Relax man.
You included a fee so it'll be confirmed.
Just explain it to the person you're making the deal with, good things come to those who wait.
Why is it so urgent that the deal is closed immediately?
Explain the situation, it shouldn't take much longer.
Edit - Deal went through as I was typing this - Doh!
I was right though wasn't I
The one word that fits to bitcoin like a glove - PATIENCE