Sorry to hear but this is precisely the reason why I use a Trezor with Electrum.
As long as your wallet is held by a third party you will have to dance to the tune of such third party whether you like the tune or not.
No problem with the wallets. It's obtaining more bitcoin from other sources than mining. Not a huge issue for me since I have other projects to work on, but it does eliminate a source of bitcoin funding. Maybe in the future there will be better understanding and acceptance of bitcoin.