I was trying to send 0.002 and the fee is 0.001+ btc, I just don't think its worth,
At the moment,
https://bitcoinfees.21.co/ says 40 satoshi's per byte will make sure your transaction has a high chance of getting included in the next block.
To approximate the transaction size, you can use following formula
in*180 + out*34 + 10
So, to guess the fee, you can use this formula:
40*(in*180 + out*34 + 10) = 100000
Assuming you only had 1 output, we can calculate the ammount of inputs:
((100000 / 40) - (34 + 10))/180 = 13.6
So, i'm estimating, this transaction had 14 inputs of, on average, 0.00014285
BTC... This is only an educated guess... It depends on to many factors to calculate this correctly.
You can try lowering the fee substantially and hope you'll get added to a block. It's possible you'll have to wait a very long time if you use a much lower fee, but it's worth a shot (imho)!