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101  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling is not place to make money is place to lose it? on: June 30, 2024, 11:56:35 AM
Making a living gambling? Imagination, illusion. The system always is for the house. I get the appeal. The thrill of winning, the hope of huge success. A dream doesnt pay the bills. Like believing you can fly by jumping off a building. It feels fantastic at first, but you know the end. Wanting to believe they can win traps people in this circle. We must be smart and sensitive there. Understand the habit's purpose. Not always about money. The exhilaration of defying the odds, hope, and control are involved.

You want financial security? You work hard and invest well. You dont risk it. Gambling entertains, not pays the mortgage. Budget for a night out and expect to lose. Remember, I've developed a financial empire. I understand money. Gambling wont help. It distracts and traps. Focus on reality and sustainability. You win life that way.
Not many people can making a living gambling because many people already lose their money without have a big chance to make money. They even lose their salary from their jobs because they use all of their salary to playing gambling with a hopes that they can make money. They must forgets making a living gambling because that will not works for them.

When they wants to make money, they must search for a job so they can earn money weekly or monthly. That will helps them to fills their daily needs and savings their money and they can also use some money to playing gambling but not for makes money and only have fun. If their minds can thinks that gambling is just for fun, they will not trying to chase the wins because they will only just playing gambling occasionally.
102  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Do you set a specific bankroll before gambling or not? on: June 30, 2024, 11:02:22 AM
betting on football, basketball, you could say I often do 50% for several favorite clubs when playing, I don't put all 50% on one team. each club allocates 10% of the bankroll.. different from playing gambling games such as dice or slot games, the betting allocation is smaller than sports betting. leaving 50% of the bet for recovery when my research is not right or I lose the bet, of course management must apply it to be orderly
You must use money management to playing gambling because that will prevents from the big lose. If you can allocates 10% of the salary, that will be good but maybe you can reduce is and use 5% of the salary. But that will be up to you because you must calculate your money and knows where you will spends your money.

For each bet, you can use less than 10% of the bankroll because you don't use gambling to make money. If you can do that, you will not spends too much money in gambling and only place a bet on the team or player you knows. With money management, you can arrange your money and knows how much money you will use to place in every bet you wants. You will not just waste too much money in gambling because you knows that you have daily needs that you must be filled.
103  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Committing mistakes helps us to become a responsible gambler. on: June 30, 2024, 10:16:35 AM
Not all rest is about Zs. Let your mind rest from the daily grind. You work hard, deserve fun. Yeah, amusement may relax you. But gambling is a tricky game. Gambling may be enjoyable though. Nor is it a retirement plan. Not a good way to relax. You win and lose. These losses? They build up faster than "bankruptcy."

Lets be sensible. Give us healthy relaxation methods. Be with family, get a hobby, exercise. Even a decent walk may recharge your mind and wallet. Genuine wealth goes beyond money. Personal fulfillment and peace of mind are key. This price is unbeatable.
It is not the best option to choose gambling for leisure time. Although, who cares. A few years ago it was natural for me, but then I came to the conclusion that there were other options. For example, outdoor recreation with friends and family. Much more money will remain in your pocket with such a pastime. I was personally convinced of this more than once. Now it's the only way. It’s possible that sometimes I’ll sit down for another hour to spin the slots using the funds that were intended for this.
Those who fills their spare time with playing gambling too often will only gets a problem by losing their money. That situation will becomes worst when they can't control themselves because they will use more money to keeps playing gambling and not limits themselves from gambling.

They must search for other things to fills their time and not using gambling. They only makes more mistakes if they still use gambling to fills their time while they will not realizes of what they did because gambling can really gives them temptations until they lose all of their money. If someone committing mistakes and realizes about that, he must find a way to stay away from the mistakes and will not use gambling too often. He must trying to becomes a responsible gambler because that can helps him to use gambling in a right way.
104  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Double your money and quite on: June 30, 2024, 09:24:14 AM
When gamblers successfully implement their good behavior, they will not play carelessly and they also do not have the mindset that it would be better to double their money at the casino because they know that the casino is not a place to incite a lot of casino money that is used to fill free time and to have fun and this experience is also included in what will be owned by responsible gamblers because they know and are ready to lose or win is a risk or consequence and besides that gamblers like this will be far from the word addiction.
But they will not have a big chance to double their money from gambling. They just use gambling to fills their spare time by playing gambling but they also not using gambling too often if they have spare time. They knows that is the right things for them to treat gambling because they will difficult to double their money from gambling or fills their times to playing gambling often.

That will just gives them more losses and the worst things that they can gets from gambling is becomes addicted to gambling. They will feels not easy to leave gambling, even if they already lost their money. They will keeps trying to double their money even they will use more and more money but that will not guarantee them to wins the games. But a wise gambler will not do that as they just wants to have fun in gambling with some money and stops in the right time.
105  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: GAMBLE RESPONSIBLY on: June 30, 2024, 08:36:03 AM
It is true that being responsible can prevent a gambler from becoming addicted. Being responsible can also help a gambler to control himself when gambling. The conclusion is that responsible behavior has a very positive value. When a gambler can do it well, it can certainly prevent losing a lot of money and a gambler's sense of responsibility will be far from greed.
Being responsible will makes gamblers knows that he must prevents himself from using gambling for a way to make money because that will not makes him be able to make money. He can lose much money if he lose control over himself and that can makes him regrets of what he does.

Responsible behavior will also helps him to avoids the big problem from gambling which is addiction. He can see that many gamblers lose their money by playing gambling so he must avoids that happens to them. If he can have a responsible when playing gambling, that will helps them to be careful spends their money and will not takes the big risks of playing gambling because that can makes them lose much money. They will still trying to be responsible in gambling because that is the ways for them to enjoy the gambling games as a fun.

You're not wrong in saying that, but I'm talking about the possibility of human nature losing consistency in its principles, such as gambling responsibly, which at some point in time may lose its principles and gamble impulsively, although it can still stop and play responsibly again tomorrow.

I know that every human being who has the principle of gambling responsibly will be good at controlling himself, will anticipate the possibility of bad things coming to him, but it is not impossible that someone who has been gambling for a long time and using the principle of responsibility at one time loses himself, although he can regain consciousness but he has lost enough of his boundaries.
It's normal if human losing consistency in its principles because human is weak and can losing that anytime. But we also have a chance to learn and keeps practicing what we learn so we can maintain our strength and will not lose our responsibility when playing gambling. We may lose someday but if we are aware, we will not lets that happens to us again.

Even if that's hard, we will not lets ourselves lose responsibility in gambling so we still learn and practice so we will have that responsibility. That's why we must limits ourselves when playing gambling so we don't lose responsibility and can still enjoy our time to playing gambling. We just human but we can learn responsibility so we don't have to gets tempts from gambling and will not spends too much money.
106  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling addiction causes loss on: June 30, 2024, 07:45:41 AM
I agree with you because in gambling if we bet too much money if we lose money once we lose the whole money so we should bet small amount of money in the beginning. There are gamblers who, once they win money, become so addicted to winning that they bet twice as much, so much so that they lose and go home empty-handed rather than win. Thousands of family members who are addicted to gambling are losing so much money because of this gambling addiction that they used to live comfortably and now they are in debt because of this gambling addiction. So everyone should get out of this kind of gambling addiction because family members who have gambling addiction can never live a good healthy life.
When we bet too much money, we may lose that money without we have a big chance to wins. This could be realizes by many people so they will not use much money to playing gambling. It's better we bet with small money to saves our money and lose too much money. Besides that, we must avoids becoming addicted to gambling as that can makes us forget what we have and only wants to playing gambling without stops.

Playing gambling is no problem but we must stay aware not to playing gambling too long. That can makes us in a trouble that we don't realizes because we will gets the big risks of gambling. Many people already gets the problem of gambling which is addicted to gambling and only a few of them can cure themselves from their addiction. So we must avoids the same things by always control our gambling activities and not use too much money when playing gambling.
107  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Is gambling bad to the society? on: June 30, 2024, 06:53:02 AM
Good point - education can assist gamblers comprehend their odds. Spread the notion that most people dont succeed. But remember, hope drives gamblers. Not just the money, but what it represents: independence, relief, or an opportunity to change things. Why people require that escape route must be addressed. Financial woes? Boredom? Thrill? We can better customise educational content to their experiences and emotions by understanding these causes.

A culture that emphasises long-term planning and intelligent risk management over rapid fixes can also shift perceptions. Also, some people can gamble moderately. You must know yourself, the risks, and make informed decisions. We should be strong about serious addiction but compassionate and supportive of individuals who use for fun.
Hopes can drives gamblers but if they can gets educated well, they will not trying to chase their chances to wins because they will knows that gambling can makes them lose much money. When in society already knows that gambling gives bad effect to them, they will stay aware with people in their society and will not lets them playing gambling because that can makes them lose much money.

That society will search for other ways to kills the boredom and if they can use other ways to feels fun, they will not have to use gambling for spends their spare time. They will not playing gambling too much and will take care each other because they knows the bad effect of playing gambling too much. They will not lets their people gets the bad effect of playing gambling instead will use other ways to spends their time without having addiction to gambling.
108  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: He Used Our Wedding Savings to Play Bet on: June 30, 2024, 06:11:09 AM
We all know that someone will definitely experience changes for the better when they experience something that they think has caused them a big loss, but there is no guarantee that they will change for the better in the future. In my opinion, it is not wrong to cancel the marriage, including with women who might ask for their money back, because this is a mistake made by one party alone. and this happens because there is a serious addiction that cannot be removed easily, lack of tolerance for the perpetrator is normal, he just needs to change for the better so that he doesn't disappoint other people again in the future.

Even though the perpetrator may promise to change his bad behavior, trust is lost, it will be difficult to recover it, and perhaps the trauma that is felt is normal if the perpetrator cannot be accepted anymore. Moreover, of course there are thoughts that might think that the perpetrator could still disappoint him another day. unless this woman is ready to accept her own risk if she accepts the man again who has disappointed her greatly.
If he realizes that he already gets a big loss, he must change for better and not have the same experience. That women did a right thing to cancel her marriage because she may gets another problem if she insist to continue her marriage. She can leave that man that have a serious addiction and search for other man who loves her seriously. When someone gets addicted to gambling, that person will difficult to control himself and can ruins his family.

It is hard to change his bad behavior if he is not serious to do that because when he doesn't do anything, he will difficult to cure his addicted to gambling and even he can becomes deeper in gambling. That woman doesn't have to accept the risks by continuing her marriage and that is a good decision for her to cancel her marriage. She will find another good man that will loves her and will not disappointer her.
109  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Bank teller stole $28,000 from customers to feed her gambling addiction on: June 29, 2024, 02:21:59 PM
Those who have a gambling addiction should realizes about his problem so he can start to cure it before it's too late to do. But not many people who have a gambling addiction wants to cure their addiction or even knows that they are addicted to gambling. But if he stole other people money just to fills his gambling addiction, that means the addiction is too big and must gets helps from people around them. Besides of gets in jail, she must cured her addiction because that can gives her another problem in the future when she is free from her punishment.

We must be careful with that and always pay attention to our bank account, especially our parents bank account. Scammers and thieves can tricks old people who doesn't know much thing about secure their bank account.
110  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Is gambling bad to the society? on: June 29, 2024, 01:33:42 PM
It's a fact, we as players , but first as Humans we have the Potential to make our own decisions, if we make the wrong decisions Everything will fall apart and there's nothing we can do about it, things can go well or bad, and the game is like that , and in life it is like that too, because of our decisions we are where we are at this moment,
My country prohibits gambling. But many gambling sites still exist. Prevention through socialization and blocking is not effective. Perhaps some disagree with this issue. But our country has ensured that gambling activities that occur in the community are more detrimental. There are many cases of people committing suicide because they have a lot of debt to gamble. Many house land assets were confiscated because borrowed money from banks could not be returned. This is why my country prohibits it, but this condition does come from everyone. They will have different thoughts, unqualified human resources also affect this problem. Many people don't want to work hard to earn money but they continue to gamble in hopes of making money.
Maybe the government needs to educates people so they will knows the risks of playing gambling. They don't have to playing gambling to make money because that will not guarantee them to gets the money. Many cases they already hear and knows and that must makes them stay away from gambling and not trying to playing gambling.

But even if your government prohibit gambling, people will still playing gambling because they see gambling can gives them a hope to make a big money. That's in their minds, especially when they see some people can wins the big money from the lottery games. They still attracts to try to buy many lottery tickets because they hopes that in some day, they can wins a big money so they will not stops from playing gambling to try to wins the games.
111  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling addiction causes loss on: June 29, 2024, 12:39:08 PM
This is uncertain whether he will be able to earn the amount of money he lost by placing gambling bets in the future. Later he acted like a fool again by taking a loan and betting on gambling. I have lost gambling many times but later won but never won my lost money completely. I think you should only spend extra money on gambling because when you lose, the rest of the money will keep your family going. I have seen many people sell their wealth and gamble.
A similar thing that happened to you is capable of happening to anyone else, and this gambling thing that is seen today as a scheme to get some extra cash is nothing near that because no matter how lucky you are in the gambling space, you will hardly get back the same amount of money that you have lost in gambling back in the assessment of people that were very lucky to get a higher jackpot. You will see one or two bad things that will definitely affect them. Some might even leave a lavish life, spending all the money that they have, while others will definitely lose everything, either through rubbery or an orderly calamity that might affect them. Some might even die, and even if they win the jackpot, even if they keep gambling, they still won’t win. That is just how gambling works. 
When people see gambling as a scheme to get some extra cash, they must realizes that will not easy to gets the wins money. Many people trying to do the same thing but most of them lose all of their money. If they can't realizes or understand for sure, they will gets deeper in gambling and the worst thing that can happens are they can becomes addicted to gambling and that means they will lose more money.

You should not playing gambling use too much money because there are no guarantee you can wins bigger money. But you can gets many problems from gambling such as losing all of your money, you can becomes addicted to gambling or you can lose everything including your life. When you lose your money in gambling, you should not thinks to gets that money back because that will be more difficult and the casino will not lets you doing that. You will increase your lose in gambling because you will not realizes how much money you already use to playing gambling.
112  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Is Gambling A Hobby? on: June 29, 2024, 11:46:52 AM
In my opinion, if we talk strictly about the concept of “hobby,” there is still a difference between such hobbies as collecting stamps or baseball cards and such hobbies as gambling.  This difference still manifests itself in relation to your passion for gambling.  If previously unknown people find out that you are interested in collecting stamps, and this is your hobby, then the attitude towards such a hobby is still more favorable than if these people find out that your hobby is gambling.  In the second case, strangers immediately develop some negativity towards this hobby of yours simply because gambling has long been classified as a wicked hobby. 
By the way, all this must be taken into account when you tell strangers about your hobbies.
Those hobbies is different than gambling because when we spends our money to buy stamps or baseball cards, we have the physical thing that we can save in the album. We can also sells the stamps or baseball cards or exchanges with other fans with the other things. We can gets something from what we collects so that still gives benefits to us.

But when we use gambling as a hobby, we spends the money to playing gambling but we don't have a big chance to wins the money. We will loses that money in gambling while we can't recover our lost in gambling so that can makes us bankrupt if we don't have self control and use limitation when playing gambling. We must not use gambling as a hobby because that can gives us a big problem that we never imagine so it will better if we use gambling for have fun.
113  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Do you think as a gambler we should allocate specific amount to gamble? on: June 29, 2024, 10:44:31 AM
I choose to allocates 1-5 percentage from my income as my budget to playing gambling. I don't wants to do more than that amount because that can makes me spends too much money. Besides that, I have a bad experienced before as I use more than 5 percentage for playing gambling so I don't wants to repeat the same mistakes.

Many times I tried to reduce my budget to playing gambling less than 1 % from my income because I also trying to reduce my gambling activity. I realizes that playing gambling too often can attracts me lose my control which I already experienced before. Playing gambling doesn't needs to use too much money so less than 2% from my income will be enough to be used to playing gambling. If that money is all gone when playing gambling in a month, I can accept the result but I will not added more money to my budget because that will makes me lose all of that money.
114  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling mistake repeated by the gamblers on: June 29, 2024, 09:35:15 AM
Indeed, when they win, they will usually think that it is their lucky day, so there is a big possibility that gamblers will continue gambling and may even lose track of time. The temptation to win at gambling is indeed strong, so it is not surprising that many people are drawn deeper into gambling when they have succeeded in winning, especially if they think gambling is a means that can make them make some money. Of course, when they win, they will not think about cashing it out but continue betting it. but the predictable ending is defeat and will only leave them disappointed.

This is one of the mistakes that gamblers often make, even though they are aware of it and have already experienced it, they could make it again in future gambling. Even though they are aware that they have lost everything, it doesn't guarantee they will stop, whispers about winning will continue to haunt them, but if they can restrain themselves they won't fall into gambling again, it's just unlikely.
That's normal if they thinks that if they wins, they will thinks that is their lucky day so they will still keeps playing gambling because they thinks that their lucky day will be on their side and helps them to wins more money. But no one will knows that when their lucky day still be on them because the luck can leave them after they wins some money and will not stay besides them. They must not trying to wins more money after the winnings instead stops their gambling activity and leave the casino with the wins money. That will good for them to calm down their tension after the winning so they can thinks clear what they will to do with the wins money.

If they can stops themselves from keeps playing gambling, they will make more mistakes and will not aware about that. They can use more money and even they will use their wins money to wins more money. That will not suggested because they will only repeat the same mistakes and can lose their money. Once their money lost in gambling, they will difficult to gets their money back because they can lose all of their money in gambling.
115  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Land Based Casinos in the Digital Age on: June 29, 2024, 08:43:08 AM
Of course, everyone who is going to open their new business first thinks about a mature plan or strategy so that later the business has been opened and running will grow and progress even more.
If it is related to opening a gambling business, both offline and online, the same businessman must consider carefully and develop a good strategy so that his casino business is widely glanced at by gamblers so that they are interested in entering his casino company.
Yes, one of them is to issue a very profitable promotion then gamblers will be interested in entering there and the most important thing is to maintain a commitment in the company between the boss and his subordinates.
Business owner will makes his plan and strategy that will be used to develop his business. He will not underestimate his competitor in the internet because he knows that internet market is wider than the offline market so he must us different strategy. He must research deeply before decides to launch his offline business into online business.

If he already launched his business to the internet, he will see that he must have a promotion that will helps him to grow his business. With research that he did before, he will knows what he needs to do to develop his online business and he can works with the teams that he build before. Maybe he and his teams must adapt with the current situation so they can use one or more promotion to start to gets their visitors.
116  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Components In Marketing A Casino What's The Best Option For Owners on: June 29, 2024, 07:55:15 AM
The same strategy is indeed quite effective here, because that is how they work well, some other things are also done such as Sportsbet.io, Roobet, Stake and others have their own unique ways of marketing here, it is so effective that it gets a lot of very positive responses from forum members.

Like reviewing casinos, raffles, and others may have been applied here and it is quite effective also in marketing, but we have not found anything unique here that could be the reason for marketing very effectively and gaining massive members, maybe we need a few more creative people here to do more modern marketing and can attract gamblers on the forum, because if you do the same strategy as other gambling platforms I think it will be boring and people will also think it is not very interesting.
Every casinos can use the same strategy to promote their business because with the right marketing, they can grow their business. With suggestion and positive responses from members here can helps them to figure out what the ways that they can use to grow their casinos.

The casinos can used different strategy if they wants instead use the common strategy that other casinos do to see how good the performance if they use different methods. Besides that, the casinos must find out the right strategy that can works best for their casino because they can't depends the same strategy with the other casinos. The casinos can also place an ads in social media to attract more gamblers to visits on their casino and that will helps the casino to increase their number of the members. Many others methods that casino can do so they will have a chance to grow their casino into bigger.
117  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: The real winning of gambling is withdrawals on: June 29, 2024, 07:02:12 AM
There is a very small chance of recovering losses by continuing to gamble again and again. Actions like this only make it possible for us to lose money in larger amounts, because the fact that the chances of losing are greater than winning will make it difficult to recover losses, and with this fact we must be aware that Winning at gambling is difficult and rare, therefore, when the gambling you have done has resulted in a win, you have to withdraw it because that is the right thing to do, even though there are definitely thoughts or expectations of wanting to get more, but as much as possible you must be able to put that aside, risking it. The victory you have obtained is not a big mistake, just don't regret it at the end when the victory you have obtained is lost again. because the opportunity to enjoy this victory has been lost in vain.

I agree with what you say, indeed we have to realize that we won't have a big chance of winning at gambling if it wasn't for luck then there wouldn't be a win to be had. withdrawing the winnings that have been obtained is the most correct thing, by withdrawing these winnings we can enjoy them even though it is not much, apart from that those who are successful in being able to withdraw their winnings are the real winners in gambling.
If they knows that the chance is very smaller to recover their lose, they don't have to try it because they can lose more money and even that can makes their money is gone. We will lose bigger if we  don't stops from playing gambling after we wins because our greediness will not wants us to stops for a while.That can makes us can't enjoy our wins because that money will be used for keeps playing gambling. We are rare to wins in gambling so when we can wins, we must withdraws the wins money before it's too late because we may use that money to chase other big wins.

The real winners in gambling is someone who can withdraws the wins money and enjoy his time with that money and not keeps playing gambling. He will not thinks that he can gets another wins by playing gambling for more because that can gives him another lose. The important things is we must calm down our emotion after we wins and not decide to keeps playing gambling instead just withdraw the wins money for the real winning in gambling.
118  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: GAMBLE RESPONSIBLY on: June 29, 2024, 06:12:45 AM
The most important reason why we should gamble responsibly is so that we don't lose money that we can't lose, that's where it matters, which means we need risk management, money management, personal control and many others in order to gamble responsibly, it will emphasize ourselves to have limits in gambling.

But no matter how good a human being is at controlling himself, sometimes he gets out of control and kills himself, but that is a rare thing, we just need to try to minimize the bad possibilities that will result from impulsive gambling.
We don't lose too much money when we can playing gambling responsibly so that we can enjoy our spare time by playing many gambling games. We can knows how to use the risks management when playing gambling so we don't spends too much money. Personal control also helps us to manage ourselves from playing gambling because we will always remember that we don't have to keeps playing gambling after we lose some money.

Gamble responsibly helps us to keeps aware from the lose so we can control ourselves while playing gambling. We will not gets bad things from gambling such as impulsive gambling or even the worst thing that already happens to many gamblers which is addicted to gambling. We always remember that playing gambling doesn't needs to use much money to enjoy the gambling games but we can use enough money which we can afford to lose.
119  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: From $30 free bet to $168 on: June 29, 2024, 05:23:32 AM
From a 30$ initial bankroll, I doubt many can achieve this even the big time gambler since we are talking about x5+ profit here with a limited bankroll which you can bust your bankroll with just one lose bet.

I manage to turn 20$ to 100$ but it took me a lot of tries before I can achieved it on dice game. This kind of achievement is very rare since it requires extreme luck and courage in able to rollover your all bankroll in one bet until he reach that profit. What a solid profit.
Not many gambler can increases their bankroll in a short time so he is one of the lucky guy that can do that. He can loses all of his money but what happens to him is not for other people who doesn't have a big luck. But he doesn't have to keeps playing gambling tomorrow because he must takes a break for a while after his big wins.

Some people can turns their small money in a big wins but they try for many times before they can wins much money. Some people are lucky enough to wins that much money but we can't follows what they do because we have different luck and we can't forces ourselves to spends more money. That's why when we playing gambling, we must always be careful and not trying to use much money because we will have a big chance to lose all of the money we have.
120  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: He Used Our Wedding Savings to Play Bet on: June 29, 2024, 04:21:14 AM
 Hi guys and ladies, here comes a very sad and heart-breaking story (true life confession) of a young lady who was contributing money (saving money) together with her husband-to-be (fiancée) in preparation for their wedding. The story in quote ..

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My fiancee and I have been making arrangements for wedding, we are both contributing (saving) money because i know about his financial condition, in fact, i will say that i have contributed to about 60% of the total money in our savings, just for him to use nearly all the 5 million naira (approximately $5000) we saved to play betting and when i asked him about it, he said he was trying not to put all the wedding burden on me, that he thought he would be able to double the money.

I am really speechless and confused, and i think it's best for me to call the wedding off, what will i even tell people that already know about our wedding plans? this is the most disgraceful thing that has ever happened to me.




Even though i don't know this young lady in question personally, i felt true pity for her after coming across and reading her confession, i know how important weddings are to women and for the fact that she herself joined the man in saving, and even contributed about 60% of the entire funds they managed to save, shows or showed how committed she was to see that their wedding takes place, but unfortunately, the man gambled the money away, what could be more heart breaking than this?

You say you feel pity for her, but i'm happy for her.   $3000  of her own money is a small price to pay compared to a lifelong commitment to a pos. And tbh i don't think that amount of money could be that much for her, if they were willing to spend it on a single day of pageantry, what i mean is i don't think she's going to be homeless because of it. She was treated horrible, but it did work out for the best. Unless she's the type to continue her relationship with him without learning her lesson.
If that is a wrong person which she will marry and finally, they are cancel the wedding, that will be a good decision because she will not suffer in the rest of her life because she will not be with a gambler who thinks that he can makes money from gambling. She can find another person who will be good than previous person. She can learn from her mistake and be careful when she wants to having a relationship with another man.

She doesn't have to saving her money with a wrong person and she can start from beginning while she can prepare her own future with a right person. Maybe her story was disgraceful thing but she was lucky knowing what her fiancee do before she married him. At least, she can forget that man and not thinks too much about him and she can focus with her life.
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