Most masternode coins can help with the instant transactions. Other than that I do not know where all the bad reputation is coming for Changelly as I have never had any issues with them.

You do have some options but they are kind of risky. Also someone already pointed out, payoneer doesn't support such association with bitcoin so if found, they might close your account. You can use a card to convert from bitcoin first and then convert it into payoneer account.

I have never had any problems with coinbase so I don't know where those issues are taking place. Coinbase would be the best option for you.