Have you ever had a sugar daddy or sugar baby?

[codishmumu]

I don't see very much a difference, why would someone give you gifts if you don't do anything? And another one, you don't accept money but you accept gifts so you won't be  a prostitute? How can you pay your rent with gifts, hmmmm? I am little confused.

They are basically parents, that give you money AND gifts as you please, or what's in their budget. It's like charity. They give, because they love. It's not like they'll give to anyone though. They usually need to like you personally first, before they start helping you financially. It's like a friend helping you out to make ends meet.

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[illyiller]

The trouble is the relationship of dependence, lack of control. I wouldn't want anyone to do this longer than they had to for this reason. Better to empower yourself and start building revenue streams -- the earlier the better -- to avoid this sort of need.

[codishmumu]

The trouble is the relationship of dependence, lack of control. I wouldn't want anyone to do this longer than they had to for this reason. Better to empower yourself and start building revenue streams -- the earlier the better -- to avoid this sort of need.

Most sugar babies come from terrible family backgrounds. They don't have the stability or guidance to find consistent pleasing revenue. When I get a sugar daddy again, I would want someone that had connections to help me launch my therapy and fashion designing career.

[illyiller]

The trouble is the relationship of dependence, lack of control. I wouldn't want anyone to do this longer than they had to for this reason. Better to empower yourself and start building revenue streams -- the earlier the better -- to avoid this sort of need.

Most sugar babies come from terrible family backgrounds. They don't have the stability or guidance to find consistent pleasing revenue. When I get a sugar daddy again, I would want someone that had connections to help me launch my therapy and fashion designing career.

No matter where you start, the key is to start building capital NOW, even if you have nothing. That means putting part of any income away to start making it work for you. With under $1000, one could buy a couple of small, revenue-generating websites with minimal maintenance. After 6-12 months, reinvest the initial investment. Keep accumulating.

Look for high-demand items that can be flipped. Once you've accumulated the capital, you can start flipping cars, for instance. Work at it for 5 years, you can likely start flipping condos.

Or look for high-demand services that are unlikely to go under. Without any serious economic collapse, for instance, cleaning services are in perpetual demand where I live (USA). With minimal capital input -- a used van, payroll for 3-5 employees, and cleaning supplies -- you have a business with very minimal overhead.

Just kicking around ideas....

[codishmumu]

The trouble is the relationship of dependence, lack of control. I wouldn't want anyone to do this longer than they had to for this reason. Better to empower yourself and start building revenue streams -- the earlier the better -- to avoid this sort of need.

Most sugar babies come from terrible family backgrounds. They don't have the stability or guidance to find consistent pleasing revenue. When I get a sugar daddy again, I would want someone that had connections to help me launch my therapy and fashion designing career.

No matter where you start, the key is to start building capital NOW, even if you have nothing. That means putting part of any income away to start making it work for you. With under $1000, one could buy a couple of small, revenue-generating websites with minimal maintenance. After 6-12 months, reinvest the initial investment. Keep accumulating.

Look for high-demand items that can be flipped. Once you've accumulated the capital, you can start flipping cars, for instance. Work at it for 5 years, you can likely start flipping condos.

Or look for high-demand services that are unlikely to go under. Without any serious economic collapse, for instance, cleaning services are in perpetual demand where I live (USA). With minimal capital input -- a used van, payroll for 3-5 employees, and cleaning supplies -- you have a business with very minimal overhead.

Just kicking around ideas....

I have a masters in psychology, and I'm gonna clean houses? I cannot believe I don't have my dream job yet! I literally went through hell!

[bojan92]

I don't see very much a difference, why would someone give you gifts if you don't do anything? And another one, you don't accept money but you accept gifts so you won't be  a prostitute? How can you pay your rent with gifts, hmmmm? I am little confused.

They are basically parents, that give you money AND gifts as you please, or what's in their budget. It's like charity. They give, because they love. It's not like they'll give to anyone though. They usually need to like you personally first, before they start helping you financially. It's like a friend helping you out to make ends meet.

Wait a minute if you have parents and they pay for many of your stuff because you don't have a job that means that you have a sugar daddy or sugar baby. WTF!? If that is the case why don't you use just the word parents? Surely they will pay for pretty much everything when you don't have an income, they love you but they aren't your sugar daddy or sugar baby for sure

[bojan92]

I don't see very much a difference, why would someone give you gifts if you don't do anything? And another one, you don't accept money but you accept gifts so you won't be  a prostitute? How can you pay your rent with gifts, hmmmm? I am little confused.

They are basically parents, that give you money AND gifts as you please, or what's in their budget. It's like charity. They give, because they love. It's not like they'll give to anyone though. They usually need to like you personally first, before they start helping you financially. It's like a friend helping you out to make ends meet.

Maybe that is possible in United States of America, but in my country you won't get anything if you don't give something back in return. That is the rule, so maybe that is the reason why i can't believe the things you are saying )) The western countries are many years in front of my country ))))

[vm1990]

been what people class as a "sugar daddy" to a boy (no there was no sex) he was just fun to be around (i was in my late teens) felt bad for him his dad was a dick and his mum worked all the time (nurse) so we hung out. talked played video games and went on trips. i got to do stuff i wanted without looking weird and doing it on my own XD shame his dad caught on and started accusing me of having "an unhealthy interest in his son" still see him from time to time though (and no ill not have sex with him)

[bojan92]

Well you didn't take any money from him, or he didn't gave you any presents right? You were just friends and his dad was a bad man who thought that you hang out with his son for his money. We are talking about receiving presents without giving anything your case is just having a friend that had a little more money than you had and had a bad father who didn't liked you.

[codishmumu]

I don't see very much a difference, why would someone give you gifts if you don't do anything? And another one, you don't accept money but you accept gifts so you won't be  a prostitute? How can you pay your rent with gifts, hmmmm? I am little confused.

They are basically parents, that give you money AND gifts as you please, or what's in their budget. It's like charity. They give, because they love. It's not like they'll give to anyone though. They usually need to like you personally first, before they start helping you financially. It's like a friend helping you out to make ends meet.

Wait a minute if you have parents and they pay for many of your stuff because you don't have a job that means that you have a sugar daddy or sugar baby. WTF!? If that is the case why don't you use just the word parents? Surely they will pay for pretty much everything when you don't have an income, they love you but they aren't your sugar daddy or sugar baby for sure

Let me explain some more. These men that paid for my rent and school books were just men that cared about me. Obviously they weren't my parents, but they were parent figures. My actual parents didn't do anything for me at the time, because I moved out without telling them. I moved out just nights after a very brutal altercation that involved the entire family aiming against me, simply because I was very conservative and personal that resulted in them giving me a black eye, and a twisted arm....

It's not like I hid anything serious. I was just going out to party and well, be a teen.

Clearly at the time, I couldn't look up to my actual parents, or ask for money from them....those were dark days....

[codishmumu]

Well you didn't take any money from him, or he didn't gave you any presents right? You were just friends and his dad was a bad man who thought that you hang out with his son for his money. We are talking about receiving presents without giving anything your case is just having a friend that had a little more money than you had and had a bad father who didn't liked you.

I'm sorry but...I cannot understand anything you're saying.

[bojan92]

Well you didn't take any money from him, or he didn't gave you any presents right? You were just friends and his dad was a bad man who thought that you hang out with his son for his money. We are talking about receiving presents without giving anything your case is just having a friend that had a little more money than you had and had a bad father who didn't liked you.

I'm sorry but...I cannot understand anything you're saying.

I wanted to say that you just had a friend with very bad father. He thought that you are hanging out with his son for his money

[bojan92]

I don't see very much a difference, why would someone give you gifts if you don't do anything? And another one, you don't accept money but you accept gifts so you won't be  a prostitute? How can you pay your rent with gifts, hmmmm? I am little confused.

They are basically parents, that give you money AND gifts as you please, or what's in their budget. It's like charity. They give, because they love. It's not like they'll give to anyone though. They usually need to like you personally first, before they start helping you financially. It's like a friend helping you out to make ends meet.

Wait a minute if you have parents and they pay for many of your stuff because you don't have a job that means that you have a sugar daddy or sugar baby. WTF!? If that is the case why don't you use just the word parents? Surely they will pay for pretty much everything when you don't have an income, they love you but they aren't your sugar daddy or sugar baby for sure

Let me explain some more. These men that paid for my rent and school books were just men that cared about me. Obviously they weren't my parents, but they were parent figures. My actual parents didn't do anything for me at the time, because I moved out without telling them. I moved out just nights after a very brutal altercation that involved the entire family aiming against me, simply because I was very conservative and personal that resulted in them giving me a black eye, and a twisted arm....

It's not like I hid anything serious. I was just going out to party and well, be a teen.

Clearly at the time, I couldn't look up to my actual parents, or ask for money from them....those were dark days....

I get it, we are more conservative in my country, it is good to hear that there are people like that, that are willing to help you in the times when you desperately need help

[yummyransom]

No. Actually I don't want to experience it.

[codishmumu]

No. Actually I don't want to experience it.

Well, who does? In times of crisis though, things like that are not avoidable.

[Betwrong]

I use to have a couple. I was in trouble, and needed fatherly advice, and someone to help me pay for my apartment. I'm not smart with my money, and now I'm broke again....should definitely get another one.  


EDIT:
I just want to edit this, and make something clear: There's a fine line between a prostitute, and a sugar baby.

DEFINITION OF A PROSTITUTE(Provided by i.word.com)

pros·ti·tu·tion
\ˌpräs-tə-ˈtü-shən, -ˈtyü-\
noun
: the work of a prostitute : the act of having sex in exchange for money
: the use of a skill or ability in a way that is not appropriate or respectable

DEFINITION OF A SUGAR DADDY (provided by thefreedictionary.com)

sugar daddy
n. Slang
1. A wealthy, usually older man who gives money or gifts to a younger person in return for sexual favors or companionship.
2. A wealthy male benefactor to a charity or other cause.

Sugar babies do not HAVE to engage in sexual acts if they do not want to.



When I was a sugar baby, the two older men that became my sugar daddies actually approached me first. They were ever so polite, and wonderful father figures. Both already had kids, but one was recently widowed, while the other one still had the wife in the picture. As I spoke to both of them in one on one sessions, I began to trust them so much, which ended up resulting to me telling them my struggles and my family situation. I had told them all the pain I had been dealing with from my family and that I moved out when I wasn't completely ready. Moved by my story, they both gave me over $1,000 dollars to keep living on my own. I had no sexual relations with them. They never asked me for anything. The most sensual contact we ever had were hugs, cuddling, and talking about our personal problems to each other. Nothing else.

Interesting story, Thanks! I wish u all good.

[codishmumu]

I use to have a couple. I was in trouble, and needed fatherly advice, and someone to help me pay for my apartment. I'm not smart with my money, and now I'm broke again....should definitely get another one.  


EDIT:
I just want to edit this, and make something clear: There's a fine line between a prostitute, and a sugar baby.

DEFINITION OF A PROSTITUTE(Provided by i.word.com)

pros·ti·tu·tion
\ˌpräs-tə-ˈtü-shən, -ˈtyü-\
noun
: the work of a prostitute : the act of having sex in exchange for money
: the use of a skill or ability in a way that is not appropriate or respectable

DEFINITION OF A SUGAR DADDY (provided by thefreedictionary.com)

sugar daddy
n. Slang
1. A wealthy, usually older man who gives money or gifts to a younger person in return for sexual favors or companionship.
2. A wealthy male benefactor to a charity or other cause.

Sugar babies do not HAVE to engage in sexual acts if they do not want to.



When I was a sugar baby, the two older men that became my sugar daddies actually approached me first. They were ever so polite, and wonderful father figures. Both already had kids, but one was recently widowed, while the other one still had the wife in the picture. As I spoke to both of them in one on one sessions, I began to trust them so much, which ended up resulting to me telling them my struggles and my family situation. I had told them all the pain I had been dealing with from my family and that I moved out when I wasn't completely ready. Moved by my story, they both gave me over $1,000 dollars to keep living on my own. I had no sexual relations with them. They never asked me for anything. The most sensual contact we ever had were hugs, cuddling, and talking about our personal problems to each other. Nothing else.

Interesting story, Thanks! I wish u all good.

What about you? Ever had a sugar daddy or baby?

[codishmumu]

This misconstrued belief of sugar babies kind of needs to stop. They're young people that need help. If you're a sugar baby, please post. Don't be shy. If you're afraid of getting judged, trust me, I will not at all. At some point you need to ask for help. Everybody needs help sometimes, and that is perfectly fine, as long as you don't demand things, because beggers cannot be choosers. No man is an island. You're not going to get things done yourself

[TTMNewsMJ]

No.
It's a sin to have something like that.

[codishmumu]

No.
It's a sin to have something like that.

Why do you say something like that?