After almost 6 years my ex girlfriend dump me ..

[roldstin]

Cant understand why she break up with me, she says she doesnt have feeling from me anymore since the last 3 weeks. I dunno where to start, i dont know what to do bacause i got nothing ,really nothing now.She's working ,im studying and trying to get diploma so we could pursue our dreams together ,but since tuesday ,were not seeing each other . i dunno wht to do guys i dont know , give me advice please....

[knightkon]

You need to examine the whole relationship.  What did you do at the beginning of the relationship to woo her?  What is your relationship like behind closed doors?  Are you doing things to make her feel special and if so how often?  Women are strange, depending on your age, it happens sometimes.  There is the right march out there for you, this may just not be it.  Good luck.

[bitfranky]

@roldstin you need to move on there's nothing you can do because your girlfriend already found someone else.

[Btlfedgolf]

Best thing is to just move on.  Dwelling on what you or she did wrong won't solve anything.

[Spoetnik]

May be tough but move on..
Women have lots of time to think about dumping you.. she planned it for a while.
There is prob nothing you can do.

In the future be a better BF
and pick a better women.

Things don't work out for a reason.
Few people meet one mate and stick with them for life.

If you don't have lots of money you better be damn good in bed !
That is the gist of it LOL

Lots of fish in the sea !

[BugoyNaKoykoy]

boy you need to move on , many girls out side 

[zivone]

I never thought boys could be this dramatic posting love problems on a forum. Move on boy, a lot of fish in the sea.

[funkydog]

Do what i did...

Go to flight school, get your ATPL, get yourself a seat in a nice wide body jet, new girlfriend every week, repeat, do that for about 13 years, fall in love, make children, stop flying full time, marry, invest in BTC, lay back and enjoy.

Here is your plan.

[darkstarzz69]

Just move on bro. It's not worth it to linger on and hope. If she can suddenly lose her feelings after being together for 6 years, she's not the one for you. Better now then after marriage or kids.

[Rexxxem]

Its best that you move on. Normally when this starts to happen it is the begging of the end. Whether it be quick or drawn out.

Your going to feel the natural emotions as long as you let yourself. If you want to sulk and feel bad for yourself for too long you will.
Take this time to finish your degree and focus on improving yourself as an individual. You will come out of this a much better person than you are right now.

[Most]

boy you need to move on , many girls out side 

Yeah that's true !

[smoothie]

There are plenty of fish in the sea....

take your pick...

move on...

[nydiacaskey01]

Well it's easy for us to say "move on", "theres plenty of girls out there" but for OP's situation it's hard to that, I've been there same situation but mine is 7 years relation down the drain, the only thing I did to move on is prove to the girl that she made a wrong decision in leaving you and do it for your self not for the girl. After 2 years, she want's me back but I can't anymore because I have a new girl already which is my wife now.

[fichtn12345]

Its best that you move on. Normally when this starts to happen it is the begging of the end. Whether it be quick or drawn out.

Your going to feel the natural emotions as long as you let yourself. If you want to sulk and feel bad for yourself for too long you will.
Take this time to finish your degree and focus on improving yourself as an individual. You will come out of this a much better person than you are right now.

+1

[Ayoko]

Remember, it takes two to tango, so it’s never all one person’s fault when a relationship doesn’t work. By acknowledging your part, you can choose to change your attitudes or behavior that contributed to the problems. Before moving on, spend time understanding your past relationship and preparing yourself for the best that’s yet to come.

[PrikiNo.1]

She's working ,im studying and trying to get diploma so we could pursue our dreams together ,but since tuesday ,were not seeing each other .

Dude, you already have the answer of your question! She start with a career and you don't, because you are still studying...

The most important thing so you can stay in healthy relationship is when the man makes the woman feel reliable. What I mean with this? - It is completely natural that the man is the one who is leading the woman. You can see this example in every spiritual or psychological book. The man by a definition is the head of the body and the woman is in fact the body! So if the body is act different from the head, then this two things will fall apart, logically.

My advice to you is: If she left you, then let her go and continue with your dreams and if one day she decide to comeback to you, then think twice before you do something... If you know what I mean.

[Trifixion713]

I'll echo the previous posters who have said to move on and the fact there are countless other women out there - you can't change what has happened but you can change your future for the better. Take care of you right now and focus on your goals, enjoy your new-found freedom and in times like this in the past when I was younger and reeling from a break-up, meeting a new girl and having some no-strings-attached fun took my mind off my ex and gave me a new outlook. Life goes on, it is too short to let someone who wasn't the right one for you drag you down.

[shanerc563]

All you are doing is holding yourself back by not moving on.  If you really think that you can not, then you have to do something to wow her to get her back, but none of is are going to be able to teach you what you need to do, you have to get on your big boy pants and make it happen.  Nothing in life is free.

[rokkyroad]

If she can suddenly lose her feelings after being together for 6 years, she's not the one for you.

This.

Pretty sad after six years. Can't imagine your pain. Take care bud.

[xmax]

How about the best answer.  Today is Friday... Calla  friend and go out to a club and find some insanely hot chick, take her home and let her forget this girl.  Don't expect a relationship with her, but she should get your head back in place so that you can move on with your life.  Remember you are the catch here and is she does not realize this, that is her loss.  Good luck.