i know this question has been asked a lot but i tried to find a solution and nothing helped, so i'll be really grateful if you can help. I sent about 40$ worth of bitcoin from my blockchain wallet to hashflare like 6 day ago (6 decembre 2017 to be precise), i know i didn't pay enough fee, it was about 45 sat/b, so until now my transaction is still unconfirmed and the transaction status in hashflare is saying 'timeout' I don't really know what that means (yes i'm still a newbie in this bitcoin stuff), and in blockchain it's still telling me that my transaction is unconfirmed, I'm really scared that my money will be lost as I really can't afford to lose it, so i just wanna know is there any way that I can cancel the transaction or a way to speed it up, or should I just wait for it to be comfirmed and to be honest if I know for sure that the money will get back to my wallet or get sent to hashflare I want mind the waiting. Please help I'm really desperate and I really can't afford to lose the money. Thank you.

Hell everyone,
I'm just new in this forum and I really still doesn't understand anything yet but I really like to join this community and I would like to earn some bitcoins, so if everyone would like to help me here please just pm me, i would to work for the cash, and i need some help understanding this whole bitcoin thing, and i want to know what should I post to get a higher rank in this forum, and what can i do to get better and get paid for posting or doing whatever you want me to do
Thank