Causes of gambling for some poeple?

[Dogedigital]

Guys what do you think for you that what cab be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

sorry to hear that, that's a very sad story, bingo has very low expected return, which means very high house edges, unless a very very few lucky guys who can win the jackpot, ordinary people don't have luck on it. if she likes betting on sports betting or blackjack, that's will be a different story, maybe she will be rich from sports betting or blackjack

Yeah i agree with you but she's addicted in binggo and even a i explain it much. it will not work..
maybe someday she can realize what her doing before.. and someday she realize that the money is important in our life..

To overcome compulsive gambling is not an easy task.

However, if you're willing to really take a step forward... Get informed on what addiction and what the roots of compulsive gambling are. Try to understand it, rid yourself of any judgements and ultimately be there for her in more than just a physical and emotional place, then I believe you have a real shot of breaking through to her.

There should be addiction counseling available nearby in your area.  Your best first step might be to seek out these services with an open mind and really listen to what they say when you explain your situation.

As to answer your topic question, people gamble for numerous reasons.  Some of the most troubled gamblers have underlying negative feelings, thoughts, and emotions that they may or may not be aware of buried deep inside them.  The body and mind have incredible defense mechanisms that try to protect us from ourselves and unfortunately the feeling of winning drastically affects the serotonin and dopamine in the brain which may be unbalanced due to these feelings/thoughts/emotions.  Sometimes our body craves this shift so much in an order to feel more balanced that it goes unfiltered by our thoughts and morality compass and that's when the addiction truly kicks in.  

Gambling is very misunderstood.  There is a ton of misinformation and you will hear many uninformed opinions on the subject.  

It can be a great source of entertainment and fun, but can also be a source of ruin and despair.  It's not as simple as just choosing to gamble.  It's a very complicated issue and you won't be able to fix it overnight.  It will take a ton of time, devotion, and support.  It definitely WON'T be easy.  

I wish you all the very best.

[BitMaxz]

My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

I can't do that because we have a children i think thats not a good way..
Maybe it can realize it someday. but for now i need to pray for her and trying to remove her addiction in binggo..
I just try to teach her to play some binggo online that has no real money involve... I think this is a good way that i can do...

[bitcoin revo]

Maybe it can realize it someday. but for now i need to pray for her and trying to remove her addiction in binggo..

Unless your prayers have been working magic lately, doing just that will pretty much do nothing. You'll need to go to some real addiction counseling nearby (as Dogedigital mentioned) and get some professional help. His explanation sums up why breaking out of gambling is so darn difficult.

I just try to teach her to play some binggo online that has no real money involve... I think this is a good way that i can do...

No way. Winning in a game that has no real reward is no match for the euphoria given by winning monetary rewards. That'll be like trying to topple a brick wall with a feather. Like I said, you need to get some professional help. No offense, but they're trained to be able to give help and they'll probably do a better job than you. It's their career.

Best of luck.

[Frost]

I do only gamble dust... If I lose it, I don't care. 

[Rubberduckie]

Dude this is a sad story and feel bad for you man. You really
need to give her an ultimatum! You need to say look this is
affecting our children and if you can't stop we will be forced
to get out of this relationship. Maybe the fear of losing her
kids and husband will help her see the light and stop.

Good luck mate

[The Sceptical Chymist]

It's all in the pleasure circuit in the midbrain.  Some people just blast dopamine during pleasurable experiences and that becomes their addiction of choice.  That's simplistic I know but addiction is grounded in biology.

[rio3233]

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

I'm feel sorry to your wife man, you should tell her to stop for your future children. it's not good habit for your wife and your family. a bit shock when heard woman addicted gambling, better take her to conseling.

[harizen]

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

Sad story.

One thing I see is the winning experience and so called beginners luck. In my case I don't get easily attracted to any kind of gambling until I won and decided to continue.

In case of your story, bingo is really addictive because of high chance of winning especially playing with your neighbors when you are against only at a few numbers of players and the card has cheap price so you can buy a quiet large numbers of card to increase success rates. But if you played at the big bingo stations, you really need a large money to play for hours because every piece of card is somehow expensive than the  cards outside the bingo stations.

[virtualx]

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

Why is your wife is the only one with money?  make sure you have your own money source at all times.
Addictions take time to overcome. Try to find out the reasons of her gambling? is it money? is it the thrill? don't be judgemental just research.

Gambling is fun but she shouldn't depend her life on it. 

[hawkins]

many things that cause people to gambling, which has become a hobby of the person, or need a lot of money in a short time, there are many more reasons but I know only two reasons alone

[krunox123]

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

There are many possible factors that causes one to be addicted to gambling and everyone has different reasons.
Your wife addicted to bingo may be because the excitement that she get when she is playing, IMO. You should tell her to stop wasting her money on bingo gambling and asked her to play with her child (if she has one) instead.

Just my 2 cents.

PS: I'm sorry to hear that...

[elizabethqueen]

it was terrible story  , since she is your wife and i think its must be your responsible to control your wife as you are her husband.
also dont let this thing happened deeper and deeper, take some time to vacation and fresh your wife mind.
gambling causing my friends lost their job, they have a debt and take a loan , lost and repeat in the end they broke and fired.

[BigMac]

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

http://www.helpguide.org/articles/addiction/gambling-addiction-and-problem-gambling.htm could be a page to start to learn about gambling addiction, but from your description, she is having very serious gambling addiction already and it is time to get some professional counselling face-to-face or over phone http://www.ncpgambling.org/help-treatment/.

[BitMaxz]

it was terrible story  , since she is your wife and i think its must be your responsible to control your wife as you are her husband.
also dont let this thing happened deeper and deeper, take some time to vacation and fresh your wife mind.
gambling causing my friends lost their job, they have a debt and take a loan , lost and repeat in the end they broke and fired.

I think vacation is a good idea. I will planning with it on this december.
I will bring her to somewhere that she can relax her self and to stay away from gambling. and I will tell her about the
Situation and our problem. But the problem is i dont have money to bring her somewhere..
Maybe i need to find another way to earn a bitcoins for our vacation....

[Altynbekova]

My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

Leaving the person won't be a solution for her, you need to help her control or other thing invite the family to join to stop gambling.
If she doesn't litsen than, I also might be going to leave her, but I would still try to help her addictions.

[bitlancr]

That's sad to hear this. It sucks to be in that kind of situation. You can only help her for so much and so long. I would say to keep trying to help her but it comes to a point where enough is enough. You can't let it get that far where you're suffering from her addcition. To get back from her losses she should just get a regular daily job that prevents her from gambling again.

[Newcoins2020]

Leaving her is the worst possible thing that you can do. She became your wife for a reason. I'd say fight for it, you can help her, go to group meetings sorta like AA meetings, go to those kind of things with her and support her in the best possible ways that you can. At the same time, you can't let her gambling effect you in a negative way, you need to take care of yourself as well. Don't let it get to the point where you and your wife become bankrupt.

[hua_hui]

That's sad to hear this. It sucks to be in that kind of situation. You can only help her for so much and so long. I would say to keep trying to help her but it comes to a point where enough is enough. You can't let it get that far where you're suffering from her addcition. To get back from her losses she should just get a regular daily job that prevents her from gambling again.

well if it is an addiction, she will be curving to play. so even get back normal job, the carving is still there when she finish her work and she will now even gamble bigger cause she has more cash. the key is to stop the addiction and it is gonna take for a long period of time. so u really have to be patient.

[crairezx20]

My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

Don't do this instead help her to recover and to remove her addictions in gambling. maybe it can help if you having a vacation.
make a money from signiture campaign and save it for this december 25 and make it happy. It can help to forgot the gambling..

[asuryan180]

My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

Don't do this instead help her to recover and to remove her addictions in gambling. maybe it can help if you having a vacation.
make a money from signiture campaign and save it for this december 25 and make it happy. It can help to forgot the gambling..

There is no use of helping if the person doesn't wants to get helped.
any matured mother/wife would have cared about her family and stopped this shit when it got serious or affecting .Leaving her would be a wise choice i would say as gamblers could go any lengths to gamble .