should women be blamed for wearing daring dress thus reason they were raped

[iv4n]

I agree up with your word.

Actually i am from India, the same question was raised in front of some party MLA(Members of Legislative Assembly) and they were like "women is to blame,why them wear such clothes to lure men" and i was shocked to hear that .

Well people have different opinions and thats why there is so more collisions and at last destruction of peace.

People tend to have very wrong opinions due to idiocy or mental problems that have not been diagnosed (e.g. people thing they're doing the right thing, when it's obviously wrong). Basically the opposing party is telling me that my wife can't be elegant or sexy because some men might attack her? What nonsense. Should we make them wear winter suits? What about the summer, when everyone is basically partially naked due to the extreme heat?

I don't think woman's shouldn't be balmed for something like this.
Does parking your beautiful car in front of your house tempt thieves to steal it?
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You're comparing incomparable things (objects to human beings; aka. Faulty comparison fallacy).

Why people do this kind of things?  I compared feelings that this actions awake in people's minds. Is that make them exited? Maybe they like to feel powerful?
That is comparable I believe.

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[Spendulus]

I agree up with your word.

Actually i am from India, the same question was raised in front of some party MLA(Members of Legislative Assembly) and they were like "women is to blame,why them wear such clothes to lure men" and i was shocked to hear that .

Well people have different opinions and thats why there is so more collisions and at last destruction of peace.

People tend to have very wrong opinions due to idiocy or mental problems that have not been diagnosed (e.g. people thing they're doing the right thing, when it's obviously wrong). Basically the opposing party is telling me that my wife can't be elegant or sexy because some men might attack her? What nonsense. Should we make them wear winter suits? What about the summer, when everyone is basically partially naked due to the extreme heat?

I don't think woman's shouldn't be balmed for something like this.
Does parking your beautiful car in front of your house tempt thieves to steal it?
-snip-

You're comparing incomparable things (objects to human beings; aka. Faulty comparison fallacy).

Why people do this kind of things?  I compared feelings that this actions awake in people's minds. Is that make them exited? Maybe they like to feel powerful?
That is comparable I believe.

I go everywhere, see people pull cash and credit cards out of their pockets.  They buy nice things! So I just take their cash and their cards.  It's THEIR FAULT!  They show me things I want!

Mullah say I good and they bad.

ROFL....

[xdrpx]

Women can't be blamed for their dress, if a man went out with a daring dress I don't really see women go and rape a man for it. I think if women are blamed for the type of dress they wear it's the worst thing I've heard.

[onlinedragon]

Come on I don't know what country the OP is and what is his religion. In Europe we don't think that way when a girl say no it's no the clothes someone wear don't give anyone a reason to rape a girl. Sad that people think this workout this way.

What now if a gay Like Your ass do it give him a reason to rape you. Don't think this should be a standard that people just can rape who they want.

[Elwar]

Come on I don't know what country the OP is and what is his religion. In Europe we don't think that way when a girl say no it's no the clothes someone wear don't give anyone a reason to rape a girl. Sad that people think this workout this way.

Yep, in Europe if you're a woman near a train station stairwell you should expect to be raped.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8tLt6bhqUw

[mOgliE]

Women can't be blamed for their dress, if a man went out with a daring dress I don't really see women go and rape a man for it. I think if women are blamed for the type of dress they wear it's the worst thing I've heard.

Hmm... Women raping men is much more common than you seem to think. It's a real thing, around 25% of rapes are done by women. It's not because all the associations are made by women to protect women that the problem is only concerning them.

[mOgliE]

Come on I don't know what country the OP is and what is his religion. In Europe we don't think that way when a girl say no it's no the clothes someone wear don't give anyone a reason to rape a girl. Sad that people think this workout this way.

Yep, in Europe if you're a woman near a train station stairwell you should expect to be raped.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8tLt6bhqUw

No. The video was taken in Cairos. It's an intox, this video is from 2013, nothing to see with German news.

Don't get me wrong though. What happened in Germany lately was probably very similar to this. But please don't spread intox, truth is terrifying enough.

[Daniel91]

If we start to think like this, soon someone may suggest that western women should dress as Muslim woman in Afghanistan for example, covering completely their bodies.
After that someone can suggest that maybe women is more safe if stay at home and don't go out for work or anything.
Such suggestion is really very dangerous and is direct attack on women's rights, freedom etc.
Only man should be blamed for rape.

[bitsmichel]

Had a discussion with friends over this while we drink inside a bar.
so should women be blamed for wearing daring dress like showing their belly button and cleavage why they got raped?

No. The same logic: Because you see a beautiful car you steal it?

[xdrpx]

Women can't be blamed for their dress, if a man went out with a daring dress I don't really see women go and rape a man for it. I think if women are blamed for the type of dress they wear it's the worst thing I've heard.

Hmm... Women raping men is much more common than you seem to think. It's a real thing, around 25% of rapes are done by women. It's not because all the associations are made by women to protect women that the problem is only concerning them.

But these need not necessarily be because of men wearing daring clothes. Also, 25% of rapes being done by women is still very very less compared to the opposite. But equal rights and protection for both genders rights are necessary.

[croato]

So following that logic i could rape girls on the beach cause they are not dressed properly? This question would never be asked in Europe if hordes of those barbarian goatfuckers are not getting here.

[Lethn]

Women wear that kind of stuff for men they want to attract, they don't wear it for men that they don't want anything to do with to get raped, any guy who fucking says they're asking for it is pretty much full of shit. Yes some women can be pretty fucking outrageous but men who claim this somehow justifies raping them are just trying to make excuses to commit crimes against people. I am sick to death of apologists and excuse makers who try and defend people who commit crimes like this, I know the OP is just have a legit conversation, nothing wrong with that, but I would be extremely wary of men who actually believe this kind of crap.

What Cologne has demonstrated to me though, with absolute certainity, is how outright damaging any religion can be if there are people who have grown up with it's beliefs and been fully brainwashed by them, which is I suspect what has really happened here, because a lot of so called legitimate Islamic beliefs in the Qu'ran would immediately be regarded as crimes in the west but these guys wouldn't think anything of it.

[markj113]

Any man that rapes a woman should be castrated.

If it was my wife or daughter blood would be spilled and I wouldn't give a shit about the consequences afterwards.

[Avirunes]

This a beautiful post .Please do read . I hope it changes mind and thinking of someone who still thinks the opposite way

http://www.careerride.com/view.aspx?id=25621

[Lauda]

So following that logic i could rape girls on the beach cause they are not dressed properly? This question would never be asked in Europe if hordes of those barbarian goatfuckers are not getting here.

Their argument is ridiculous at best.

Any man that rapes a woman should be castrated.

If it was my wife or daughter blood would be spilled and I wouldn't give a shit about the consequences afterwards.

The punishments for various types of crime are too soft IMO. IRC cutting off the hand that one used to steal with was a thing. This could be applied to men and their 'tool' removed.

This a beautiful post .Please do read . I hope it changes mind and thinking of someone who still thinks the opposite way
http://www.careerride.com/view.aspx?id=25621

If men are allowed to dress however they want, then so should women.

[Araudan]

My god, I have no words to describe the stupidity of this question...

[Avirunes]

My god, I have no words to describe the stupidity of this question...

Sorry but i won't say it was stupid to raise that question.Why?

Maybe you and me may think that girls shouldn't be blamed but there are many other peoples in this world who still thinks that womens are the one responsible.

Also i would request @OP to add up poll to the thread. What do you guys think?

[simon66]

What an outright disgusting, vile, and stupid question..

There is never ever any reason for anyone to rape anyone no matter what never.. Period.. DUH

I on't care what stupid excuses you can come up with or any attempts to justify raping anything NO..

NEVER OK

And if you think anything otherwise you are FILTH.. End of story..

[markj113]

What an outright disgusting, vile, and stupid question..

There is never ever any reason for anyone to rape anyone no matter what never.. Period.. DUH

I on't care what stupid excuses you can come up with or any attempts to justify raping anything NO..

NEVER OK

And if you think anything otherwise you are FILTH.. End of story..

Agree this thread should be removed by the mods.

[BARR_Official]

It's not her fault for getting raped, but it's her fault for giving men erections.  

An erection is a physical reaction that can't be helped.  Just like if the woman waved dog shit under your nose and then you vomited - and then a bunch of feminists said you had no right to your own physical reactions.

Rape is like taking your vomit and forcing her to swallow it.  It's a separate issue.