rather than just making requests bring money today and bring money tomorrow.
My wedding is done and dusted in years past and the wedding anniversary shouldn't be a ceremonial activity to hinder my insightments of investing to make more money for the family. Even, there would be always other times this weeding anniversary can be made remarkably as my wife wanted but this year own is just going to be between me and wives marking the day while family and friends are not being involved as other times.
Investment before pleasures.

[n0ne]

Based on the statement from OP, he isn't financially stable, and he is very concerned about the income he is holding for his life. In such a situation, his wife isn't understanding him. This shouldn't happen, because he has been doing all this for the betterment of his family and not for his own. She should understand what he's trying to convey. When we're much into the crypto market, we should also know that market changes could happen anytime in any direction. Keeping that in mind, he should spend a little on pleasure, because if he ignores the anniversary celebration a few times, citing the market, then she might feel bad. Things need to be done in a way that shouldn't affect both their plans and expectations.

[arimamib]

If you're gonna invest, seek professional advice first. Don't just wing it and hope for the best.

At this scenario do I need a financial adviser or a marriage councilor? Please @southerngentuk convince me more on why I needed an adviser when I have to invest for the benefits of myself and my family because my intentions was to skip this year anniversary ceremony and accumulate more to my Bitcoin hodling since the bull run is hereby so I could be a pertaker with the investors to smile over appreciative profits the Bitcoin market would offered. Honestly I considers money first because pleasures would always come when there is money.

Exactly what I want to say and convey is that there is no happiness or satisfaction in life without money. I will find happiness in my life only when I have money and not otherwise. But the body should be prioritized and listen to the body so as not to fall ill. Because health on earth is the best blessing of the creator. I have seen many lovers in my life who promised before marriage that even if they take shelter under a tree after marriage they can live happily together. But after marriage when they see that their lives and livelihoods are being hampered poison seems to come out of their mouths. If there is money there is happiness in the mind even if they do not marry the bride or groom of their choice, they can have a family happily.

No one can dispute that financial stability can contribute significantly to one's sense of well-being and contentment. Money provides access to resources and opportunities that can enhance our quality of life, fulfill our desires, and alleviate stress related to basic needs. But true happiness isn't solely contingent upon wealth. Financial security can certainly facilitate a comfortable life, but it doesn't guarantee inner fulfillment or emotional satisfaction.

Good health is an invaluable asset providing our ability to enjoy life and pursue our aspirations. Without physical and mental well-being, even the most affluent individuals may find their happiness compromised. Hence, listening to our bodies and prioritizing health is essential for sustaining a fulfilling existence. Financial strain can exert significant pressure on personal relationships that lead to discord and dissatisfaction. Love and companionship are fundamental aspects of human life, but economic stability can greatly influence the dynamics of relationships. Financial security can impact not only individual happiness but also the harmony within families and partnerships.

[tottong]

Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

Naturally women really like fun, especially outdoor activities, and women generally like this fun because they like freedom.
But unfortunately women fail to understand the true meaning of life when it comes to financial patterns because very few women are able to manage finances for future problems. It's different when they are married and they will naturally arrange the needs for their family life.
Women are difficult to understand when they are not married because we often see them not having plans. A responsible life regarding finances will be much more difficult to control when someone does not get a balance between income and expenses and this applies to men because women will be much more frugal when they get married and have children, while men will find it difficult to control.

[MissNonFall9]

If you're gonna invest, seek professional advice first. Don't just wing it and hope for the best.

At this scenario do I need a financial adviser or a marriage councilor? Please @southerngentuk convince me more on why I needed an adviser when I have to invest for the benefits of myself and my family because my intentions was to skip this year anniversary ceremony and accumulate more to my Bitcoin hodling since the bull run is hereby so I could be a pertaker with the investors to smile over appreciative profits the Bitcoin market would offered. Honestly I considers money first because pleasures would always come when there is money.

Exactly what I want to say and convey is that there is no happiness or satisfaction in life without money. I will find happiness in my life only when I have money and not otherwise. But the body should be prioritized and listen to the body so as not to fall ill. Because health on earth is the best blessing of the creator. I have seen many lovers in my life who promised before marriage that even if they take shelter under a tree after marriage they can live happily together. But after marriage when they see that their lives and livelihoods are being hampered poison seems to come out of their mouths. If there is money there is happiness in the mind even if they do not marry the bride or groom of their choice, they can have a family happily.

No one can dispute that financial stability can contribute significantly to one's sense of well-being and contentment. Money provides access to resources and opportunities that can enhance our quality of life, fulfill our desires, and alleviate stress related to basic needs. But true happiness isn't solely contingent upon wealth. Financial security can certainly facilitate a comfortable life, but it doesn't guarantee inner fulfillment or emotional satisfaction.

Good health is an invaluable asset providing our ability to enjoy life and pursue our aspirations. Without physical and mental well-being, even the most affluent individuals may find their happiness compromised. Hence, listening to our bodies and prioritizing health is essential for sustaining a fulfilling existence. Financial strain can exert significant pressure on personal relationships that lead to discord and dissatisfaction. Love and companionship are fundamental aspects of human life, but economic stability can greatly influence the dynamics of relationships. Financial security can impact not only individual happiness but also the harmony within families and partnerships.

Yes and this is why I firmly believe that satisfaction is more important than success to be happy in life. Because it is never possible to judge the length of success in our life. Success is when we think of successfully passing our educational life. When it is complete it seems that actually raising money after a life of education may be a success. After earning money in this way if you can get a house car marriage children then success is achieved. Thus when a person reaches the threshold of death without his knowledge it seems that nothing in the world can bring success to a person. So we need to be content and focus on our own work and help others in their time of need as best we can. I believe that only then will happiness come down in this worldly life and the dynamism of our economic life will be maintained.

[AVE5]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

Putting your life on hold because of a bull run does not seem very sensible and it's expected your wife would be confused in this situation. When will enough be enough for you? Is there a certain point that it needs to reach before you will cash out a small portion of it, so you can get married? At the moment it seems like you do not have any plan at all to progress your life outside of owning this bitcoin. Your "logic" is also precarious because you never know when a selloff might come, so be wary about thinking you know it all.

Obviously I'd assume you're getting this whole thing wrong because I'm happily married in couple of years now and hadn't been that incompetent man of the family.
I and my wife has also experienced our marriage anniversary ceremonies on several occasions so what profitable different this one eou make it we skips it? Anyways to make it right to you @Fortify, I'm not excusing my marriage but a just anniversary.

So why can't Insight productivity and invests on it with a fund that can be spent on pleasures without income return?
When do we get to understand that money brings about respects for the man in his home but losses those respects when there's no more money?
I'd better keep up grinding to have my family more money while pending some activities because the activities can always be recalled again but opportunities to regain the chances of making profits could be lost without recovery.

[Mauser]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

Being successful is not that easy and requires a lot of dedication. It's great that you are participating from the recent bull run and are able to fully provide for your family. Unfortunately there are enough people who didn't have enough free capital to invest in crypto currencies during the last bear market, or didn't know enough about it invest larger sums of money. We should be understanding and trying to help our friends as much as possible. This doesn't mean that we need to spend a lot of money supporting our friends, already small things can make a big difference. Being open with your friend about how you invest your money is good. It shows that you think about longterm goals and are planning for the future. Helping our friends to get a similar mindset is already a huge change and will lead to long term profits as well.

[AVE5]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.

I don't know how long you've been married and how you used to celebrate your previous wedding anniversary but I don't think it's a smart decision that you postponed it because you didn't want to sell your bitcoin. I've come to realize that money is not everything and little things matters in life. Wedding anniversary is a very special occasion for couples and you don't need to buy your spouse a car or an expensive jewelry to make you feel good about yourself. Taking her out on a date and professing your love for her is more than enough and whenever you've the money you can do more.

I actually do not aks know if you've been married or not else I'd had loved to ask how you also celebrates your wedding anniversaries because I don't know if it's one of the kind you just take your wife out on a date with little expenses involved just as you may say.
Mine is usually in a big occasion and it's not just only involved between inanr my wife but also families and friends are all involved which by means it becomes expensive for and the state of my current economy isn't appreciative so why can't I cut some cost maybe limiting some extraordinary expenditures such as the wedding anniversary?

@sokani it'd be much appreciating if you ask me to take my wife just a date just between us as a suggestion probably considering that I'm chasing to achieve some money for the families welfares. Maybe the date as you may say would actually serve much atleast given the day a remarkable but anyhow if you cares, I was actually out there on a date with my dearest wife. 😆 Only that the day was kinda unusual comparing to other seasons.