Say one has to send 35 dollars to complete a transaction but the priority fee is 25 dollars. Could one send the 25 dollar fee plus add an extra 10 dollars to make it so it all adds up to 35 dollars? This way so one doesn’t have to send a total of 60 dollars?
No?
There is no way to circumvent the fee by trying to make the entire transaction the equivalent value of the fee. You'll either have no fee and the transaction will take forever to confirm or it will have no transaction value and there will be a fee of $35 on something that moves, at best, $0.01 of value. You cannot circumvent the fee and you have to choose to either pay the total sum so that you get it done quickly or you can skimp on either portion of the transaction and watch as nothing happens with your transaction.
Welcome to the blockchain, right now we're waiting on a ton of transactions to get confirmed so fees can go down. It'll take a fairly long amount of time considering the transaction rate right now. Sorry for the inconvenience.