Do you believe you deserve more love than what you get?

[TheGr33k]

Are you even loved to begin with? I'm not even sure how to decide on that, so it's the strangest question to me.

My girlfriend and I literally were just having this long conversation about that before she got out of the bed asking each other if we show enough compassion in the relationship.

[Mr. Forum]

It is a feeling that i usually have at times. That which i see that my family is not giving me enough love depending on the things I have been able to do for them. I however soon discovered that this is just being of selfish gain in everything that I do and that is why i feel getting the inadequate love. My friend advised me to accept and appreciate the love that i ma receiving and stop complaining over it.  Love is something that grows and never forced.

[shanerc563]

Everyone deserves to be loved and most people out there think they deserve more love than what they get.  Only about 5% of those people who think they deserve more than what they get, are actually correct.  You need to look at yourself more before you can determine what someone else should be giving you.  I feel I get the love i am deserved.

[TheGr33k]

Everyone deserves to be loved and most people out there think they deserve more love than what they get.  Only about 5% of those people who think they deserve more than what they get, are actually correct.  You need to look at yourself more before you can determine what someone else should be giving you.  I feel I get the love i am deserved.

This is almost the same comment the other user made. Also, where are you getting that statistic?

[web2020]

If you feel you're not getting enough love, then why don't you start loving yourself rather than waiting for someone else to do so? It's like weighting your worth based on someone else's feelings towards you. That's sad bro.

[TheGr33k]

If you feel you're not getting enough love, then why don't you start loving yourself rather than waiting for someone else to do so? It's like weighting your worth based on someone else's feelings towards you. That's sad bro.

I'm pretty joyful in the relationship, so I don't ask her for anything and never will.

[PrikiNo.1]

Are you even loved to begin with? I'm not even sure how to decide on that, so it's the strangest question to me.

My girlfriend and I literally were just having this long conversation about that before she got out of the bed asking each other if we show enough compassion in the relationship.

Mate, if you having this conversations with you girlfriend about your relationship, then I think it's time to find another one.

I don't the whole story, because I don't know the details, but when something goes wrong in one relationship and there isn't a way out about the problem, then the best thing is you should quit that.

Most of the people who are in the relationship, especially a long relationship and they don't feel loved enough it's because one of the partners is not prepare for that. So here is the question: How you will know that you are prepare to find your love of your live? - When you will start to love and respect yourself... that is the answer. I mean, how can you love someone if you are not prepare to love yourself?

[TTMNewsMJ]

I am absolutely contented for the love that I have right now.
I could not ask for more.

[Misbah AK]

NO i think we blessed enough love in our lives then we deserve actually.

[bitbunnny]

I think that I'm getting enough love, can't complain. And it's a good feeling to have someone to love and someone that loves you. This is the most important thing in life.

[Quartx]

No significant other yet

But I believe that love is something you give and you get

There is nothing wrong with giving more love than you get.

but if you only receive and do not give, you do not deserve it at all

[BADecker]

I should be loved totally by all those atheists that I show the straight and narrow to. After all, they are seekers of truth, and I show them some of the greatest and best truth.    

But, alas, they don't love me. In fact, it seems just the opposite.

 

[v1ryspro]

I believe that each of us are around as we deserve. If nobody loves me, so I really shit. And I need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and do self-development. A long talk about relationships - are killing me