No offense intended, but you really need to read
http://catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html as, for all the time you spend photoshopping the cute image you question doesn't offer a single one of the essential details needed to begin a useful answer. Asking technical support questions is skill which you can improve and which is critically useful.
In particular--
1. What version are you running? Where did you get it from? Old versions have known memory usage issues which have been fixed, spending further time on this is pointless if you're running an old version. Likewise some parties distribute patched versions with different behavior.
2. What operating system are you on and what version?
3. How are you measuring memory usage? People often confuse virt and actual used memory. Virt includes memmaped files.
4. Is your system exposed to the internet (e.g. could someone be DOS attacking it.)
5. What patches or settings are you running the software with and are you using the node for anything or just leaving it running?
FWIW, as an example my mining node which has been running a self-compiled copy of 0.10.2 continually since a day before 0.10.2's release on 64bit lLnux and standard dbcache seeings has a current resident size of 701MB.