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Most times na we wey be naija people dey cause our problems, I remember Goodluck Jonathan regime wey we been dey manage, na this amaechi with en group of Politicians go uproot buhari from no where come campaign carry power give am, na from that time we start to deh miss Goodluck Jonathan, buhari just come make everywhere hard for we country, the full buhari 8 years na problems upon problems for our naija, recently I hear news wey buhari dey apologize to Nigerians say en know say en no try, now Dem don come again with tinubu, tinubu wey carry plenty wahala, but I just hope say God fit help us because if wetin happen for buhari government repeat itself eh, plenty people no go survive am....
This whole thing way we go dey shout say God go help us for the things way we suppose do for our sef no really make sense. Na we (Nigerians) really dey prolong our suffering. You go see person way been dey suffer just now, but because of small 10k way them promise am, e no go fit standby the truth. Las las, everybody dey wait make the judiciary try help us put things right but eventually if them still play us another blind game like INEC then e don be. Till everybody go stop to dey collect this bribe then standby the decisions way we don make, suffering go dey knack people steady. |
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This whole Buhari administration just be like Horror movie with plenty suffering. Na this last Cash crisis vex me pass cus even after all our suffer them still knack us better ojoro for the election.
Last last, we don even dey forget say na our President be the minister of Petroleum. Kai, make God help us.
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The world is losing grip of her values! Norms and sacred practices that once kept the world at peace are now totally neglected, guiding principles are now trampled upon as most bad and incriminating practices are now considered as "a normal thing." Africa once a home to good moral standard instilled on our personality through the strokes and slaps from our parents is now a habour for goons and prostitutes.
Till we learn to imbibe and teach discipline to our children as our parents once did, our society will always be termed as unhealthy.
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Most people get intoxicated by power when they are given the opportunity to serve. Funds kept for public purpose becomes stolen and kept for personal use. These insane practices by corrupt leaders leads to under development, suffering death of the masses but yet, they don't see it.
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Do you not think though that there has to be some sort of order, somebody has to be in
place to govern, to put order on the potential chaos. My country has almost 5,000,000
in population, its not all going to work out without rules or some sort of structure.
Its just a pity some politicians forget that they are in place to serve the people and turn
to the path of corruption.
Apparently rules are needed to keep things in check but when the custodians of the said rules starts feeling untouchable and "above the law" then we have issues; this has been the fate of most African countries, once people are elected into positions of authority, they sometimes forget the reasons as to why they were elected in the first place. Personally, i feel our countries would be better if our leaders stand firm by their oath of office. |
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Family is the bedrock of every society, and as such deserves to be placed first before any other thing. But that doesn't mean one is ought not to give priority to his work or career, because from what I could understand by the story O.P just gave above, I will like to say that marriage is meant to be an understanding between two parties, of which thou money is a basic necessity, spending quality time with family members & good sex with partner is one thing that should never be overemphasized, because from observation, I could sense that's the big mistake this hardworking woman made, of which her husband took advantage of by impregnating her best friend.
So, in summary to all this, don't say because of money you regret your family, or neither will you say because of your quest to building a loving family, fail to look after money. But always try to create a balance between both two.
Life is worth living when you have those to spend your happy moments with; family. If you fully focus on building your career and wealth without servicing or playing out your role to your family, the bond becomes severed and trust me, a broken home takes its own toll on your finances as well. So, generally i feel those that have the best lives as those that keeps a perfect balance between business and family. |
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I still believe that even though family is important and we should start a family when we can. I do not think doing it when one does not have economical safety is a good idea, though. Why would I marry and have children if I cannot even provide to myself so I can live in a comfortable enough way? That is why it bothers my mind a bit when I see people living in poverty and in the outer limits of the cities and still having children that they cannot even send to school. It does not sound like a good plan in my opinion.  Would not be easier just to stay single and only being responsible of oneself in the meantime? There are quite a number of things that pushes people into getting married, these may include; Societal pressure age barrier religious believes procreation etc. Some people believe their finance will turn around once they get married since the holy book states that, "who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from God..." so these anticipated favour has pushed many people into marriages without proper plans. However, you would agree that there are those that have actually created this fortune for themselves after getting married through hard work with their spouse. Hence, a certain percentage of the people with plenty children suffering in poverty and hardship directly reflects ignorance and maybe unwillingness to work. Despite all these factors, i believe a man can start his own family whenever he has the resources and willingness to take good care of them. |
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In general, your statement makes perfect sense, given that everyone lives in a family and that everyone has family ties. Unfortunately, this is not the case for everyone and some may find themselves living in a fatal loneliness (I am one of them) given that my relations with the family were severed for a long time. It is not possible to determine an order of priorities that applies to all people, since our ideas differ according to our circumstances.
Well, family first. But have you ever thought about what it would be like if that family did not consider you as valuable as you are? Do you think it would be useful to spend time and effort betting on a horse that most likely will fail? I don't like the idea of what is more important, family or money. Each has its merits and shortcomings, and they cannot be arranged in order of priority if they represent two vital elements in an individual's life. Personally, I do not see any of them fit to be a priority, and if I wanted one of them badly, I would accept the other despite its disadvantages.
We are related to people sometimes by blood but that does not make them family! There are certain things you would go through as an individual and seek for some sort of assistance from "your family" and get non whereas strangers or friends will be willing to move mountains to get it done. I consider family as those that can stand by you through thick and thin and not those just related to you by blood. As you have rightly said, the circumstances vary for individuals; If money (work) gives you peace, go for it! If the bonds you share with people gives you peace then go for it as well. |
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Education is very important as it is the bedrock of all forms of development; human capacity development, mental development, societal development etc.
The significance of education cannot be over emphasized because it brought a drastic change in our society as we can all bare witness to the evolution of humans from the stone age, the analogue age and now the digital or technological age. As our minds gets renewed, our society earns a better way of living. These is seen through;
better medical care, consistent change in modes of transportation, better plant and animal breeds, more reliable source of food, abolishment of unfavorable norms and practices etc.
Over the years, the bridge between formal and informal education is closing rapidly as a good number of people now pass down their knowledge to the kids; this has caused the society to thrive more as people are getting smarter.
Conclusively, all humans have benefited from the knowledge we have gathered from the inception of time and we have consistently improved on means to communicate and pass down these knowledge through time. Personally, I know the future holds a better and more effect means of educating people as the current formal or informal means of educating is more time consuming.
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Personally lets all acknowledge the fact that these so called pastor's children are individuals like the rest of us. Simply because their parents has some religious obligation does not have them bound to the same fate. They are entitled to their own way of life and choices and their personality are sometimes considered as rebellion by the "members" of their parent's congregation.
Moreso, I would also add that their attitudes are easily noticed because it is almost as though they are placed in the spotlight of the church and sometimes other parents who are members of the church use them as yardstick to judge the behavioral pattern of their own children but this is very wrong!
I know that if other members of the church are carefully examined, we will discover lots of other members that are alot more rebellious than the pastor's children.
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