Seeing that you're fucked for life, I have no advise for you, dude.
Anyway still thanks for noticing this thread of mine.
Go to your bitgold dashboard and at the upper left screen you will a heart icon, click that and a small page will pop out and you will see your referral link.
Saw it. It's not showing on mobile so I had to asked. I used a pc to open it in web browser and there it was. Thanks!