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女子办汉式婚礼安慰患病父亲 传递感恩孝道
April 12, 2015, 08:06:30 PM
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执子之手,与子偕老是为了让重病老爸亲眼看到这精心设计的一幕
父亲被诊断患肝癌晚期,医生告知只有3个月的时间了,面对突如其来的打击,27岁的小珊(化名)和男朋友紧急筹备,14天后举行了一场主题为感恩与孝道的汉式婚礼。
紧急筹备婚礼安慰患病父亲
昨天上午,长春五马路附近一家宾馆宴会厅内,新娘一袭红色传统礼服,头饰繁复华丽,新郎则一身红色的宽袍大袖,汉式婚礼的现场,一眼望去都是大红色,非常喜庆,连婚礼上的工作人员都穿着汉服。
“我们提前排练了好多次,还补习了一些汉文化……”新娘小珊对细节的准备一丝不苟,因为和其他新娘相比,这场婚礼对她意义非凡。
小珊的男朋友今年31岁,两人经营着一个服装档口,“我们交往6年了,之前从没想过这么快结婚,一直想先努力打拼再成家。”
很多亲戚朋友接到他们要结婚的消息后都觉得突然,而对于小珊来说,这个婚礼也是14天前才决定的。之所以着急结婚,是因为父亲在年前查出肝癌晚期,医生说,恐怕只有三个月的时间了。
小珊一直和父亲相依为命,这个噩耗让她感觉天都要塌了。冷静后,小珊和男友马上放下生意,想着能为父亲做些什么。在她心中,父亲这些年很不容易,一直在打工赚钱伺候生病卧床的爷爷奶奶,这次的诊断几乎让父亲崩溃了,抽烟喝酒也更严重了,“我是他唯一的女儿,真的希望能为他做些有意义的事,让他能放心我的未来……”
果然,听到女儿要结婚的消息后,父亲的情绪明显好转了,开始用积极的心态面对一切。
通过汉式婚礼传递感恩和孝道
婚礼怎样才能表现出特别的仪式感,偶然一次,小珊看到了一场汉式婚礼,略显繁复的程序所传递出来的文化传统让她很感兴趣,“汉式婚礼传递出了一种爱、感恩和孝道,正是我们想要对父亲表达的。”
昨天,这次婚礼策划公司的负责人张奡一直在现场忙前忙后,“这对新人的孝心也打动了我们,希望在最大程度上为他们做到最好,为他们留下一个美好的回忆……”张奡说,为此,婚礼特意安排了三拜九叩的环节,让他们和父母多些互动。
为了更好地烘托氛围,这场婚礼无论在服饰、头饰、仿古道具、茶道、古琴、屏风、摆件、侍女等都为新人配置了全套汉式流程,新郎和新娘还用了很长时间补习传统文化礼仪。“父亲从没见过,对他来说,既是传统的又是新鲜的,还会是难忘的,我们的目的是不留遗憾……”小珊说。
希望带着父亲一起去度蜜月
婚礼全程,父亲一直紧紧盯着这对新人,生怕漏掉一丝细节。“虽然程序繁琐点,但最重要的是要给父亲留下一个深刻的印象,哪怕有一天他走了,至少是没有遗憾的……”小珊说,婚礼结束后就要为父亲办理入院了,“这回重点是复诊,真的希望之前的诊断失误……”
小珊说,接下来她有个计划,“父亲这辈子没看过海,我和爱人商量过,度蜜月的时候要找个这样的地方,带着他一起去!”
汉式婚礼仪式第一项:万家灯火祝福
昨日11时28分,汉式婚礼正式开始,主婚人为新人点亮了代表幸福吉祥与祝福的红蜡烛。
第二项:告上礼
在全场瞩目下,新郎父亲带着新郎入场,在侍者的引领下,新郎由门口缓步进入婚礼现场,行至堂前,向祖先牌位行礼。
第三项:教子礼
新郎即将迎娶新娘,由新郎的父亲给新郎敬酒,嘱托新郎即将独立撑起家门。
第四项:亲迎礼
新娘父亲将女儿的手交给新郎,眼含热泪地嘱托:“希望你能好好待她,包容她,呵护她。”新郎恭恭敬敬地接过新娘的手,语气坚定地表态:“岳父大人请放心,我必将全力以赴爱护她,和她组建一个温暖的家庭,为圆满我们的人生夙愿不遗余力。”这个仪式让现场所有人都非常动容。
第五项:拜堂礼
随后,新郎新娘面向天地祖宗牌位,一拜天地、二拜高堂、夫妻对拜。
第六项:称呼礼
拜堂之后,新郎改口称新娘“太太”,新娘称新郎“先生”。
第七项:同牢合卺(jǐn)礼
新郎新娘入座,先洗手清洁,然后同时举箸,夹同一碟里的菜肴,新人饮酒后,侍者将两片葫芦瓜用红绸缎绑在一起,合二为一。
第八项:解缨结发礼
“死生契阔,与子成说,执子之手,与子偕老。”新郎新娘手牵手面向宾客站好,诵诗许下一辈子的承诺,现场响起经久不息的掌声。
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