1: don't be shy when we express opinions, or questions.
2: you have to be mentally strong when someone criticizes you harshly.
and don't be hurt.
3: when discussing, don't get carried away by negative emotions.
4: if our post
removed by moderator don't be discouraged. so by deleting our posts it should be a lesson, so that in the future we will be good and quality in posting.
I hope my post is useful for all of us, especially beginners who are newer than me. I'm ready to be corrected, or if my post is not useful, I'm willing to delete my post by the moderator.
When I read this topic, I remembered that when I started out on this forum, there were times when a couple of my posts got deleted, and a couple of them were heavily critiqued. My mental health was so affected that I had to take some time off to get myself in order. I also remember getting some encouraging comments as well. As a newbie, know that the forum is composed of people from diverse backgrounds, cultures, and upbringings, so do not expect everyone to go easy on you when you make a post that seems out of point or has some errors in it. One thing is certain: the forum will teach you to develop a thick skin. It's not going to be easy, but as time goes on and the more time you spend on the forum, you'll start seeing those critical comments as just one of those things. It won't hurt as much as it used to because you've developed ways to engage empathetically or courteously with other users.