I want to buy some bitcoins ideally face to face but potentially online.
A lot of the sellers require you to transfer money to their bank accounts and then they transfer the bitcoins to you, surely the seller could just take my money and I never hear from them again? Am I missing something?
I would only do that online if it was through some trust-based mechanism.
But if you are doing it online, why not just use an exchange? That's how I got my bitcoins. Wire cash to the exchcange, and buy bitcoins.