Better to point a high fee if you need to send you BTC asap.
Unless the fee is massive, even a high fee doesn't help right now.
My transaction is still stuck, transferring 0.2 bitcoin with 0.002 fee made 18 hours ago, 0 confirmations.
The number of unconfirmed has stayed roughly the same the past 24 hours between 210000-230000, so if we assume 4 new transactions per-second, thats 240 per minute, 14400 per hour, 259200 for 18 hours, so my transaction really should have been cleared by now. Things are definitely borked right now :/