yeah it was no fault of my own, they didn't include the fee by mistake or a fault in their system and now i gotta suffer.. so i'm guessing no one can choose to mine that specific chain for me? not sure if thats possible
With it already being send all you can do is wait. Chances are they did it to save BTC. It does not show double spend or anything bad that i see. With it thinking 6 blocks i would give it half a day or so. Hard to tell exact mining time for the blocks.