marriage is everybody problems!

[Victan22]

Marriage I would say is everyone's problem because to save a society we must first of all save family which is the first society.

Couples and those who ought to play a role in putting a family together as one are not interested because they have not seen the impending danger coming their way, yes marriage is a personal  and a private thing between two adults but as a relative if need be that your intervention is needed to fix a home please do because a bad marriage will produce bad children who will eventually turn into community / societal nuisance some day in which we all will be affected direct or indirect.

[Wakate]

Marriage I would say is everyone's problem because to save a society we must first of all save family which is the first society.

Couples and those who ought to play a role in putting a family together as one are not interested because they have not seen the impending danger coming their way, yes marriage is a personal  and a private thing between two adults but as a relative if need be that your intervention is needed to fix a home please do because a bad marriage will produce bad children who will eventually turn into community / societal nuisance some day in which we all will be affected direct or indirect.

  We should understand that it's not everyone that is ready to get married so we need to know that marriage is meant for people work choose it and work for it. It is not easy for two people to come and marry themselves without being ready to take shits. There are lots of shits in marriage so those who choose it need to be e ready to battle it and the differences. There are some marriage that the couples are just chikdren and they still not ready to accept shits and differences from each other because there is no understand to allow different altitude to come in.

[blockman]

Here in my country, divorce is hard to process and that's why everyone who's in a relationship should be sure whether to marry their partners or not. Living with a partner is common even without marriage and that's why, many of the people here do it. And one reason that can't be denied is that when they split, there's no string attached. It all depends on the cultural setup that a couple is living in, in most countries these are also a common problem and not just here.

[Lordhermes]

Here in my country, divorce is hard to process and that's why everyone who's in a relationship should be sure whether to marry their partners or not. Living with a partner is common even without marriage and that's why, many of the people here do it. And one reason that can't be denied is that when they split, there's no string attached. It all depends on the cultural setup that a couple is living in, in most countries these are also a common problem and not just here.

If  what your say the truth then your country, is against freedom of the people, no body should force marriage or people to stay together when they are not longer   happy in that marriage. no culture should encourage force marriage. rather people who are not longer okey with their marriage  should seek redress in court and follow legal and traditional means.

marriage was not originally meant to be problem, rather was designed to be a blessing to the society. but Western culture and access right has made it a problem. the wife and husband doesn't under their roles anymore. everyone wans to head the family. no respect for husband and no love for the wife. things are really changing.

[swogerino]

just like business, when the business goes bad, it is everybody else problem, everybody, every taxpayer gotta bailout the bad business that goes broke, everyone would pay the taxes.

we all hope the husband would fix and help the marriage on his own. that is a wiseful thinking. i saw many married men have this very funny opinion, they always talk about their life suck, and foreveralone guy is better. It is clear to me now, he can't tix his marriage problem alone, when he got married, it is everybody else problems, it is the entire nations problems, it is internationally problem, everybody else gotta bailout the marriage!

That means that the guy who got married did not love that much his partner otherwise there would not be problems,as long as both partners love each other they will always find a solution together to any problem.I know the nature of men though as they are not happy with just one woman so the right partner will also make a blind eye if her husband goes away in a trip,work trip and have sexual intercourse with other women,this is a well known thing.As long as all fits into place marriages go really well.It is people who made rushed decisions on getting married without being fully convinced that leads to the international problem you are describing here.

[Y3shot]

Not everyone marriage today were having problem in their marriage,  everything has to do with understanding each other, marriage worked and we shouldn't be brainwashed that there's no perfect marriage, have we at some point in time consider how we get into marriage, is not not by a coincidental experience or an abuse made on marriage whereby we kidnapped someone's else's daughter under our abode without paying for her necessary marriage rites, we we get it right from the beginning, the foundation will remain solid and strong in the marriage for the two parties to enjoy altogether.

In as much of what is going on in today's marriages their are still good marriages that are going very well well without any issues. If people really understand what they need from their marriage and how they want it to be I believe it will end up. I still believe in marriage no matter number of failed marriages.

[Belarge]

Op if I try to understand you, you are talking about marriage problems and it's the right for the husband to fix his marriage when there's issues in his marriage, you also mention how people allows the husband to fix his marriage alone without them even showing concern, that's the way I understood your trend though..

Firstly marriage is the coming together of different genders from different family, or even different religious group to become one(family) or life time partners.
That's why it's always advice to date and get to know your partner very well before getting into marriage with them, know their flaws, their character, how they behave when they are angry.
Ask your partners what they like and what they dislike ( it's very important)

Go for marriage counseling, seek for advice from people who are already married for years,
Marriage is something that should be sacred, an intruder or outside party is not needed except they are been invited by the couples.

Have attended some many wedding where the couples are advised to settle their differences(marital issues) between themselves and shouldn't give room to a third party, parents are even advised to leave the couples and their home alone for them to handle by themselves.

Op if you are married Today you shouldn't give room for a third party, perhaps a marriage counsellor only when you dim it fit it's necessary, have a stand to handle your home and fix it, too many external advices can break marriages and lead to divorce...