i chose to use it to gamble lol believe me im not an addict
Isn't that exactly what an addict would say?
i dont even gamble in real life
This is real life, and this is real money. If you are gambling with real bitcoins, then you are gambling "in real life".
There is nothing wrong with it. If the transaction paid a higher transaction fee, then it would confirm faster, but it is completely valid the way it is.
i see on the summary section that Estimated Confirmation Time is Very Soon (High Priority)
That "summary section" is not an accurate predictor of the future. That is just one company's guess as to what they think
might happen with the transaction. Sometimes their guess is accurate. Sometimes it is not.
is there anyway that these type of sites have a builtin calculator to calculate how much the fee should be
Well written services provided by competent companies are able to calculate a reasonable fee that they should be paying for quick confirmation (or at least warn their users that transactions may take a long time to confirm if the company chooses to use an inadequate fee).
Poorly provided services from incompetent companies are much less likely to do reasonable things.
where can i find the ~6000 confirmations?
It's impossible for any individual to know 100% for certain exactly how many transactions are waiting to be confirmed at any moment. However, some companies or individuals keep track of the transactions that they see on the network, and then provide a list of unconfirmed transactions that they've seen, and that they haven't yet discarded. Here's an example of
one company's list:
https://blockchain.info/unconfirmed-transactionswell it did go through after 15 hours
Glad to hear it.