I tried purchasing with virwox recently and they charged me for fees and ect and canceled my order due to "security indications" so that kind of threw me off that boat so now i'm trying forums like this and paxful and ect. I thought it would be a quick process but i have been looking for days now and lost 20$ in the process from fees, So i would rather trade with a trusted seller.
So Virwox charged you fees.
Yeah, they tend to do that.
Pretty sure skrill is reversible, so very few people will deal with untrusted members such as yourself.