Is there a Defi project out there with thousands of patronage that have stayed atleast a year without getting exploited, i doubt.
Like them or hate them, there are actually "DeFi" projects that have stayed unexploited since their inception; mostly the so called "blue chip" DeFi projects such as UniSwap and MakerDAO. Some projects simply have a lot more budgets for development and security audits than others.
Although UniSwap remains to be the top DEx right now, it doesn't have a spotless track record either. Just a little more than a year ago, it was also subject to a
reentrancy attack, together with Lendf.me, another
decentralized platform.
[1] And while the problem wasn't on the part of its smart contract, by using a technology of a certain blockchain upon which its contract was built, a single point of failure was opened and made itself vulnerable.
So the question remains as to the
decentralization claim in DeFi especially when somebody could simply exploit a single function and effectively steal away people's money.
Incidentally, just the other day, a day after the DeFi platform Poly Network was successfully attacked, DAO Maker, another
decentralized platform, also suffered an attack which cost them $7 million. Apparently, the weakness was the contract itself, in which the bug was found.
[2] DAO Maker may not be MakerDAO, but they're both using the DAO approach which boasts of
decentralization, of using hard-coded rules beyond the control of any single entity.
All in all, it makes the
decentralized questionable not only in DeFi but also in DAO and in DEx.
[1]
https://siliconangle.com/2020/04/19/25m-cryptocurrency-stolen-hack-lendf-uniswap/[2]
https://www.coindesk.com/crypto-fundraising-dao-loses-over-7m-in-latest-crypto-exploit