Well, just as we don't get stuck in a traffic jam, but we are actually the traffic
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, for society, it is neither our society or my society, it's just society, as in, including you and everyone. It's such a bad word, a more apt word would be regional culture, since society sounds like a corporation in which there are some rules which everyone should follow, and in 21st century I don't think such thoughts need to be validated.