Try using cd to go to the path that contains oclvanitygen.exe first, then run oclvanitygen.exe. It's probably using your "c:\Users\username\" as the working dir, and thus not seeing the file.
If you're using the binary that Remember remember the 5th of November shared via dropbox, it doesn't include the calc_addrs.cl file, you need to get that from the main vanitygen download zip.
I downloaded the windows(I'm on windows 8 ) version which comes with the calc-addrs