Since you're not yet a trusted member on this forum so I don't think anyone will accept your reversible payment method to send btc. Even you sent first or last but that doesn't matter because can reverse later easily. You may be genuine but hard to differentiate scammers and genuine people. So try with some other non-reversible method to buy bitcoins.
Thanks for kind words dear.
But I have made this deal with Zoomer and it was so smooth transaction between us.
Topic Closed!
Neither of you provided a reference in your Trust of each-other, nore a "risked amount", so we can't judge who went first and for how much.