marriage is everybody problems!

[Broly46]

just like business, when the business goes bad, it is everybody else problem, everybody, every taxpayer gotta bailout the bad business that goes broke, everyone would pay the taxes.

we all hope the husband would fix and help the marriage on his own. that is a wiseful thinking. i saw many married men have this very funny opinion, they always talk about their life suck, and foreveralone guy is better. It is clear to me now, he can't tix his marriage problem alone, when he got married, it is everybody else problems, it is the entire nations problems, it is internationally problem, everybody else gotta bailout the marriage!

[Latviand]

Dude, I think you should consider using Grammarly or put your thoughts in your native language first then use Google Translate your native language thoughts into English, I tried to understand what you're trying to say but to no avail. Are you talking about marriage? Economy? Or are you trying to point out similarities between economy and marriage.

[Broly46]

Dude, I think you should consider using Grammarly or put your thoughts in your native language first then use Google Translate your native language thoughts into English, I tried to understand what you're trying to say but to no avail. Are you talking about marriage? Economy? Or are you trying to point out similarities between economy and marriage.

Let's recap on what is marriage based on a definition given by a oxford dictionary
"the legal relationship between a husband and wife."

and the definition of business in a oxford dictionary
"the activity of making, buying, selling or supplying goods or services for money."

both marriage and business has totally ZERO similiarity in this context. However to save the business or marriage, it is not easy, I'm talking about saving a collapsing multi billions dollars worth of business, it is not a one person problem anymore, who is capable to fix a billions dollar problem alone? Is it even possible?

[gantez]

everybody else gotta bailout the marriage!

If you want to put marriage and business together side by side to compare, it is not all marriage that will succeed so we have to get that, just like it happens to business too. For some business like you see not all is good for bailout and trying to continue bailing out will lead you to bankrupt. If you have that type of business you can move on, if you have invest in wrong coin or you are scammed you have to move not to stay on regret because better days ahead.

[Porfirii]

I don't understand the logical link or the moral of this topic either. It is clear what business is and what marriage is, but what insight do you want to share with us about these figures? or are you simply asking a question?

I think that what OP is trying to communicate is that, the same way when big businesses fail there are many people affected, it also affects people around when a marriage fails. A bit of a flimsy analogy, if that was the intention of the author.

[michellee]

Marriage is not everyone's problem because it depends on how husband and wife can communicate and solve their problems, likewise with business. If a business owner has a problem with a colleague, they should sit down together, try to solve it together and find a solution.

But marriage and business are not the same thing and they are different. Business is how we can take advantage and develop the business to be bigger. At the same time, marriage is how we can maintain a good husband and wife relationship until we die later.

So even though marriage is a problem for everyone, we must be able to find a solution so that we don't separate and can still maintain the marriage. It's about maintaining that relationship well and having children who will pass on what we teach them.

[Broly46]

...it is not all marriage that will succeed...

it depend on the food on the table?

...not all is good for bailout and trying to continue bailing out will lead you to bankrupt...

Not saving? But some of them are providing life supporting products such as computer chips, milk and meat, rice... Let's be honest we need the products they provided, we gotta save them, it is cost effective to save a failing but established business.

...you can move on... have to move not to stay...better days ahead...

moving on in business, just goes broke and liquidate the bad business... but moving on in marriage, mean dump the relationship and breakup? During a crisis where you would be left sleeping on the street and left to die alone in the dark? Not very wise.

...what insight do you want to share...

Not much really. There ain't any noteworthy wisdom here. Opportunity come and goes, what remain is the mistakes to be learnt. Obviously there is HUGE mistake to be found here.

...when big businesses fail there are many people affected,...when a marriage fails...

This is some very interesting observations too. Yup, when they both failed, it's damages would ripple through the surrounding. When a powercut, the entire city goes into darkness, and everybody has no access to power, they couldn't live their comfort life any longer.

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

Not everyone marriage today were having problem in their marriage,  everything has to do with understanding each other, marriage worked and we shouldn't be brainwashed that there's no perfect marriage, have we at some point in time consider how we get into marriage, is not not by a coincidental experience or an abuse made on marriage whereby we kidnapped someone's else's daughter under our abode without paying for her necessary marriage rites, we we get it right from the beginning, the foundation will remain solid and strong in the marriage for the two parties to enjoy altogether.

[sunsilk]

just like business, when the business goes bad, it is everybody else problem, everybody, every taxpayer gotta bailout the bad business that goes broke, everyone would pay the taxes.

If a business fails then that's the problem of the businessman and not everyone that could be part of it. The employees doesn't have to do with it but they'll be affected for sure when a business closes.

we all hope the husband would fix and help the marriage on his own. that is a wiseful thinking. i saw many married men have this very funny opinion, they always talk about their life suck, and foreveralone guy is better. It is clear to me now, he can't tix his marriage problem alone, when he got married, it is everybody else problems, it is the entire nations problems, it is internationally problem, everybody else gotta bailout the marriage!

But since this is all about marriage, I think this topic is much preferred on the Politics and Society than of economics. There are other problems that we're all problematic about and not just with our marriages or everyone else's marriage and disarrangements.

[mindrust]

just like business, when the business goes bad, it is everybody else problem, everybody, every taxpayer gotta bailout the bad business that goes broke, everyone would pay the taxes.

we all hope the husband would fix and help the marriage on his own. that is a wiseful thinking. i saw many married men have this very funny opinion, they always talk about their life suck, and foreveralone guy is better. It is clear to me now, he can't tix his marriage problem alone, when he got married, it is everybody else problems, it is the entire nations problems, it is internationally problem, everybody else gotta bailout the marriage!

Marriage is a business too. A marriage is a company with 2 partners. The male partner is often at a disadvantage financially because of the marriage law. It is a bad business practice. A male should be a lone wolf and rent sex when he is in need. I am usually against the subscription services but his is one of those moments where paying for a subscription makes more sense than buying the product. It is because in this example, the product loses its value over time. Just like FIAT. FIAT and sex partners lose their value over time unlike gold and bitcoin, which become more valuable as time goes on. Why would you want to invest in something that is going to have less worth tomorrow? It is against common sense. You should always rent these types of assets.

[robelneo]

I don't understand the logical link or the moral of this topic either. It is clear what business is and what marriage is, but what insight do you want to share with us about these figures? or are you simply asking a question?

I think that what OP is trying to communicate is that, the same way when big businesses fail there are many people affected, it also affects people around when a marriage fails. A bit of a flimsy analogy, if that was the intention of the author.

I wish that's what he tries to relay to us, the title of the thread is about marriage but the content of the post is all about marriage and business, the title should be

Marriage and Business

We are affected if the business we're in is bad, but there's always a solution you can look for another business it may affect many people but it's only temporary whereas there is a long effect in marriage, and marriage should not be a concern of everybody but family members only when there is a collapse in marriage the family circle should be the one to fix it, it's not everybody's concern.

[Accardo]

just like business, when the business goes bad, it is everybody else problem, everybody, every taxpayer gotta bailout the bad business that goes broke, everyone would pay the taxes.

we all hope the husband would fix and help the marriage on his own. that is a wiseful thinking. i saw many married men have this very funny opinion, they always talk about their life suck, and foreveralone guy is better. It is clear to me now, he can't tix his marriage problem alone, when he got married, it is everybody else problems, it is the entire nations problems, it is internationally problem, everybody else gotta bailout the marriage!

Marriage is a business too. A marriage is a company with 2 partners. The male partner is often at a disadvantage financially because of the marriage law. It is a bad business practice. A male should be a lone wolf and rent sex when he is in need. I am usually against the subscription services but his is one of those moments where paying for a subscription makes more sense than buying the product. It is because in this example, the product loses its value over time. Just like FIAT. FIAT and sex partners lose their value over time unlike gold and bitcoin, which become more valuable as time goes on. Why would you want to invest in something that is going to have less worth tomorrow? It is against common sense. You should always rent these types of assets.

Lol, the truth made me laugh, male should always get what they want at anytime they need it, not getting it all the time. Subscribing for such an asset pushes the man to have sex more than he should and it also sets some men backward. A famous saying; if you want to be happy for a month get married, and if you want to be happy forever, become a priest. I don't know how marriage looks like, not married. But, I see it as boring, nothing special seeing same person everyday for years. The value diminishes, as the wedding ring wears off. 

[Broly46]

...try to solve it together...

well... that gotta take a while... a little efforts... a little of everything...

...marriage and business are not the same...

Of course it is not same. They gossip about business is like a prostitution, make you happy for a while and left you puzzled in life once the ceo left. It couldn't be clearer.

...not everyone marriage...

Let's assume, may be some >50% of the married couple would fall into some troubles, gotta be very lucky to be successful!

...we kidnapped someone else's daughter...

That is some fairy tales. Kidnap some princess and elope. It has taken into a dark route. May be in the viking era, where Juliet trying to elope with a princess. It is all too complicated! Oh!!

...that's the problem of the businessman and not everyone...The employees doesn't have to...

Well, tbh, nobody want to be in this chaos honestly, I want to live a trouble free life too, this never ending chaos is going to drain so much energy, at least as much effort as a fulltime job, for what? for a clean house and a cooked meal? Bailout the business just for the sake of clean house and cooked meals? Couldn't I just hire third world slave to do the job? And save me all the hassle?

...much preferred on the Politics and Society...

May be it is taboo to some. Guy like to talk about bluepill content all the time. I believe this is one of the blackpills content that many people refuse to swallow it, it must be dang bitter to swallow something we have been indoctrinated for a longterm, which telling us marriage is always happy ending, full of life changing, absolutely no problems! I hope it has no political elements on the pills.

[Rruchi man]

I am usually against the subscription services but his is one of those moments where paying for a subscription makes more sense than buying the product. It is because in this example, the product loses its value over time. Just like FIAT. FIAT and sex partners lose their value over time unlike gold and bitcoin, which become more valuable as time goes on. Why would you want to invest in something that is going to have less worth tomorrow? It is against common sense. You should always rent these types of assets.

Some partners in marriage become more valuable with time, more valuable than they were before the marriage because  they offer more than just sexual satisfaction. But it is not common as unfortunately majority of partners have less worth tomorrow. When all what your partner can offer you is sex, then you should never have been invested and committed to marriage when of course paying for subscription and having your peace would have been the better choice. Marriage can be a problem when you do not marry rightly.

[BADecker]

I think the OP is a woman, and in the OP she is simply ranting about her husband failing her and making excuses that the failure was society's cause.

Somehow, naturally, the man is usually the head of the marriage. It is his responsibility, first, to understand his wife enough that he can make the marriage work. And, the wife instinctively trusts this. So, when the marriage fails, the wife suddenly realizes that her faith in the guy's abilities was misplaced... except when she is the one that intentionally makes the break, of course.

[Broly46]

...marriage is a business too...

that is a lot of generalization. btw marriage is a subset of business, is not a valid term until it is being contested, concessioned, consensual, especially in the court room. the court would never allow that to happen. Although they are similiar, but one should not easily confuse the two terms.

...bad business practice... where paying for subscription make more sense... loses its value over time...

that is very absurd, but hold some truth. There is nothing we can literally do when the life itself is as bold as it can be, every life goes through the same life cycle, and gender too has the same gender life cycle.

Although I dislike people who prejudge the value of everything based on "value goes up", but it does make perfect financial sense and make money too. War is bad but war is profitable, making weapon is profitable. The reverse is true too, making the point of trying to make progress or trying to build is itself a losing endeavor, because it is profitable the rich people keep doing its dirty job, to make sure they are the rich, and getting even richer.

Renting instead of marriage make financial sense, surrogacy make financial sense, it is absurd, it has no moral compass, but it make perfect financial sense.

But what can we do about it? There is nothing can be done. Whether go poor trying to change or do nothing and not getting poorer, of course every change must come with heavy protest. And the change would also benefit only the person who have their own selfish interest and they would even sponsor the change themselves with financial aid.

...the thread is about marriage but... the title should be Marriage and Business...

well, the main objective of the title is to express it is a huge problem, and the problem would require everybody else hardwork to trying to save it, the problem is too big to failed, it have to be bailout, because a failure would lead to undesirable consequence, it could mean total carnage, big crisis!

...and marriage should not be a concern of everybody but family members only...

that is exactly what is decided in the legal system, family members must fix the problems itself, doesn't matter their capabilites. Not until the system begin to collapse, when the family members also could not save it anymore, because the problem have grown into multi billions dollar problem.

...Subscribing for such an asset pushes the man to have...

What can I say about it? It is all convenient, the legal system even legalize the services, everybody would take full advantages of the convenient, due to it being very convenient, boomer begin to abuse it, make it a national sport, to see who could be the champion in abusing this convenient, but not knowingly the convenient also come with moral crisis later, that would be the zoomer who is gonna face the crisis themselves, the zoomer are gonna pay the price of the convenient enjoyed by the boomer. It is all fair and square, you get what you sow.

[o48o]

Let's recap on what is marriage based on a definition given by a oxford dictionary
"the legal relationship between a husband and wife."

and the definition of business in a oxford dictionary
"the activity of making, buying, selling or supplying goods or services for money."

both marriage and business has totally ZERO similiarity in this context. However to save the business or marriage, it is not easy, I'm talking about saving a collapsing multi billions dollars worth of business, it is not a one person problem anymore, who is capable to fix a billions dollar problem alone? Is it even possible?

This just made it even more unclear if possible. I really don't have any clue what you are on about. If they have zero similarity, why are you even using business as example? There's no one way to save marriage. There are as many different situations that lead to divorce there are couples that are married. Why would it need to have anything to do with money or "bailing out"? And what do you mean eit's verybody else's problem? It's only problem for a couple that are deciding if they want to divorce or not.

[Gallar]

It is clear to me now, he can't tix his marriage problem alone, when he got married, it is everybody else problems, it is the entire nations problems, it is internationally problem, everybody else gotta bailout the marriage!

In my opinion, life after marriage is not someone else's problem, especially if you have anything to do with the country and the whole nation. Marriage is a relationship between two humans who love each other, and their relationship is bound by the name of marriage which continues to be a family. So it is certain that after a couple is married, all aspects of life such as economic problems, attitudes towards each other, and other problems, of course the couple must be able to solve them, because indeed that is the obligation of a married couple. So the point is to be more mutually responsible for all the problems that exist in the household ark.
So in my opinion a marriage has nothing to do with all nations or a country, even though a marriage is definitely registered in all governments of every country, but in terms of married life itself, it is the husband and wife who play the most important role.

[yhiaali3]

Yes, reforming marriage is everyone's responsibility, both husband and wife, because reforming the family is reforming the entire society.

There are advantages and disadvantages in marriage as well as there are advantages and disadvantages in celibacy, so the husband must overlook some of these defects in order for life to continue to proceed properly.

[Onyeeze]

Marriage is not everyone problem because some people dislike to be a couple for their entire life such as Rev fathers in Catholic Christian Church and including their Rev sisters who disagree to get married to anyone until their entire life, marriage is not really a problem because its a choice of living.